im kinda shy, but only sometimes, when ppl say ';just be urself'; wut if being ur self doesnt work? i wanna talk to alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll kinds of girls. so how can i create a connection to be friends, not date or ';hookup with'; i just want friendship.How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?
When I was courting my wife-to-be, I talked to her by using my mouth, i.e. I used my lips and tongue. Some people say actions speak louder than words. Don't have sex until you are ready to be a father.How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?
based on your name alone i think i would be your friend.. just talk to people i know its hard but it doesnt get any easier so get used to it
theres so many girls tht want to be ur friend just try to get out as much as u can just keep talking to diff kind of women and c wht happens
being yourself always works......u have to realize tho that not every single girl out there is going to like you....you want them to like u for u so don't try and pretend to b someone ur not....we can see rite through that and hate fakes....if u are real with them they'll b real with u and appreciate u for who u are...
Be funny, not obnoxious, be smart but not arrogant, smile a lot but don't cheese. Be fun, but not too fun. Have money but don't show it. Girls like confidence but not intimidation. They like when guys listen but can hold a conversation. The more you date the better you get and before long you will be wishing you were single again. Good luck!
Be outtgoing,
But not cocky
It can get awkward if you have nothing to talk about with a girl,
Ask her what music you like, and chances are if you like
the same music,
You willhave more of the same intersts.
And always know your body language,
If shes figiddy
or moving around alot,
Then shes getting bored,
If she is making eye contact then she wants to know more
If YOU are making eye contact then that means your intrested
And if she says something
Don't just go,
Ya, oh cool, uh huh,
Ask her a question back
If she says she likes say KNOTB,
Don;t just say, cool or awesome
Say that you like them/don't
Or talk about them
Hope this helps
if you need more help
Email
Tyler
if ur silly, walk up to a girl and say something silly, or play on the shyness..just walk up and say ';i'm kinda shy but i want to make new friends, i'm so and so whats your name?'; or wait until you see a girl doing something she is enjoying and go up and ask her random questions about it then introduce yourself. be yourself and just take a risk and you will be amazed.
If your shy that's fine. I used to be very shy..It didn't work for me. I tried smiling alot (not in a creepy way though) and crazy as it sounds it worked. If someone talks to you TALK back.
Body language is key. Always pay attention to someones body language, and yours. You might be standing close to somone who could take it as you might ';want'; them. Just try pay attention to people around you. influence is a great thing
Sunday, December 11, 2011
How bothered are girls by muscles?
All you ever hear girls talk about is how some people, like JLS for example are so 'fit' and all that, which really demoralises some of the weaker and less attractive people, other than just me. Do the friendly, nice, polite,helpful have any chance with girls or do they just have to be these muscular,fit, good looking, funny guys??How bothered are girls by muscles?
Well, i am a girl, and i love fit men...but fit isnt necessarily muscular....i hate lazy guys who dont look after their selves, and generally, if i guy does enough exercise he will be toned and a good weight...if he keeps that up and spends more time doing high weights low reps in the gym...he will also gain muscle...which is sexy...but its he fitness and health thats important. being polite and nice is also important as having a nice body will get you no where if your personilty and attitude stink. xdomain names odp.net charakterset
Well, i am a girl, and i love fit men...but fit isnt necessarily muscular....i hate lazy guys who dont look after their selves, and generally, if i guy does enough exercise he will be toned and a good weight...if he keeps that up and spends more time doing high weights low reps in the gym...he will also gain muscle...which is sexy...but its he fitness and health thats important. being polite and nice is also important as having a nice body will get you no where if your personilty and attitude stink. x
What are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
Well, i am going on a cruise this summer with my friend Dylan and we want to ';get some girls'; like hook up with them. But i don't want to be dumb and use some stupid pickup line. Does anyone know how i should approach a cute girl i dont know?What are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
cruises are great for one reason... everyones already thought about it... either the girl is willing to hang out/hook up with a nice good looking guy....or there not
if there willing then they half excpect you to hit on them
so just go for it.....say anything bring anything up and just get a conversation going and see were it ends up
worse case scenerio....some girl you dont know and will never see again thinks your weirdWhat are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
thats why pick up lines were invented
You must be desperate.
just go talk her
Hmm.... why don't you try by saying ';Hi?
how about saying'; hello';? with so many dudes now tryin these weak as# pimp lines the best game is no game at all..just be yourself..and youll stand out.
actually i sometimes think pickup lines are halarious...use them!
