Yeah, I know this is probably one of those questions that gets asked every five minutes. Hopefully you can spare me an answer or two.
Pretty much, my life has been one great, big romantic failure after another. I'll find a girl I'm really attracted to, both physically and intellectually, I'll make friends with her, and then ruin everything. I'll be able to hold conversations wonderfully for a week or two, and then... Bang. Something happens, something snaps, and I my mind isn't doing anything besides firing blanks. No thoughts are popping into my mind, except thoughts wondering where all the other thoughts are.
Then I end up saying stupid and/or weird things to fill the silence, and then the girl seems to lose any interest she may have previously had. This happens all the time, and I've got no idea what to do about it. I'm a lot better looking than I used to be (albeit in kind of a goofy way), and a lot more confident, but nothing I do seems to prevent this.
I mean, this same exact thing happened to me today. I wasn't romantically interested in the girl I was talking to, but it still sucked. We've been talking the last few weeks, I'm feeling a bit sick, and suddenly crap (metaphor here, obviously) starts pouring out of my mouth. Stupid, redundant crap. This flood is punctuated by occasional awkward silences, the odd hint of laughter, and me apologizing for everything stupid I do.
Like I said, I wasn't going to ask this girl out or anything. I liked her as a friend. Hopefully I didn't lose her as one, just because I had a really off day. Then again, I've got a tendency to be melodramatic about these things, so who knows...
Yeah, any advice would be nice. I just want to know what to talk about, and how to deal with awkward silences.How to talk to girls?
be nice. Then they will talk to u nice
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
like a minute into any conversation with a girl i get a *****. of course she doesn't notice but it throws me off a little and i get nervous and the conversation becomes awkward
how can i stop that from happening?Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Me 2....Think of a sewing needle going down the hole in ur D*** t works for me ( i no its sick)Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Masturbate regularly.
think of fat guys when you talk to girls
think of something totally disgusting,
that has no chance of ever turning you on.fish
how can i stop that from happening?Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Me 2....Think of a sewing needle going down the hole in ur D*** t works for me ( i no its sick)Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Masturbate regularly.
think of fat guys when you talk to girls
think of something totally disgusting,
that has no chance of ever turning you on.
Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
I broke up my friendship with a girl before 15 months. I hurted her a lot so i thought of asking her sorry and i emailed her last week saying ';Hi how are you?'; and she replied ';Hi i am fine,How are you?';
Do you girls think i can again talk with her?Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
Yea. If she emailed you back then talk to her again. I really don't know why you would ';dump'; her as a friend but w/e.Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
well try to say sorry and see what she does
yes, there is a possible chance you guys can talk again
just talk like you normally would and say your sorry
Do you girls think i can again talk with her?Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
Yea. If she emailed you back then talk to her again. I really don't know why you would ';dump'; her as a friend but w/e.Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
well try to say sorry and see what she does
yes, there is a possible chance you guys can talk again
just talk like you normally would and say your sorry
How to talk to girls in highschool?
Im a junior in highschool ive been here both years just starting 3rd year and ive never been able to talk to girls with out it getting awkwardly silentHow to talk to girls in highschool?
We like to hear you babble on about nothing so just go on talking about what your likes and dislikes are. If there is a silence just smile and say ';well I can see who is talkative today.'; and make sure its not in a cocky tone of voice.
Hope I helped~How to talk to girls in highschool?
The trick is to let them talk. Ask them what their interests are, what kind of music they like, what their plans for the weekend are. One thing you'll learn about girls is that they love to talk about themselves.
It also helps if you're not a complete loser. You can be the ugliest sad sack in the world, but you have to have confidence -- it's what seperates the guys in highschool.
-Go to more social events. Like basketball games and football games.And let people get to know you
-If you really uncomfortable you can just say hi to them in the hall, and thats all until you feel comfortable talking to them in a conversation.
-Talk to the girls next to you locker. Just say hows it going and thats all you have to say.
-Talk to people in your class next to you. Get to know them. Have them help you on assignments even though you don't need help.
-Join school clubs
-Just talk to someone new at lunch
Overcome your fear of talking to people by putting yourself out there. It's the only way to improve. So if you want a girlfriend you have to make an effort to meet them. If a relationship doesn't have communication you don't have anything.
I understand how you feel, im shy myself. All i can say is just choose someone or if someone talks to you make an effort to keep the conversation going. Look them in the eye. I myself need to work on that. And not only get to know the person but let them get to know you. If you know something something about the person for example lol: you know judy is going to be in the play ask her how the play is going and and what part she plays in it. Just ask questions. People usually like to give there opinions about themselves.
If you would like to talk to me further i be happy to answer an other questions you have. Email me at : artist_cutie_22@yahoo.com
Hope this helps!
its ok and totally normal. it takes practice
We like to hear you babble on about nothing so just go on talking about what your likes and dislikes are. If there is a silence just smile and say ';well I can see who is talkative today.'; and make sure its not in a cocky tone of voice.
Hope I helped~How to talk to girls in highschool?
The trick is to let them talk. Ask them what their interests are, what kind of music they like, what their plans for the weekend are. One thing you'll learn about girls is that they love to talk about themselves.
It also helps if you're not a complete loser. You can be the ugliest sad sack in the world, but you have to have confidence -- it's what seperates the guys in highschool.
-Go to more social events. Like basketball games and football games.And let people get to know you
-If you really uncomfortable you can just say hi to them in the hall, and thats all until you feel comfortable talking to them in a conversation.
-Talk to the girls next to you locker. Just say hows it going and thats all you have to say.
-Talk to people in your class next to you. Get to know them. Have them help you on assignments even though you don't need help.
-Join school clubs
-Just talk to someone new at lunch
Overcome your fear of talking to people by putting yourself out there. It's the only way to improve. So if you want a girlfriend you have to make an effort to meet them. If a relationship doesn't have communication you don't have anything.
I understand how you feel, im shy myself. All i can say is just choose someone or if someone talks to you make an effort to keep the conversation going. Look them in the eye. I myself need to work on that. And not only get to know the person but let them get to know you. If you know something something about the person for example lol: you know judy is going to be in the play ask her how the play is going and and what part she plays in it. Just ask questions. People usually like to give there opinions about themselves.
If you would like to talk to me further i be happy to answer an other questions you have. Email me at : artist_cutie_22@yahoo.com
Hope this helps!
its ok and totally normal. it takes practice
How do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
usually at parties i'm always talking with the people i know because i never really know how to introduce myself to others without looking somewhat stupid. Guys, what's ur method for talking to random girls at parties...How do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
danceHow do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
having guy friends introduce u really helps in this department. unfortunately my guy friends are kinda gay hahaha just kidding.
what you should do, is smile a lot and look like you're having fun.
at a club or party, if you look like you're having fun and smiling a lot girls will like that. just smile a lot.
danceHow do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
having guy friends introduce u really helps in this department. unfortunately my guy friends are kinda gay hahaha just kidding.
what you should do, is smile a lot and look like you're having fun.
at a club or party, if you look like you're having fun and smiling a lot girls will like that. just smile a lot.
Girls: How do you flirt with somebody you like?
Would you use a indirect approach? I'm thinking maybe compliment him and talk about HIM. A guy told me that guys love it when a girl talks about them and what they like to do.Girls: How do you flirt with somebody you like?
That works for almost anyone, and it's an excellent approach for getting to know a person. I've used the same tactic to get to know girls, coworkers, and so on. The only people I've met who don't like it are celebrities (visiting lecturers, in my case). On a lecture tour, you can get really tired about talking about yourself.
That works for almost anyone, and it's an excellent approach for getting to know a person. I've used the same tactic to get to know girls, coworkers, and so on. The only people I've met who don't like it are celebrities (visiting lecturers, in my case). On a lecture tour, you can get really tired about talking about yourself.
How to stop being shy with ur best friends and girls they talk too.?
I have a lot of friends, but at lunch i barly talk unless spoken too. they sit there and talk and im just sitting their being quiet
when i walk down the hallway in school i walk with my friend and he talks to some girls i never speak a word or anything i just trail behind over their shoulder's and try to think of something to say...
i hate this any good way to overcome this? this is rly startin to annoy me :(How to stop being shy with ur best friends and girls they talk too.?
imagine that you're just around family. you're not shy around your family, are you? besides, if you show your true colors and what a great person you really are, you'll probably gain a lot of friends from it! if you're afraid of being put down for showing who you are, then that's those jerk's problem. not yours. if they can't handle your awesomeness, ignore them. they don't deserve it anyway. ;) in short, just don't be afraid, and go for it!!! Good luck and GOD BLESS!! =)
when i walk down the hallway in school i walk with my friend and he talks to some girls i never speak a word or anything i just trail behind over their shoulder's and try to think of something to say...
i hate this any good way to overcome this? this is rly startin to annoy me :(How to stop being shy with ur best friends and girls they talk too.?
imagine that you're just around family. you're not shy around your family, are you? besides, if you show your true colors and what a great person you really are, you'll probably gain a lot of friends from it! if you're afraid of being put down for showing who you are, then that's those jerk's problem. not yours. if they can't handle your awesomeness, ignore them. they don't deserve it anyway. ;) in short, just don't be afraid, and go for it!!! Good luck and GOD BLESS!! =)
How do i talk to girls,a question for girls?
Theres this girl i really like i want to try to become friends with her,but i dont know how to talk to her since i get really shy around her,so can someone help me?How do i talk to girls,a question for girls?
be funny, but dont go overboard with the jokes. as long as shes laughing, your in the clear. smile and say hi when you pass her in the hallway, and try to find something you both have in common to talk about.
good luck :)How do i talk to girls,a question for girls?
be funny! The best way is to be funny as hell and flirt if you like her.
just go up to and say hi~! simple
just get over the fear and talk to her, ima girl so if i knew you liked me i would prolly want you to make the first move. (:
Just say ';Hi, how are you....'; Try to think how much fun you could have if y'all were friends.
u can always start off slow by either asking her wat she likes or finding out wat she likes and talking to her bout it...then the rest should follow
Just walk up to her, make a half smile, n tell her she looks nice or you like her outfit or shoes, n walk away. just keep it easy at that n u will get the hang of it
well.. start talking to her about school, tease her a bit not too much tho. ask her about her day... and go w/ the flow, and it'll flow into some other topic
i think the best way is alittle humor...but don't over do it
Just start talking to her during class, or whenever you see her. Start with really little things. I'm a girl, and if a guy said small things to me every once and a while but I didn't really know him, I would wonder about him. If she starts thinking about you, you'll stick in her memory and she'll start to talk back when you talk to her and approach you. From there, just act natural and me yourself :)
the way that the guy who likes me started talking to him is he wrote me a note and gave it to me and it said can i talk to sometime today, we became really good friends, and now look were like in love with eachother i never talked to him before then though so just write her a note, give it to her and become friends with her then make your move.
Start talking to her a little bit just say hi every once in a while then gradualy increase how often u talk, Don't do anything too Intense. Treat herr like ur feeding a bunny ^_^ Let her come to u don't go chacing after her despratley trying to shove a carrot i her mouth.
find something you have in common. im thinking that your in high school and something like that, so if you have any classes together try sitting next to her. even just a smile will give her a hint. Good Luck :-]
find out something she likes and ask her a question about it. then you can be like ';so you're into that?'; and maybe a conversation will start about something she's interested in.
OR
find out something you both like without asking her, maybe a band or something, and ask her if she likes it then go ';oh awesome i like them, too! what's your favorite song?';
you just need to step up and go for it. when you talk to her just have a sense of humor and make her laugh and smile. don't be too corny though. just be yourself ;]
Well i am a girl, and i would say if you know what she likes, talk to her about it, there is no need to be shy. Pretend she is your best friend already or one of your guy friends. we have a right to be friends with whoever we want to be. If she ignore you, its her loss. Not everyone will like u, but most will ! HOPE I HELPED
if you want her to be a friend talk to her like you would a friend walk up say hi to her ask how her day is so far ask if she wants to eat lunch with you don't be nerves there like guys with different parts lol and don't forget to complement her on things her hair her cloths glasses or what ever. jut be yourself around her girls like that and be confident around her.
be funny, but dont go overboard with the jokes. as long as shes laughing, your in the clear. smile and say hi when you pass her in the hallway, and try to find something you both have in common to talk about.
good luck :)How do i talk to girls,a question for girls?
be funny! The best way is to be funny as hell and flirt if you like her.
just go up to and say hi~! simple
just get over the fear and talk to her, ima girl so if i knew you liked me i would prolly want you to make the first move. (:
Just say ';Hi, how are you....'; Try to think how much fun you could have if y'all were friends.
u can always start off slow by either asking her wat she likes or finding out wat she likes and talking to her bout it...then the rest should follow
Just walk up to her, make a half smile, n tell her she looks nice or you like her outfit or shoes, n walk away. just keep it easy at that n u will get the hang of it
well.. start talking to her about school, tease her a bit not too much tho. ask her about her day... and go w/ the flow, and it'll flow into some other topic
i think the best way is alittle humor...but don't over do it
Just start talking to her during class, or whenever you see her. Start with really little things. I'm a girl, and if a guy said small things to me every once and a while but I didn't really know him, I would wonder about him. If she starts thinking about you, you'll stick in her memory and she'll start to talk back when you talk to her and approach you. From there, just act natural and me yourself :)
the way that the guy who likes me started talking to him is he wrote me a note and gave it to me and it said can i talk to sometime today, we became really good friends, and now look were like in love with eachother i never talked to him before then though so just write her a note, give it to her and become friends with her then make your move.
Start talking to her a little bit just say hi every once in a while then gradualy increase how often u talk, Don't do anything too Intense. Treat herr like ur feeding a bunny ^_^ Let her come to u don't go chacing after her despratley trying to shove a carrot i her mouth.
find something you have in common. im thinking that your in high school and something like that, so if you have any classes together try sitting next to her. even just a smile will give her a hint. Good Luck :-]
find out something she likes and ask her a question about it. then you can be like ';so you're into that?'; and maybe a conversation will start about something she's interested in.
OR
find out something you both like without asking her, maybe a band or something, and ask her if she likes it then go ';oh awesome i like them, too! what's your favorite song?';
you just need to step up and go for it. when you talk to her just have a sense of humor and make her laugh and smile. don't be too corny though. just be yourself ;]
Well i am a girl, and i would say if you know what she likes, talk to her about it, there is no need to be shy. Pretend she is your best friend already or one of your guy friends. we have a right to be friends with whoever we want to be. If she ignore you, its her loss. Not everyone will like u, but most will ! HOPE I HELPED
if you want her to be a friend talk to her like you would a friend walk up say hi to her ask how her day is so far ask if she wants to eat lunch with you don't be nerves there like guys with different parts lol and don't forget to complement her on things her hair her cloths glasses or what ever. jut be yourself around her girls like that and be confident around her.
Getting Acknowledge - Girls Talk ?
Should I hang in there and wait for a commitment, or think about getting out? I've been with my bf for a year and 1 month now and he's parents are overseas and they dont know about me, I'm not rushing anything, i feel sad and thinking wat to do? Can I ask how long do you think it takes to acknowledge your bf to your parents? (days, weeks, months or years) whats your opinionGetting Acknowledge - Girls Talk ?
It mostly depends on the guy. But don't worry if he hasn't asked you to meet his parents, he might be in some way embarrassed of them. Bf often worry a lot for little things because they dont want to lose their gf, and he's probably worrying that you wont like his parents. So what i think, is that you should insist on meeting his parents and tell him that no matter what, everything will be okay.
hope that helped!
It mostly depends on the guy. But don't worry if he hasn't asked you to meet his parents, he might be in some way embarrassed of them. Bf often worry a lot for little things because they dont want to lose their gf, and he's probably worrying that you wont like his parents. So what i think, is that you should insist on meeting his parents and tell him that no matter what, everything will be okay.
hope that helped!
Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
let's say im the guy clearly interested in a girl from this group with other girls as well, its just a very casual setting, anybody can talk with anyone. so if im just talking to her would that be very rude for the rest of the girls? how else would you have done
how about vice versa and u r the girl talking to the guy, do u think its rude? is there any difference
Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
If it is a casual setting then I don't think it is rude, I am looking at it from both ways. Obviously you can still be polite to the other people, small talk and a quick smile, but your main focus would be on the person you are interested in. People pretty much can pick up the vibe that there maybe an attraction and know how it is.
If you try and include everyone in conversation and give everyone equal time, then the person of interest may receive a mixed message and not be sure whether you are into them or not.Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
Vampires often do this. This is why they are social outcasts.
nah its all good. when we in a group with my gf shes the only one i hear and talk too, the other people i act like they aint even there!!
i guess it would be slightly rude, i get what you mean. next time try to talk to the group as a whole but make it a point to make eye contact with that one girl more than the others.
this way your not being rude, but still getting your point across.
hope this helps =]
umm no not really...im sure everyone else will understand...but at the same time you must maintain contact with the rest of the group
I wouldn't exactly call it, ';rude.'; The other girls may not like it much, though. You should try talking to all of them. (:
No. I do it all the time. If you want to talk to one person its not considered rude to do so. Besides, if your flirting, i dont think anybody would mind..
its not rude but avoid it .. there is no diffrence ..
dont do it. because i have the same group and my friend talks to me and i dont mind talking to her but when im with the whole group i prefer being in the group conversation instead of a private one. so if a guy was having a private conversation with me while the group was still there and i wasnt interested in the guy, then i would be a little annoyed and it could annoy the other girls if they want to talk to either of you but cant since youre kind of having a private conversation.
hope this helped = )
the others will probably understand that your interested in that person ..but say hi to them or something and then keep talking to that one person :)
Yeah I think it would be rude..i'm kinda serious, if some girl came up to my group of friends that I didn't know and and bother us by just talking to one of us.
