How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?

I am an 18 year old boy who has just started university in my hometown. I have never had a girlfriend in the past as I've been too shy with girls.



Since I've started uni I have made an effort to talk to girls in my lectures and I have become friendly with them and managed to talk to them without feeling nervous. However, even though these girls are friends they aren't really my type as I'm attracted to more reserved, cute girls.



I see loads of pretty girls in the library who I'd like to talk to. I can talk because there is a big room for group study. I think I can talk to them fine but I just don't know how to start a conversation with them. In my lectures its easy to introduce yourself but its more awkward in the library.



So, how do I start a conversation in the library? Also, if a conversation goes really well should I ask the girl out? Or maybe just ask her if she wants a drink on campus?



thank you :)How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?
I can think of only one way to start a conversation in a library:

Comment on what they're reading.

There really isn't much else to start with.



Ask the girl out? I'd say no. Just ask her to go for a drink? That would probably be the best idea, that way, if it is a more reserved type, she won't feel like she is being rushed into anything too serious.How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?
lol loser!!!!!!!!! j.k idk tell her the books she is reading is showing off her beauty??

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How to talk to girls I like?

Ok, im 17 and im not the best looking(does that matter to girls more then being nice?)and I can think of things to say to girls when im alone but when im actually with a girl I draw a blank and was wondering if there is any easy things to remember that girls like to be told or asked and do girls really like guys who are confident(or stuck up) or do they like guys, like me who are shy and don't just go to school to show off there clothes if u no wut I meanHow to talk to girls I like?
girls like boys who are themselves, personally i am not into show offs or big mouths, and designer labels can be faked.girls like boys who are into them - don't make them feel stupid in front of their mates(boys), just talk to us like you would your mates, ask us what we like to do at the weekend,if the girls says she likes ice skating or movies then tell her you do too and maybe you could go together sometime, that way you know your doing something you both enjoy and it makes the date easier.remember we are just like you and we get just as nervous when a boy asks us out, we think we are not pretty or good enough and wonder if your doing it for a bet .we all have insecurities. just be yourself. hope this helpsHow to talk to girls I like?
just be yourself and relax
I was kind of like this at one point.



I soon found out confidence is everything.



Just talk to the girl. It's not that hard.
The best thing you could possibly do is act yourself. And talk about things that are relevant to you. If she stays quiet then move on to someone else. You don't want to be involved with someone who isn't interested in anything that interests you. If that's all she's concerned about is f**king clothes then forget about it. There's tons of people out there. Not worth worrying about.



Make sense?
Practice in front of a mirror in confidence

How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?

if im 1 on 1 i do very well talking to girls. my challenge is when there is a subtle interest with someone i bump into that i dont really know (girl at the gym i go to for example) im intimidated to go up %26amp; talk to her cause im not sure what to say to a total stranger. any suggestions here would be appreciated on how to approach %26amp; engage in conversation with someone in that situation.

How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?
Yeah...don't worry about conversing. Approaching strangers and getting approached by strangers can be a...well a strange thing. Focus on the bigger picture which would be getting her email and/or phone number. The conversing will happen during the date instead.

And approaching a stranger is as easy as ';Hi how are you?'; As a matter of fact, I can get a woman's email and digits within 3 minutes of approaching her. Even in 30 seconds I've managed to do it. But my goal is always to get the number...not what to say.

Also when you approach, have confidence and be somewhat of a challenge. Good positive body language is a plus too.



As a wise pimp once said, ';Just get the number and get out of there. Deal with her yapping later.';How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?
Try just sharing with her your thoughts, or a simple hello usually does just fine.





A salutation usually initiates conversation. Just be confident, and don't blush and look at your feet. Smile, look her in the face and talk.



If you haven't noticed yet, girls usually LOVE to talk. Ask her what made her come to the gym? Does she have a goal/stay in shape for sports?



Just keep it simple.