What my friend's boyfriend did was bump into her ';accidentally'; when she had a glass of water. He said, ';Man, I'm really sorry!'; and asked if he could get her something (like a soda or a candy bar).
Just give her a complement. or ask for the time and then intro your self.
or.
start by saying ';Oh man my friend is late again! ugh '; or along those lines.
and say it loud enough so she hears. hopefully she;ll turn around and say ';blahblah blah';
Just say hello, introduce yourself, and be polite. Don't put on an act. Ladies like men who are genuine, nice, respectful. Let them know that you are interested, and ask them if they are too. If they want to take things to the next level, follow their lead. I hope you have a great time!
well just go up to them and start a conversation not a stupid won make them feel bad for u look cute and dnt ever ever be shy in front of her cause once she knows u shy well theres no point of talkin 2 her cause the majority of girls dnt like shy guys oh yea and dnt act like a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i personally love a sense of humor. go up to her and say NANU-NANU, (mork and mindy), with ur hand extended like mork does. sounds corny but i would wanna hang out w/u. lol seriously
Be honest.
Anything works as long as you sincerely mean it. Don't lie, play games, or inhibit yourself; they can smell that a mile away.
Honesty rocks!
ask her alot of questions about her such as what she likes, her hobbies and interests and she will eventually ask you about yourself and before you know it your having a genuine conversation.
Try and be their friend first. You don't want to look like some kind of pervert, so don't make a move until you know them. Do things you like and you will find girls there that like the same things. Just talk! If you say something stupid the chances are slim that you will ever see this person again, be yourself!!!
Hey Brad
The thing that's easy is that your going on vacation. There is going to be alot of girls wanting to do the same thing you are have a blast and meet people. Have a drink chill out and enjoy. Questions that are not stupid that you can bring up and not look like an idiot. You don't need pickup lines so to speak. You will see girls who you are attracted to and you can be mellow about your approach.
Hey this is great have you (or you all) been on a cruise before? Once you started hitting it off then ask
What are you going to do once we dock in the Bahamas (insert destination here if not Bahamas)? Shop, Scuba dive, parasail, or tour the island?
What are you planning on doing tonite? Stay on the boat or go and gamble at one of the hotels?
Yeah, we are hitting the hotel/casino tonite too, What time are you heading over there? We will take care of the cab if you want (or split the cab) if you want to.
Are you all hitting the midnite buffet? That should be awesome!
Are you all eating at the first or second seating?
If you dont' like who they have you sitting with your welcome to join us.
I wonder what the nightclub is like? Maybe we can meet up later. I can give you my cell and/or our room number
I hope I have helped you some. My advice might be lame. You know when your attracted to someone and visa versa. Everyone is going to be so pumped because it's going to be a blast!!!
cruises are great for one reason... everyones already thought about it... either the girl is willing to hang out/hook up with a nice good looking guy....or there not
if there willing then they half excpect you to hit on them
so just go for it.....say anything bring anything up and just get a conversation going and see were it ends up
worse case scenerio....some girl you dont know and will never see again thinks your weirdWhat are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
thats why pick up lines were invented
You must be desperate.
just go talk her
Hmm.... why don't you try by saying ';Hi?
how about saying'; hello';? with so many dudes now tryin these weak as# pimp lines the best game is no game at all..just be yourself..and youll stand out.
actually i sometimes think pickup lines are halarious...use them!
What my friend's boyfriend did was bump into her ';accidentally'; when she had a glass of water. He said, ';Man, I'm really sorry!'; and asked if he could get her something (like a soda or a candy bar).
