Well, a few days ago I told my friend, who's best friend I like about my dream. It had to do with the girl I like, so this is what I got back:
';and about ur dream. AWWWWWWWWWWWW. lol thats so cutee:] you like her dont you! i knew it! hehe';
and I responded telling her how she doesn't like me..
this is what I got then:
';andd, what if she did like you hmm? than what? lol';
So then i told her how I don't know what I'd do..and I said she doesn't like me......
..does she?
Then I got this back:
';and hmmmmmmmmm i wonder if she does :/ maybe i'll askk...you never know..if she did...
you'd like that wouldnt you? aloooot. hehe';
I'm so confused D:
I emailed her telling her that she doesn't have to ask [which i regret] and then I emailed her another one asking what the girl I liked said [stupid, i know]..and she never responded yet :\Girls: Help me decode this 'girl talk'?
don't even bother with this. If it's confusing head-games to begin with, it's not going to get any better. You sound young- you have your whole life ahead of you. Wait for a time when you and the girl you like can be straight-forward about your feelings... not having to talk indirectly to her best friend. It's a double no-no!Girls: Help me decode this 'girl talk'?
I think your friend is playing with you - which isn't nice.
She might like YOU honestly, from the way she's acting...
hmmmmmmmm
i think ur girl likes u
and i think ur other girl likes u
and the one texthing/emailing/IMing you is J E A L O U S
It sounds like your friend likes you.
Well, she means well, but this should teach you a lesson. Somethings are better left to yourself. You don't have to share everything. Now who knows what she'll say to this girl of your dreams...
SHE LIKES U
I think the chick likes ya. She's probably with the friend and they are reading it together. Take a chance man.
She's Jealous!
It was pretty much a test and she was probably thrilled when you emailed her telling her not to ask.
then probably cried when you emailed asking what happened.
And she's kicking herself for bringing it up in the first place.
Answer my question?
duh! she's (ur friend) likes u! the reason y she hasn't responded yet is cuz she jealous!
I think neither of them likes you and you are being set up for a fall. Get used to it, it can happen over and over again.
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Sunday, November 21, 2010
How to talk to girls?
Yeah, I know this is probably one of those questions that gets asked every five minutes. Hopefully you can spare me an answer or two.
Pretty much, my life has been one great, big romantic failure after another. I'll find a girl I'm really attracted to, both physically and intellectually, I'll make friends with her, and then ruin everything. I'll be able to hold conversations wonderfully for a week or two, and then... Bang. Something happens, something snaps, and I my mind isn't doing anything besides firing blanks. No thoughts are popping into my mind, except thoughts wondering where all the other thoughts are.
Then I end up saying stupid and/or weird things to fill the silence, and then the girl seems to lose any interest she may have previously had. This happens all the time, and I've got no idea what to do about it. I'm a lot better looking than I used to be (albeit in kind of a goofy way), and a lot more confident, but nothing I do seems to prevent this.
I mean, this same exact thing happened to me today. I wasn't romantically interested in the girl I was talking to, but it still sucked. We've been talking the last few weeks, I'm feeling a bit sick, and suddenly crap (metaphor here, obviously) starts pouring out of my mouth. Stupid, redundant crap. This flood is punctuated by occasional awkward silences, the odd hint of laughter, and me apologizing for everything stupid I do.
Like I said, I wasn't going to ask this girl out or anything. I liked her as a friend. Hopefully I didn't lose her as one, just because I had a really off day. Then again, I've got a tendency to be melodramatic about these things, so who knows...
Yeah, any advice would be nice. I just want to know what to talk about, and how to deal with awkward silences.How to talk to girls?
be nice. Then they will talk to u nice
Pretty much, my life has been one great, big romantic failure after another. I'll find a girl I'm really attracted to, both physically and intellectually, I'll make friends with her, and then ruin everything. I'll be able to hold conversations wonderfully for a week or two, and then... Bang. Something happens, something snaps, and I my mind isn't doing anything besides firing blanks. No thoughts are popping into my mind, except thoughts wondering where all the other thoughts are.
Then I end up saying stupid and/or weird things to fill the silence, and then the girl seems to lose any interest she may have previously had. This happens all the time, and I've got no idea what to do about it. I'm a lot better looking than I used to be (albeit in kind of a goofy way), and a lot more confident, but nothing I do seems to prevent this.
I mean, this same exact thing happened to me today. I wasn't romantically interested in the girl I was talking to, but it still sucked. We've been talking the last few weeks, I'm feeling a bit sick, and suddenly crap (metaphor here, obviously) starts pouring out of my mouth. Stupid, redundant crap. This flood is punctuated by occasional awkward silences, the odd hint of laughter, and me apologizing for everything stupid I do.
Like I said, I wasn't going to ask this girl out or anything. I liked her as a friend. Hopefully I didn't lose her as one, just because I had a really off day. Then again, I've got a tendency to be melodramatic about these things, so who knows...
Yeah, any advice would be nice. I just want to know what to talk about, and how to deal with awkward silences.How to talk to girls?
be nice. Then they will talk to u nice
Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
like a minute into any conversation with a girl i get a *****. of course she doesn't notice but it throws me off a little and i get nervous and the conversation becomes awkward
how can i stop that from happening?Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Me 2....Think of a sewing needle going down the hole in ur D*** t works for me ( i no its sick)Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Masturbate regularly.
think of fat guys when you talk to girls
think of something totally disgusting,
that has no chance of ever turning you on.fish
how can i stop that from happening?Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Me 2....Think of a sewing needle going down the hole in ur D*** t works for me ( i no its sick)Whenever I talk to girls I get an erection... how can i make that stop?
Masturbate regularly.
think of fat guys when you talk to girls
think of something totally disgusting,
that has no chance of ever turning you on.
Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
I broke up my friendship with a girl before 15 months. I hurted her a lot so i thought of asking her sorry and i emailed her last week saying ';Hi how are you?'; and she replied ';Hi i am fine,How are you?';
Do you girls think i can again talk with her?Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
Yea. If she emailed you back then talk to her again. I really don't know why you would ';dump'; her as a friend but w/e.Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
well try to say sorry and see what she does
yes, there is a possible chance you guys can talk again
just talk like you normally would and say your sorry
Do you girls think i can again talk with her?Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
Yea. If she emailed you back then talk to her again. I really don't know why you would ';dump'; her as a friend but w/e.Do you think she wants to talk to me???? Girls help me!!! Boys too!!?
well try to say sorry and see what she does
yes, there is a possible chance you guys can talk again
just talk like you normally would and say your sorry
How to talk to girls in highschool?
Im a junior in highschool ive been here both years just starting 3rd year and ive never been able to talk to girls with out it getting awkwardly silentHow to talk to girls in highschool?
We like to hear you babble on about nothing so just go on talking about what your likes and dislikes are. If there is a silence just smile and say ';well I can see who is talkative today.'; and make sure its not in a cocky tone of voice.
Hope I helped~How to talk to girls in highschool?
The trick is to let them talk. Ask them what their interests are, what kind of music they like, what their plans for the weekend are. One thing you'll learn about girls is that they love to talk about themselves.
It also helps if you're not a complete loser. You can be the ugliest sad sack in the world, but you have to have confidence -- it's what seperates the guys in highschool.
-Go to more social events. Like basketball games and football games.And let people get to know you
-If you really uncomfortable you can just say hi to them in the hall, and thats all until you feel comfortable talking to them in a conversation.
-Talk to the girls next to you locker. Just say hows it going and thats all you have to say.
-Talk to people in your class next to you. Get to know them. Have them help you on assignments even though you don't need help.
-Join school clubs
-Just talk to someone new at lunch
Overcome your fear of talking to people by putting yourself out there. It's the only way to improve. So if you want a girlfriend you have to make an effort to meet them. If a relationship doesn't have communication you don't have anything.
I understand how you feel, im shy myself. All i can say is just choose someone or if someone talks to you make an effort to keep the conversation going. Look them in the eye. I myself need to work on that. And not only get to know the person but let them get to know you. If you know something something about the person for example lol: you know judy is going to be in the play ask her how the play is going and and what part she plays in it. Just ask questions. People usually like to give there opinions about themselves.
If you would like to talk to me further i be happy to answer an other questions you have. Email me at : artist_cutie_22@yahoo.com
Hope this helps!
its ok and totally normal. it takes practice
We like to hear you babble on about nothing so just go on talking about what your likes and dislikes are. If there is a silence just smile and say ';well I can see who is talkative today.'; and make sure its not in a cocky tone of voice.
Hope I helped~How to talk to girls in highschool?
The trick is to let them talk. Ask them what their interests are, what kind of music they like, what their plans for the weekend are. One thing you'll learn about girls is that they love to talk about themselves.
It also helps if you're not a complete loser. You can be the ugliest sad sack in the world, but you have to have confidence -- it's what seperates the guys in highschool.
-Go to more social events. Like basketball games and football games.And let people get to know you
-If you really uncomfortable you can just say hi to them in the hall, and thats all until you feel comfortable talking to them in a conversation.
-Talk to the girls next to you locker. Just say hows it going and thats all you have to say.
-Talk to people in your class next to you. Get to know them. Have them help you on assignments even though you don't need help.
-Join school clubs
-Just talk to someone new at lunch
Overcome your fear of talking to people by putting yourself out there. It's the only way to improve. So if you want a girlfriend you have to make an effort to meet them. If a relationship doesn't have communication you don't have anything.
I understand how you feel, im shy myself. All i can say is just choose someone or if someone talks to you make an effort to keep the conversation going. Look them in the eye. I myself need to work on that. And not only get to know the person but let them get to know you. If you know something something about the person for example lol: you know judy is going to be in the play ask her how the play is going and and what part she plays in it. Just ask questions. People usually like to give there opinions about themselves.
If you would like to talk to me further i be happy to answer an other questions you have. Email me at : artist_cutie_22@yahoo.com
Hope this helps!
its ok and totally normal. it takes practice
How do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
usually at parties i'm always talking with the people i know because i never really know how to introduce myself to others without looking somewhat stupid. Guys, what's ur method for talking to random girls at parties...How do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
danceHow do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
having guy friends introduce u really helps in this department. unfortunately my guy friends are kinda gay hahaha just kidding.
what you should do, is smile a lot and look like you're having fun.
at a club or party, if you look like you're having fun and smiling a lot girls will like that. just smile a lot.
danceHow do i talk to girls i don't know at parties?
having guy friends introduce u really helps in this department. unfortunately my guy friends are kinda gay hahaha just kidding.
what you should do, is smile a lot and look like you're having fun.
at a club or party, if you look like you're having fun and smiling a lot girls will like that. just smile a lot.
Girls: How do you flirt with somebody you like?
Would you use a indirect approach? I'm thinking maybe compliment him and talk about HIM. A guy told me that guys love it when a girl talks about them and what they like to do.Girls: How do you flirt with somebody you like?
That works for almost anyone, and it's an excellent approach for getting to know a person. I've used the same tactic to get to know girls, coworkers, and so on. The only people I've met who don't like it are celebrities (visiting lecturers, in my case). On a lecture tour, you can get really tired about talking about yourself.
That works for almost anyone, and it's an excellent approach for getting to know a person. I've used the same tactic to get to know girls, coworkers, and so on. The only people I've met who don't like it are celebrities (visiting lecturers, in my case). On a lecture tour, you can get really tired about talking about yourself.
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