Lol
Well no it isn't rude I think she would be flattered you are taking the time to give her one on one.
But if someone asks you a question don't ignore them, or just answer it and go back. Try to answer them and include them in the conversation that you are having with the girl you like. It means a lot to a girl if you are polite to her friends...it is good to know them to. Who you hang out with says a lot about you. Plus if they like you they are more willing to help you too.
Try to participate in group discussions while secretly trying to find out more about her.
Good Luck
I don't think so
if you feel rude maybe you should occasionally talk to the other girls.
One girl at a time. Do you want to start a war? Or reveal their true nature? 8~)
how about vice versa and u r the girl talking to the guy, do u think its rude? is there any difference
Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
If it is a casual setting then I don't think it is rude, I am looking at it from both ways. Obviously you can still be polite to the other people, small talk and a quick smile, but your main focus would be on the person you are interested in. People pretty much can pick up the vibe that there maybe an attraction and know how it is.
If you try and include everyone in conversation and give everyone equal time, then the person of interest may receive a mixed message and not be sure whether you are into them or not.Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
Vampires often do this. This is why they are social outcasts.
nah its all good. when we in a group with my gf shes the only one i hear and talk too, the other people i act like they aint even there!!
i guess it would be slightly rude, i get what you mean. next time try to talk to the group as a whole but make it a point to make eye contact with that one girl more than the others.
this way your not being rude, but still getting your point across.
hope this helps =]
umm no not really...im sure everyone else will understand...but at the same time you must maintain contact with the rest of the group
I wouldn't exactly call it, ';rude.'; The other girls may not like it much, though. You should try talking to all of them. (:
No. I do it all the time. If you want to talk to one person its not considered rude to do so. Besides, if your flirting, i dont think anybody would mind..
its not rude but avoid it .. there is no diffrence ..
dont do it. because i have the same group and my friend talks to me and i dont mind talking to her but when im with the whole group i prefer being in the group conversation instead of a private one. so if a guy was having a private conversation with me while the group was still there and i wasnt interested in the guy, then i would be a little annoyed and it could annoy the other girls if they want to talk to either of you but cant since youre kind of having a private conversation.
hope this helped = )
the others will probably understand that your interested in that person ..but say hi to them or something and then keep talking to that one person :)
Yeah I think it would be rude..i'm kinda serious, if some girl came up to my group of friends that I didn't know and and bother us by just talking to one of us.
Lol
Well no it isn't rude I think she would be flattered you are taking the time to give her one on one.
But if someone asks you a question don't ignore them, or just answer it and go back. Try to answer them and include them in the conversation that you are having with the girl you like. It means a lot to a girl if you are polite to her friends...it is good to know them to. Who you hang out with says a lot about you. Plus if they like you they are more willing to help you too.
Try to participate in group discussions while secretly trying to find out more about her.
Good Luck
I don't think so
if you feel rude maybe you should occasionally talk to the other girls.
One girl at a time. Do you want to start a war? Or reveal their true nature? 8~)
What do I do to improve my confidence to talk to girls?
I seem to have a problem if someone is with me to talk to them or the girl is in a crowd with someone. Also, what if I talk to the girl and I don't seem to like her? How do I get out of it, without hurting her?What do I do to improve my confidence to talk to girls?
if you just met her,
you probably won't hurt her.
so just forget about it.
say,
';wow, look at the time, i gotta go.';
also, just go up to a girl and start talking.
girls LOVE that.What do I do to improve my confidence to talk to girls?
Don't talk to them in a crowd. If you don't like them so what?You think she's gonna be heartbroken cos of someone she just met.
if you just met her,
you probably won't hurt her.
so just forget about it.
say,
';wow, look at the time, i gotta go.';
also, just go up to a girl and start talking.
girls LOVE that.What do I do to improve my confidence to talk to girls?
Don't talk to them in a crowd. If you don't like them so what?You think she's gonna be heartbroken cos of someone she just met.
What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
Im a really shy and nice kid i like this girl but i cant go up to her with out getting nervous plus she is really popular and im kinda a outcast/loner because im not like the rest of the kids in school im just different. how can i go up to her and talk to her and do i even have a chance with her?What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
Does EVERY female in the world make you nervous, or just the ones you're attracted to? If it's the latter, then practice talking to the ones you can to get comfortable first. Then approach the ones you are attracted to after that.What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
of course you have a chance... to talk to her it might be best to find out her instant messenger or something it is a great way to break the iceBlankets
Does EVERY female in the world make you nervous, or just the ones you're attracted to? If it's the latter, then practice talking to the ones you can to get comfortable first. Then approach the ones you are attracted to after that.What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
of course you have a chance... to talk to her it might be best to find out her instant messenger or something it is a great way to break the ice
What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
Im a really shy and nice kid i like this girl but i cant go up to her with out getting nervous plus she is really popular and im kinda a outcast/loner because im not like the rest of the kids in school im just different. how can i go up to her and talk to her and do i even have a chance with her?What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
Does EVERY female in the world make you nervous, or just the ones you're attracted to? If it's the latter, then practice talking to the ones you can to get comfortable first. Then approach the ones you are attracted to after that.What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
of course you have a chance... to talk to her it might be best to find out her instant messenger or something it is a great way to break the ice
Does EVERY female in the world make you nervous, or just the ones you're attracted to? If it's the latter, then practice talking to the ones you can to get comfortable first. Then approach the ones you are attracted to after that.What do i do im really shy and cant talk to girls without getting nervous.?
of course you have a chance... to talk to her it might be best to find out her instant messenger or something it is a great way to break the ice
How do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?
How do I flirt with girls, I cant do this and I have loads of friends who are girls but dont have a gf. I have asked some of my friends out and they were like no we dont like you that way. I really dont know how to flirt with people plus I am shy and its really hard for me to ask anyone anyway because I get really shaky and white and look like I am going to drop dead or somethingHow do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?
hymm,..well im a girl and i have the same prob with guys.. just joke around with them, seriously girls LOVE class clown types, and you kinda sound like one. just be you!!! and poke them and stuff,,,and give lots of compliments, not too many or else they will run away lol. i think you sound nice....How do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?
Buy a penis pump. Once you have a bigger wang you will feel like you are on top of the world and no one will be able to turn you down.
I know what you mean about being shy. But most girls find guys being a little shy cute. Basically be yourself when you talk to girls, and maybe the problem is since you have a lot of friends that are girls you are like one of the girls sounds weird I know but it happens. I bet at least one of them likes you. And calm down, just breathe and act normal, just have a normal conversation and if s he brings up something like ';oh I hate my hair it looks bad today'; just compliment her. You'll get the hang of it.
don't go out with your friends that are close...go out with someone that you don't know and get to know them...it's funn to know about another person...
if u want a gurl to notice to u don't play the brother role play the qt role and maybe she'll notice ur not treating her like u usually do and guess what!!!!!!!!! she'll notice u
The best way is to compliment a girl. Think of something you really like about one of your female friends and try and say it to her without sounding as if you are going to pounce any second. Just make it natural. You should practise on your girl-pals for a bit and see how they react. When you see a girlie you fancy, remember to shy-glance and smile and the look away. Do it a couple of times until she giggles. Then you know its just a matter of time. Mostly you are just afraid of rejection but if you think as every rejection as getting nearer and nearer to a 'yes', it doesn't seem so bad.
Let your male instincts kick into gear,be yourself.
Well you started off saying you have loads of female friends, so start there, one of them MUST know someone who will date, you, go on go for it,
Plus try taking some self help books out of the library, help build your confidence a bit,
More importantly love who you are! You are a unique person, with your own little quirkiness, Accept it and for sure others will too....
Knowing how to flirt is THE KEY to getting the girl of your dreams. Ever wondered how ugly guys can be seen dating drop dead gorgeous women, well the first step is flirting. With girls being flirtatious is actually not a natural instinct for most men. The natural instinct is for a fear reaction to kick in when you see a girl you fancy.
This is natural, after all if you can't have her you'll feel down. If she blows you off when you approach her then you're destroyed (often in front of all you friends). The fear reaction unfortunately is most men's undoing. They either don't even approach the beautiful woman, or if they do they're so nervous that no-one inthey're right mind would want to date them, or they put in a machismo attitude to cover up - which is also a massive turn off.
So, what to do?
Flirting with girls - Tip 1
Body language is so important whenever you're flirting. Research has shown that maintaining eye contact for about 70% of the time and alternating to looking at her mouth and the surroundings the other 30% of the time gives the most positive messages directly to her subconcious. Do not stare at her continuously!
Flirting with girls - Tip 2
Smile - A LOT
Whenever a man approaches a girl she will be apprehensive. Smiling does a lot to disarm her and make her feel safe. It will also help her feel relaxed. Everyone smiles more readily when the person they're chatting to smiles as well.
She will laugh more easily if you're smiling. Women wil much more readily keep talking to (and agree to see again) someone who makes them laugh.
Flirting with girls - Tip 3
Very gently - Tease her
This can be a tricky area - but certainly a worthwhile one! Don't tease her about ANYTHING right away. You have to set a grounding where it is clear that you like her, and respect her. Once you're sure that this is the case then you could purposefully mis-interpret something she said; give 'ham-acting' looks of shock; etc.
You must follow this up with being very reassuring, smiling a lot, and gently shaking your head. Also you may quickly take a half-step backwards then forwards towards her. All these actions tell her sub-concious that you were only kidding.
This technique speaks directly to her sub-concious. After the brief 'downer' of your teasing she gets a big 'up' when it rapidly becomes clear you were not serious.
Flirting with girls - Tip 4
After you've teased her. Immediately start to ask her about herself in a sincere way. After all you do want ot get to know her. She will find this change of tack reassuring, and it will help to cement a bond between you.
heyy if u have girl troubles i am one... any way i luvv it when a boy comes up to me and starts to talk! i am really shy and i works all the time when a boy does that... i think its really cute!!! if you have a girl you like go up to her and ask her to sit by you at lunch... try anything that might apeal to her! like things you like...etc.
write back and tell me how it went!!
~the_helper12321
Just be yourself, try to relax!!! Try breathing when talking to them,. If you really have allot of friends that are girls at least one of them likes you just take your time . Don't forget to groom, Shower clean clothes not wrinkled , comb hair . Continue being nice and soon enough things will fall into the right place for you. Girls get nervous too...
Carl you sound like a nice guy and believe it or not thats part of your problem. Another reason why you're only friends with these girls and only friend is because thats what you are to them. If you want to become someones boyfriend you have to think and act like a boyfriend. I've helped lots of guys just like you get to this level and I did it all through yahoo messenger. Its discreet and it works. Add me if you'd like, David_Sexton_PhD.
David Sexton., Relationship Advisor/Author
hymm,..well im a girl and i have the same prob with guys.. just joke around with them, seriously girls LOVE class clown types, and you kinda sound like one. just be you!!! and poke them and stuff,,,and give lots of compliments, not too many or else they will run away lol. i think you sound nice....How do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?
Buy a penis pump. Once you have a bigger wang you will feel like you are on top of the world and no one will be able to turn you down.
I know what you mean about being shy. But most girls find guys being a little shy cute. Basically be yourself when you talk to girls, and maybe the problem is since you have a lot of friends that are girls you are like one of the girls sounds weird I know but it happens. I bet at least one of them likes you. And calm down, just breathe and act normal, just have a normal conversation and if s he brings up something like ';oh I hate my hair it looks bad today'; just compliment her. You'll get the hang of it.
don't go out with your friends that are close...go out with someone that you don't know and get to know them...it's funn to know about another person...
if u want a gurl to notice to u don't play the brother role play the qt role and maybe she'll notice ur not treating her like u usually do and guess what!!!!!!!!! she'll notice u
The best way is to compliment a girl. Think of something you really like about one of your female friends and try and say it to her without sounding as if you are going to pounce any second. Just make it natural. You should practise on your girl-pals for a bit and see how they react. When you see a girlie you fancy, remember to shy-glance and smile and the look away. Do it a couple of times until she giggles. Then you know its just a matter of time. Mostly you are just afraid of rejection but if you think as every rejection as getting nearer and nearer to a 'yes', it doesn't seem so bad.
Let your male instincts kick into gear,be yourself.
Well you started off saying you have loads of female friends, so start there, one of them MUST know someone who will date, you, go on go for it,
Plus try taking some self help books out of the library, help build your confidence a bit,
More importantly love who you are! You are a unique person, with your own little quirkiness, Accept it and for sure others will too....
Knowing how to flirt is THE KEY to getting the girl of your dreams. Ever wondered how ugly guys can be seen dating drop dead gorgeous women, well the first step is flirting. With girls being flirtatious is actually not a natural instinct for most men. The natural instinct is for a fear reaction to kick in when you see a girl you fancy.
This is natural, after all if you can't have her you'll feel down. If she blows you off when you approach her then you're destroyed (often in front of all you friends). The fear reaction unfortunately is most men's undoing. They either don't even approach the beautiful woman, or if they do they're so nervous that no-one inthey're right mind would want to date them, or they put in a machismo attitude to cover up - which is also a massive turn off.
So, what to do?
Flirting with girls - Tip 1
Body language is so important whenever you're flirting. Research has shown that maintaining eye contact for about 70% of the time and alternating to looking at her mouth and the surroundings the other 30% of the time gives the most positive messages directly to her subconcious. Do not stare at her continuously!
Flirting with girls - Tip 2
Smile - A LOT
Whenever a man approaches a girl she will be apprehensive. Smiling does a lot to disarm her and make her feel safe. It will also help her feel relaxed. Everyone smiles more readily when the person they're chatting to smiles as well.
She will laugh more easily if you're smiling. Women wil much more readily keep talking to (and agree to see again) someone who makes them laugh.
Flirting with girls - Tip 3
Very gently - Tease her
This can be a tricky area - but certainly a worthwhile one! Don't tease her about ANYTHING right away. You have to set a grounding where it is clear that you like her, and respect her. Once you're sure that this is the case then you could purposefully mis-interpret something she said; give 'ham-acting' looks of shock; etc.
You must follow this up with being very reassuring, smiling a lot, and gently shaking your head. Also you may quickly take a half-step backwards then forwards towards her. All these actions tell her sub-concious that you were only kidding.
This technique speaks directly to her sub-concious. After the brief 'downer' of your teasing she gets a big 'up' when it rapidly becomes clear you were not serious.
Flirting with girls - Tip 4
After you've teased her. Immediately start to ask her about herself in a sincere way. After all you do want ot get to know her. She will find this change of tack reassuring, and it will help to cement a bond between you.
heyy if u have girl troubles i am one... any way i luvv it when a boy comes up to me and starts to talk! i am really shy and i works all the time when a boy does that... i think its really cute!!! if you have a girl you like go up to her and ask her to sit by you at lunch... try anything that might apeal to her! like things you like...etc.
write back and tell me how it went!!
~the_helper12321
Just be yourself, try to relax!!! Try breathing when talking to them,. If you really have allot of friends that are girls at least one of them likes you just take your time . Don't forget to groom, Shower clean clothes not wrinkled , comb hair . Continue being nice and soon enough things will fall into the right place for you. Girls get nervous too...
Carl you sound like a nice guy and believe it or not thats part of your problem. Another reason why you're only friends with these girls and only friend is because thats what you are to them. If you want to become someones boyfriend you have to think and act like a boyfriend. I've helped lots of guys just like you get to this level and I did it all through yahoo messenger. Its discreet and it works. Add me if you'd like, David_Sexton_PhD.
David Sexton., Relationship Advisor/Author
How to talk to girls who are with their guy friends?
It's much harder than talking to girls with their girl friends... So yeah, I don't find it THAT end of the world when girls I want to talk to are constantly talking to her guy friends. Some advices would be nice.How to talk to girls who are with their guy friends?
become friends with one of her guy friends nd then you will have a reason to be around her. then thats when you talk to her, maybe just join in on a group convo(: good luckHow to talk to girls who are with their guy friends?
Get drunk, speak your mind
become friends with one of her guy friends nd then you will have a reason to be around her. then thats when you talk to her, maybe just join in on a group convo(: good luckHow to talk to girls who are with their guy friends?
Get drunk, speak your mind
How can I make new friends- penpals, phone friends?
I am a 41 year old lonely nurse wanting to make new friends to socialize with. Let's talk girl talk about, men, upcoming wedding, dating, work, social events, etc. I am a christian lady.How can I make new friends- penpals, phone friends?
www.plentyoffish.com it's one of the only totally free dating sites.
You can set your profile to only accept people of your terms.
try it .
You can't win anything in life ,if you don't even try
- PiecesHow can I make new friends- penpals, phone friends?
FACEBOOK, GET A NICKNAME so your other friends don't stalk you and talk to peeps don't go to chat rooms it is the most grossest most disgusting thing ever.
www.plentyoffish.com it's one of the only totally free dating sites.
You can set your profile to only accept people of your terms.
try it .
You can't win anything in life ,if you don't even try
- PiecesHow can I make new friends- penpals, phone friends?
FACEBOOK, GET A NICKNAME so your other friends don't stalk you and talk to peeps don't go to chat rooms it is the most grossest most disgusting thing ever.
