there's this guy who likes me and one day we were talking about girls raping guys, and how they would have to be stronger than the guy to do it. And so he said I could never rape him and I was arguing with him that I could.
We talk about stuff like this a lot that could be awkward. he says im the only girl he would talk about this stuff with. Is it weird? What do you think is going through his mind when he talks about stuff like this?GIRLS or GUYS: Is it weird to talk about this with a guy?
He's probably thinking ';Wow, this girl is cool enough to talk about this kind of stuff with me.';GIRLS or GUYS: Is it weird to talk about this with a guy?
if he talks to you about deep stuff then he cares about you
Thursday, October 28, 2010
How can a guy with a stutter speech problem talk to girls?
if it's serious but not unreadable. I have this problem what should I do, I know what I would like to say but I dont want to end up making a foll of myself.How can a guy with a stutter speech problem talk to girls?
My uncles who stuttered said that they stuttered worse when they tried NOT to stutter, when they were under stress, and when they were very tired. Try concentrating on what you are saying rather than how you are talking, eliminating as much stress from your life as you can, getting plenty of rest, plus working on your speech using a therapist, the self therapy book, or watching The Stuttering Foundation videos and using the things you learn every day.
Try these resources:
www.stutteringhelp.org there are videos online that show speech therapists working with stutterers; watch them and learn some techniques.
http://stutteringselfhelp-stutteringself鈥?/a>
http://stutteringhelp-bud.blogspot.com/
http://notesonstuttering.blogspot.com/
http://www.friendswhostutter.org/
http://www.stuttertalk.com/
Meet others who stutter here http://groups.myspace.com/stutteringfoun鈥?/a>
www.stutteringforum.com
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/stu鈥?/a>
Stuttering Foundation on Facebook
http://stutteringcantstopme.ning.com/
';Self Therapy for the Stutterer'; published by The Stuttering Foundation of America worked wonders for my family members who stuttered after working through it step by step. The book can be found here http://www.stutteringhelp.org/Portals/En鈥?/a>How can a guy with a stutter speech problem talk to girls?
Just talk to them!!! :D
It doesn't matter if you have a speech problem. People make fools of themselves based on what they say, not how they say it (unless they yell at the top of their lungs).
If you have the right words, that's all that matters.
Good luck!
Don't talk too fast, maybe that will help a little. You'll eventually find someone who doesn't mind the fact that you stutter.
Don't let it get to ya : ]
If a girl likes you she'll
like you for who you
are not how you talk ; ]
You'll find a girl that won't mind it
so you shouldn't be imbarrased in any way : ]
it's you,
and you shouldn't let anyone change you.
If it bothers you that much,
just work on it,
it will get better : ]
Its not the stutter she will love you for its you .... just chill out and enjoy the moment :) Aa da best x
Some girls find that sexy anyway! I always heard that reading poetry outloud might help the stuttering.
maybe your just nervous and that's why you stutter. and there's nothing wrong with stuttering. just think of you stuttering as that Miley Cyrus song. were the song has something in it about stuttering and liking someone. just trying to cheer you up.
my son stutters to when he is talking to people and he gets shy then he starts to stutter.
hope that helps answer your question.
talk slowly and dont get nervous because the more nervous you feel ,the more flustered you will become and then you will stutter more.be confident[but not to overly confident,].if the girl is nice she will be polite and patient,if the girl laughs at you then she aint worth bothering with.good luck
Awww
My bestfriend has a studder prOblem
I think its SO cute :DDi near a way to run mac within window
My uncles who stuttered said that they stuttered worse when they tried NOT to stutter, when they were under stress, and when they were very tired. Try concentrating on what you are saying rather than how you are talking, eliminating as much stress from your life as you can, getting plenty of rest, plus working on your speech using a therapist, the self therapy book, or watching The Stuttering Foundation videos and using the things you learn every day.
Try these resources:
www.stutteringhelp.org there are videos online that show speech therapists working with stutterers; watch them and learn some techniques.
http://stutteringselfhelp-stutteringself鈥?/a>
http://stutteringhelp-bud.blogspot.com/
http://notesonstuttering.blogspot.com/
http://www.friendswhostutter.org/
http://www.stuttertalk.com/
Meet others who stutter here http://groups.myspace.com/stutteringfoun鈥?/a>
www.stutteringforum.com
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/stu鈥?/a>
Stuttering Foundation on Facebook
http://stutteringcantstopme.ning.com/
';Self Therapy for the Stutterer'; published by The Stuttering Foundation of America worked wonders for my family members who stuttered after working through it step by step. The book can be found here http://www.stutteringhelp.org/Portals/En鈥?/a>How can a guy with a stutter speech problem talk to girls?
Just talk to them!!! :D
It doesn't matter if you have a speech problem. People make fools of themselves based on what they say, not how they say it (unless they yell at the top of their lungs).
If you have the right words, that's all that matters.
Good luck!
Don't talk too fast, maybe that will help a little. You'll eventually find someone who doesn't mind the fact that you stutter.
Don't let it get to ya : ]
If a girl likes you she'll
like you for who you
are not how you talk ; ]
You'll find a girl that won't mind it
so you shouldn't be imbarrased in any way : ]
it's you,
and you shouldn't let anyone change you.