Oh...and some girls will blow you off. Don't sweat that. if that is the worst part of your life, you are in good shape. Good luck!
Usually girls don't like to talk in the gym cause they are working out and sweaty, so if you gonna talk to them, you better be funny to keep their interest. If I was gonna talk to a girl in the gym on the treadmill, I'd probably go up beside her and ask her to race me or something like that.
Hi! You should just talk to her! Ask her if she comes here ofter, dose she like it and stuff like that! Good luck!!
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Ladies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?

when i see ladies i don;t have any word in my mouth again except hi so how do i get to behave matured since i can't do away with my shynessLadies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?
Suck it up buddy. If you like a girl ask her out ( what is the worst that could happen??) My fiance is a shy guy, he was so nervous when he asked me out his voice was quivering- and the reason why I accepted was because I could see that he wasn't coky and I liked the fact that he was shy. Make sure you be respectful too- a good girl will not like the eyes checking her out and the lip licking- dont do that! Look at being shy as an asset. Smart girls like that (believe me).Ladies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?
Make friends with girls first and learn how to communicate and relate to them before you pursue them further. Don't think of them as potential mates when you talk either, that makes things awkward. Think of them as your best guy friend an go off from there! Good luck!
find a girl and give a letter to her of how you feel a bout her and ask her to circle yes or no you need to ask her do you what to be mt girlfriend. good luck.

What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?

How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhile?



Same with some friends, some people stick around become a friend other leave or stop talking to me.



What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?
Cause U get boring after a while...try %26amp; change the subject..=]What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?
You must be creeping them out...

Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?

There is a girl in a nearby office that I usually flirt with - however, she does have a boyfriend. Sometimes our conversations will involve him (why is a girl talking about him with me?) and she is often complaining about how he's not motivated or interested in life.



I want to buy flowers for her, but I don't want to come off as being intrusive - can you help?Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
That's an invitation to an @ss kicking.



Keep your conversations light and fun. If she complains about her boyfriend, the best thing to do is say ';Sorry, you need to save that stuff for your girlfriends or a therapist.'; Then change the subject. Do NOT let her talk about her boyfriend to you. If she dumps him, she will want to be with a fun guy who makes her laugh and stays positive.Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
If she's flirting with you and saying those kinds of things about her boyfriend, she might want to move on. It's a good idea to wait until she's completely moved on to get anything like flowers for her, that's for sure.



But if you really just have to get flowers for her, avoid roses and don't get anything overly red or pink. And get something small, like a tiny bouquet of daisies, irises, or lilies. As long as the flowers read as something you'd get for a friend, you should be okay.
Don't do it.



Although she may complain about her boyfriend, obviously he isn't bad enough for her to actually leave him %26amp; she isn't into you enough to leave him. Friendly flirting is one thing, sending her flowers is another thing. I have a strong feeling that she only thinks of you as either a friend or an ego boost- not someone she wants to really go out with.



Besides... even if she *is* interested in you, do you REALLY want to go out with a girl who is so willing to go around behind her boyfriend's back %26amp; seriously flirt with other guys whenever your relationship is in trouble? What makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you?
Don't do it, she may come to you to talk to him but probably because she thinks your her friend, flowers are very suggestive, instead get a her a valentines day card that's coming up but make sure to get others one, and just write something sweet in it..Or you can be ballsy get her flowers and see what happens, though you risk making things awkward at work which is never good.



Ps: flirting at work is common even for people with significant others, it isn't an invitation to sweep her off her feet someone else already has. Your best bet is to continue to be there for her and if one day they do break up she's going to remember who was there for her during the tough times and you'lll get yours.
Well if you want her that bad, buy her the damn flowers, if she takes you up on it, beware because she doesn't seem like she would be the most committed girl you could be dating. I have a feeling she probably thinks your constant flirting is normal for homosexual males to do with their ';fag tags'; (no offense). Let her know your into chicks, by her a pair of fuzzy handcuffs instead of flowers, it can only help you out.
Sorry but.. are you stupid? The fact that she's talking to you about her boyfriend proves that she just sees you as a friend! Girls moan about their boyfriends to their friends all the time, it doesn't mean they don't love them. You do not buy flowers for a girl with a boyfriend, ever! Even if she does like you, which I doubt, she'd be creeped out I'm sure. And her boyfriend would be furious.