In highschool and want to know how to talk to girls?
i just came out of being a total nerd, now i play soccer and girls actually approach me problem is that i have absolutly no idea wat to say to them. i freeze up especially with the pretty girls. this girl is one of the prettiest in skool and i have the privilege of sitting next to her. I have talk to her but usually its an awkward silence i just want to know wat to say to her. I want to know when i used tell her i like her and ask her out. I know all the usual stuff people tell u to be ur self and to be funny and all of that. But i want to know wat to say to be funny i really need help wit this girl and wit furture girls as well. I want to be interesting to girls. please help me.In highschool and want to know how to talk to girls?
ok. wow. u should kno how to talk to gurls by now but ill help u. ok all you have to do is talk to them like you would your best friend so you become best friends. thats all you really have to do. during an awkward silence say something like you would say to one of your friends or say something about the fact that its an awkward silence. Like i would say something lik awkward silence... dot dot dot...... You kno. just b a friend and the u can become more than friends but b careful not to destroy the friendship. Youll get it soon.In highschool and want to know how to talk to girls?
So you're a little akward,just think of what you think is funny. If she doesn't think it's funny or you two have nothing to talk about maybe there's another girl who will think it's funny. You don't have to date a girl just because she is the most popular or the prettiest!
First off in High School if you want to be the man you have to be OK with yourself. If others laugh at you, it is OK. If you make a fool of yourself, its OK. Take all your clothes off, stand in front of the mirror and look at your self today. You have to be OK with who is there right now. If you want to loose weight, or lift weights, or whatever, you are in charge of that and know that you can do it. It takes one day at a time. BUT RIGHT NOW you have to be OK with who you are and where you are. That is self confidence. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves. Not arrogant. But sure of their abilities and their path. The worst thing a girl can ever do is say that she doesn't want to date you. Some will, some won't who cares, who's next? Her loss. Dating is not being married. It is dating. Just relax, it gets harder as you get older.
Well, not anyone can be funny even when they want to. Some says stuff and accidentally makes others laugh. So it'll come to you once in a while.
I suggest you to talk to her with what you're interested in most, beside her. Like soccer, tell her about it and how you started...unless she doesn't like sports that much. Find out what she likes from her or your friends or just people; then bring up the subject next time speaking.
I'm no help, because I'm a girl also. The dumbest pick-up line is ';you're hot'; so...if you want to compliment her, say ';beautiful'; haha!! So cheesy...
Sometimes the shy thing is cute. Flattery can get you a long way.. it will usually get a smile out of her. Talk about your common ground. Since you two are in the same class together talk about how much the homework sucked or how borning the teacher is. That CAN lead in to other things like how was her weekend or what she's into. I had a situation like this when I used to sit next to an extreamly shy guy. The first thing he ever said to me after overhearing me and my friend talking about losing 5 lbs was, ';Here eat an apple, you don't need to be on a diet. You're ....ya-know, perfect.'; Now he's my boyfriend of almost 3 years. My advice therefore is ya there is smooth, but girls usually go for the corny approach.
ok. wow. u should kno how to talk to gurls by now but ill help u. ok all you have to do is talk to them like you would your best friend so you become best friends. thats all you really have to do. during an awkward silence say something like you would say to one of your friends or say something about the fact that its an awkward silence. Like i would say something lik awkward silence... dot dot dot...... You kno. just b a friend and the u can become more than friends but b careful not to destroy the friendship. Youll get it soon.In highschool and want to know how to talk to girls?
So you're a little akward,just think of what you think is funny. If she doesn't think it's funny or you two have nothing to talk about maybe there's another girl who will think it's funny. You don't have to date a girl just because she is the most popular or the prettiest!
First off in High School if you want to be the man you have to be OK with yourself. If others laugh at you, it is OK. If you make a fool of yourself, its OK. Take all your clothes off, stand in front of the mirror and look at your self today. You have to be OK with who is there right now. If you want to loose weight, or lift weights, or whatever, you are in charge of that and know that you can do it. It takes one day at a time. BUT RIGHT NOW you have to be OK with who you are and where you are. That is self confidence. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves. Not arrogant. But sure of their abilities and their path. The worst thing a girl can ever do is say that she doesn't want to date you. Some will, some won't who cares, who's next? Her loss. Dating is not being married. It is dating. Just relax, it gets harder as you get older.
Well, not anyone can be funny even when they want to. Some says stuff and accidentally makes others laugh. So it'll come to you once in a while.
I suggest you to talk to her with what you're interested in most, beside her. Like soccer, tell her about it and how you started...unless she doesn't like sports that much. Find out what she likes from her or your friends or just people; then bring up the subject next time speaking.
I'm no help, because I'm a girl also. The dumbest pick-up line is ';you're hot'; so...if you want to compliment her, say ';beautiful'; haha!! So cheesy...
Sometimes the shy thing is cute. Flattery can get you a long way.. it will usually get a smile out of her. Talk about your common ground. Since you two are in the same class together talk about how much the homework sucked or how borning the teacher is. That CAN lead in to other things like how was her weekend or what she's into. I had a situation like this when I used to sit next to an extreamly shy guy. The first thing he ever said to me after overhearing me and my friend talking about losing 5 lbs was, ';Here eat an apple, you don't need to be on a diet. You're ....ya-know, perfect.'; Now he's my boyfriend of almost 3 years. My advice therefore is ya there is smooth, but girls usually go for the corny approach.
How do i talk to girls on facebook and come friends with them?
open with a joke.How do i talk to girls on facebook and come friends with them?
I love how the two people who answered already are completely useless, asking for THEIR help when the topic here is for YOUR help.
Okay, here's the starter. (Her living near you is better for hanging out).
First, obviously, add her in your friends list. You can then either send her messages or IM her if she is online at the same time you are. If you are only looking to be friends, then just be friendly - say hello, talk like friends would talk.
If you are looking to be more than friends, try starting off as becoming her friend.
Making friends isn't hard.How do i talk to girls on facebook and come friends with them?
Same boat my friend. I am trying to do it too... thats what my question below is about... just find one thing in common or something, ask about that... then make a conversation about it
you can read my question and some comments for ideas
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um...how bout you try real life first, then work your way down to facebook
try to add them and put a nice comment.
just add them and start talkin to them
answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AovmlFt41q5kPnoHdpk2EkDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090802143112AAeJYTw
I love how the two people who answered already are completely useless, asking for THEIR help when the topic here is for YOUR help.
Okay, here's the starter. (Her living near you is better for hanging out).
First, obviously, add her in your friends list. You can then either send her messages or IM her if she is online at the same time you are. If you are only looking to be friends, then just be friendly - say hello, talk like friends would talk.
If you are looking to be more than friends, try starting off as becoming her friend.
Making friends isn't hard.How do i talk to girls on facebook and come friends with them?
Same boat my friend. I am trying to do it too... thats what my question below is about... just find one thing in common or something, ask about that... then make a conversation about it
you can read my question and some comments for ideas
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
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um...how bout you try real life first, then work your way down to facebook
try to add them and put a nice comment.
just add them and start talkin to them
answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AovmlFt41q5kPnoHdpk2EkDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090802143112AAeJYTw
How do i talk to girls on facebook and come friends with them?
Post your junk as your profile picture.
That would get some attention.
That would get some attention.
I want to talk to girls, but I fear rejection. How does a guy rise above the intimidation of rejection?
This has been bugging me for years. I can attract girls, but when I talk, I just get nervous as hell. I just feel like anything I do or say is going to hurt my chances of getting closer, so I completely avoid the situation.
It's actually getting worse as time moves on and I'm starting to lose most of my friends, including guys because they think I'm weird because I haven't ever had a relationship with a girl.I want to talk to girls, but I fear rejection. How does a guy rise above the intimidation of rejection?
When you approach a girl, think to yourself that it doesn't matter if she rejects you because you will find someone else. Who cares if you get rejected a couple times. EVERYBODY does at some point in their life. Just remember be yourself and there are a lot of women in this world.I want to talk to girls, but I fear rejection. How does a guy rise above the intimidation of rejection?
Let u in on a secret, girls are exactly the same we are scared of rejection too. Be urself try different techniques to try to relax b4 u start talking to a girl. She is just as nervous as u!
Dude never be scared of hearing no,and always try,try,again being persistant is a good thing!
just be yourslelf and just relax.
Find something that you are totally into....the girls will find you...
Confidence is a strong attraction for women.
lol your guy friends are ditching you cause you dont have a girl?? rofl i would understand if they did it cause you had a girl u need some new friends
well think about it... talking and being nervous about it gets u more relax for the next time it happens and you have a 5% chance of a relationship with that person if you dont talk you have ZERO
hope you thrive on pressure and the fear of lonliness cuz that is shizzz
that's when u FLIRT!!!
i think that you need to lean to have a friendship with a girl fist and learn that yuo can be comfortable with them it is normal to be in your shoes just understand that girls are just people if you want to talk just send me a message
been there done that, in fact im just starting now, i''m almost to a very close relationship with one in fact. all you have to do is just talk, iwas nervous at first but then im geetting the hang of it/ Maybe you can try chatting online, it is much easier cause you are not actually seeing the girl but talking to one, and have it build up from there
Just breath for few minutes before you go up to her and GO for it just say hi how are you since i guess you know her just say would you like to go to a movie or dinner sometime. SHe is not going to bite you head off she will be nice and if she likes you she will say yes. It beats sitting at home and wishing you were with her then acutally being with her bc you got the nerves to do it. Just pretend you are talking with a close friend just talk to her like one of them. Picture asking your parents to a movie or where ever you want to take her that might help. TRUST ME YOU NEED TO ASK HER SHE MAY LIKE YOU you wont know until you try. Do not worry about how you may look just act like you are not nervous just picture things that you do not get nervous about.
good luck.
Sounds like you need to find some confidence in yourself. You can practice what you want to say on a friend or in front of the mirror. You can learn to gain confidence and self esteem by looking at all the good things about you. Women look for a man who walks with confidence and talks with confidence. Remember practice makes perfect and that the more women reject you the more likely someone won't.
ok first you need to be confident and forget what are you going to say to a girl like go with the flow also us girls are like that too. so dont worry just dont think what are you saying to that person just try to have fun and if there happen to be a rejection just move on theyre is plenty of fish in the ocean !!!!!!!
too bad for you, all my relationships began because the girls flirts with me, lol
1st- If your guy friends leave because they think you are gay, drop them, those aren't real friends.
2nd- You will get rejected.
3rd- Learn from when you get rejected and don't let it keep you down, everyone gets rejected sometime.
4th- Don't worry so much that you'll say something stupid, unless you are going for high strung superficial girls, they aren't going to say ';ooh he said something stupid, he must be a loser';. Just laugh it off and if you can muster the courage, say you are nervous.
5th- Don't try to get a bunch of girls, find one girl, the right girl and have a long relationship.
Things said may offend but I'm gonna tell it like it is and not surround it with fluffy frilly pillows.
Hey dude wake up or else you would end up holding your own till you die. Appraoch her, man if you like some one if she rejects she was not yours and neither will be . Moreover do not jump into a relationship just for the sake of proving a point to your friends . I am sure you will find someone soon ,just be confident and do not look at all girls as a probable girlfriend after all you have only one ----.
people are going to be rejected. it happends to mostly everyone. you just need to overcome it. you need to fell more confident about yourself. chances are if you like a girl, and you even think that she likes you too, you wont be rejected. and if you are, so what, try again. there are going to be times you might be, but not everyone is for everyone.
Don't be afraid just be yourself and jump into group conversation to get started slowly move to individual conversation when you feel comfortable,
Stay out of your comfort zone because you are not helping your social life, trust me I did the same thing and it was very hard to get my self out of that hole, you have nothing to lose but lot's to gain it will be uncomfortable but it's for your own good.
Good Luck
don't worry about it I'm the same way I'm 20 never had a relation ship but now I'm stepping up and gaining more confidence about it and this is how i fell of things
First joke with them a little then say stuff that give hint to them that u like them such as if she says ';its hot'; be like its you or your the only one hot in here. see what the response is if she likes that talk about her. like do you have any kids or do you have any brother or sisters then ask do you have a boy friend if now then ask if she would like to hang out some time or go to the movies if you don't want to move to fast then talk to her normal like you would a friend Do not talk lies ever unless she is a hoe lol
if you end up going out then she finds out that you lied she will dump you very fast if not then she will lie to you or treat you like a kid or never see you again. The first step if to become her friend then she will tell you how she fell about dating you good luck I know i need it and a little encourment to go out with the girl I'm talking kinda to . btw dont worry obout the guy if they a rely your friends then they will try to help them but if your like me and have better standrs than most such as not just want her for sex a bar scene guy then you will A LONG LAST RELATION SHIP .my parents been married for over 23 year based on ture love and they never had a relation ship with some one else before they met so im planing to do the same and find a girl that see it as i do good luck to you and me 11:11 ace
For one thing stop thinking and do it
thats the point to this
girls problay thinkin why wont he jsut ask already
Just stop thinking about it and go ask a girl you like out
you would be surprised in there reaction
i know alot of girls that like shy guys
i do myself took my bf jeff a year to ask me out and ive had a crush on ghim for 2
i knew he would soon or later
so just go for it
i have the same problem dear
It's actually getting worse as time moves on and I'm starting to lose most of my friends, including guys because they think I'm weird because I haven't ever had a relationship with a girl.I want to talk to girls, but I fear rejection. How does a guy rise above the intimidation of rejection?
When you approach a girl, think to yourself that it doesn't matter if she rejects you because you will find someone else. Who cares if you get rejected a couple times. EVERYBODY does at some point in their life. Just remember be yourself and there are a lot of women in this world.I want to talk to girls, but I fear rejection. How does a guy rise above the intimidation of rejection?
Let u in on a secret, girls are exactly the same we are scared of rejection too. Be urself try different techniques to try to relax b4 u start talking to a girl. She is just as nervous as u!
Dude never be scared of hearing no,and always try,try,again being persistant is a good thing!
just be yourslelf and just relax.
Find something that you are totally into....the girls will find you...
Confidence is a strong attraction for women.
lol your guy friends are ditching you cause you dont have a girl?? rofl i would understand if they did it cause you had a girl u need some new friends
well think about it... talking and being nervous about it gets u more relax for the next time it happens and you have a 5% chance of a relationship with that person if you dont talk you have ZERO
hope you thrive on pressure and the fear of lonliness cuz that is shizzz
that's when u FLIRT!!!
i think that you need to lean to have a friendship with a girl fist and learn that yuo can be comfortable with them it is normal to be in your shoes just understand that girls are just people if you want to talk just send me a message
been there done that, in fact im just starting now, i''m almost to a very close relationship with one in fact. all you have to do is just talk, iwas nervous at first but then im geetting the hang of it/ Maybe you can try chatting online, it is much easier cause you are not actually seeing the girl but talking to one, and have it build up from there
Just breath for few minutes before you go up to her and GO for it just say hi how are you since i guess you know her just say would you like to go to a movie or dinner sometime. SHe is not going to bite you head off she will be nice and if she likes you she will say yes. It beats sitting at home and wishing you were with her then acutally being with her bc you got the nerves to do it. Just pretend you are talking with a close friend just talk to her like one of them. Picture asking your parents to a movie or where ever you want to take her that might help. TRUST ME YOU NEED TO ASK HER SHE MAY LIKE YOU you wont know until you try. Do not worry about how you may look just act like you are not nervous just picture things that you do not get nervous about.
good luck.
Sounds like you need to find some confidence in yourself. You can practice what you want to say on a friend or in front of the mirror. You can learn to gain confidence and self esteem by looking at all the good things about you. Women look for a man who walks with confidence and talks with confidence. Remember practice makes perfect and that the more women reject you the more likely someone won't.
ok first you need to be confident and forget what are you going to say to a girl like go with the flow also us girls are like that too. so dont worry just dont think what are you saying to that person just try to have fun and if there happen to be a rejection just move on theyre is plenty of fish in the ocean !!!!!!!
too bad for you, all my relationships began because the girls flirts with me, lol
1st- If your guy friends leave because they think you are gay, drop them, those aren't real friends.
2nd- You will get rejected.
3rd- Learn from when you get rejected and don't let it keep you down, everyone gets rejected sometime.
4th- Don't worry so much that you'll say something stupid, unless you are going for high strung superficial girls, they aren't going to say ';ooh he said something stupid, he must be a loser';. Just laugh it off and if you can muster the courage, say you are nervous.
5th- Don't try to get a bunch of girls, find one girl, the right girl and have a long relationship.
Things said may offend but I'm gonna tell it like it is and not surround it with fluffy frilly pillows.
Hey dude wake up or else you would end up holding your own till you die. Appraoch her, man if you like some one if she rejects she was not yours and neither will be . Moreover do not jump into a relationship just for the sake of proving a point to your friends . I am sure you will find someone soon ,just be confident and do not look at all girls as a probable girlfriend after all you have only one ----.
people are going to be rejected. it happends to mostly everyone. you just need to overcome it. you need to fell more confident about yourself. chances are if you like a girl, and you even think that she likes you too, you wont be rejected. and if you are, so what, try again. there are going to be times you might be, but not everyone is for everyone.
Don't be afraid just be yourself and jump into group conversation to get started slowly move to individual conversation when you feel comfortable,
Stay out of your comfort zone because you are not helping your social life, trust me I did the same thing and it was very hard to get my self out of that hole, you have nothing to lose but lot's to gain it will be uncomfortable but it's for your own good.