If it bothers you that much,
just work on it,
it will get better : ]
Its not the stutter she will love you for its you .... just chill out and enjoy the moment :) Aa da best x
Some girls find that sexy anyway! I always heard that reading poetry outloud might help the stuttering.
maybe your just nervous and that's why you stutter. and there's nothing wrong with stuttering. just think of you stuttering as that Miley Cyrus song. were the song has something in it about stuttering and liking someone. just trying to cheer you up.
my son stutters to when he is talking to people and he gets shy then he starts to stutter.
hope that helps answer your question.
talk slowly and dont get nervous because the more nervous you feel ,the more flustered you will become and then you will stutter more.be confident[but not to overly confident,].if the girl is nice she will be polite and patient,if the girl laughs at you then she aint worth bothering with.good luck
Awww
My bestfriend has a studder prOblem
I think its SO cute :DD
How do i get girls to talk to me?
I feel hopeless. nothing ive tried has helped me. how do i get into a conversation with them. once i get that far i think i can manage. Im 13 and i play the guitar and i sing. I made a song on my space and girls talked to me alot for a breif time but now its gone and i have writers block and i need some help to get a girl to talk to me just cus she likes me for me.How do i get girls to talk to me?
Aww Sweetie, there isn't a sure way to MAKE a girl like you. You just need to play it by ear and talk. Keep her interested by not being inappropriate and rude. Be funny, clever, charming, and above all, be yourself. One day a wonderful girl will fall for you. She will see how talented you are and realize that you're a great catch!
I may not have given you any great tips, but I hope I helped boost your confidence! =D
Aww Sweetie, there isn't a sure way to MAKE a girl like you. You just need to play it by ear and talk. Keep her interested by not being inappropriate and rude. Be funny, clever, charming, and above all, be yourself. One day a wonderful girl will fall for you. She will see how talented you are and realize that you're a great catch!
I may not have given you any great tips, but I hope I helped boost your confidence! =D
How do I talk to girls in college?
I'm very shy around girls most likely because I have a stutter. I don't think I'm attractive, I'm just your average guy.
So if I see a girl in the library, not knowing anything about her; if she has a boyfriend or not, how do I approach her, or should I even try?
I'm not trying to get a date or something, just to make friends with girls for a first.How do I talk to girls in college?
You can just talk to people like that, but they might think you're weird just randomly talking to them like that. I would feel weird just approaching someone in a library.
It's easier for me to meet people in classes. Like get there a few minutes early. Start out talking about assignments, and then talk about other things.
Or maybe meet people in the cafeteria. Or get your friends to introduce you to people.
So if I see a girl in the library, not knowing anything about her; if she has a boyfriend or not, how do I approach her, or should I even try?
I'm not trying to get a date or something, just to make friends with girls for a first.How do I talk to girls in college?
You can just talk to people like that, but they might think you're weird just randomly talking to them like that. I would feel weird just approaching someone in a library.
It's easier for me to meet people in classes. Like get there a few minutes early. Start out talking about assignments, and then talk about other things.
Or maybe meet people in the cafeteria. Or get your friends to introduce you to people.
How do you talk to girls?
I just am really awkward talking to girls face to face. I can chat with them for hours on facebook and stuff, but when it gets down to it, I make up some excuse and run for it. How do you do it?How do you talk to girls?
There's no other way, you gotta face your fear and just DO IT.
It's totally not scary, prepare what you're gunna say if that makes it easier, and hopefully the conversation will flow after that. Remember to be YOURSELF and don't try too hard. Just take a deep breath and do it. If you like, think of someone you know who is very confident with girls. Close your eyes for a second and really pretend you're him. (I know I said be yourself but this will hopefully give you the confidence to begin with, after that, be you) Now think, if I were him, how would he do this? Just walk up to girls and chat to them like they're your sister or your guy mates. Afterwards you will feel GREAT and hopefully more confident. Hope this helps :)How do you talk to girls?
well the facebook way is a start, when it comes to actually talking to them, just start with asking them how they are from there if you like them make a stupid joke which no one would laugh at is she laughs then she likes you from there while the tension is cut ask her if she wouldn't mind doing something one day and then take it from there
lol I used to be like that. You just have to be calm and try to not care what they think about you. If you have confidence in yourself, you won't have any problems talking to girls. Just try to think of yourself as an equal to everyone. Not any better and not any worse. That's how I got rid of my ';fear'; of talking to girls. Good luck! ^__^
well, there really shouldn't be anything to worry about, we don't bite. :) but just try being calm, if they know u and u know them, u should feel more comfortable talking to them, knowing that this isnt a new situation. Next time dont make a run for it, instead, make eye contact, share ur thoughts and be a good listener. If u get it over with once, u know u can do it again, but with more ease.
me, i just realized, whats the worst that could happen, so, i took i deep breath, grew some balls, and just talk to her. just make her laugh and compliment her hair, or clothes, ask her about her day, just keep asking(just nothing stupid or perverted), and take it from there
There's no other way, you gotta face your fear and just DO IT.
It's totally not scary, prepare what you're gunna say if that makes it easier, and hopefully the conversation will flow after that. Remember to be YOURSELF and don't try too hard. Just take a deep breath and do it. If you like, think of someone you know who is very confident with girls. Close your eyes for a second and really pretend you're him. (I know I said be yourself but this will hopefully give you the confidence to begin with, after that, be you) Now think, if I were him, how would he do this? Just walk up to girls and chat to them like they're your sister or your guy mates. Afterwards you will feel GREAT and hopefully more confident. Hope this helps :)How do you talk to girls?
well the facebook way is a start, when it comes to actually talking to them, just start with asking them how they are from there if you like them make a stupid joke which no one would laugh at is she laughs then she likes you from there while the tension is cut ask her if she wouldn't mind doing something one day and then take it from there
lol I used to be like that. You just have to be calm and try to not care what they think about you. If you have confidence in yourself, you won't have any problems talking to girls. Just try to think of yourself as an equal to everyone. Not any better and not any worse. That's how I got rid of my ';fear'; of talking to girls. Good luck! ^__^
well, there really shouldn't be anything to worry about, we don't bite. :) but just try being calm, if they know u and u know them, u should feel more comfortable talking to them, knowing that this isnt a new situation. Next time dont make a run for it, instead, make eye contact, share ur thoughts and be a good listener. If u get it over with once, u know u can do it again, but with more ease.
me, i just realized, whats the worst that could happen, so, i took i deep breath, grew some balls, and just talk to her. just make her laugh and compliment her hair, or clothes, ask her about her day, just keep asking(just nothing stupid or perverted), and take it from there
How to talk to girls at school?