She's probably just seeing if she's still attractive and is just using you! If she wanted to be with you and not her boyfriend, she would!
I would have to pretty much agree with everyone. Dont buy flowers for her if anything maybe a card. If he is really worth leaving she would have already done so. People just like to complain if the guy was that bad the problem would hav been fixed by now so dont get to involved and just might need someone to talk to about not that she is interested in you. Sorry buddy!
send the flowers to her as a secret admirer...write an inviting note...if she is interested, she may not tell her bf..thats good for u...she may tell u about the flowers...just check out her reaction...if she really is into her man..she will not care to much for the gesture..but if the idea of a secret admirer interests her..keep it up for awhile...just see what happens...
the flowers come later man, keep talking to her buy her lunch on your guys break, then bring up activities to do with her, you did say she said hes not intrested in life, so ther you go. girls love a dude thats outgoing
Yeah dude, you don't buy flowers to get a girl. You buy flowers to keep one. Land a date first, then bring the flowers.
I`m not too sure...just say they were to brighten her day(as long as its the truth anyways...dont wanna bother lying). Don`t be too persistant about them either, no *hey..remember those flowers I got you last week* or anything. just be casual about it :)
Are you kidding me, you sound pathetic, listen to everyone, and DON'T.
DO NOT buy a taken women flowers, especially if her BF is stronger than you
buy her a huge vase full of different types of flowers and send it to her desk and sign it from a secret admirer
Send them anonymously? Or just do it. (Don't if her boyfriend is possessive though!)
I would dude you are soooo in the '; friend zone'; with her don't waste your money
Don't!
You're a stalker!
don't
do not buy her flowers.. she has a boyfriend..
More to the point...Why wud u buy flowers 4a girl that has a boyfriend...

HOw can I have a normal conversation with her?

I would like to talk girl who is in my school. I'm kind of shy. I really want to know her. But I'm worried about me asking questions and not her also asking me questions. Should I talk about how is class, the best class, worst class, college major, etc?HOw can I have a normal conversation with her?
these r the basic for any new and open conversation, start with the usual stuff and talk about anything, then from there on and from how she reacts and communicate back u will know if she is into it or not.





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Please tell me how to talk with girls.?

I cant talk to girls because, I am worried that

I am talking to them because I like the girl or

I want to go out with her. Also, their guards

are high or they are shy, girls dont come to

talk to me, so I dont know how to make friends

with them, how can I start friends with them

and build relationship?Please tell me how to talk with girls.?
talk to girls with eye contact



and talk sweetly and softly





also u shud be confident for whatever u r saying



nd simle too :PPlease tell me how to talk with girls.?
You have to look at your own inhibitions and deal with them. It's scary to do but do-able. It is also part of the maturing process most people either go through or need to go through at some times in their lives. Some sooner than others.



Remember, Achievement = Confidence.



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Please tell me how to talk with girls.?

I cant talk to girls because, I am worried that

I am talking to them because I like the girl or

I want to go out with her. Also, their guards

are high or they are shy, girls dont come to

talk to me, so I dont know how to make friends

with them, how can I start friends with them

and build relationship?Please tell me how to talk with girls.?
talk to girls with eye contact



and talk sweetly and softly





also u shud be confident for whatever u r saying



nd simle too :PPlease tell me how to talk with girls.?
You have to look at your own inhibitions and deal with them. It's scary to do but do-able. It is also part of the maturing process most people either go through or need to go through at some times in their lives. Some sooner than others.



Remember, Achievement = Confidence.



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How can I be better at talking to girls?

I recently started college, but my problem is that I'm really not good at talking to girls! I really don't know why-- it's like every time I have to chat with a girl, my voice becomes really low and I feel really nervous! I wish I was more able to talk to girls because I don't even have any female friends at all except for one or two who are just on a ';hi, bye'; basis. How can I overcome this inhibition? Please help.How can I be better at talking to girls?
First, RRELAX, and second, REALXHow can I be better at talking to girls?
I actually just confronted this issue of mine recently. I Started college about a year ago. I talked to a couple of friends about it and they told me to just talk to this girl I think is really pretty. I was so incredibly nervous, yet excited, on the day I saw her. I just went up to her outside of class and introduced myself, then asked her something about the class. We had a short conversation, and then she had to leave and get ready for the rest of the day. (My mouth was getting pretty dry during the conversation, since I was really nervous, but I have been told many times that confidence is key, but I had never done anything like that, so I couldn't really find the confidence). The whole thing didn't go as I wanted, since I didn't get a date right then and there, but that is asking quite a bit from the situation.