Good Luck
don't worry about it I'm the same way I'm 20 never had a relation ship but now I'm stepping up and gaining more confidence about it and this is how i fell of things
First joke with them a little then say stuff that give hint to them that u like them such as if she says ';its hot'; be like its you or your the only one hot in here. see what the response is if she likes that talk about her. like do you have any kids or do you have any brother or sisters then ask do you have a boy friend if now then ask if she would like to hang out some time or go to the movies if you don't want to move to fast then talk to her normal like you would a friend Do not talk lies ever unless she is a hoe lol
if you end up going out then she finds out that you lied she will dump you very fast if not then she will lie to you or treat you like a kid or never see you again. The first step if to become her friend then she will tell you how she fell about dating you good luck I know i need it and a little encourment to go out with the girl I'm talking kinda to . btw dont worry obout the guy if they a rely your friends then they will try to help them but if your like me and have better standrs than most such as not just want her for sex a bar scene guy then you will A LONG LAST RELATION SHIP .my parents been married for over 23 year based on ture love and they never had a relation ship with some one else before they met so im planing to do the same and find a girl that see it as i do good luck to you and me 11:11 ace
For one thing stop thinking and do it
thats the point to this
girls problay thinkin why wont he jsut ask already
Just stop thinking about it and go ask a girl you like out
you would be surprised in there reaction
i know alot of girls that like shy guys
i do myself took my bf jeff a year to ask me out and ive had a crush on ghim for 2
i knew he would soon or later
so just go for it
i have the same problem dear
Why do these other girls always talk smack about me behind my back?
im a freshman in h.s.
im pretty attractive, smart, athletic, nice, funny, friendly, charming, but not in a cocky way at all
well in the last 2 weeks its gotten back to me that these girls are talking smack about me. i even overheard a couple of them talking about me in the bathroom at school. i don't know what their problems are.
what could be some reasons why they talk about me?
any advice on how to deal with the situation?Why do these other girls always talk smack about me behind my back?
Because that's how high-school is. Just ignore them - in 2 months time they'll be targeting someone else.Why do these other girls always talk smack about me behind my back?
because they like drama girls in hs are stupid.....i barely had any ';girl-friends'; in highschool....
Girls will always talk behind your back. That's just how it is. Most likely this was spurred by jealousy. That's how it usually starts, and if what you said is true, then they have a lot to be jealous about. Either ignore it, or if you think that the girls are approachable, you could confront them about it. Either way, the best bet is to act like yourself and don't let it get to you. If you are nice to the rest of the student body, chances are that they won't believe bad stuff about you that other girls are spreading.
It doesn't matter if what they say about you is true or not - they're probably just insecure air-heads that talk about anybody. Girls can be really jealous and catty and there doesn't even have to be a good reason - maybe you make them feel insecure because you are nice and have alot going for you. So just keep being yourself, and remember that high-school is just a few short years and you won't even remember those people (and they probably won't even remember you!) after you graduate. If you try to get on their case about their smack they'll just talk about you even more, because you've dropped down to their level and it encourages them. Smile, be friendly, but keep a distance between you and them. You wouldn't want to hang around with people like that anyway.
im pretty attractive, smart, athletic, nice, funny, friendly, charming, but not in a cocky way at all
well in the last 2 weeks its gotten back to me that these girls are talking smack about me. i even overheard a couple of them talking about me in the bathroom at school. i don't know what their problems are.
what could be some reasons why they talk about me?
any advice on how to deal with the situation?Why do these other girls always talk smack about me behind my back?
Because that's how high-school is. Just ignore them - in 2 months time they'll be targeting someone else.Why do these other girls always talk smack about me behind my back?
because they like drama girls in hs are stupid.....i barely had any ';girl-friends'; in highschool....
Girls will always talk behind your back. That's just how it is. Most likely this was spurred by jealousy. That's how it usually starts, and if what you said is true, then they have a lot to be jealous about. Either ignore it, or if you think that the girls are approachable, you could confront them about it. Either way, the best bet is to act like yourself and don't let it get to you. If you are nice to the rest of the student body, chances are that they won't believe bad stuff about you that other girls are spreading.
It doesn't matter if what they say about you is true or not - they're probably just insecure air-heads that talk about anybody. Girls can be really jealous and catty and there doesn't even have to be a good reason - maybe you make them feel insecure because you are nice and have alot going for you. So just keep being yourself, and remember that high-school is just a few short years and you won't even remember those people (and they probably won't even remember you!) after you graduate. If you try to get on their case about their smack they'll just talk about you even more, because you've dropped down to their level and it encourages them. Smile, be friendly, but keep a distance between you and them. You wouldn't want to hang around with people like that anyway.
How do i get girls to be more social with me. ?
like I have buddies that have tons of girls talk to him and stuff. Any way I don't have a lot of girls talk to me. I mean I work out evey day and im smart and Ive had random people tell me something like how i have pretty eyes or something like that. But I feel ugly cause I don't get as much attention as he does and im a very social person. What would you say the problem is?How do i get girls to be more social with me. ?
I think the problem is you don't know how to properly flirt with girls. Here's a link that will help.
http://www.fastseduction.com/
You didn't give too much insight into this so if I didn't hit the nail on the head, let me knowHow do i get girls to be more social with me. ?
u gta be like ';yo n i g g a talk to me man cuz like om the down low yo u kno what ahhm sayin? be like yo 2pac lives mayne! yo man if your goin for the black ones be like yo mayne yo wanna grab sum harold chicken yo fool ? dont trip man yo lets see notorious mayne yo!';
Oh honey,
you don't have a problem. Just try to be the one who start a conversation with a girl, not the other way around. I know it can be hard at times to be outgoing though.
Just socialize dude. You'll get there. If some girls think you're weird then hey they are not worth talking to. Most of the time girls are going to be easy to talk to.
You have to take initiative, unfortunately. See girls are afraid to confront guys, like asking them to hang out, or to go out (dating), because they are afraid of being rejected. Little do they know that men have the same fear. So take initiative and go and find someone you think would be cool to hang out and ask her out. Girls like guys with confidence.straight hair
I think the problem is you don't know how to properly flirt with girls. Here's a link that will help.
http://www.fastseduction.com/
You didn't give too much insight into this so if I didn't hit the nail on the head, let me knowHow do i get girls to be more social with me. ?
u gta be like ';yo n i g g a talk to me man cuz like om the down low yo u kno what ahhm sayin? be like yo 2pac lives mayne! yo man if your goin for the black ones be like yo mayne yo wanna grab sum harold chicken yo fool ? dont trip man yo lets see notorious mayne yo!';
Oh honey,
you don't have a problem. Just try to be the one who start a conversation with a girl, not the other way around. I know it can be hard at times to be outgoing though.
Just socialize dude. You'll get there. If some girls think you're weird then hey they are not worth talking to. Most of the time girls are going to be easy to talk to.
You have to take initiative, unfortunately. See girls are afraid to confront guys, like asking them to hang out, or to go out (dating), because they are afraid of being rejected. Little do they know that men have the same fear. So take initiative and go and find someone you think would be cool to hang out and ask her out. Girls like guys with confidence.
How do I talk to girls like i would to anyone else?
i'm an seventeen year old and i'd like to know how I can become more confident in a conversation with any girl. The problem with me is that i always seem to freeze when I see someone cute. I always tend to feel nervous that she might think that I might leave hints that i like her, in which i don't. I really like to learn how to talk to girls as if its no problem at all. I don't like to be like a lot of guys who treat girls more kindly but i'd rather treat them as equals. I really want to have more friends but this boy/girl attraction is getting to me all the time. Please help, this has been going on for too long!How do I talk to girls like i would to anyone else?
do exactly like you just said. treat them as equals. i'm 22 and a girl, so i hope you take this to heart, but it's really not that big of a deal. girls are obsessing over what to say to you 10 times more, trust me. the more casual you are, the more at ease they will be. calm down, take a breath, and just talk. it doesn't matter about what. girls like to talk about themselves, so ask them a question. if you open up the right doors, you won't have to do much talking, just listening, lol. a guy friend of mine told me once that he used to keep something in his pocket, like a paper clip, to kindof distract him a little bit. so he wasn't so focused on making an *** out of himself. you'll be ok, the second you chill out, you'll realize it's not that hard.How do I talk to girls like i would to anyone else?
Quit worrying about how they look and just talk to them.
be yourself
make jokes
make fun of them
smile
email me and I'll send u my number and u can practice on me.
a couple of hints, every girl has the same problem when they see someone that they feel intimidated by. the problem here is that you feel intimidated by these girls which says to me you suffer from low self esteem in some place. the good thing is that you are asking for help. the best advice i can give is that the worst possible thing any woman/girl can say or do is....';no';. a single word, and that single word (2 letters) is only powerful if you let it be. As for confidence, you already have it, you are just thinking too much about what that girl and your friends will think if they find out she says no. you care too much what people think, my suggestion is that if they dont pay your bills, then there opinion doesnt matter. but just be yourself and dont try to hard, and have patience, you will find a great girl if you make sure you dont turn out to be like every other teen your age when it comes to girls.
ONE MORE CRUCIAL THING!!!!!!! Always, no matter what, be a man of your word. if you say it....do it. if you promise something, deliver!!!! in the end all you have is your integrity. and trust me bud, woman admire a man with integrity that can deliver, it lets them know that they can trust you.
man i remember i used to be like u back den. but by the time i was 16 or 17 i just realized women dont really care how u talk to em if its just friend to friend. u can talk to em just like u talk to ur boys. just not as extream like u know when ur talking to ur boys n dey crack on u u can just say f u ck u ****** and nothing happens. just dont do that with girls untill u know their at the point that they know u and are really comfortable with u. like my homegirls i jus talk to em like ill talk to anyone eles. bout cars, other women, life, sports. watever. my advice is make them feel comfortable with u in the beggining and it will grow from there. next thing u know they will be calling u just to talk cuz they got nothing eles to do.
You obviously don't have any sisters or I'd tell you to talk to them like you would to your sister. Do you have or are you able to talk to your mother or other female relative as an equal or do they still treat you like a baby? If not, what about any female teachers. Most adults appreciate a mature young man who can talk to them as friends, instead of them having to be always an authority figure.
You can try volunteering, tutoring if you have good grades or get job or taking up more sports where you get to be with many different people.
Also, you can try getting a female penpal with similar interests, you're age, on the Internet but make it clear that you only want to be friends and not more.
You also need to get over the the fear about the boy/girl attraction. It may happen regardless (whether you are attracted to her or otherwise) beyond your or her control.
You have social phobia. You're too nervous because you're afraid of embarassing yourself but you're already embarassing yourself by being nervous. The sooner you get over it, the better off you'll be. You should forget about thinking whether you might make her think you're flirting with her. If you freeze she'll really believe you are interested in her. Just try to be yourself and talk about common interests and treat her in a way you'd like to be treated. If it seems as if she's flirting with you, don't reciprocate. If you make friends with a girl and it turns out she had a crush on you and she thought you liked her too, would that be so bad? Ask yourself what is it that bothers you. Are you afraid of confrontation? Being laughed at? Then work at getting over it. All you can do is learn to control yourself and know that you cannot control other people. If you are afraid of people are laughing at you, you can't let it get to you.
Lastly, you could try seeing a counsellor whom you can talk to and get an objective opinion about it if nothing else works.
do exactly like you just said. treat them as equals. i'm 22 and a girl, so i hope you take this to heart, but it's really not that big of a deal. girls are obsessing over what to say to you 10 times more, trust me. the more casual you are, the more at ease they will be. calm down, take a breath, and just talk. it doesn't matter about what. girls like to talk about themselves, so ask them a question. if you open up the right doors, you won't have to do much talking, just listening, lol. a guy friend of mine told me once that he used to keep something in his pocket, like a paper clip, to kindof distract him a little bit. so he wasn't so focused on making an *** out of himself. you'll be ok, the second you chill out, you'll realize it's not that hard.How do I talk to girls like i would to anyone else?
Quit worrying about how they look and just talk to them.
be yourself
make jokes
make fun of them
smile
email me and I'll send u my number and u can practice on me.
a couple of hints, every girl has the same problem when they see someone that they feel intimidated by. the problem here is that you feel intimidated by these girls which says to me you suffer from low self esteem in some place. the good thing is that you are asking for help. the best advice i can give is that the worst possible thing any woman/girl can say or do is....';no';. a single word, and that single word (2 letters) is only powerful if you let it be. As for confidence, you already have it, you are just thinking too much about what that girl and your friends will think if they find out she says no. you care too much what people think, my suggestion is that if they dont pay your bills, then there opinion doesnt matter. but just be yourself and dont try to hard, and have patience, you will find a great girl if you make sure you dont turn out to be like every other teen your age when it comes to girls.
ONE MORE CRUCIAL THING!!!!!!! Always, no matter what, be a man of your word. if you say it....do it. if you promise something, deliver!!!! in the end all you have is your integrity. and trust me bud, woman admire a man with integrity that can deliver, it lets them know that they can trust you.
man i remember i used to be like u back den. but by the time i was 16 or 17 i just realized women dont really care how u talk to em if its just friend to friend. u can talk to em just like u talk to ur boys. just not as extream like u know when ur talking to ur boys n dey crack on u u can just say f u ck u ****** and nothing happens. just dont do that with girls untill u know their at the point that they know u and are really comfortable with u. like my homegirls i jus talk to em like ill talk to anyone eles. bout cars, other women, life, sports. watever. my advice is make them feel comfortable with u in the beggining and it will grow from there. next thing u know they will be calling u just to talk cuz they got nothing eles to do.
You obviously don't have any sisters or I'd tell you to talk to them like you would to your sister. Do you have or are you able to talk to your mother or other female relative as an equal or do they still treat you like a baby? If not, what about any female teachers. Most adults appreciate a mature young man who can talk to them as friends, instead of them having to be always an authority figure.
You can try volunteering, tutoring if you have good grades or get job or taking up more sports where you get to be with many different people.
Also, you can try getting a female penpal with similar interests, you're age, on the Internet but make it clear that you only want to be friends and not more.
You also need to get over the the fear about the boy/girl attraction. It may happen regardless (whether you are attracted to her or otherwise) beyond your or her control.
You have social phobia. You're too nervous because you're afraid of embarassing yourself but you're already embarassing yourself by being nervous. The sooner you get over it, the better off you'll be. You should forget about thinking whether you might make her think you're flirting with her. If you freeze she'll really believe you are interested in her. Just try to be yourself and talk about common interests and treat her in a way you'd like to be treated. If it seems as if she's flirting with you, don't reciprocate. If you make friends with a girl and it turns out she had a crush on you and she thought you liked her too, would that be so bad? Ask yourself what is it that bothers you. Are you afraid of confrontation? Being laughed at? Then work at getting over it. All you can do is learn to control yourself and know that you cannot control other people. If you are afraid of people are laughing at you, you can't let it get to you.
Lastly, you could try seeing a counsellor whom you can talk to and get an objective opinion about it if nothing else works.
How do i talk to girls really easily?
I mean I'm not afraid of girls but i just can't seem to flow with them. Haha sorta like the move ';Hitch'; i wanna just be able to talk about anythnig with her and be really comfortable but i don't know what to do and i cannot find anything good online. help pleaseeeHow do i talk to girls really easily?
basically, if your really good looking then it doesnt matter what you say.
but if your not, then
well its not great but be FUNNY
thats the next best thing
seriously, if you make a girl laugh its great
and if she's smart then she'll be much more impressed if you make her laugh, coz stupid girls laugh at anything
but like, humour is definitely your best optionHow do i talk to girls really easily?
use the words 'cute' and 'like' a lot
Alot of girls like shy guys! Its a compliment if he's nervous around us lol.
Just ask about her family, if she have pets, hobbies, talk about school etc etc, basically just talk about anything you can think of until a conversation begins. Being funny helps too. When your actually chatting you'll probably calm down a bit and start to relax.
First of all don't use the words like and cute a lot, the girl will think that you are weird and lose interest or they may think that you are gay and want to go dude hunting with them. You shouldn't worry about talking to girls because a lot of the time they like some of the same things that you do, so just start asking them some questions about things that they like to do. Or just ask them questions about themselves. You don't need to be nervous about talking to them and once you start talking about something that relates to both of you then the conversation will flow naturally. Don't worry about it, you'll be fine. A lot of girls like it when you can actually have a good conversation with them rather than trying to be overly smooth (kind of corny, if you know what I mean) or trying to impress them by talking about things that are not necessarily true. Good luck and I hope this answered your question.
basically, if your really good looking then it doesnt matter what you say.
but if your not, then
well its not great but be FUNNY
thats the next best thing
seriously, if you make a girl laugh its great
and if she's smart then she'll be much more impressed if you make her laugh, coz stupid girls laugh at anything
but like, humour is definitely your best optionHow do i talk to girls really easily?
use the words 'cute' and 'like' a lot
Alot of girls like shy guys! Its a compliment if he's nervous around us lol.
Just ask about her family, if she have pets, hobbies, talk about school etc etc, basically just talk about anything you can think of until a conversation begins. Being funny helps too. When your actually chatting you'll probably calm down a bit and start to relax.