Everytime I see a girl at school that I don't know or have classes with, I'm not sure how to attract her. What are some ways getting their numbers?How to talk to girls at school?
make an observation about what shes doing. then relate to it, then ask a question. it shows yer paying attention, it shows that you can relate (have stuff in common) and shows that you are interested in her and her opinion.How to talk to girls at school?
Be direct and brave. It's 21 century. Shyness won't appeal to girls' interests.
well just become friends. then when she likes you as a friend you could tell her something like let me call you later so could i have you number.
find a friend in common. or if you dont have one just smile at her when you walk past her in the hallway. trust me she'll smile back......unless shes like me and thinks your smiling at someone behind her or something cuz that happens to me a lot...heheheh.
Easy drive a nice car, have money, and show that you don't care if you don't know anybody that's it act like you chillin.
Honestly talking to them isnt the biggest problem you'll have, its actually getting the courage to do it.
Although the girls here will tell you how to approach them...most will feel kinda awkward when a guy actually does lol
But anyways cry to open up with a joke something to get her smiling, this means a hit or miss situation. Could start with a hey arent you in my class, she says yea then you ask about the class like the work sucks or its cool such and such
Hey Man Chill I Have Been Through There Just Act Cool Man But Always Look At Them In The Eyes And Tell Them If They Would Like To Hang Out And Then Ask For The Number It Will Work Unless The Person Doesn't Like You
you say
';i seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?';
I usually tell a joke that gets attention, and y'know. After a little bit ask her for her number o_0
Make a comment on something that relates to her, tease her, get a minor convo going then, ';I'd love to talk more, but I have to go. Wanna exchange numbers?';
If she asks to only take yours just cut the line and move on.
Just be sweet, and i know this sounds corny but being yourself is very important! dintt come on too strong at the beginning or you will seem desperate, i would talk to a girl for about a week before asking for her number so you won't seem like you are desperate.
you are beautiful, can i take you out to coffee?
\
ok really this will go against your feeble guy code but !
Numbers, chick and number of girls you bang
MEAN nothing in the real world and really no girl likes a player we to other guys ya sure ur a stud but to girls your a jerk
but
talking to girls is easy! just be your self and be NICE no fart jokes or saying he hun nice *** as soon as you comet on her body ( not knowing her ) your branded a jerk unless it is something nice like you have really pretty eyes or you are beautiful
NO words like
Hot, smoken, sexy, HUGE
girls love to be called beautiful not hot
dont tell her she had a nice rack all u will get is a slap
be your self and that is all !!
make an observation about what shes doing. then relate to it, then ask a question. it shows yer paying attention, it shows that you can relate (have stuff in common) and shows that you are interested in her and her opinion.How to talk to girls at school?
Be direct and brave. It's 21 century. Shyness won't appeal to girls' interests.
well just become friends. then when she likes you as a friend you could tell her something like let me call you later so could i have you number.
find a friend in common. or if you dont have one just smile at her when you walk past her in the hallway. trust me she'll smile back......unless shes like me and thinks your smiling at someone behind her or something cuz that happens to me a lot...heheheh.
Easy drive a nice car, have money, and show that you don't care if you don't know anybody that's it act like you chillin.
Honestly talking to them isnt the biggest problem you'll have, its actually getting the courage to do it.
Although the girls here will tell you how to approach them...most will feel kinda awkward when a guy actually does lol
But anyways cry to open up with a joke something to get her smiling, this means a hit or miss situation. Could start with a hey arent you in my class, she says yea then you ask about the class like the work sucks or its cool such and such
Hey Man Chill I Have Been Through There Just Act Cool Man But Always Look At Them In The Eyes And Tell Them If They Would Like To Hang Out And Then Ask For The Number It Will Work Unless The Person Doesn't Like You
you say
';i seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?';
I usually tell a joke that gets attention, and y'know. After a little bit ask her for her number o_0
Make a comment on something that relates to her, tease her, get a minor convo going then, ';I'd love to talk more, but I have to go. Wanna exchange numbers?';
If she asks to only take yours just cut the line and move on.
Just be sweet, and i know this sounds corny but being yourself is very important! dintt come on too strong at the beginning or you will seem desperate, i would talk to a girl for about a week before asking for her number so you won't seem like you are desperate.
you are beautiful, can i take you out to coffee?
\
ok really this will go against your feeble guy code but !
Numbers, chick and number of girls you bang
MEAN nothing in the real world and really no girl likes a player we to other guys ya sure ur a stud but to girls your a jerk
but
talking to girls is easy! just be your self and be NICE no fart jokes or saying he hun nice *** as soon as you comet on her body ( not knowing her ) your branded a jerk unless it is something nice like you have really pretty eyes or you are beautiful
NO words like
Hot, smoken, sexy, HUGE
girls love to be called beautiful not hot
dont tell her she had a nice rack all u will get is a slap
be your self and that is all !!
Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
Yeah a girl I met started talking to me for 2 weeks straight (on the phone, in person, and online). When I went on vacation she stopped talking to me and when I got back she gave me a lame excuse about how she was busy. She hinted that she was really interested, but then all of a sudden broke all communication with me....she even blocked me on AIM. Who does that? is this some psycho girl I'm dealing with?Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
Ouch! And we women wonder why men are such jerks. I think I've got a good idea why now - it's because of all the crap we put you through as adolescents! I'm sorry she did that to you, it's really sending out mixed messages. Young girls are really funny. One minute, they'll really like you and the next, they want nothing to do with you ...and you've just been standing there for two minutes trying to figure out what the hell's happening. She's not psycho, she's just a confused teenager who will someday feel badly for treating you like this.
I suggest you totally forget about her. Ignore her 100% Don't try to contact her, don't call her, don't write any letters. Ignore her. Quite often, when you ignore a girl, she'll chase after you all the more. It's another strange thing about girls. If you act like you don't care, they'll like you even more. If she doesn't chase after you, good! You don't want this one anyway. Next time, just act like you don't care and see what happens....Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
She met someone she likes better. Sorry!
She either likes someone new, or heard something about you that she doesn't like. That would be my guess anyways.
Sorry for you. The same thing has happened to me before. I didn't get a good reason out of her either. Her friends might not approve of you and that goes a long way with girls.
yes i agree she doesn't like you anymore sorry!
My husband had a woman do this to him just a couple of months before I met him and she was Bi-Polar. When she was in her manic phase she would be calling him and seeing him all the time and when she went through her depression phase she refused to talk to him. He finally after 3 weeks gave up on her and right after I met him she shows up on his doorstep wanting to get back together with him and she got mad because he was leaving his house to go on a date with me. I'm not saying that this is what is going on with your girl, but who knows?
we're just like that.
I'M 47 AND I MEMBER THOSE DAYS NEVER KNOW WHAT SHES THINKING????WHO CARES JUST B NICE THERES LOTS OF CHICKS OUT THERE START OVER WITH A NEW ONE MAKE HER JEALOUS THERE HORMONES R GOING CRAZY TOO GOOD LUCK
she had doubts about her feelings and probably met someone else...
the other reason could be that she aint ready to be this kind of relationship yet...
she still probably likes someone from the past
and didnt wanna hurt u by telling the truth so instead she started avoiding u..
dont worry you'll meet someone better than that...dont rush just wait...
Ouch! And we women wonder why men are such jerks. I think I've got a good idea why now - it's because of all the crap we put you through as adolescents! I'm sorry she did that to you, it's really sending out mixed messages. Young girls are really funny. One minute, they'll really like you and the next, they want nothing to do with you ...and you've just been standing there for two minutes trying to figure out what the hell's happening. She's not psycho, she's just a confused teenager who will someday feel badly for treating you like this.
I suggest you totally forget about her. Ignore her 100% Don't try to contact her, don't call her, don't write any letters. Ignore her. Quite often, when you ignore a girl, she'll chase after you all the more. It's another strange thing about girls. If you act like you don't care, they'll like you even more. If she doesn't chase after you, good! You don't want this one anyway. Next time, just act like you don't care and see what happens....Why do girls talk two someone for two weeks straight and then all of a sudden break all communication?
She met someone she likes better. Sorry!
She either likes someone new, or heard something about you that she doesn't like. That would be my guess anyways.
Sorry for you. The same thing has happened to me before. I didn't get a good reason out of her either. Her friends might not approve of you and that goes a long way with girls.
yes i agree she doesn't like you anymore sorry!
My husband had a woman do this to him just a couple of months before I met him and she was Bi-Polar. When she was in her manic phase she would be calling him and seeing him all the time and when she went through her depression phase she refused to talk to him. He finally after 3 weeks gave up on her and right after I met him she shows up on his doorstep wanting to get back together with him and she got mad because he was leaving his house to go on a date with me. I'm not saying that this is what is going on with your girl, but who knows?
we're just like that.
I'M 47 AND I MEMBER THOSE DAYS NEVER KNOW WHAT SHES THINKING????WHO CARES JUST B NICE THERES LOTS OF CHICKS OUT THERE START OVER WITH A NEW ONE MAKE HER JEALOUS THERE HORMONES R GOING CRAZY TOO GOOD LUCK
she had doubts about her feelings and probably met someone else...
the other reason could be that she aint ready to be this kind of relationship yet...
she still probably likes someone from the past
and didnt wanna hurt u by telling the truth so instead she started avoiding u..
dont worry you'll meet someone better than that...dont rush just wait...
How do I talk to girls?
Ok so I am having trouble talking to girls. Usually if my friend was by this girl I like then I would go over and talk to him and set up a conversation with my friend to where that girl would start talking to. Or if I am just alone and I want to talk to that girl I will get all speechless and say something stupid or do something stupid/embarrassing. I need help on how to talk to girls and some tips on how to treat them and how to act to get them to like me. Please help me I don't want to act like a fool any longer.How do I talk to girls?
let me share something with you.
i like my one of my guy friends...whenever i am around him...i either say something random or something stupid and just he laughs.
talking to people that you like might not be the easiest thing at first. just give yourself some time. start a small conversation with her every now-and-then.
my guy friend has been acting stupid around me too.
neither of us know how to act around each other anymore...
being speechless is natural and acting the way you do is natural.
just talk to her more...even though you act a little funny, the more you talk the easier it will get.
goodluck!!How do I talk to girls?
just be like hey whats up hows it going do u do any sports do you like dogs if she wants to talk to u she will join in if not u will kno
talk with ur mouth... on ur own...