What really helped me was the anticipation of the whole thing. I had been waiting for that moment for a while, and I didn't want to let myself down by chickening out, so I just did it. After it was all done, I was really relieved, and having the experience kind of made me want to try it some more. It's like riding a bike for the first time, you're nervous because you don't want to get hurt, but you're excited to have fun. And after that first ride you just want to go again. I think once you get out there and do it once, your confidence will continue to grow.



I'm sorry if all of that is jumbled, I keep replaying the whole scene in my head and I get excited haha. I guess to sum it up... just go out there, introduce yourself and start a conversation, then the next time you see them you can say hello, and the friendship can begin, and from there I'd say you can maybe get a date if things go well :)

How come I feel more comfortable with talking with straight guys and gay guys than girls?

I am gay by the way! Well anyways, I have noticed that all my elementary, middle, and until know I have always been more comfortable talking to guys. I mean I love men but shouldn't I be talking more to girls and stuff? I mean I talk to girls but not as much as my gay and straight guy friends! Am I the only one who feels this way!



P.S I love guys! ';Boys Boys Boys! ...We love them!';How come I feel more comfortable with talking with straight guys and gay guys than girls?
You're not required to talk females because people set their own standards. Because personalities vary for each individual, we each have different ways of socializing. No social, political, or ideological complex controls how one interacts with others.How come I feel more comfortable with talking with straight guys and gay guys than girls?
You just need to surround yourself with a more diverse group of people if you really do want to talk to more girls. If you don't care that you're hanging out with one gender over the other because you feel uncomfortable around that gender then you don't need to change your behavior just because it isn't the ';norm.'; (Normalcy doesn't exist IMO) Although, you should resolve your uncomfortable feelings. They're probably the result of problems you have over your own self-esteem or self confidence. I'm gay and I had trouble in school not with hanging around girls, but with hanging around straight guys. I always though they were making fun of me as the ';token gay guy.'; It was only when I realized that I wasn't comfortable being in my own skin that I learned to hang out with them. What I'm trying to say is that you should at least get to the bottom of why you feel uncomfortable around girls or why you are naturally compelled to hang around guys.



P.S. I'm boy crazy too! And I love that you love them too! ^_^
no, I'm gay and I only have like one female friend, all my friends are straight guys nothing wrong with that.
people are just different :)

How do you have confidence to talk to girls and dance with girls at clubs???

i was in a nightclub last night with m8s and 1 of my m8s can just go up to a girl and start talking to them or dance with them instantly.

i just don't have the confidence and worried of rejection.

what can i do?How do you have confidence to talk to girls and dance with girls at clubs???
Just be confident!!

If your embarrassed about being rejected, then just think your most likely never gonna see that girl again and tbh i dont think they will reject you most girls who go to nightclubs want a guy to dance with them. :P

xHow do you have confidence to talk to girls and dance with girls at clubs???
Hannah is spot on, you probably won't ever see them again so that's the thing to remember.



Aside from that, just try it: the more you do it, the better you'll get, that's why some of your friends seem more confident than you, because they have more experience with doing it.



Good luck!
Just go for it! I bet lots of girls will want to dance with you, you've just got to make the first move then they'll take the lead from there. You've just got to beleive in yourself. Rejection doesn't matter because there's plently more girls in the club!



If worse comes to worse get a few drinks in ya, that should make you more confident. Just not to many, you don't wanna puke on them or anything.

How and what to talk about with a girl?

What do girls like to talk about without boring them? It is hard to talk to girls without thinking that they are thinking bad about you. What do girls like?How and what to talk about with a girl?
I'm not an expert at this, but I can tell if

a girl is interested..