First of all don't use the words like and cute a lot, the girl will think that you are weird and lose interest or they may think that you are gay and want to go dude hunting with them. You shouldn't worry about talking to girls because a lot of the time they like some of the same things that you do, so just start asking them some questions about things that they like to do. Or just ask them questions about themselves. You don't need to be nervous about talking to them and once you start talking about something that relates to both of you then the conversation will flow naturally. Don't worry about it, you'll be fine. A lot of girls like it when you can actually have a good conversation with them rather than trying to be overly smooth (kind of corny, if you know what I mean) or trying to impress them by talking about things that are not necessarily true. Good luck and I hope this answered your question.
How do i approach girls and talk to them?
heres the deal, im 21 and i have never really been good at talking to girls. I am pretty good looking and have been with some really beautiful girls, but they aproached me and i didnt really like them. How do i get the girls that i want? please helpHow do i approach girls and talk to them?
Just make small talk with them at first. DONT give them the b.s lines as they have heard them all before. Just say ';how you doing'; ';are you from around here?'; ';Wanna dance?'; etc.. Sometimes just lay it on the line. ';Wanna F###'; LOLHow do i approach girls and talk to them?
The less attractive ones are just as good as the more attractive ones when it comes to sex, sometimes better. It's all the same stuff.
Ewww..... come on guys be mature GOSH if you want advice froma girl here it is
dont be cocky
be nice
dont be crude
be brave (as in ask her her name be FLIRTY but never pushy)
be your self
get her number, myspace, email ect but only one the rest shoud follow
Mwahh! good luck go get 'em tiger
Just make small talk with them at first. DONT give them the b.s lines as they have heard them all before. Just say ';how you doing'; ';are you from around here?'; ';Wanna dance?'; etc.. Sometimes just lay it on the line. ';Wanna F###'; LOLHow do i approach girls and talk to them?
The less attractive ones are just as good as the more attractive ones when it comes to sex, sometimes better. It's all the same stuff.
Ewww..... come on guys be mature GOSH if you want advice froma girl here it is
dont be cocky
be nice
dont be crude
be brave (as in ask her her name be FLIRTY but never pushy)
be your self
get her number, myspace, email ect but only one the rest shoud follow
Mwahh! good luck go get 'em tiger
How can i talk to girls?
ok tonight i was at a football game and there were tons of hot girls. i already knew some of them and they were telling me that the other hot girls were intersested in me. i wanted to talk to them and mabe get a date but i kinda pussied out and stayed with my friends. all i need is some advice how to get a conversation started with girls i dont know so i can try it next week. and for the record im not a pussy i just got scared i would make a fool of myself.How can i talk to girls?
Haha for ur info girls like it wen a guy comes up to her and starts talkin to her as long as its not in like a weird freaky way keep ur eyes on her face but dont make it seem weird act calm not cool inless its natural ! dont ask dum questions and once u guys have kinda talked for a while ask her for her number girls will usually text in front of guy or say something about cellphones if they want u to ask for there number but some girls dont give the hint so just say hey i gotta go but cani have ur number :) so there ya go good luck1!!How can i talk to girls?
thats being a pussy bro. if u knew some ';hot'; girls are interested why wouldnt u talk to them....just start a casual convo. start talking about the game or something. its not that hard.
Haha for ur info girls like it wen a guy comes up to her and starts talkin to her as long as its not in like a weird freaky way keep ur eyes on her face but dont make it seem weird act calm not cool inless its natural ! dont ask dum questions and once u guys have kinda talked for a while ask her for her number girls will usually text in front of guy or say something about cellphones if they want u to ask for there number but some girls dont give the hint so just say hey i gotta go but cani have ur number :) so there ya go good luck1!!How can i talk to girls?
thats being a pussy bro. if u knew some ';hot'; girls are interested why wouldnt u talk to them....just start a casual convo. start talking about the game or something. its not that hard.
How do I hook up with girls in high school?
Okay, I have plenty of friends that can be my wingman. What we want to do, is walk up to some girls talking to each other during lunch or break, and become friends and possibly get them as a girlfriend. Our appearence isn't ';WOW'; but we're not bad looking, we're average joes. Anyway, what do we say? Like, we walk up to them, I want to say something, make them laugh, and some how start talking and get their digits. Catch my drift? So, any ideas?How do I hook up with girls in high school?
say something funny (but not mean-hearted) about a well known teacher at your school, or something about the school you know they would get. maybe ask them if they know about the secrets of your school and offer to show them or something. have a sense of humor about it, and smile! =DHow do I hook up with girls in high school?
sit next to them, but don't have a conversation. Get them interested in what you are doing. There is this hilarious website called www.fmylife.com or www.mylifeisaverage.com, they are quite funny, and if you go on it and laugh they might become interested.
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Tell them, ';Hey! Are you interested in guys who ask for tips about getting girls on Yahoo! Answers?';
say something funny (but not mean-hearted) about a well known teacher at your school, or something about the school you know they would get. maybe ask them if they know about the secrets of your school and offer to show them or something. have a sense of humor about it, and smile! =DHow do I hook up with girls in high school?
sit next to them, but don't have a conversation. Get them interested in what you are doing. There is this hilarious website called www.fmylife.com or www.mylifeisaverage.com, they are quite funny, and if you go on it and laugh they might become interested.
INTERNET RULES!
Tell them, ';Hey! Are you interested in guys who ask for tips about getting girls on Yahoo! Answers?';
How can i gain confidents to talk to girls?
when i am next to a girl i like i just go silent or start saying stupid stuff to my mates and the girl thinks i am a right prat.
i am a geek sterotype and have really childish friends, but i can't really change friends can i, i just have to wait until they become mature.
i went on a trip with some really 'popular' people and it really shows what a prat i really am.
how can i get confidents to stop using stupidness as a defentive techique and try and get some better friends and meet girls?How can i gain confidents to talk to girls?
i used to have similair problems, couldnt ever look a gal i liked in the eye and always ended tlkin bout the weather. this was until one day when i was about sixteen, i stayed up allnite one nite before going to college. now sleep deprivation can cause sum strange thoughts and feelings and on this particular day it made me very hyper and i didnt care what anybody thought of it, i just went with it. throughout the day i met several different gals and because i wasnt bothered what they though of me i unintentionally came accross as quite a confident person and in the following days was asked out on a few dates. alas i already had a gf. however wot it had taught me is that gals, just like urself are worrying about what the opposite sex is thinkin of them and as a result worry less about the other person actin a bit foolish.
also its totally natural to act at least a little bit shy to begin with, generally the thrilly feelings u get when u first gettin together can be a bit breath taking at times. just dont worry about how u come across to other people and be urself. best and most trickiest advice ever.How can i gain confidents to talk to girls?
good after shave mate
pretend to be confident fist then eventually maybe you will be.
you seem like a real nice guy, i would date u lol. Yeah just odnt act stupid have a full on convo with a girl u like ask them how they are what they're doing at the weekend stuff like that + try makin them laugh
the more you talk to us girls the less embarassed you will feel and it sometimes over comes shyness
Aren't you gay?
i am a geek sterotype and have really childish friends, but i can't really change friends can i, i just have to wait until they become mature.
i went on a trip with some really 'popular' people and it really shows what a prat i really am.
how can i get confidents to stop using stupidness as a defentive techique and try and get some better friends and meet girls?How can i gain confidents to talk to girls?
i used to have similair problems, couldnt ever look a gal i liked in the eye and always ended tlkin bout the weather. this was until one day when i was about sixteen, i stayed up allnite one nite before going to college. now sleep deprivation can cause sum strange thoughts and feelings and on this particular day it made me very hyper and i didnt care what anybody thought of it, i just went with it. throughout the day i met several different gals and because i wasnt bothered what they though of me i unintentionally came accross as quite a confident person and in the following days was asked out on a few dates. alas i already had a gf. however wot it had taught me is that gals, just like urself are worrying about what the opposite sex is thinkin of them and as a result worry less about the other person actin a bit foolish.
also its totally natural to act at least a little bit shy to begin with, generally the thrilly feelings u get when u first gettin together can be a bit breath taking at times. just dont worry about how u come across to other people and be urself. best and most trickiest advice ever.How can i gain confidents to talk to girls?
good after shave mate
pretend to be confident fist then eventually maybe you will be.
you seem like a real nice guy, i would date u lol. Yeah just odnt act stupid have a full on convo with a girl u like ask them how they are what they're doing at the weekend stuff like that + try makin them laugh
the more you talk to us girls the less embarassed you will feel and it sometimes over comes shyness
Aren't you gay?
How to get girls and guys to talk to me ?
I'm 14 and i would like lots of girls to talk to me. Like there are some girls who do but i really want hot ones to talk to me to. I also have a little git of trouble on talking to guys that i want to be friends with. So what should i do here?How to get girls and guys to talk to me ?
The Courage come from within. Usually the hardest part is getting the courage to talk but once you do -Trust Me- It gets way easier. Sometimes to make friends you just have to get over your fears what ever they may be. Like getting caught up in your words or being embarrassed but the Truth is that there is nothing to be afraid of or worried about. Walk up to them, ask them a normal question like what they think about a certain teacher or something and then if they don't blow you off, Introduce yourself. You would seem very nice.
I hope it helps
Oh yeah, and hot girls, don't be so quick to judge, open up to other girls that aren't so attractive too. Then the other ';hot'; girls might think your nice and sensitive ((because thats how a lot of them think)How to get girls and guys to talk to me ?
do nothing because if u try to change yourself for other people to like u then u wont like yourself believe me
well you what sometimes the UGLY girls are the one with the best personality. Stop pushing for HOT girls. All right?! You are too young for a girlfriend. Im 16 and im not pushing. Just wait. and for the guys
just go up to them and say HEY wassup dawg..
well,just like talk to everyone and say hey or something make everyone laugh which is sexy so then the hot girls will like your sexy way of being funny and stuff.lol.
Well to start try being more outgoing or friendly. Smile more and laugh a lot. seem like your having a lot of fun with the people your with and others will want to join you so they can have fun too! maybe dress nicely too and be polite.ALSO if you want girls.. be funny.. you can get ANY girl if your funny, we just love guys that can make us laugh and feel confortable
The Courage come from within. Usually the hardest part is getting the courage to talk but once you do -Trust Me- It gets way easier. Sometimes to make friends you just have to get over your fears what ever they may be. Like getting caught up in your words or being embarrassed but the Truth is that there is nothing to be afraid of or worried about. Walk up to them, ask them a normal question like what they think about a certain teacher or something and then if they don't blow you off, Introduce yourself. You would seem very nice.
I hope it helps
Oh yeah, and hot girls, don't be so quick to judge, open up to other girls that aren't so attractive too. Then the other ';hot'; girls might think your nice and sensitive ((because thats how a lot of them think)How to get girls and guys to talk to me ?
do nothing because if u try to change yourself for other people to like u then u wont like yourself believe me
well you what sometimes the UGLY girls are the one with the best personality. Stop pushing for HOT girls. All right?! You are too young for a girlfriend. Im 16 and im not pushing. Just wait. and for the guys
just go up to them and say HEY wassup dawg..
well,just like talk to everyone and say hey or something make everyone laugh which is sexy so then the hot girls will like your sexy way of being funny and stuff.lol.
Well to start try being more outgoing or friendly. Smile more and laugh a lot. seem like your having a lot of fun with the people your with and others will want to join you so they can have fun too! maybe dress nicely too and be polite.ALSO if you want girls.. be funny.. you can get ANY girl if your funny, we just love guys that can make us laugh and feel confortable
Why cant i talk to girls?
i am a 17 year old senior in high school and i havent had a gf sence my freshmen year. i think that mostly it is cuz of me not being able to talk to girls. i can talk to girls but not the beautiful ones lol i talk a lot to ppl i know but i am shy when first meeting someone witch i think is why i have been havin trouble gettin someone to be with.
but what i want to know is how can i bring up my confidence with girls when first meeting them.Why cant i talk to girls?
Just try to stay calm, when your gonna talk to them, its really not that hard, just talk about anything that can start a conversation.
You will grow out of shyness thoWhy cant i talk to girls?
no.. it's not that..
it's just because..
u havent found
the one for u yet..!!
just keep waiting..!!
Seize what is yours, you only live once.
but what i want to know is how can i bring up my confidence with girls when first meeting them.Why cant i talk to girls?
Just try to stay calm, when your gonna talk to them, its really not that hard, just talk about anything that can start a conversation.
You will grow out of shyness thoWhy cant i talk to girls?
no.. it's not that..
it's just because..
u havent found
the one for u yet..!!
just keep waiting..!!
Seize what is yours, you only live once.
How do u talk to girls?
i have a serious problems with talking to girls! when i sit next to one, i feel anxious. i hate that feeling! i dont even know what girls are interested in. i understand the small talk part, but i dont like small talk. im unormal, so i dont do things that others do, so i cant relate! i dont have enough people skills, especially with girls. thanx!How do u talk to girls?
um well when guys talk to me, they usually say something funny or normal like yesterday
some stranger came up to me and said ';what are you listening to?'; (i had my ipod on) next thing you know we were talking to each other
or just say something random, if you notice a girl with a band shirt on be like ';oh I like that band or never heard of em'; something! anything!
How do u talk to girls?
well First of all.. dont worry about... it will be on its time...
dont be nervouse. just be like hello//
a simple hello is price less.. or just smile at her..
if u want to say something.. just say something that is infront.. or say ur bag is cool... very awesome
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
david deangelo will change your life.
well i usually make my voice box vibrate, thus making noise, then i move my mouth tongue and change pitch to make sounds that are understood as words.
hope this helps.
Music is a good broad topic and most of us love it. It makes for familiar conversation. Ask them about themselves.People like to talk about themselves usually,and will be alot more receptive too, in one on one conversation, rather than in group's. Its O.k to dance to a different drummer,so do I and I'd rather have a diverse character than be like everyone else.Its what makes you unique. It'll get better...... promise :)
Do you have sisters? Do you have a communication with your mother? Hey you are sort of talking to me and I'm a girl. We are not aliens or china dolls, pretend we are a shop assistant or cousin. Find us as human before you try for the girlfriend thing.
Ps. the nice ones aren't the attention seekers.
um well when guys talk to me, they usually say something funny or normal like yesterday
some stranger came up to me and said ';what are you listening to?'; (i had my ipod on) next thing you know we were talking to each other
or just say something random, if you notice a girl with a band shirt on be like ';oh I like that band or never heard of em'; something! anything!
How do u talk to girls?
well First of all.. dont worry about... it will be on its time...
dont be nervouse. just be like hello//
a simple hello is price less.. or just smile at her..
if u want to say something.. just say something that is infront.. or say ur bag is cool... very awesome
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
david deangelo will change your life.
well i usually make my voice box vibrate, thus making noise, then i move my mouth tongue and change pitch to make sounds that are understood as words.
hope this helps.
Music is a good broad topic and most of us love it. It makes for familiar conversation. Ask them about themselves.People like to talk about themselves usually,and will be alot more receptive too, in one on one conversation, rather than in group's. Its O.k to dance to a different drummer,so do I and I'd rather have a diverse character than be like everyone else.Its what makes you unique. It'll get better...... promise :)
Do you have sisters? Do you have a communication with your mother? Hey you are sort of talking to me and I'm a girl. We are not aliens or china dolls, pretend we are a shop assistant or cousin. Find us as human before you try for the girlfriend thing.
Ps. the nice ones aren't the attention seekers.
I get really jelous when girls talk to my boyfriend. what can i do?
Everyone can tell she likes him,but he is to shy to say anything to her about him not liking her. i dont think he knows how much so annoys me by flirting with him help...?I get really jelous when girls talk to my boyfriend. what can i do?
Get a self esteem girl. damn you are being pathetic. I know I will get thumbs down but guys/men hate jealous girls it is so unattractive.I get really jelous when girls talk to my boyfriend. what can i do?
share you feelings and if he love you he will hold back
What? Can you rephrase this?
You can tell her that it bothers you.
1. Anger management
2. Mood stabilizing drugs.
let her do it you go find somebody to flirt with and leave this grl alone
Maybe you should have a conversation with your boyfriend.
grow up !!!!
tell him how you feel bout everything an see how he takes it
tell her to back off or you'll kick her butt (Can you do that?-Kick her butt?)
Tell the girl you'll kick her face in if she keeps on flirting with your guy..
You'll either get into a fight .. or she'll back down. !
ugh! im in the same situation but the girl that is doing the flirting is an ex! so it makes things worse.. i say we both need to talk to our partners!
How about you take over.
You tell her you dont like her all up on your bf.
So back off, or you'll make her back off.
I feel you, im the same way. I know its wrong but I cant help it, if a girl tries flirting with my man...shes about to get hit lol
Let him be! trust your bf and mention in conversation that you think something is up with that girl the same way you would talk to a regular friend. If you act to agressive he will think you are just being jealous. It is all about approach.
First of all I would say to get over your insecurity. Talk to your bf about this and let him know how you feel. If he really cares for you, then he will tell those girls he's not interested.
tell him how you feel ...and i been there i told the chick to back off cause she was like all over my bf. so ya tell him you dont like it.
If you trust him there's nothing she can do so why get yourself upset.
Jealousy comes from lack of self-esteem and from being insecure.
If you know he cares for you.....don't sweat it.
Well... Tell him if he won't you will ! and if he didn't do it after that you do tell her that he only likes her as a friend not that way!
Just tell him how you felt...when you explain it to him, use yourself as an example. Put him in your shoes, he'll understand.
I think you should keep in mind that he's with YOU, not her, and just feel lucky that you have such a great catch that other girls want but can't have.