just act natural. be nice and dont worry =] dont be shy! its okay, were really not that bad. lol
Treat girls like they are regular people because they are. dont be afraid just talk, about anything. try talking to girls who want to talk to you, it makes it easier
I used to be the same way with guys, just try staying calm and dont focus much on what your saying or going to say the more you worry about it the more stupid and embarrassing you'll look. Stay calm and smile and definitely know their just girls and your just guys. It took me awhile to realize their just people and to be myself. try befriending some girls so you'll have a few friends that are girls so it'll start to be easier for you to open up. Don't worry so much on what your saying sometimes the stupidiest things a guy says are the cutest and sweetest :]
Just if you talk to a girl, dont try to impress her, make her impress you. We love that. But dont just stand there like you cant talk. All you have to do is flirt a little, like this guy i know if is him but it seems like he is high on some drug, it gives us a laugh and it is very cute. Stay laid back and if you see a girl you think you like go for her. She is bound to talk back.
let me share something with you.
i like my one of my guy friends...whenever i am around him...i either say something random or something stupid and just he laughs.
talking to people that you like might not be the easiest thing at first. just give yourself some time. start a small conversation with her every now-and-then.
my guy friend has been acting stupid around me too.
neither of us know how to act around each other anymore...
being speechless is natural and acting the way you do is natural.
just talk to her more...even though you act a little funny, the more you talk the easier it will get.
goodluck!!How do I talk to girls?
just be like hey whats up hows it going do u do any sports do you like dogs if she wants to talk to u she will join in if not u will kno
talk with ur mouth... on ur own...
just act natural. be nice and dont worry =] dont be shy! its okay, were really not that bad. lol
Treat girls like they are regular people because they are. dont be afraid just talk, about anything. try talking to girls who want to talk to you, it makes it easier
I used to be the same way with guys, just try staying calm and dont focus much on what your saying or going to say the more you worry about it the more stupid and embarrassing you'll look. Stay calm and smile and definitely know their just girls and your just guys. It took me awhile to realize their just people and to be myself. try befriending some girls so you'll have a few friends that are girls so it'll start to be easier for you to open up. Don't worry so much on what your saying sometimes the stupidiest things a guy says are the cutest and sweetest :]
Just if you talk to a girl, dont try to impress her, make her impress you. We love that. But dont just stand there like you cant talk. All you have to do is flirt a little, like this guy i know if is him but it seems like he is high on some drug, it gives us a laugh and it is very cute. Stay laid back and if you see a girl you think you like go for her. She is bound to talk back.
How to talk to girls in high school without a cell phone?
im probably like the only kid in my high school that doesnt have a cell phone because of family money issues and i cant really like ask girls to give me their numbers because i cant really call them or text or pretty much communicate with them because its really hard when you dont have a phone. PLEASE HELPHow to talk to girls in high school without a cell phone?
Uhh. Buy a second-handed phone.
In this society you are lost without one.
You can always give your e-mail, but that's.. weird.
Honestly.. I wish I could give you advice, but without a phone, you are lost.
But you can call with the house phone. But I think girls like texting better so.
Sorry, buy a second-handed..How to talk to girls in high school without a cell phone?
Just wondering to know your story. I'm only 12. I can't help you!
Good Luck!
u don't if u dont hafve a phone for yourself
Uhh. Buy a second-handed phone.
In this society you are lost without one.
You can always give your e-mail, but that's.. weird.
Honestly.. I wish I could give you advice, but without a phone, you are lost.
But you can call with the house phone. But I think girls like texting better so.
Sorry, buy a second-handed..How to talk to girls in high school without a cell phone?
Just wondering to know your story. I'm only 12. I can't help you!
Good Luck!
u don't if u dont hafve a phone for yourself
How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
I'm a guy, I can talk to a girl no problem. When it comes to a girl I like I just get nervous because I'm scared too look stupid or over-stressed. I did ask this girl out in person before, I got her number, facebook, etc. and when I asked she did say yes, but had to cancel because she forgot she made plans with her best friend and apologized.
Anyway, how do I go talk to a girl I like and not feel like such a dud?How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Act like she is a friend, don't talk to her like a friend because you want to stay away from that 'just friends' relationship, but when you get around her just stay cool....
~WilliamHow do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Look, I had a crush on a girl once and I, too was scared to talk, but i overcame my fear and got into a new relationship
Trust it, u gotta act think that she is a normal girl. You gotta make yourself think that you just want to be good friends, and thats how u wont get nervous talking to her.
Just do everything that you do to your freinds who are girls, and when you boost your confidence up, then you can think about liking her.
if you make yourself face the fear of taking to girls that you like, then its easier every time. imagine yourself talking to her and the conversation, over and over, make it good, not what you fear would happen but how you want it to go....go for it
Hmm just be yourself, i can't really give any tips.. i mean what answer are you expecting? or not text her? it's kinda shallow but i did that to my gf and she seems fine with it and of course i told her in person too..
its actually very easy, its just hard to explain.
you just need to man up and talk to her lol.
its a lot easier if its a random girl at a party because you will never see her again. or shell be really drunk
Just joke around a lot. That always used to work for me in high school and stuff. I just acted goofy around girls. Because honestly, once you make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. She'll realize you're funny and trustworthy and she can just have a good time around you and then there's no pressure after that. Just talk to her honestly man but don't be so serious.
man, just be YOURSELF..if she doesn't like you, thinks you're a dork or whatever then the hell with tha beeach! Plenty of fish in tha see lad!..keep fishing, and you'll hook up with the right women..