Just give her a complement. or ask for the time and then intro your self.
or.
start by saying ';Oh man my friend is late again! ugh '; or along those lines.
and say it loud enough so she hears. hopefully she;ll turn around and say ';blahblah blah';
Just say hello, introduce yourself, and be polite. Don't put on an act. Ladies like men who are genuine, nice, respectful. Let them know that you are interested, and ask them if they are too. If they want to take things to the next level, follow their lead. I hope you have a great time!
well just go up to them and start a conversation not a stupid won make them feel bad for u look cute and dnt ever ever be shy in front of her cause once she knows u shy well theres no point of talkin 2 her cause the majority of girls dnt like shy guys oh yea and dnt act like a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i personally love a sense of humor. go up to her and say NANU-NANU, (mork and mindy), with ur hand extended like mork does. sounds corny but i would wanna hang out w/u. lol seriously
Be honest.
Anything works as long as you sincerely mean it. Don't lie, play games, or inhibit yourself; they can smell that a mile away.
Honesty rocks!
ask her alot of questions about her such as what she likes, her hobbies and interests and she will eventually ask you about yourself and before you know it your having a genuine conversation.
Try and be their friend first. You don't want to look like some kind of pervert, so don't make a move until you know them. Do things you like and you will find girls there that like the same things. Just talk! If you say something stupid the chances are slim that you will ever see this person again, be yourself!!!
Hey Brad
The thing that's easy is that your going on vacation. There is going to be alot of girls wanting to do the same thing you are have a blast and meet people. Have a drink chill out and enjoy. Questions that are not stupid that you can bring up and not look like an idiot. You don't need pickup lines so to speak. You will see girls who you are attracted to and you can be mellow about your approach.
Hey this is great have you (or you all) been on a cruise before? Once you started hitting it off then ask
What are you going to do once we dock in the Bahamas (insert destination here if not Bahamas)? Shop, Scuba dive, parasail, or tour the island?
What are you planning on doing tonite? Stay on the boat or go and gamble at one of the hotels?
Yeah, we are hitting the hotel/casino tonite too, What time are you heading over there? We will take care of the cab if you want (or split the cab) if you want to.
Are you all hitting the midnite buffet? That should be awesome!
Are you all eating at the first or second seating?
If you dont' like who they have you sitting with your welcome to join us.
I wonder what the nightclub is like? Maybe we can meet up later. I can give you my cell and/or our room number
I hope I have helped you some. My advice might be lame. You know when your attracted to someone and visa versa. Everyone is going to be so pumped because it's going to be a blast!!!
How do i start to talk to girls?
I don't know what to say when girls start to talk to me. Because i am usually shy. Can you guys please tell me how to start to talk with girls. And when a girl keep on looking at you, does it mean she like me or something?How do i start to talk to girls?
Not always means looking steadily to you is a ';like'; thing but may be concentrating or your shyness is somehow grabbing attention.
If you want to start a real conversation to a girl you think you like or attracted to be confident of what you say but not arrogant, girls sense confidence from a mile ... be spontaneous, yourself and a gentleman.
You gotta thank me, huh? :)
Good luck.How do i start to talk to girls?
Have a sense of humor and be confident if you show your shyness they can see right though you as soon as you say one word but once you get a girl to laugh a couple times that's the key all you have to do from there is roll with it she'll come around to see what you have to say. just don't do stupid stuff to get a laugh just have a quick wit. too many ways to name its according to the girl. that works for me
Not always means looking steadily to you is a ';like'; thing but may be concentrating or your shyness is somehow grabbing attention.
If you want to start a real conversation to a girl you think you like or attracted to be confident of what you say but not arrogant, girls sense confidence from a mile ... be spontaneous, yourself and a gentleman.
You gotta thank me, huh? :)
Good luck.How do i start to talk to girls?