If thinking that way still doesn't help, you should either ask your boyfriend to try to avoid this girl, or ask her kindly to step away. If she doesnt.....then I guess you have a problem.
The problem is with you not him. You need to build up your self confidence,know how fabulous you are inside and out,then when some girl talks to your boyfriend it won't bother you. Oh and p.s being all possessive is how to lose a guy in 10 days.
he flirts with him?
Either he is gay or you are in the 5th grade.
Maybe you should tell her NICELY that you are his girl friend and you would really appreciate it if she wasnt all over your boy like that.
If someone is flirting with your man, you should definately speak up! Thats disrespectful on so many levels. Tell her whats on your mind and tell him to grow up and let her know your uncomfortable with it. I know i would, maybe its the puerto rican chica in me. lol
Have you ever heard of the saying look but don't touch? the only thing she's doing is window shopping I think that you have nothing to worry about if some girl likes your boyfriend or not tell her to back off so she can get the big picture to leave him alone.
Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A Date With You online.
A huge dating service - thousands of members (like me and some friends) looking for friends, marriage, even bible-study.
The site has a searchable emails, chatrooms, and more.
Check it from the source and Find New Friends http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-UfzxIps7fqDGlZCnXAWp_H4due5d?tag=fndfrndprint out the mistakes
Get a self esteem girl. damn you are being pathetic. I know I will get thumbs down but guys/men hate jealous girls it is so unattractive.I get really jelous when girls talk to my boyfriend. what can i do?
share you feelings and if he love you he will hold back
What? Can you rephrase this?
You can tell her that it bothers you.
1. Anger management
2. Mood stabilizing drugs.
let her do it you go find somebody to flirt with and leave this grl alone
Maybe you should have a conversation with your boyfriend.
grow up !!!!
tell him how you feel bout everything an see how he takes it
tell her to back off or you'll kick her butt (Can you do that?-Kick her butt?)
Tell the girl you'll kick her face in if she keeps on flirting with your guy..
You'll either get into a fight .. or she'll back down. !
ugh! im in the same situation but the girl that is doing the flirting is an ex! so it makes things worse.. i say we both need to talk to our partners!
How about you take over.
You tell her you dont like her all up on your bf.
So back off, or you'll make her back off.
I feel you, im the same way. I know its wrong but I cant help it, if a girl tries flirting with my man...shes about to get hit lol
Let him be! trust your bf and mention in conversation that you think something is up with that girl the same way you would talk to a regular friend. If you act to agressive he will think you are just being jealous. It is all about approach.
First of all I would say to get over your insecurity. Talk to your bf about this and let him know how you feel. If he really cares for you, then he will tell those girls he's not interested.
tell him how you feel ...and i been there i told the chick to back off cause she was like all over my bf. so ya tell him you dont like it.
If you trust him there's nothing she can do so why get yourself upset.
Jealousy comes from lack of self-esteem and from being insecure.
If you know he cares for you.....don't sweat it.
Well... Tell him if he won't you will ! and if he didn't do it after that you do tell her that he only likes her as a friend not that way!
Just tell him how you felt...when you explain it to him, use yourself as an example. Put him in your shoes, he'll understand.
I think you should keep in mind that he's with YOU, not her, and just feel lucky that you have such a great catch that other girls want but can't have.
If thinking that way still doesn't help, you should either ask your boyfriend to try to avoid this girl, or ask her kindly to step away. If she doesnt.....then I guess you have a problem.
The problem is with you not him. You need to build up your self confidence,know how fabulous you are inside and out,then when some girl talks to your boyfriend it won't bother you. Oh and p.s being all possessive is how to lose a guy in 10 days.
he flirts with him?
Either he is gay or you are in the 5th grade.
Maybe you should tell her NICELY that you are his girl friend and you would really appreciate it if she wasnt all over your boy like that.
If someone is flirting with your man, you should definately speak up! Thats disrespectful on so many levels. Tell her whats on your mind and tell him to grow up and let her know your uncomfortable with it. I know i would, maybe its the puerto rican chica in me. lol
Have you ever heard of the saying look but don't touch? the only thing she's doing is window shopping I think that you have nothing to worry about if some girl likes your boyfriend or not tell her to back off so she can get the big picture to leave him alone.
Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A Date With You online.
A huge dating service - thousands of members (like me and some friends) looking for friends, marriage, even bible-study.
The site has a searchable emails, chatrooms, and more.
Check it from the source and Find New Friends http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-UfzxIps7fqDGlZCnXAWp_H4due5d?tag=fndfrnd
I need help with getting a girlfriend. Any tips of how to talk to girls that aren't ';gaudy';?
Need quicklyI need help with getting a girlfriend. Any tips of how to talk to girls that aren't ';gaudy';?
Yes. By finding them first and then talking to them. I hope that everything works out for the best.
Yes. By finding them first and then talking to them. I hope that everything works out for the best.
How to talk to girls?
I like this girl at school but i don't know how to start and have a conversation with her.
What do i say to get a good conversation going? Do i just walk up to her and start talking?
Thanks.
How to talk to girls?
A locked jaw is usually due to stress, anxiety and so forth. You have to relax.
Find something really common to talk about, like the presidental election, rock bands...I dunnno....How to talk to girls?
Basically, if you want to talk to her then give her a casual smile or wave- then walk up to her and say ';hello';. Once the conversation is started just think of interesting topics that can keep it going.
Good Luck :D
you can start by saying ';hello'; or ';hi, how are you'; and maybe you can introduce yourself and strike up a conversation. you can ask her about class, how she likes the subjects and then you can start from there.
be confident, and just talk about the weather or somthing happening in class, keep it causal. and dont be shy or akward cause youll make her feel unconfortable. good luckk
They question that has plagued man since the dawn of time. Every guy has gone through it and its perfectly normal. I would say a simple smile and a hi would do fine.
I also would suggest learning about venetian arts. I used to be the fat unpopular kid in school and now I can basically get with virtually any woman I please. Go to youtube and yahoo and look up The Mystery Method (it was created by a guy named Mystery who teachs guys how to become a pick up artist) and what he explains and teachs makes complete sense and it seriously works.
I hope this helps you out.
Use the good old fashioned 'bump' method! Just stand behind her in a group of people in a corridor, and then pretend you've been pushed/squashed, and bump into her. Just start a conversation gradually after the initial laughing - never goes wrong. At least on me...
always start with a complement. then ask her about a movie she has seen that you have seen to get started. ask her hows life going and problems and see if you can help
then tell her about your self like sport and stuff and it should pick up from there and try to avoid long awkward silentses
What do i say to get a good conversation going? Do i just walk up to her and start talking?
Thanks.
How to talk to girls?
A locked jaw is usually due to stress, anxiety and so forth. You have to relax.
Find something really common to talk about, like the presidental election, rock bands...I dunnno....How to talk to girls?
Basically, if you want to talk to her then give her a casual smile or wave- then walk up to her and say ';hello';. Once the conversation is started just think of interesting topics that can keep it going.
Good Luck :D
you can start by saying ';hello'; or ';hi, how are you'; and maybe you can introduce yourself and strike up a conversation. you can ask her about class, how she likes the subjects and then you can start from there.
be confident, and just talk about the weather or somthing happening in class, keep it causal. and dont be shy or akward cause youll make her feel unconfortable. good luckk
They question that has plagued man since the dawn of time. Every guy has gone through it and its perfectly normal. I would say a simple smile and a hi would do fine.
I also would suggest learning about venetian arts. I used to be the fat unpopular kid in school and now I can basically get with virtually any woman I please. Go to youtube and yahoo and look up The Mystery Method (it was created by a guy named Mystery who teachs guys how to become a pick up artist) and what he explains and teachs makes complete sense and it seriously works.
I hope this helps you out.
Use the good old fashioned 'bump' method! Just stand behind her in a group of people in a corridor, and then pretend you've been pushed/squashed, and bump into her. Just start a conversation gradually after the initial laughing - never goes wrong. At least on me...
always start with a complement. then ask her about a movie she has seen that you have seen to get started. ask her hows life going and problems and see if you can help
then tell her about your self like sport and stuff and it should pick up from there and try to avoid long awkward silentses
How can i talk to girls without having a nervous breakdown?
I want be confident and know how to ';break the ice'; with girls, you know, get to know them (or her) and all that? Thank You!How can i talk to girls without having a nervous breakdown?
i had the same problem to. what i found works the best is to start a conversation about something the girl(s) like. then just sit back and listen. youll have to say something occasinally, but it wont be that often, cause most girls can talk FOREVER.How can i talk to girls without having a nervous breakdown?
Just pretend like they are one of the guys. You know how you talk to guys about similar interests and you base your friends off of how alike they are to you? Well, it's similar to girls. So when you talk to them, just say hey, how are you doing? What did you do this past weekend? Oh, yeah? I didn't know you were interested in that. Etc.
start with introducing yourself and let them do the rest.(most girls are good with conversations.)
pretend you know what you are talking about!
be as calm as possible just be yourself if you feel a little nervous just tell her most of the time we get nervous too so take a few breaths and let all your anxiety out email me and i can ive you even more tips
ashleyxoxo4ever@yahoo.com
Just be yourself...Always be yourself...Within limits...Okay?
wow just act yourself and if this girl likes you then theres not going to be a problem i hope you talk to her and something good comes out of it.... oh and its ok to be nervous its normal dont panic i know its hard but yeah your going to do it some day so just talk to her and i mean after you do it your going to feel so much better so yeah just go for it
Girls really like to laugh and they like a guy that can make them laugh and feel good about themselves. Girls like to be complemented on their hair and clothing and told that they smell nice. But make sure it is genuine when you give them a compliment. Practice in front of a mirror. Try to learn some funny stories to tell them but not dirty jokes. Let them know that you are interested in them. Dress to please them and make sure your fingernails are clean and clean hair and that you have a good smell . Ask and observe others that are succesfull in getting girls and get them to give you some tip and suggestions. Good huntin.
just be urself around us. we like it when you are interested in what we have to say %26amp; can make a comment about it
I used to feel very shy with guys. But then i got to know many guys as friends and i understand them better and realised they are not that scary at all. Now i feel so comfortable with them. So the key is, get to know girls better through experience, and you will find out that they are not that scary. And your problems will be gone. You cal always start of by chatting online with your girlfriends or girls whom you wish to know better.
ok whatever you do do not say cheezy pick up lines like wel cant think of anything rite now but i know i hate when a guy does it
act interested in things that they seem to be interested in, perhaps it is sports, or shopping at malls, or perhaps it is a certain educational thing, like the library, or cars, or horses, or dogs. Talk to them about those things, and tell them about yourself if they seem interested. Communicate with them and act like you know what you are talking about even if you do not. Good luck and don't worry it comes natural after a while.
i had the same problem to. what i found works the best is to start a conversation about something the girl(s) like. then just sit back and listen. youll have to say something occasinally, but it wont be that often, cause most girls can talk FOREVER.How can i talk to girls without having a nervous breakdown?
Just pretend like they are one of the guys. You know how you talk to guys about similar interests and you base your friends off of how alike they are to you? Well, it's similar to girls. So when you talk to them, just say hey, how are you doing? What did you do this past weekend? Oh, yeah? I didn't know you were interested in that. Etc.
start with introducing yourself and let them do the rest.(most girls are good with conversations.)
pretend you know what you are talking about!
be as calm as possible just be yourself if you feel a little nervous just tell her most of the time we get nervous too so take a few breaths and let all your anxiety out email me and i can ive you even more tips
ashleyxoxo4ever@yahoo.com
Just be yourself...Always be yourself...Within limits...Okay?
wow just act yourself and if this girl likes you then theres not going to be a problem i hope you talk to her and something good comes out of it.... oh and its ok to be nervous its normal dont panic i know its hard but yeah your going to do it some day so just talk to her and i mean after you do it your going to feel so much better so yeah just go for it
Girls really like to laugh and they like a guy that can make them laugh and feel good about themselves. Girls like to be complemented on their hair and clothing and told that they smell nice. But make sure it is genuine when you give them a compliment. Practice in front of a mirror. Try to learn some funny stories to tell them but not dirty jokes. Let them know that you are interested in them. Dress to please them and make sure your fingernails are clean and clean hair and that you have a good smell . Ask and observe others that are succesfull in getting girls and get them to give you some tip and suggestions. Good huntin.
just be urself around us. we like it when you are interested in what we have to say %26amp; can make a comment about it
I used to feel very shy with guys. But then i got to know many guys as friends and i understand them better and realised they are not that scary at all. Now i feel so comfortable with them. So the key is, get to know girls better through experience, and you will find out that they are not that scary. And your problems will be gone. You cal always start of by chatting online with your girlfriends or girls whom you wish to know better.
ok whatever you do do not say cheezy pick up lines like wel cant think of anything rite now but i know i hate when a guy does it
act interested in things that they seem to be interested in, perhaps it is sports, or shopping at malls, or perhaps it is a certain educational thing, like the library, or cars, or horses, or dogs. Talk to them about those things, and tell them about yourself if they seem interested. Communicate with them and act like you know what you are talking about even if you do not. Good luck and don't worry it comes natural after a while.
How to talk to girls? read description?
Now, don't just go ahead and say that I should be myself because, honestly? If I do that I have no idea what to talk about then. So here's the point. Give me some advice and not the obvious stuff. About as far a conversation I can get with a girl is ';hi'; ';hi'; ';i've never seen you before? have i?'; ';no, you havent, I'm john by the way'; ';cool, cool, im (name)'; an then the conversation dies out. heeellllelelllp meHow to talk to girls? read description?
hey i think i know you, like honesly. but anyways here is the advise:
ok, maybe this is corny but just copy what otheer dudes do, and make it better or diff. that way ur not dull. and some ppl have to work at it, and some ppl its soo easy so just do that for now, and ideas will form later, and write them down lol!How to talk to girls? read description?
Talk to them by doing some sports or stuffs with them like in school.
hey i think i know you, like honesly. but anyways here is the advise:
ok, maybe this is corny but just copy what otheer dudes do, and make it better or diff. that way ur not dull. and some ppl have to work at it, and some ppl its soo easy so just do that for now, and ideas will form later, and write them down lol!How to talk to girls? read description?
Talk to them by doing some sports or stuffs with them like in school.
C&a: does it annoy you if girls talk like they're a child?
Ha, sorry. Wrong category, but I like talking to you all so much more %26gt;.%26lt; 'Nyways, I have this problem of when I enunciate things, stress syllables, etc. when I talk. It's sort of like talking to a six year old I guess, but with a wider range of vocabulary. I really want to change how I talk because almost no one thinks of me seriously and whenever I'm trying to have an important conversation they're all ';...awww o.o you're like a baby!'; and I'm like ';....%26gt;.%26gt; piss off.'; So, my final question is, is it annoying? If so, any opinions on how I can change?
p.s. I've always talked like that...%26gt;.%26gt;....C%26amp;a: does it annoy you if girls talk like they're a child?
No it doesnt annoy me at all! Infact I sometimes talk like that and people never take me seriously! They are just like:HAHA YEAH WHAT YOU SAID! THAT WAS ADORABLE! And Im like NO! I WAS TRYING TO MAKE A POINT HERE! then people will start laughing! Not only that but Im 18 and only 4'11 feet tall, so that may have something to do with it as well....
But there isnt anything wrong with talking like that, as long as your not like ';teehee that shirt is super kawai!'; Then its alright. I think its cute when people talk like that, you shouldnt change just because some people tell you to. Your voice is basically unique, you dont have to change it just to impress other people. Plus I think its cool when people are great at enunciating words and stuff and it may actually help later in life, you never know.
:-PC%26amp;a: does it annoy you if girls talk like they're a child?
um...well theres a guy in my class that talks like hes like 5 and he fools around and thinks he's funny but if your just talking like a child and not doing like silly stuff no its not annoying
Nope it's not annoying when people talk like that. My cousin talks like that. It doesn't matter how someone talks I'll listen to the words and not how someone says it and take them seriously. :)
You shouldn't have to change how you talk just for some people. That's just my opinion on it.
if you naturally talk like that then i dont find anything wrong with it.
its actually really cute%26gt;w%26lt;!!
ehehehe srry i guess im like those ';awwww'; ppl XD!
dont try to change ur voice be yourself,
and if you want ppl to take you more serious,
then talk with a serious/[angry?] look,
although that might make them want to squeeze you with hugs XD!
%26gt;.%26lt;
^^
Pssssshhh.......NOOoooOOOOO....
XDD
In fact....i talk like this...online~! =_____='''...It has became an addiction....see my writin' project? MOST of my mistakes are 'cause of my typin' habits~! =.=''''
Teacher:: Maya? What ish this? Youh said ';It ish'; instead of ';It is';...?
Meh:: O////////////O'''....Of crap~! %26gt;_%26lt;''''''''''
So....don' worry about it....i have the same problem...just in a different way~! :]
Imbrace your ';accents';~! XD
-have a nice day~! =D
truthfully does it really matter if you talked like that or want to change then just change and it your friends piss you off then just tell them to shut the **** up because thats how you talk. so i really don't know if this will help but well i answered anyways.