They look at you in the eyes,

they don't look around or fidget,

they are confident and don't sound

nervous around you.



Best advice I can give is just be honest

and tell her about yourself and what

you do or like to do.



I hope that helped.How and what to talk about with a girl?
Girls absolutely adore a guy that can make them feel comfortable and make them laugh! if you can get a girl laughing and make her feel secure etc. then you are going to be the best thing since bubble gum to her. you should also ask her about herself, what she likes to do, her favorite food etc. it show her that you are interested without being too straight forward. Try not keep her thinking about things for too long as well. a girl takes every little word you say extremely seriously (most girls at least). so try not to ask her something if you wouldn't want to be asked it as well! hope this helps, xx

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I'm a tomboy. How can i get more friends who are girls?

Honestly, i've always hung out with guys because i thought they were ten times more cooler and plus i'm very hyper so i enjoy joking and horsing around. The thing is most girls don't like me because of it. I would really like to be friends with them though because i do like having girl talk and being alittle bit more lady like. What can i do?I'm a tomboy. How can i get more friends who are girls?
Talk to a girl that looks lonely or has no friends. There is a good chance they will be your friend. You can make them happy and you could get a friend that is a girl. Maybe more girls will be your friend.I'm a tomboy. How can i get more friends who are girls?
just start out by saying hi to some of the girls. or help one of the girls if they don't understand something and you do. talk to the girls that you think would be a good friend for you.

I a tomboy with lots of friend both girls and boys.

How to talk to your crush when I am shy to talk to girls? , and how to get her notcing me?

Well, I'm a young teen who is going on 15 and I have this problem that i'm really shy of girls, but thats ok, but the thing is, i have a crush on someone and I cant talk to her, I dont know what to talk , i've never talked so extensilvely with the opposite sex, and besides , I get very enraged and angry when other boys talk to her, help!How to talk to your crush when I am shy to talk to girls? , and how to get her notcing me?
You're bad. Chances she already notice you. Just say hi and more words every day you pass her by. Start before it's too late.How to talk to your crush when I am shy to talk to girls? , and how to get her notcing me?
Buy a few flowers and write a note on it, telling her that you like her. Get a good friend of yours to deliver it to her during lunch. After school or lunch go up to her and say hi. Have a little confidence in yourself. Maybe she likes you back :]

Why guys don't talk to girls like me?

';I'm always told how pretty, nice, caring, and smart I am, and I'm just curious why guys never even come up and talk to me. It kinda puzzles me why guys never talk to girls like me. Do we walk around with neon signs that say, 'Look but don't talk'? Why guys don't talk to girls like me?
as a man we are intimidated by beautiful women its also a respect thing thinking that you may be with someone and there in the ego of the man kicks in in that we don't like being shot downWhy guys don't talk to girls like me?
Maybe they're intimidated by you?
and what kind of girl are you?



if you are pretty, nice and smart as you say. ill be glad to know you, but dont know whats your age :S. hahaha



so, look, one guy talking to you. lol.
I get that too i'm nice pretty smart talented and all that too i think its because we intimmidate them but that dosent ean anything O well there s always someone out there thats right for you
If your super duper supermodel material then most blokes would think that they stand no chance.
It might be that you give off negative non verbal signals. For example do you cross your arms when walking or talking to people? When talking are you subconsciously pulling away? Try to imagine what signals the other person is getting from you non verbally, it might help you understand what is going on.
maybe there shy or they just think that you wouldnt want to talk to them

you start the converstion
hehehe. yeah maybe your too damn pretty, i would say so. Maybe being open and gain some relaxing thoughts and feels might ease up all the tensions around you?.. well thats my advice, coz i believe positive and negative energy can pass to one person to another..