Have a sense of humor and be confident if you show your shyness they can see right though you as soon as you say one word but once you get a girl to laugh a couple times that's the key all you have to do from there is roll with it she'll come around to see what you have to say. just don't do stupid stuff to get a laugh just have a quick wit. too many ways to name its according to the girl. that works for me
What do you talk with girls?
I mean the really girly ones, preppy....
It's like I want to get to know them better, but they just answer to my questions with one word and then there's no conversations
How to get them to talk?!?What do you talk with girls?
ask them about what they like. something that CANT be answered with only one word. like, what is their favorite type of music? if they say r%26amp;b, ask their favorite singer, their favorite song by that singer, why they like them... just ask questions about themselves. if that doesn't work, then she's really not interested. but chances are, this will work. i used to be considered preppy for a few years, and this always worked on me.
It's like I want to get to know them better, but they just answer to my questions with one word and then there's no conversations
How to get them to talk?!?What do you talk with girls?
ask them about what they like. something that CANT be answered with only one word. like, what is their favorite type of music? if they say r%26amp;b, ask their favorite singer, their favorite song by that singer, why they like them... just ask questions about themselves. if that doesn't work, then she's really not interested. but chances are, this will work. i used to be considered preppy for a few years, and this always worked on me.
POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
Speech is the vocalization form of human communication. It is based upon the syntactic combination of lexicals and names that are drawn from very large (usually %26gt;10,000 different words) vocabularies. Each spoken word is created out of the phonetic combination of a limited set of vowel and consonant speech sound units. These vocabularies, the syntax which structures them, and their set of speech sound units, differ creating the existence of many thousands of different types of mutually unintelligible human languages. Human speakers are often polyglot able to communicate in two or more of them. The vocal abilities that enable humans to produce speech also provide humans with the ability to sing.
A gestural form of human communication exists for the deaf in the form of sign language. Speech in some cultures has become the bases of a written language, often one that differs in its vocabulary, syntax and phonetics from its associated spoken one, a situation called diglossia. Speech in addition to its use in communication, it is suggested by some psychologists such as Vygotsky is internally used by mental processes to enhance and organize cognition in the form of an interior monologue.
Speech is researched in terms of the speech production and speech perception of the sounds used in spoken language. Several academic disciplines study these including acoustics, psychology, speech pathology, linguistics, cognitive science, communication studies, otolaryngology and computer science. Another area of research is how the human brain in its different areas such as the Broca's area and Wernicke's area underlies speech.
It is controversial how far human speech is unique in that other animals also communicate with vocalizations. While none in the wild uses syntax nor compatibly large vocabularies, research upon the nonverbal abilities of language trained apes such as Washoe and Kanzi raises the possibility that they might have these capabilities.
The origins of speech are unknown and subject to much debate and speculation.
EVERYONE TALKS IT IS HUMAN NATURE!!!11POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
Speech and communication are amazing. I agree that there is nothing scientifically that can explain it.
But there are those studies that say women use many more words than men every day. And, as a guy, there are times when certain (not all of course) ladies just wear me out with talking. Some compromise is need in this area on both sides!POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
it is a stereotype because most girls just talk about themselves and stupid stuff, which makes it seem as though they have been talking for years. it is sooo annoying. so if your a girl and you find yourself talking about yourself or something stupid, please stop
You鈥檙e a girl and look, you had to use over 300 words to bring your point across. If you keep it simple and within 75 words nobody will ever think you鈥檙e talking too much. ;)
your whole entire answer is ironic to the answer isn't it?
way to contradict what you just said.
Communication is human nature, yes - but not the way girls do it! They take it WAAAAY too far!
You just proved that they do talk to much
Thanks I feel better now
you sure sound bitchy
O.O That hurt my eyes!
get a f*ckin life! will ya?
A gestural form of human communication exists for the deaf in the form of sign language. Speech in some cultures has become the bases of a written language, often one that differs in its vocabulary, syntax and phonetics from its associated spoken one, a situation called diglossia. Speech in addition to its use in communication, it is suggested by some psychologists such as Vygotsky is internally used by mental processes to enhance and organize cognition in the form of an interior monologue.
