How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?

I am an 18 year old boy who has just started university in my hometown. I have never had a girlfriend in the past as I've been too shy with girls.



Since I've started uni I have made an effort to talk to girls in my lectures and I have become friendly with them and managed to talk to them without feeling nervous. However, even though these girls are friends they aren't really my type as I'm attracted to more reserved, cute girls.



I see loads of pretty girls in the library who I'd like to talk to. I can talk because there is a big room for group study. I think I can talk to them fine but I just don't know how to start a conversation with them. In my lectures its easy to introduce yourself but its more awkward in the library.



So, how do I start a conversation in the library? Also, if a conversation goes really well should I ask the girl out? Or maybe just ask her if she wants a drink on campus?



thank you :)How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?
I can think of only one way to start a conversation in a library:

Comment on what they're reading.

There really isn't much else to start with.



Ask the girl out? I'd say no. Just ask her to go for a drink? That would probably be the best idea, that way, if it is a more reserved type, she won't feel like she is being rushed into anything too serious.How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?
lol loser!!!!!!!!! j.k idk tell her the books she is reading is showing off her beauty??

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There is a book called The Game, by Neil Strauss. Read it, it changed my life!

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How to talk to girls I like?

Ok, im 17 and im not the best looking(does that matter to girls more then being nice?)and I can think of things to say to girls when im alone but when im actually with a girl I draw a blank and was wondering if there is any easy things to remember that girls like to be told or asked and do girls really like guys who are confident(or stuck up) or do they like guys, like me who are shy and don't just go to school to show off there clothes if u no wut I meanHow to talk to girls I like?
girls like boys who are themselves, personally i am not into show offs or big mouths, and designer labels can be faked.girls like boys who are into them - don't make them feel stupid in front of their mates(boys), just talk to us like you would your mates, ask us what we like to do at the weekend,if the girls says she likes ice skating or movies then tell her you do too and maybe you could go together sometime, that way you know your doing something you both enjoy and it makes the date easier.remember we are just like you and we get just as nervous when a boy asks us out, we think we are not pretty or good enough and wonder if your doing it for a bet .we all have insecurities. just be yourself. hope this helpsHow to talk to girls I like?
just be yourself and relax
I was kind of like this at one point.



I soon found out confidence is everything.



Just talk to the girl. It's not that hard.
The best thing you could possibly do is act yourself. And talk about things that are relevant to you. If she stays quiet then move on to someone else. You don't want to be involved with someone who isn't interested in anything that interests you. If that's all she's concerned about is f**king clothes then forget about it. There's tons of people out there. Not worth worrying about.



Make sense?
Practice in front of a mirror in confidence

How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?

if im 1 on 1 i do very well talking to girls. my challenge is when there is a subtle interest with someone i bump into that i dont really know (girl at the gym i go to for example) im intimidated to go up %26amp; talk to her cause im not sure what to say to a total stranger. any suggestions here would be appreciated on how to approach %26amp; engage in conversation with someone in that situation.

How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?
Yeah...don't worry about conversing. Approaching strangers and getting approached by strangers can be a...well a strange thing. Focus on the bigger picture which would be getting her email and/or phone number. The conversing will happen during the date instead.

And approaching a stranger is as easy as ';Hi how are you?'; As a matter of fact, I can get a woman's email and digits within 3 minutes of approaching her. Even in 30 seconds I've managed to do it. But my goal is always to get the number...not what to say.

Also when you approach, have confidence and be somewhat of a challenge. Good positive body language is a plus too.



As a wise pimp once said, ';Just get the number and get out of there. Deal with her yapping later.';How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?
Try just sharing with her your thoughts, or a simple hello usually does just fine.





A salutation usually initiates conversation. Just be confident, and don't blush and look at your feet. Smile, look her in the face and talk.



If you haven't noticed yet, girls usually LOVE to talk. Ask her what made her come to the gym? Does she have a goal/stay in shape for sports?



Just keep it simple.



Oh...and some girls will blow you off. Don't sweat that. if that is the worst part of your life, you are in good shape. Good luck!
Usually girls don't like to talk in the gym cause they are working out and sweaty, so if you gonna talk to them, you better be funny to keep their interest. If I was gonna talk to a girl in the gym on the treadmill, I'd probably go up beside her and ask her to race me or something like that.
Hi! You should just talk to her! Ask her if she comes here ofter, dose she like it and stuff like that! Good luck!!
ayyy biatchh yo girl....lemme take u out ona bomb *** date mami



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Ladies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?

when i see ladies i don;t have any word in my mouth again except hi so how do i get to behave matured since i can't do away with my shynessLadies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?
Suck it up buddy. If you like a girl ask her out ( what is the worst that could happen??) My fiance is a shy guy, he was so nervous when he asked me out his voice was quivering- and the reason why I accepted was because I could see that he wasn't coky and I liked the fact that he was shy. Make sure you be respectful too- a good girl will not like the eyes checking her out and the lip licking- dont do that! Look at being shy as an asset. Smart girls like that (believe me).Ladies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?
Make friends with girls first and learn how to communicate and relate to them before you pursue them further. Don't think of them as potential mates when you talk either, that makes things awkward. Think of them as your best guy friend an go off from there! Good luck!
find a girl and give a letter to her of how you feel a bout her and ask her to circle yes or no you need to ask her do you what to be mt girlfriend. good luck.