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who are the people who tell you that? Friends and family can lie to you to give you confidence. Maybe their lying and your not all that good looking?
Perhaps stemming from insecurities of men. Most men are either insecure or egotistical, hard to find that middle ground. Maybe a different approach? Guys would love to talk to you, then again guys are afraid to talk to you for that insecure issue. But maybe if you played a part of interest, guys will open up more. So since guys like to talk about themselves, listen in on what they are talking about. If you have a common interest, they will be far more open, actually excited. Topics could range actually too. Vin Diesel had good aesthetics, the odd thing was that he liked Dungeons and Dragons. a persons hobbies doesn't tell how they actually are by the way. especially when it comes to looks. If you saw me, you would never guess by appearance that I don't like sports. So perception is not always reality. Or on the other hand depending on what you are wearing, perhaps standards are an issue. don't wear anything too revealing. Just wear enough to catch someone's attention and have them curious for more. In the end, both will be quite pleasant with actions taken. Good Luck!

How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?

im kinda shy, but only sometimes, when ppl say ';just be urself'; wut if being ur self doesnt work? i wanna talk to alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll kinds of girls. so how can i create a connection to be friends, not date or ';hookup with'; i just want friendship.How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?
When I was courting my wife-to-be, I talked to her by using my mouth, i.e. I used my lips and tongue. Some people say actions speak louder than words. Don't have sex until you are ready to be a father.How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?
based on your name alone i think i would be your friend.. just talk to people i know its hard but it doesnt get any easier so get used to it
theres so many girls tht want to be ur friend just try to get out as much as u can just keep talking to diff kind of women and c wht happens
being yourself always works......u have to realize tho that not every single girl out there is going to like you....you want them to like u for u so don't try and pretend to b someone ur not....we can see rite through that and hate fakes....if u are real with them they'll b real with u and appreciate u for who u are...
Be funny, not obnoxious, be smart but not arrogant, smile a lot but don't cheese. Be fun, but not too fun. Have money but don't show it. Girls like confidence but not intimidation. They like when guys listen but can hold a conversation. The more you date the better you get and before long you will be wishing you were single again. Good luck!
Be outtgoing,

But not cocky

It can get awkward if you have nothing to talk about with a girl,

Ask her what music you like, and chances are if you like

the same music,

You willhave more of the same intersts.



And always know your body language,

If shes figiddy

or moving around alot,

Then shes getting bored,

If she is making eye contact then she wants to know more

If YOU are making eye contact then that means your intrested

And if she says something

Don't just go,

Ya, oh cool, uh huh,



Ask her a question back

If she says she likes say KNOTB,

Don;t just say, cool or awesome

Say that you like them/don't

Or talk about them

Hope this helps

if you need more help

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if ur silly, walk up to a girl and say something silly, or play on the shyness..just walk up and say ';i'm kinda shy but i want to make new friends, i'm so and so whats your name?'; or wait until you see a girl doing something she is enjoying and go up and ask her random questions about it then introduce yourself. be yourself and just take a risk and you will be amazed.
If your shy that's fine. I used to be very shy..It didn't work for me. I tried smiling alot (not in a creepy way though) and crazy as it sounds it worked. If someone talks to you TALK back.



Body language is key. Always pay attention to someones body language, and yours. You might be standing close to somone who could take it as you might ';want'; them. Just try pay attention to people around you. influence is a great thing

How bothered are girls by muscles?

All you ever hear girls talk about is how some people, like JLS for example are so 'fit' and all that, which really demoralises some of the weaker and less attractive people, other than just me. Do the friendly, nice, polite,helpful have any chance with girls or do they just have to be these muscular,fit, good looking, funny guys??How bothered are girls by muscles?
Well, i am a girl, and i love fit men...but fit isnt necessarily muscular....i hate lazy guys who dont look after their selves, and generally, if i guy does enough exercise he will be toned and a good weight...if he keeps that up and spends more time doing high weights low reps in the gym...he will also gain muscle...which is sexy...but its he fitness and health thats important. being polite and nice is also important as having a nice body will get you no where if your personilty and attitude stink. x

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What are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?