You just gotta fight the fear of rejection. Most people get scared cause they dont wanna get up the courage and have the girl/guy say no. But you just gotta get through that. Dont let fear determine what you do in life. And i know its hard but really if you ask and she says no then how much different is your life. But if she says yes well then you'll be on cloud nine. And i'm sure you already know but make sure when you ask a girl out make sure your body language conveys confidence. Very Important.
text her
It's natural to think you'd be a dud, but the truth is the girl will be flattered even if you are a dud!! just be yourself, be wacky and crazy. I am like that when I first see a guy that I like. You have to go in with the confidence that you are not any less if this girl happens to say no, you'll find another girl to just go say HI to. Forget about me rejected or being a dud, and you will see how much easier it can be to talk to someone new!! I know it sounds impossible, but I've done it for years and I have met many great guys, it'll work on girls too!
That is easy. You just have to be confident and be willing to be shot down if it is to happen. If you act all nervous and not confident she will pick that up and will be turned off. You just have to go in their confident. NOT COCKY just confident and be a gent. Some woman like guys who are jerks but woman like a gent.
i suggest talking to girls that you don't like romantically first. it won't be as awkward. and you will get practice. you can talk about the same thing to the girl that you like as the one you don't. hope this helps. ♥
i cant really help you since its your nerves, and i cant change your personality. but if your at a place that you are passionate about or know alot about such as starbucks, see the girl, go up, introduce yourself, and ask her if the drink/snack is worth buying. wait for her answer... and then say, great! thanks... i'll try that next time, and maybe you can join me? just stay calm, cool, and collected. stick to what you know! good luck!
be yourself.
im a girl and thats what i like when guys talk to me.
and always be confident in yourself.
if you emabress yourself, shell forget about it at one point, move on.
good luck%26lt;3
well its sortof akward but all you need to do is start by saying '; Hi my name is......'; welll there u go
THe more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just suck it up. All the feelings you have are normal. Be SURE to show confidence as that is one of the most attractive qualities girls subconsciously/consciously look for in a guy.
You just gotta suck it up and do it. Note, laughter is ALWAYS a great way into a girl's heart! So just try to get a laugh outa her first then the rest will fall into play!
Be ur self
if she smiles at you when u pass by then u get the idea she likes you
or ask her friends if they like you tehn go for it
I'm a girl.
Girls...sometimes they don't mind guys that are nervous. That means they like us.
It's sweet, when they get nervous, cause it also means they won't pressure us that much.
Talk about music, or things you both like. Just ask her questions like you would your best friend that's a guy. I mean, don't bring up sports unless she likes them or whatever.
Just ask her about her favorite colors, her friends, act like your just a friend but be sort of flirty. Make eye contact, ';accidentally'; brush her skin, smile, tickle her if she likes that. Just be yourself and don't think about your feelings.
Hope this helps.
Just be yourself.
ANSWER:
Here is some advice on attracting girls:
* Be yourself and be confident.
* The question is ';How do you attract A girl?'; not any particular girl or THIS girl. The best way to attract a girl is by being a man. Learn all about yourself as a man and relish your manliness. I don't mean turn into Paul Bunyan, but rather indulge the manly things you like to do, whatever they may be. Play sports, fart loudly and ceremoniously, fix things, don't be bashful about scratching your crotch, at some point in the relationship with a girl you must casually tell her that you will have to bend her over and make her your *****, belch with your friends, get dirty, play cards, get a Jeep, go outdoors, learn about cars, learn about computers, feast on grand meals you cook with your buddies on the grill over beers, shoot stuff, blow things up, play with growing a beard (it'll look like crap, but that's okay -- you are a man), play with dogs. Do NOT primp your hair pretty and try to look some certain way, work out because you want to have pretty muscles, try and be something you aren't -- that's gay. If you just have a good time and enjoy doing the manly things you want to do then you'll either bump into some girl that digs it or you'll have enough fun you don't care anyhow (which is even more attractive to a lot of women). When you can truthfully answer the above question with a ';who cares?'; then you are just about there. Oh, also, talk to every girl you meet with a smile on your face. And make a point to meet every pretty girl you see. But when you meet them don't stress about what you say to meet them, just say something stupid that clearly conveys you are not cool, you know you are not cool but you don't care because your confident enough that it doesn't matter.
* Be nonchalant sometimes. And become totally sweet. Be unpredictable.
* There are many ways to do so, but to answer this assessing what your current barriers are would be the first way to start. And if you have any friends who are girls, ask them what you should do differently if you aren't happy with this area of your life. If not, you could rely on a sister for advice.
* Show her that you really like her, and don't keep her guessing.
* Be yourself. Yes, it sounds so cliche but it is true. They will get to know the real you eventually so why not let them fall in love with the right person. Always be honest about your past and things you have done. There is nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward but never pretend to be someone you are not. Don't play games rather let her know how you feel. If you are open, honest and yourself and she still doesn't like you then you don't need her anyways.
* Think you are sexy, and they will too.
* Personally being a girl myself, to attract a girl, stare at her, make her feel special. Talk to her, don't always ignore her, or try to act all tough. Get to know her, tell her how you feel. Don't play with her emotions, just tell her straight up. But get to know her first, and try to see if she feels the same, otherwise just telling her straight up can be quite risky. Just trying to spend time with her, talking with her, or staring at her would usually get a girls attention though. It would flatter her, and she would sooner or later be interested, unless she's already taken.
* Be three things; smart, nice, and no pushover. From my experiences, girls like all of the above, smart - have a future, aspirations for a good job, etc. Be nice, respectful, kind, but not too kind, don't be a freakin pushover. If some Neanderthal thug comes trying to own you, if he insults you, insult him back, if you're a nice guy, you have brains and you can shut him up!