No, you don't need to change who you are, you just need to train in the deadly art of **** kicking and show em whose boss! A lot of people probably think the way you talk is cute... plus, like I said, it's just who you are. I wouldn't find it annoying, personally. But, if you really feel like it's affecting how people take you, then I'm sure it would be easy to change with some kind of speech therapy, online or otherwise. I needed that for my tongue thrust, which caused a lisp which I've had forever. *3*
I actually find it kind of cute. Sure they may be a line where they cross over it just a little bit. But I can handle most enunciations as long as they aren't always monolect...mono-- well, I can't spell the word, but I truely don't mind at all.
If they sound that way, then they sound that way, nothing one can do to change it.
Not at all, but I might mistakenly think that you're talking in a little kids way on purpose that's what I honestly think I don't just wanna be nice and say what everyone else is saying you know, and a lot of people have related problems like me, I have a very deep voice and a lot of people mention it but I'm cool with it.
Haha
Bring on the thumbs downs.
Yes, it seriously does.
I don't even have a reason. It just annoys the living crap out of me.
Some people get annoyed by scratching styrofoam, I get annoyed by people's ';cute'; quirks.
You're like my sister, but she changed as soon as she met older people at my college and her first loving boyfriend. Anyhow, she doesn't like to be around with others that annoy her. So, she's matured to what she is now.
Well for the most part, just reading it and imagining how you would speak like that does annoy me. I don't really like cute things.
Well, if you listen to a lot of negative thoughts, you're bound to get influenced to change. You'll change if you want, but it comes slow. If you don't, you're just going to be the same by talking how you usually talk.
Nope, doesn't annoy me at all, in fact it's really cute =D
But I understand what you mean. I personally don't talk like that, but my voice is naturally high. -.-' I'm always suprized at HOW high it is when I'm being recorded or something and I hear it played back. I guess if you're like me AND you talk really cute, people don't really take you seriously. Which is really frustrating and annoying.
It's not annoying to me and probably your other friends, but yeah it'll eventually become annoying to you how other people treat you. You don't have to change though, unless you want to.
And if you do, I guess try to be really serious? Like w/ correct grammar and no slang. It'll make you concentrate on what you're saying and at the same time you can't try to stop talking cute =P
Heya~.
No, it doesn't annoy me, unless they are purposely trying to sound like a baby saying the word ';kawaii'; or ';ne'; in every friggin' sentence. Not that I've met someone who actually does that. But if it's not, no; on the contrary, I find it rather cute. But I know how it makes people feel a little embarrassed, especially boys, so I tend to not say what I think about their voice. Some people get annoyed because they think that the person is forcing it, but hey, what can you do, you know? It's not like you wanted your voice to be that way.
But, anyway, I understand how you feel in some way. I have really small hands, I'm always the shortest in my group of friends, although the oldest, and people say I look like a 11/12-year-old, when I'm actually a 15-year-old - not to mention going 16 soon %26amp; I tend to act older then my age. I can't tell you how annoying it is when they go all ';aww'; on me or when they say I look like a 11-year-old, especially.. !!!
But I've realized that only time will change that so now I can't be bothered to care about what they say. Okay, maybe just a little. :P Anyway, the result of trying to force yourself to not have that ';six-year-old voice'; is ultimately futile. So just be yourself and when people go ';aww'; on you, just ignore it; you'll live. Just remember: your voice will change as you grow.
Ganbatte kudasai, 'â„“aâ„“aâ„“aa'-san!
it bugs me alto because it's like oh you think your a wee bady hun? butt then you have like a millon boys fowlling you like min dogs i can not stand those girls they need to get a freaking life!
lol dont worry xD sometimes im like that, my tone of voice can be really serious most of the time but when I feel like playing I sound like a baby xP dnt worry, i like the way you talk its silly and cute xD
xD dnt worry about it you dont need to change, I mean there are more serious cases
like freakish, yah look at her typn e.e xD but smtyms I talk like the way I type which is pretty messy and like mah stalker sis =.= I also say ';ish'; alot XD
p.s. I've always talked like that...%26gt;.%26gt;....C%26amp;a: does it annoy you if girls talk like they're a child?
No it doesnt annoy me at all! Infact I sometimes talk like that and people never take me seriously! They are just like:HAHA YEAH WHAT YOU SAID! THAT WAS ADORABLE! And Im like NO! I WAS TRYING TO MAKE A POINT HERE! then people will start laughing! Not only that but Im 18 and only 4'11 feet tall, so that may have something to do with it as well....
But there isnt anything wrong with talking like that, as long as your not like ';teehee that shirt is super kawai!'; Then its alright. I think its cute when people talk like that, you shouldnt change just because some people tell you to. Your voice is basically unique, you dont have to change it just to impress other people. Plus I think its cool when people are great at enunciating words and stuff and it may actually help later in life, you never know.
:-PC%26amp;a: does it annoy you if girls talk like they're a child?
um...well theres a guy in my class that talks like hes like 5 and he fools around and thinks he's funny but if your just talking like a child and not doing like silly stuff no its not annoying
Nope it's not annoying when people talk like that. My cousin talks like that. It doesn't matter how someone talks I'll listen to the words and not how someone says it and take them seriously. :)
You shouldn't have to change how you talk just for some people. That's just my opinion on it.
if you naturally talk like that then i dont find anything wrong with it.
its actually really cute%26gt;w%26lt;!!
ehehehe srry i guess im like those ';awwww'; ppl XD!
dont try to change ur voice be yourself,
and if you want ppl to take you more serious,
then talk with a serious/[angry?] look,
although that might make them want to squeeze you with hugs XD!
%26gt;.%26lt;
^^
Pssssshhh.......NOOoooOOOOO....
XDD
In fact....i talk like this...online~! =_____='''...It has became an addiction....see my writin' project? MOST of my mistakes are 'cause of my typin' habits~! =.=''''
Teacher:: Maya? What ish this? Youh said ';It ish'; instead of ';It is';...?
Meh:: O////////////O'''....Of crap~! %26gt;_%26lt;''''''''''
So....don' worry about it....i have the same problem...just in a different way~! :]
Imbrace your ';accents';~! XD
-have a nice day~! =D
truthfully does it really matter if you talked like that or want to change then just change and it your friends piss you off then just tell them to shut the **** up because thats how you talk. so i really don't know if this will help but well i answered anyways.
No, you don't need to change who you are, you just need to train in the deadly art of **** kicking and show em whose boss! A lot of people probably think the way you talk is cute... plus, like I said, it's just who you are. I wouldn't find it annoying, personally. But, if you really feel like it's affecting how people take you, then I'm sure it would be easy to change with some kind of speech therapy, online or otherwise. I needed that for my tongue thrust, which caused a lisp which I've had forever. *3*
I actually find it kind of cute. Sure they may be a line where they cross over it just a little bit. But I can handle most enunciations as long as they aren't always monolect...mono-- well, I can't spell the word, but I truely don't mind at all.
If they sound that way, then they sound that way, nothing one can do to change it.
Not at all, but I might mistakenly think that you're talking in a little kids way on purpose that's what I honestly think I don't just wanna be nice and say what everyone else is saying you know, and a lot of people have related problems like me, I have a very deep voice and a lot of people mention it but I'm cool with it.
Haha
Bring on the thumbs downs.
Yes, it seriously does.
I don't even have a reason. It just annoys the living crap out of me.
Some people get annoyed by scratching styrofoam, I get annoyed by people's ';cute'; quirks.
You're like my sister, but she changed as soon as she met older people at my college and her first loving boyfriend. Anyhow, she doesn't like to be around with others that annoy her. So, she's matured to what she is now.
Well for the most part, just reading it and imagining how you would speak like that does annoy me. I don't really like cute things.
Well, if you listen to a lot of negative thoughts, you're bound to get influenced to change. You'll change if you want, but it comes slow. If you don't, you're just going to be the same by talking how you usually talk.
Nope, doesn't annoy me at all, in fact it's really cute =D
But I understand what you mean. I personally don't talk like that, but my voice is naturally high. -.-' I'm always suprized at HOW high it is when I'm being recorded or something and I hear it played back. I guess if you're like me AND you talk really cute, people don't really take you seriously. Which is really frustrating and annoying.
It's not annoying to me and probably your other friends, but yeah it'll eventually become annoying to you how other people treat you. You don't have to change though, unless you want to.
And if you do, I guess try to be really serious? Like w/ correct grammar and no slang. It'll make you concentrate on what you're saying and at the same time you can't try to stop talking cute =P
Heya~.
No, it doesn't annoy me, unless they are purposely trying to sound like a baby saying the word ';kawaii'; or ';ne'; in every friggin' sentence. Not that I've met someone who actually does that. But if it's not, no; on the contrary, I find it rather cute. But I know how it makes people feel a little embarrassed, especially boys, so I tend to not say what I think about their voice. Some people get annoyed because they think that the person is forcing it, but hey, what can you do, you know? It's not like you wanted your voice to be that way.
But, anyway, I understand how you feel in some way. I have really small hands, I'm always the shortest in my group of friends, although the oldest, and people say I look like a 11/12-year-old, when I'm actually a 15-year-old - not to mention going 16 soon %26amp; I tend to act older then my age. I can't tell you how annoying it is when they go all ';aww'; on me or when they say I look like a 11-year-old, especially.. !!!
But I've realized that only time will change that so now I can't be bothered to care about what they say. Okay, maybe just a little. :P Anyway, the result of trying to force yourself to not have that ';six-year-old voice'; is ultimately futile. So just be yourself and when people go ';aww'; on you, just ignore it; you'll live. Just remember: your voice will change as you grow.
Ganbatte kudasai, 'â„“aâ„“aâ„“aa'-san!
it bugs me alto because it's like oh you think your a wee bady hun? butt then you have like a millon boys fowlling you like min dogs i can not stand those girls they need to get a freaking life!
lol dont worry xD sometimes im like that, my tone of voice can be really serious most of the time but when I feel like playing I sound like a baby xP dnt worry, i like the way you talk its silly and cute xD
xD dnt worry about it you dont need to change, I mean there are more serious cases
like freakish, yah look at her typn e.e xD but smtyms I talk like the way I type which is pretty messy and like mah stalker sis =.= I also say ';ish'; alot XD
How come it is easy to talk to guys but not girls and talking to girls feels different?
I'm a guy and making friends with guys was always easy, I would go and ask them what xbox or playstation games they played and that was it, they became my friends it was easy as that to get to know a guy and he was my friend. How come I never had the guts to start a conversation with ANY girls at all? Is it cuz I'm a coward and weak?
Is this abnormal? When a average looking girl is talking to me I get really nervous for no reason and I wanna stop the conversation with her cuz she might think I want her as a girlfriend. Do girls feel the same way talking to a average looking guy?How come it is easy to talk to guys but not girls and talking to girls feels different?
Perfectly normal
Part of you is always thinking is this going to be a girl friend.
Identify a couple girls that may have interest that you have and promise herself that no matter what they say/do you will not date the girl - that you will be a friend.How come it is easy to talk to guys but not girls and talking to girls feels different?
sometimes, depends on how shy/comfortable they are around guyz, me for xample , im fine around guyz wether i like thwm or no, but hen again im a tomboy/sk8r
Is this abnormal? When a average looking girl is talking to me I get really nervous for no reason and I wanna stop the conversation with her cuz she might think I want her as a girlfriend. Do girls feel the same way talking to a average looking guy?How come it is easy to talk to guys but not girls and talking to girls feels different?
Perfectly normal
Part of you is always thinking is this going to be a girl friend.
Identify a couple girls that may have interest that you have and promise herself that no matter what they say/do you will not date the girl - that you will be a friend.How come it is easy to talk to guys but not girls and talking to girls feels different?
sometimes, depends on how shy/comfortable they are around guyz, me for xample , im fine around guyz wether i like thwm or no, but hen again im a tomboy/sk8r
How can i talk to girls by looking at her eyes?
i ve very big eyes i feel very ashamed of myself to look at the girls with my big eyes and now have to talk with girls becoz its a instituition..plz help meHow can i talk to girls by looking at her eyes?
big eyes r attractive...How can i talk to girls by looking at her eyes?
The best and only way to handle this situation is to tell yourself SCREW IT I am me and either accept me or stop wasting my time. You need to get your confidence up and once you accomplish that then you can talk to any girl you want. Honestly, it's mostly personality when you are trying to hook up with a girl. Be yourself, and stop criticizing yourself because there are some guys that are just plain ugly and they get some of the most beautiful women I see. So once you accept yourself then girls will be able to accept you as well.
Look at her with your big eyes and smile, if she smiles even in third day, take it guaranted the case is fit for further operation.
big eyes are not pricks.
you just forget you are having big eyes
think you are having attractive eyes and talk
you become what you think and feel
show good body language and what you talk should be interesting and useful. have confidence and talk.
beauty is within and not outwardly
Some girls like big eyes, and if you dont look at girls when you talk to them they wont respect you or will think something is wrong with you.
big eyes r attractive...How can i talk to girls by looking at her eyes?
The best and only way to handle this situation is to tell yourself SCREW IT I am me and either accept me or stop wasting my time. You need to get your confidence up and once you accomplish that then you can talk to any girl you want. Honestly, it's mostly personality when you are trying to hook up with a girl. Be yourself, and stop criticizing yourself because there are some guys that are just plain ugly and they get some of the most beautiful women I see. So once you accept yourself then girls will be able to accept you as well.
Look at her with your big eyes and smile, if she smiles even in third day, take it guaranted the case is fit for further operation.
big eyes are not pricks.
you just forget you are having big eyes
think you are having attractive eyes and talk
you become what you think and feel
show good body language and what you talk should be interesting and useful. have confidence and talk.
beauty is within and not outwardly
Some girls like big eyes, and if you dont look at girls when you talk to them they wont respect you or will think something is wrong with you.
How do you talk to girls that you have never met before?
So I was juggling the soccer ball and these two girls walk up - one of which looks attractive right away. I introduce myself with my name and where I am visiting from and other stuff and then they ask me if I wanted to go on a walk with them. I agreed and then I got stuck on what to talk about. We talked about our jobs, school, activities, and other stuff but there were moments of silence. What else can I do so I dont present myself as being shy or boring?How do you talk to girls that you have never met before?
A way to lighten things up and keep it interesting would be to go back over the conversation in your mind and find something you can make a light hearted jab about, for some fun debate. Of course you should let them be right in the end, women love that! But, the little fun jabs and debates also help turn it into flirting.
You are obviously already doing a great job since you were able to walk and talk with them to begin with.How do you talk to girls that you have never met before?
try not making everything about yourself, alot of girls hate that. ask them questions, even if the questions are pointless its a start right?
Talk about the weather. Talk about what you see.
I always liked the quiet ones.
Try saying jokes and making them laugh, girls like that!!=]
Places u have been, any cool stuff you have done. Politics depending on how old you are. Really anything that might be remotely interesting should do. Most likely they are in the same spot as you just trying to keep things moving :P
ask them on a date with u and maybe another of ur friend so that he can save u wen moments of silence occur again.....
it's okay to have some silence, I think people feel pressured all the time to fill that ';void';..sometimes just being close to someone is good. Eventually someone will think of something and go from there..heck you may even laugh about the silence. Don't fret so much.
Worse than shy or boring is being false and phony. People like to talk about themselves, so find ways to let them talk about themselves. It takes a lot of pressure off you!
Just act friendly, but it doesn't mean you have to be loud. Try asking them a couple questions like you're friendily-ishly interested, and also make jokes about things you've done, if it's relevant to the topic. But the most important thing is to be yourself, because nobody likes a faker. -nodnod-
A way to lighten things up and keep it interesting would be to go back over the conversation in your mind and find something you can make a light hearted jab about, for some fun debate. Of course you should let them be right in the end, women love that! But, the little fun jabs and debates also help turn it into flirting.
You are obviously already doing a great job since you were able to walk and talk with them to begin with.How do you talk to girls that you have never met before?
try not making everything about yourself, alot of girls hate that. ask them questions, even if the questions are pointless its a start right?
Talk about the weather. Talk about what you see.
I always liked the quiet ones.
Try saying jokes and making them laugh, girls like that!!=]
Places u have been, any cool stuff you have done. Politics depending on how old you are. Really anything that might be remotely interesting should do. Most likely they are in the same spot as you just trying to keep things moving :P
ask them on a date with u and maybe another of ur friend so that he can save u wen moments of silence occur again.....
it's okay to have some silence, I think people feel pressured all the time to fill that ';void';..sometimes just being close to someone is good. Eventually someone will think of something and go from there..heck you may even laugh about the silence. Don't fret so much.
Worse than shy or boring is being false and phony. People like to talk about themselves, so find ways to let them talk about themselves. It takes a lot of pressure off you!
Just act friendly, but it doesn't mean you have to be loud. Try asking them a couple questions like you're friendily-ishly interested, and also make jokes about things you've done, if it's relevant to the topic. But the most important thing is to be yourself, because nobody likes a faker. -nodnod-
Hey girls I need your help...girl talk?
Okay so my new boyfriend is a little on the big side down there (if you know what i mean) and we want to have sex, I am just really scared that its gonna hurt! I mean before the biggest guy I've had sex with was 5.5 inches long and Im not sure how big around and it hurt. My new boyfriend is 9 inches long and pretty thick. I am really scared its gonna hurt really bad! I mean I know you push babies through down there but I mean it's huge! I need to know how bad its gonna hurt or if it will.