Well, i am going on a cruise this summer with my friend Dylan and we want to ';get some girls'; like hook up with them. But i don't want to be dumb and use some stupid pickup line. Does anyone know how i should approach a cute girl i dont know?What are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
cruises are great for one reason... everyones already thought about it... either the girl is willing to hang out/hook up with a nice good looking guy....or there not



if there willing then they half excpect you to hit on them



so just go for it.....say anything bring anything up and just get a conversation going and see were it ends up



worse case scenerio....some girl you dont know and will never see again thinks your weirdWhat are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
thats why pick up lines were invented
You must be desperate.
just go talk her
Hmm.... why don't you try by saying ';Hi?
how about saying'; hello';? with so many dudes now tryin these weak as# pimp lines the best game is no game at all..just be yourself..and youll stand out.
actually i sometimes think pickup lines are halarious...use them!
What my friend's boyfriend did was bump into her ';accidentally'; when she had a glass of water. He said, ';Man, I'm really sorry!'; and asked if he could get her something (like a soda or a candy bar).
Just give her a complement. or ask for the time and then intro your self.



or.



start by saying ';Oh man my friend is late again! ugh '; or along those lines.



and say it loud enough so she hears. hopefully she;ll turn around and say ';blahblah blah';
Just say hello, introduce yourself, and be polite. Don't put on an act. Ladies like men who are genuine, nice, respectful. Let them know that you are interested, and ask them if they are too. If they want to take things to the next level, follow their lead. I hope you have a great time!
well just go up to them and start a conversation not a stupid won make them feel bad for u look cute and dnt ever ever be shy in front of her cause once she knows u shy well theres no point of talkin 2 her cause the majority of girls dnt like shy guys oh yea and dnt act like a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i personally love a sense of humor. go up to her and say NANU-NANU, (mork and mindy), with ur hand extended like mork does. sounds corny but i would wanna hang out w/u. lol seriously
Be honest.



Anything works as long as you sincerely mean it. Don't lie, play games, or inhibit yourself; they can smell that a mile away.



Honesty rocks!
ask her alot of questions about her such as what she likes, her hobbies and interests and she will eventually ask you about yourself and before you know it your having a genuine conversation.
Try and be their friend first. You don't want to look like some kind of pervert, so don't make a move until you know them. Do things you like and you will find girls there that like the same things. Just talk! If you say something stupid the chances are slim that you will ever see this person again, be yourself!!!
Hey Brad

The thing that's easy is that your going on vacation. There is going to be alot of girls wanting to do the same thing you are have a blast and meet people. Have a drink chill out and enjoy. Questions that are not stupid that you can bring up and not look like an idiot. You don't need pickup lines so to speak. You will see girls who you are attracted to and you can be mellow about your approach.



Hey this is great have you (or you all) been on a cruise before? Once you started hitting it off then ask

What are you going to do once we dock in the Bahamas (insert destination here if not Bahamas)? Shop, Scuba dive, parasail, or tour the island?

What are you planning on doing tonite? Stay on the boat or go and gamble at one of the hotels?

Yeah, we are hitting the hotel/casino tonite too, What time are you heading over there? We will take care of the cab if you want (or split the cab) if you want to.

Are you all hitting the midnite buffet? That should be awesome!

Are you all eating at the first or second seating?

If you dont' like who they have you sitting with your welcome to join us.

I wonder what the nightclub is like? Maybe we can meet up later. I can give you my cell and/or our room number



I hope I have helped you some. My advice might be lame. You know when your attracted to someone and visa versa. Everyone is going to be so pumped because it's going to be a blast!!!

How do i start to talk to girls?

I don't know what to say when girls start to talk to me. Because i am usually shy. Can you guys please tell me how to start to talk with girls. And when a girl keep on looking at you, does it mean she like me or something?How do i start to talk to girls?
Not always means looking steadily to you is a ';like'; thing but may be concentrating or your shyness is somehow grabbing attention.



If you want to start a real conversation to a girl you think you like or attracted to be confident of what you say but not arrogant, girls sense confidence from a mile ... be spontaneous, yourself and a gentleman.



You gotta thank me, huh? :)



Good luck.How do i start to talk to girls?
Have a sense of humor and be confident if you show your shyness they can see right though you as soon as you say one word but once you get a girl to laugh a couple times that's the key all you have to do from there is roll with it she'll come around to see what you have to say. just don't do stupid stuff to get a laugh just have a quick wit. too many ways to name its according to the girl. that works for me