* One of the common mistakes that guys make when trying to attract a girl is when they try to act arrogant and cooler than his friends. This does not impress us girls. Sometimes they like being cared for, but don't be overprotective of her. Compliment her on how she looks. Some like the romantic type, and some like the action guy. It depends, so try to get to know the girl first before making a move to be sure that she'll like what you're doing. Never forget to be yourself. Also, try to make the first move, like asking her out on date, unless the girl you're trying to impress is confident enough to do it before you. But normally we think that guys should make the first move. Good luck!
* Smile, compliment without being cheesy, hang out with her.
* Being funny helps.
* Also being a girl, to attract girls, don't be afraid to talk to us. If you are friends with a girl you like, touch her arm or even tickle her. If a girl kiddingly pushes you, push her back...gently. We like it when guys can feel comftorble around us and have real converations. I know everyone says this but eye contact is really important. Most guys get embarrassed if you make eye contact and look away, but if you
You have to have this mentality like ';YO im tha Sh!t '; without being arrogant. just think of things that you are good at that no one else is and think to yourself ';yeah im the best at doing 'x' in here. no one else is that good. if im good at that, then I can go talk to her'; that sort of thing. And remember, if she says no to you or is a *****, its her mistake for not talking to you
Ahh! Okay, well, I am a girl and it's driving me nuts that the kid I like will not talk to me because he is too nervous. Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to not overthink it. If you think of something, just say it. Talk about absolutely whatever with her! She will think you're nice and that's when you'll get the friendship starting. And also, it would look really cute if you looked stupid or over-stressed. Just don't think about what you're going to say to her ahead of time or else that will make you even more nervous.
i can talk to my crush... but if i dont kno my crush then im just a chicken lol.
ummm pretend shes a guy.
obviously we have to have confidence in ourself for anything to happen first .we have to do somthing that makes us a little cocky but not maucho man lift wieghts do something better than just think about sex all the time .. we have to understand that women feel the same way too .
Just remember that girls feel the same way, actually it might be worse! Relax. Just remember to look hr in the yes and speak your mind. When you talk to your friends do you analyze everything you say?
Just have the mentality of not caring at all. If you look like an idiot, so what man? Just go and do it man. That's the kind of confidence you need to have. Works for me.
okay one very important thing - DO NOT TEXT HER
i have ended many relationships on account of the boy only texting me as a flirty text buddy and never doing anything in reality or asking me out anywhere cause they were too nervous. just man up and talk to her. girls are okay with guys looking stupid or over stressed they think its cute lol. talk to her more often, youll eventually get over the nervousness.
The important thing is not to be cocky or worry about what your friends think. Girls appreciate it when guys are sweet and nice. And chances are they'll think it's cute that you're nervous!
I totally understand how you feel. I seem to do that sometimes when I'm around a guy that i like. What I do when I'm talking to a guy that I like I pretend it's one of my friends but I flirt at the same time. It usually works and you have to feel more comfortable around the girl. Just take a deep breath, calm down, and hope for the best. hope that helps! :)
Anyway, how do I go talk to a girl I like and not feel like such a dud?How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Act like she is a friend, don't talk to her like a friend because you want to stay away from that 'just friends' relationship, but when you get around her just stay cool....
~WilliamHow do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Look, I had a crush on a girl once and I, too was scared to talk, but i overcame my fear and got into a new relationship
Trust it, u gotta act think that she is a normal girl. You gotta make yourself think that you just want to be good friends, and thats how u wont get nervous talking to her.
Just do everything that you do to your freinds who are girls, and when you boost your confidence up, then you can think about liking her.
if you make yourself face the fear of taking to girls that you like, then its easier every time. imagine yourself talking to her and the conversation, over and over, make it good, not what you fear would happen but how you want it to go....go for it
Hmm just be yourself, i can't really give any tips.. i mean what answer are you expecting? or not text her? it's kinda shallow but i did that to my gf and she seems fine with it and of course i told her in person too..
its actually very easy, its just hard to explain.
you just need to man up and talk to her lol.
its a lot easier if its a random girl at a party because you will never see her again. or shell be really drunk
Just joke around a lot. That always used to work for me in high school and stuff. I just acted goofy around girls. Because honestly, once you make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. She'll realize you're funny and trustworthy and she can just have a good time around you and then there's no pressure after that. Just talk to her honestly man but don't be so serious.
man, just be YOURSELF..if she doesn't like you, thinks you're a dork or whatever then the hell with tha beeach! Plenty of fish in tha see lad!..keep fishing, and you'll hook up with the right women..
You just gotta fight the fear of rejection. Most people get scared cause they dont wanna get up the courage and have the girl/guy say no. But you just gotta get through that. Dont let fear determine what you do in life. And i know its hard but really if you ask and she says no then how much different is your life. But if she says yes well then you'll be on cloud nine. And i'm sure you already know but make sure when you ask a girl out make sure your body language conveys confidence. Very Important.
text her
It's natural to think you'd be a dud, but the truth is the girl will be flattered even if you are a dud!! just be yourself, be wacky and crazy. I am like that when I first see a guy that I like. You have to go in with the confidence that you are not any less if this girl happens to say no, you'll find another girl to just go say HI to. Forget about me rejected or being a dud, and you will see how much easier it can be to talk to someone new!! I know it sounds impossible, but I've done it for years and I have met many great guys, it'll work on girls too!