Thanks girlsHey girls I need your help...girl talk?
uh.... lol haha well it will hurt either way. cuz u hadnt had sex for tat long after the break up right? 1st time will hurt, but gradually u'll get use to it :] and it will later on feel goodHey girls I need your help...girl talk?
it might hurt really bad at first but then u get used to it after a time or two
Don't worry too much about it. If you're calm and relaxed, you'll be fine. But if you are really scared just talk to your boyfriend about being gentle and slow, not too rough. :)
The rest of the ladies have pretty much covered it, but I disagree with one thing...I don't suggest feeling ';blessed'; to be with him. Maybe he is great in every way (how should I know) but I find that thinking things like that eventually makes you feel like you're not good enough...
I know that this probably seems completely off-topic, but just keep it in mind, k?
Good luck! I'm sure you'll be fine.
It wont be that bad really. My friend's ex had one that was as big as what you have described, she was freaked out too but he made sure she was 'moist' enough for penetration and comfortable every time they had sex. Your very expandable and being moist you'll definitely accommodate him eventually and get used to it. You have to make sure you are comfortable with him and he is gentle with you. Communicate throughout the whole thing and let him know exactly how you feel emotionally as well as physically. Once your into it, honey have fun!
just relax and love it.
feel blessed to be with him. youd be surprised how big they can get! just use LOTSSSS of foreplay to get really aroused
The guy I lost my virginity too is about that big if not bigger, I didn't even bleed, and it only hurt the first time. I think it really depends on you though, I'm pretty sure you should be fine.
have fun...
sounds like you are too young to be having sex, especially if you are worried about something like that!
Every sexual experience is different especially when your dealing with someone who is 9inch long and some women cant take it, me personally I would take a 9 any day but this isn't about me. I would suggest easing into the sexual experience with your boyfriend and have some fun with it by doing the four play thing, using a lubricant helps also to loosen your vaginal area up but just don't use too much cause it might get too messy. But the most important thing is to do it when your ready and if all else fails have some wine or champagne just to take some of the nervousness away and how ever you do it, be safe!
Hey if you are really scared.. let him know. That way he wouldn't go hard on you. Really you shouldn't worry about it. If you aren't a virgin it won't hurt as much as you think it will,
i personally dont think it is gonna hurt but i am used to a guy being pretty long and thick! I had the experience of having something happen with someone alot smaller and had no pleasure at all. If you think it might hurt you, use a little lube!
You shouldn't be too worried-
It's pretty stretchy..
Just it might feel good- or you might be kind of surprised..
It's not like you'd be breaking your hymen all over again.
Just tell him to take his time with you and not to be rough because you can not handle it. IMO - If he knows his stuff then you wont feel pain but pure pleasure. LOL
Thanks girlsHey girls I need your help...girl talk?
uh.... lol haha well it will hurt either way. cuz u hadnt had sex for tat long after the break up right? 1st time will hurt, but gradually u'll get use to it :] and it will later on feel goodHey girls I need your help...girl talk?
it might hurt really bad at first but then u get used to it after a time or two
Don't worry too much about it. If you're calm and relaxed, you'll be fine. But if you are really scared just talk to your boyfriend about being gentle and slow, not too rough. :)
The rest of the ladies have pretty much covered it, but I disagree with one thing...I don't suggest feeling ';blessed'; to be with him. Maybe he is great in every way (how should I know) but I find that thinking things like that eventually makes you feel like you're not good enough...
I know that this probably seems completely off-topic, but just keep it in mind, k?
Good luck! I'm sure you'll be fine.
It wont be that bad really. My friend's ex had one that was as big as what you have described, she was freaked out too but he made sure she was 'moist' enough for penetration and comfortable every time they had sex. Your very expandable and being moist you'll definitely accommodate him eventually and get used to it. You have to make sure you are comfortable with him and he is gentle with you. Communicate throughout the whole thing and let him know exactly how you feel emotionally as well as physically. Once your into it, honey have fun!
just relax and love it.
feel blessed to be with him. youd be surprised how big they can get! just use LOTSSSS of foreplay to get really aroused
The guy I lost my virginity too is about that big if not bigger, I didn't even bleed, and it only hurt the first time. I think it really depends on you though, I'm pretty sure you should be fine.
have fun...
sounds like you are too young to be having sex, especially if you are worried about something like that!
Every sexual experience is different especially when your dealing with someone who is 9inch long and some women cant take it, me personally I would take a 9 any day but this isn't about me. I would suggest easing into the sexual experience with your boyfriend and have some fun with it by doing the four play thing, using a lubricant helps also to loosen your vaginal area up but just don't use too much cause it might get too messy. But the most important thing is to do it when your ready and if all else fails have some wine or champagne just to take some of the nervousness away and how ever you do it, be safe!
Hey if you are really scared.. let him know. That way he wouldn't go hard on you. Really you shouldn't worry about it. If you aren't a virgin it won't hurt as much as you think it will,
i personally dont think it is gonna hurt but i am used to a guy being pretty long and thick! I had the experience of having something happen with someone alot smaller and had no pleasure at all. If you think it might hurt you, use a little lube!
You shouldn't be too worried-
It's pretty stretchy..
Just it might feel good- or you might be kind of surprised..
It's not like you'd be breaking your hymen all over again.
Just tell him to take his time with you and not to be rough because you can not handle it. IMO - If he knows his stuff then you wont feel pain but pure pleasure. LOL
How to talk to girls?
I'm a sophomore in high school. How can I get over my shyness with girls? Everytime I get in a situation to talk to a girl that I like, my mind goes blank and I don't know what to say, and I feel stupid. Any suggestions for overcoming shyness/nervousness?? ThanksHow to talk to girls?
This answer is not for getting over shyness but its for getting over your mind going blank.When you start talking start out by saying hey whats up or whats going on and like what are doing over the weekend.Also if your in school you can say do you have homework or whats your next class or what class did you just come from.You know something like that.After you have been talking for a few minutes just keep going and dont babble but talk enough.Just dont let there be silence just keep it going.Then it should just keep going until one of you have to go.Just dont be nervous if you are dont let them know it just start a conversation.Just keep it flowing.How to talk to girls?
well just talk
get some friends that are girls...so that you get comfortable being around them...once you are comfortable then you can talk to the girls you like
You have to make them feel comfortable. Don't stalk them or anything. Let them know who you are and what kind of person they are. They like to laugh a lot to, so make sure you keep them laughing.
You gotta be ';happening'; to get her attention, have something to say. Say ';man I have alot of homework';. Maybe she'll say ';me too';. Then ask if she wants to get together to do homework. Find a common ground then discuss anything from your life to a commercial on T.V you may have seen.
well you should first find a girl interested in your interests and then you should find a conversation to start with like (say she is interested in baseball like you) then say ';the ball you hit yesterday was a good hit'; then maybe she would say something back and a conversation could start
Yes, just take a deep breath and let it out normally!! You are getting all tensed up over nothing. Let them do the talking when you get like that. Say.......when your mind goes blank, ';Well, tell me what's going on at home with the folks, the brother, ......';-----
Remember, conversation is a two way street, you don't have to carry the load..................Have a different ';blank'; question to ask everyday to be prepared. LIke today when I go blank I will say..........Tell me about music you really like, or tell me about some movies you've seen that you really like.......... Stuff like that.............Soon it will be like second nature to you............
Just be yourself and don't worry about trying to impress them with conversation, let them impress YOU..........
to overcome this be yous slef.just say hi my name is.
Start reading the dozens of other questions - just like yours, every day out here and you won't need to ask.
hi im a girl and if u were to aproach me calm and easy going and chilled out that would be nice none of the chat up lines coz most girls find it rudde and it seems u say the same to different girls so its better u stay natural and sweet and sensitive hope that helped u can talk to me anytime:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.ukstay happy and calm
This answer is not for getting over shyness but its for getting over your mind going blank.When you start talking start out by saying hey whats up or whats going on and like what are doing over the weekend.Also if your in school you can say do you have homework or whats your next class or what class did you just come from.You know something like that.After you have been talking for a few minutes just keep going and dont babble but talk enough.Just dont let there be silence just keep it going.Then it should just keep going until one of you have to go.Just dont be nervous if you are dont let them know it just start a conversation.Just keep it flowing.How to talk to girls?
well just talk
get some friends that are girls...so that you get comfortable being around them...once you are comfortable then you can talk to the girls you like
You have to make them feel comfortable. Don't stalk them or anything. Let them know who you are and what kind of person they are. They like to laugh a lot to, so make sure you keep them laughing.
You gotta be ';happening'; to get her attention, have something to say. Say ';man I have alot of homework';. Maybe she'll say ';me too';. Then ask if she wants to get together to do homework. Find a common ground then discuss anything from your life to a commercial on T.V you may have seen.
well you should first find a girl interested in your interests and then you should find a conversation to start with like (say she is interested in baseball like you) then say ';the ball you hit yesterday was a good hit'; then maybe she would say something back and a conversation could start
Yes, just take a deep breath and let it out normally!! You are getting all tensed up over nothing. Let them do the talking when you get like that. Say.......when your mind goes blank, ';Well, tell me what's going on at home with the folks, the brother, ......';-----
Remember, conversation is a two way street, you don't have to carry the load..................Have a different ';blank'; question to ask everyday to be prepared. LIke today when I go blank I will say..........Tell me about music you really like, or tell me about some movies you've seen that you really like.......... Stuff like that.............Soon it will be like second nature to you............
Just be yourself and don't worry about trying to impress them with conversation, let them impress YOU..........
to overcome this be yous slef.just say hi my name is.
Start reading the dozens of other questions - just like yours, every day out here and you won't need to ask.
hi im a girl and if u were to aproach me calm and easy going and chilled out that would be nice none of the chat up lines coz most girls find it rudde and it seems u say the same to different girls so its better u stay natural and sweet and sensitive hope that helped u can talk to me anytime:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
How to talk to girls?
I'm a sophomore in high school. How can I get over my shyness with girls? Everytime I get in a situation to talk to a girl that I like, my mind goes blank and I don't know what to say, and I feel stupid. Any suggestions for overcoming shyness/nervousness?? ThanksHow to talk to girls?
This answer is not for getting over shyness but its for getting over your mind going blank.When you start talking start out by saying hey whats up or whats going on and like what are doing over the weekend.Also if your in school you can say do you have homework or whats your next class or what class did you just come from.You know something like that.After you have been talking for a few minutes just keep going and dont babble but talk enough.Just dont let there be silence just keep it going.Then it should just keep going until one of you have to go.Just dont be nervous if you are dont let them know it just start a conversation.Just keep it flowing.How to talk to girls?
well just talk
get some friends that are girls...so that you get comfortable being around them...once you are comfortable then you can talk to the girls you like
You have to make them feel comfortable. Don't stalk them or anything. Let them know who you are and what kind of person they are. They like to laugh a lot to, so make sure you keep them laughing.
You gotta be ';happening'; to get her attention, have something to say. Say ';man I have alot of homework';. Maybe she'll say ';me too';. Then ask if she wants to get together to do homework. Find a common ground then discuss anything from your life to a commercial on T.V you may have seen.
well you should first find a girl interested in your interests and then you should find a conversation to start with like (say she is interested in baseball like you) then say ';the ball you hit yesterday was a good hit'; then maybe she would say something back and a conversation could start
Yes, just take a deep breath and let it out normally!! You are getting all tensed up over nothing. Let them do the talking when you get like that. Say.......when your mind goes blank, ';Well, tell me what's going on at home with the folks, the brother, ......';-----
Remember, conversation is a two way street, you don't have to carry the load..................Have a different ';blank'; question to ask everyday to be prepared. LIke today when I go blank I will say..........Tell me about music you really like, or tell me about some movies you've seen that you really like.......... Stuff like that.............Soon it will be like second nature to you............
Just be yourself and don't worry about trying to impress them with conversation, let them impress YOU..........
to overcome this be yous slef.just say hi my name is.
Start reading the dozens of other questions - just like yours, every day out here and you won't need to ask.
hi im a girl and if u were to aproach me calm and easy going and chilled out that would be nice none of the chat up lines coz most girls find it rudde and it seems u say the same to different girls so its better u stay natural and sweet and sensitive hope that helped u can talk to me anytime:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
This answer is not for getting over shyness but its for getting over your mind going blank.When you start talking start out by saying hey whats up or whats going on and like what are doing over the weekend.Also if your in school you can say do you have homework or whats your next class or what class did you just come from.You know something like that.After you have been talking for a few minutes just keep going and dont babble but talk enough.Just dont let there be silence just keep it going.Then it should just keep going until one of you have to go.Just dont be nervous if you are dont let them know it just start a conversation.Just keep it flowing.How to talk to girls?
well just talk
get some friends that are girls...so that you get comfortable being around them...once you are comfortable then you can talk to the girls you like
You have to make them feel comfortable. Don't stalk them or anything. Let them know who you are and what kind of person they are. They like to laugh a lot to, so make sure you keep them laughing.
You gotta be ';happening'; to get her attention, have something to say. Say ';man I have alot of homework';. Maybe she'll say ';me too';. Then ask if she wants to get together to do homework. Find a common ground then discuss anything from your life to a commercial on T.V you may have seen.
well you should first find a girl interested in your interests and then you should find a conversation to start with like (say she is interested in baseball like you) then say ';the ball you hit yesterday was a good hit'; then maybe she would say something back and a conversation could start
Yes, just take a deep breath and let it out normally!! You are getting all tensed up over nothing. Let them do the talking when you get like that. Say.......when your mind goes blank, ';Well, tell me what's going on at home with the folks, the brother, ......';-----
Remember, conversation is a two way street, you don't have to carry the load..................Have a different ';blank'; question to ask everyday to be prepared. LIke today when I go blank I will say..........Tell me about music you really like, or tell me about some movies you've seen that you really like.......... Stuff like that.............Soon it will be like second nature to you............
Just be yourself and don't worry about trying to impress them with conversation, let them impress YOU..........
to overcome this be yous slef.just say hi my name is.
Start reading the dozens of other questions - just like yours, every day out here and you won't need to ask.
hi im a girl and if u were to aproach me calm and easy going and chilled out that would be nice none of the chat up lines coz most girls find it rudde and it seems u say the same to different girls so its better u stay natural and sweet and sensitive hope that helped u can talk to me anytime:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
How/what is the best way to talk to girls with their friends?
how/what is the best way to talk to girls with their friends? help?How/what is the best way to talk to girls with their friends?
Wait for the girl you want to talk to to walk away from the group. If you wnt to tak wid them all, say something funny or complament one of them. Before you tak to them, make sure your breathe is fresh and theirs nothing betwean your teeth. Make sure you don't have any pimples too. Your shirt should smell fresh. Then, you might get luck!! = }How/what is the best way to talk to girls with their friends?
Well,
if u know the girls friends it shouldnt be hard,
just make sure that u dont sound stupid.
in your head just think over what u r about 2
say.
easy!!!!! be yourself a girl will crush you into the ground if your not yourself!! just play it cool
compliment her. it will show that your bold. girls dig that.
Yes! The cooler you play it, the more they swoon. Be sweet, and LISTEN to what they say and NOD like your interested.
Girls love to be listened to. Compliment your girl, but be sure to compliment the group of friends not just one friend (b/c that can be considered flirting)
Laugh, make jokes if you can and LISTEN. Be open with your facial expressions and body language (no arms crossed). Then they will automactially approve of you.
just say hello to everyone and just start to talk be yourself let your personality show.
Well take it from a girl. Find out the things she likes then just go around and make jokes that she likes or dress like the type of boy she wants.
b the life of her world,,anything u say look at her,tell jokes,,say silly things touch her hair tell her u think shes beautifull n front of her friends,,good luck
make jokes
relate to their convo
make jokes
talk to them just as you would if it was just you too, but skip the stuff her friends would rather not know... that'll show your comfortable around them and you're confident
if your trying to pick a girl up you need to separate her from her friends, b/c there is always that one friend who gets jealous and screws up your game.
If you do try this try to win all the friends over, and don't only show attention to the girl you want to talk too.
Wait for the girl you want to talk to to walk away from the group. If you wnt to tak wid them all, say something funny or complament one of them. Before you tak to them, make sure your breathe is fresh and theirs nothing betwean your teeth. Make sure you don't have any pimples too. Your shirt should smell fresh. Then, you might get luck!! = }How/what is the best way to talk to girls with their friends?
Well,
if u know the girls friends it shouldnt be hard,
just make sure that u dont sound stupid.
in your head just think over what u r about 2
say.
easy!!!!! be yourself a girl will crush you into the ground if your not yourself!! just play it cool
compliment her. it will show that your bold. girls dig that.
Yes! The cooler you play it, the more they swoon. Be sweet, and LISTEN to what they say and NOD like your interested.
Girls love to be listened to. Compliment your girl, but be sure to compliment the group of friends not just one friend (b/c that can be considered flirting)
Laugh, make jokes if you can and LISTEN. Be open with your facial expressions and body language (no arms crossed). Then they will automactially approve of you.
just say hello to everyone and just start to talk be yourself let your personality show.
Well take it from a girl. Find out the things she likes then just go around and make jokes that she likes or dress like the type of boy she wants.
b the life of her world,,anything u say look at her,tell jokes,,say silly things touch her hair tell her u think shes beautifull n front of her friends,,good luck
make jokes
relate to their convo
make jokes
talk to them just as you would if it was just you too, but skip the stuff her friends would rather not know... that'll show your comfortable around them and you're confident
if your trying to pick a girl up you need to separate her from her friends, b/c there is always that one friend who gets jealous and screws up your game.
If you do try this try to win all the friends over, and don't only show attention to the girl you want to talk too.
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