Speech is researched in terms of the speech production and speech perception of the sounds used in spoken language. Several academic disciplines study these including acoustics, psychology, speech pathology, linguistics, cognitive science, communication studies, otolaryngology and computer science. Another area of research is how the human brain in its different areas such as the Broca's area and Wernicke's area underlies speech.
It is controversial how far human speech is unique in that other animals also communicate with vocalizations. While none in the wild uses syntax nor compatibly large vocabularies, research upon the nonverbal abilities of language trained apes such as Washoe and Kanzi raises the possibility that they might have these capabilities.
The origins of speech are unknown and subject to much debate and speculation.
EVERYONE TALKS IT IS HUMAN NATURE!!!11POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
Speech and communication are amazing. I agree that there is nothing scientifically that can explain it.
But there are those studies that say women use many more words than men every day. And, as a guy, there are times when certain (not all of course) ladies just wear me out with talking. Some compromise is need in this area on both sides!POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
it is a stereotype because most girls just talk about themselves and stupid stuff, which makes it seem as though they have been talking for years. it is sooo annoying. so if your a girl and you find yourself talking about yourself or something stupid, please stop
You鈥檙e a girl and look, you had to use over 300 words to bring your point across. If you keep it simple and within 75 words nobody will ever think you鈥檙e talking too much. ;)
your whole entire answer is ironic to the answer isn't it?
way to contradict what you just said.
Communication is human nature, yes - but not the way girls do it! They take it WAAAAY too far!
You just proved that they do talk to much
Thanks I feel better now
you sure sound bitchy
O.O That hurt my eyes!
get a f*ckin life! will ya?
How to talk to girls in a group?
I have been talking to a girl for some days over the phone and we have decided to meet each other, but the problem is that she told me that she is going to bring some of her friends along with her and i am really confused about how to tackle the situation if the girls keep talking to each other all the time...more specifically how can i avoid looking like a fool? and on what topics i can talk to them about?though 1 of my friend is willing to go with me but he is not sure whether he can find spare time or not.
please help me outHow to talk to girls in a group?
first of all try to get her to dump her friends...let her know that your interested in hanging out with her and getting to know her. If she still wants to bring her friends than tell her if you guys can reschedule that way you can bring some of your friends...that way it can be like a double date or something. Its gonna be hard to try to get her attention or any one on one time if she brings her friends...so if you decide to go anyways just talk to them about what kinds of things they like and what they do for fun. Hopefully you'll have some things in common...just act like your getting to know all of themHow to talk to girls in a group?
just keep calm , and no matter what be yourself and be confident and funny , girls love guys that are funny =D
and if your friend cannot go well go on your own , it'kll be a life lesson and you'll learn from it :)
dont worry ! x
i would say that u should just act ur self and just act like it is just u and her and every 1 else is just figures in ur imagination.
{hopes this helpz}
Sincerely,
addyallheart463
talk about how much u luv AMERICAN EAGLE hahahanames to match brother
please help me outHow to talk to girls in a group?
first of all try to get her to dump her friends...let her know that your interested in hanging out with her and getting to know her. If she still wants to bring her friends than tell her if you guys can reschedule that way you can bring some of your friends...that way it can be like a double date or something. Its gonna be hard to try to get her attention or any one on one time if she brings her friends...so if you decide to go anyways just talk to them about what kinds of things they like and what they do for fun. Hopefully you'll have some things in common...just act like your getting to know all of themHow to talk to girls in a group?
just keep calm , and no matter what be yourself and be confident and funny , girls love guys that are funny =D
and if your friend cannot go well go on your own , it'kll be a life lesson and you'll learn from it :)
dont worry ! x
i would say that u should just act ur self and just act like it is just u and her and every 1 else is just figures in ur imagination.
{hopes this helpz}
Sincerely,
addyallheart463
talk about how much u luv AMERICAN EAGLE hahaha
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