What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?

How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhile?



Same with some friends, some people stick around become a friend other leave or stop talking to me.



What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?
Cause U get boring after a while...try %26amp; change the subject..=]What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?
You must be creeping them out...

Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?

There is a girl in a nearby office that I usually flirt with - however, she does have a boyfriend. Sometimes our conversations will involve him (why is a girl talking about him with me?) and she is often complaining about how he's not motivated or interested in life.



I want to buy flowers for her, but I don't want to come off as being intrusive - can you help?Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
That's an invitation to an @ss kicking.



Keep your conversations light and fun. If she complains about her boyfriend, the best thing to do is say ';Sorry, you need to save that stuff for your girlfriends or a therapist.'; Then change the subject. Do NOT let her talk about her boyfriend to you. If she dumps him, she will want to be with a fun guy who makes her laugh and stays positive.Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
If she's flirting with you and saying those kinds of things about her boyfriend, she might want to move on. It's a good idea to wait until she's completely moved on to get anything like flowers for her, that's for sure.



But if you really just have to get flowers for her, avoid roses and don't get anything overly red or pink. And get something small, like a tiny bouquet of daisies, irises, or lilies. As long as the flowers read as something you'd get for a friend, you should be okay.
Don't do it.



Although she may complain about her boyfriend, obviously he isn't bad enough for her to actually leave him %26amp; she isn't into you enough to leave him. Friendly flirting is one thing, sending her flowers is another thing. I have a strong feeling that she only thinks of you as either a friend or an ego boost- not someone she wants to really go out with.



Besides... even if she *is* interested in you, do you REALLY want to go out with a girl who is so willing to go around behind her boyfriend's back %26amp; seriously flirt with other guys whenever your relationship is in trouble? What makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you?
Don't do it, she may come to you to talk to him but probably because she thinks your her friend, flowers are very suggestive, instead get a her a valentines day card that's coming up but make sure to get others one, and just write something sweet in it..Or you can be ballsy get her flowers and see what happens, though you risk making things awkward at work which is never good.



Ps: flirting at work is common even for people with significant others, it isn't an invitation to sweep her off her feet someone else already has. Your best bet is to continue to be there for her and if one day they do break up she's going to remember who was there for her during the tough times and you'lll get yours.
Well if you want her that bad, buy her the damn flowers, if she takes you up on it, beware because she doesn't seem like she would be the most committed girl you could be dating. I have a feeling she probably thinks your constant flirting is normal for homosexual males to do with their ';fag tags'; (no offense). Let her know your into chicks, by her a pair of fuzzy handcuffs instead of flowers, it can only help you out.
Sorry but.. are you stupid? The fact that she's talking to you about her boyfriend proves that she just sees you as a friend! Girls moan about their boyfriends to their friends all the time, it doesn't mean they don't love them. You do not buy flowers for a girl with a boyfriend, ever! Even if she does like you, which I doubt, she'd be creeped out I'm sure. And her boyfriend would be furious.

She's probably just seeing if she's still attractive and is just using you! If she wanted to be with you and not her boyfriend, she would!
I would have to pretty much agree with everyone. Dont buy flowers for her if anything maybe a card. If he is really worth leaving she would have already done so. People just like to complain if the guy was that bad the problem would hav been fixed by now so dont get to involved and just might need someone to talk to about not that she is interested in you. Sorry buddy!
send the flowers to her as a secret admirer...write an inviting note...if she is interested, she may not tell her bf..thats good for u...she may tell u about the flowers...just check out her reaction...if she really is into her man..she will not care to much for the gesture..but if the idea of a secret admirer interests her..keep it up for awhile...just see what happens...
the flowers come later man, keep talking to her buy her lunch on your guys break, then bring up activities to do with her, you did say she said hes not intrested in life, so ther you go. girls love a dude thats outgoing
Yeah dude, you don't buy flowers to get a girl. You buy flowers to keep one. Land a date first, then bring the flowers.
I`m not too sure...just say they were to brighten her day(as long as its the truth anyways...dont wanna bother lying). Don`t be too persistant about them either, no *hey..remember those flowers I got you last week* or anything. just be casual about it :)
Are you kidding me, you sound pathetic, listen to everyone, and DON'T.
DO NOT buy a taken women flowers, especially if her BF is stronger than you
buy her a huge vase full of different types of flowers and send it to her desk and sign it from a secret admirer
Send them anonymously? Or just do it. (Don't if her boyfriend is possessive though!)
I would dude you are soooo in the '; friend zone'; with her don't waste your money
Don't!
You're a stalker!
don't
do not buy her flowers.. she has a boyfriend..
More to the point...Why wud u buy flowers 4a girl that has a boyfriend...

HOw can I have a normal conversation with her?

I would like to talk girl who is in my school. I'm kind of shy. I really want to know her. But I'm worried about me asking questions and not her also asking me questions. Should I talk about how is class, the best class, worst class, college major, etc?HOw can I have a normal conversation with her?
these r the basic for any new and open conversation, start with the usual stuff and talk about anything, then from there on and from how she reacts and communicate back u will know if she is into it or not.





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