That is easy. You just have to be confident and be willing to be shot down if it is to happen. If you act all nervous and not confident she will pick that up and will be turned off. You just have to go in their confident. NOT COCKY just confident and be a gent. Some woman like guys who are jerks but woman like a gent.
i suggest talking to girls that you don't like romantically first. it won't be as awkward. and you will get practice. you can talk about the same thing to the girl that you like as the one you don't. hope this helps. ♥
i cant really help you since its your nerves, and i cant change your personality. but if your at a place that you are passionate about or know alot about such as starbucks, see the girl, go up, introduce yourself, and ask her if the drink/snack is worth buying. wait for her answer... and then say, great! thanks... i'll try that next time, and maybe you can join me? just stay calm, cool, and collected. stick to what you know! good luck!
be yourself.
im a girl and thats what i like when guys talk to me.
and always be confident in yourself.
if you emabress yourself, shell forget about it at one point, move on.
good luck%26lt;3
well its sortof akward but all you need to do is start by saying '; Hi my name is......'; welll there u go
THe more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just suck it up. All the feelings you have are normal. Be SURE to show confidence as that is one of the most attractive qualities girls subconsciously/consciously look for in a guy.
You just gotta suck it up and do it. Note, laughter is ALWAYS a great way into a girl's heart! So just try to get a laugh outa her first then the rest will fall into play!
Be ur self
if she smiles at you when u pass by then u get the idea she likes you
or ask her friends if they like you tehn go for it
I'm a girl.
Girls...sometimes they don't mind guys that are nervous. That means they like us.
It's sweet, when they get nervous, cause it also means they won't pressure us that much.
Talk about music, or things you both like. Just ask her questions like you would your best friend that's a guy. I mean, don't bring up sports unless she likes them or whatever.
Just ask her about her favorite colors, her friends, act like your just a friend but be sort of flirty. Make eye contact, ';accidentally'; brush her skin, smile, tickle her if she likes that. Just be yourself and don't think about your feelings.
Hope this helps.
Just be yourself.
ANSWER:
Here is some advice on attracting girls:
* Be yourself and be confident.
* The question is ';How do you attract A girl?'; not any particular girl or THIS girl. The best way to attract a girl is by being a man. Learn all about yourself as a man and relish your manliness. I don't mean turn into Paul Bunyan, but rather indulge the manly things you like to do, whatever they may be. Play sports, fart loudly and ceremoniously, fix things, don't be bashful about scratching your crotch, at some point in the relationship with a girl you must casually tell her that you will have to bend her over and make her your *****, belch with your friends, get dirty, play cards, get a Jeep, go outdoors, learn about cars, learn about computers, feast on grand meals you cook with your buddies on the grill over beers, shoot stuff, blow things up, play with growing a beard (it'll look like crap, but that's okay -- you are a man), play with dogs. Do NOT primp your hair pretty and try to look some certain way, work out because you want to have pretty muscles, try and be something you aren't -- that's gay. If you just have a good time and enjoy doing the manly things you want to do then you'll either bump into some girl that digs it or you'll have enough fun you don't care anyhow (which is even more attractive to a lot of women). When you can truthfully answer the above question with a ';who cares?'; then you are just about there. Oh, also, talk to every girl you meet with a smile on your face. And make a point to meet every pretty girl you see. But when you meet them don't stress about what you say to meet them, just say something stupid that clearly conveys you are not cool, you know you are not cool but you don't care because your confident enough that it doesn't matter.
* Be nonchalant sometimes. And become totally sweet. Be unpredictable.
* There are many ways to do so, but to answer this assessing what your current barriers are would be the first way to start. And if you have any friends who are girls, ask them what you should do differently if you aren't happy with this area of your life. If not, you could rely on a sister for advice.
* Show her that you really like her, and don't keep her guessing.
* Be yourself. Yes, it sounds so cliche but it is true. They will get to know the real you eventually so why not let them fall in love with the right person. Always be honest about your past and things you have done. There is nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward but never pretend to be someone you are not. Don't play games rather let her know how you feel. If you are open, honest and yourself and she still doesn't like you then you don't need her anyways.
* Think you are sexy, and they will too.
* Personally being a girl myself, to attract a girl, stare at her, make her feel special. Talk to her, don't always ignore her, or try to act all tough. Get to know her, tell her how you feel. Don't play with her emotions, just tell her straight up. But get to know her first, and try to see if she feels the same, otherwise just telling her straight up can be quite risky. Just trying to spend time with her, talking with her, or staring at her would usually get a girls attention though. It would flatter her, and she would sooner or later be interested, unless she's already taken.
* Be three things; smart, nice, and no pushover. From my experiences, girls like all of the above, smart - have a future, aspirations for a good job, etc. Be nice, respectful, kind, but not too kind, don't be a freakin pushover. If some Neanderthal thug comes trying to own you, if he insults you, insult him back, if you're a nice guy, you have brains and you can shut him up!
* One of the common mistakes that guys make when trying to attract a girl is when they try to act arrogant and cooler than his friends. This does not impress us girls. Sometimes they like being cared for, but don't be overprotective of her. Compliment her on how she looks. Some like the romantic type, and some like the action guy. It depends, so try to get to know the girl first before making a move to be sure that she'll like what you're doing. Never forget to be yourself. Also, try to make the first move, like asking her out on date, unless the girl you're trying to impress is confident enough to do it before you. But normally we think that guys should make the first move. Good luck!
* Smile, compliment without being cheesy, hang out with her.
* Being funny helps.
* Also being a girl, to attract girls, don't be afraid to talk to us. If you are friends with a girl you like, touch her arm or even tickle her. If a girl kiddingly pushes you, push her back...gently. We like it when guys can feel comftorble around us and have real converations. I know everyone says this but eye contact is really important. Most guys get embarrassed if you make eye contact and look away, but if you
You have to have this mentality like ';YO im tha Sh!t '; without being arrogant. just think of things that you are good at that no one else is and think to yourself ';yeah im the best at doing 'x' in here. no one else is that good. if im good at that, then I can go talk to her'; that sort of thing. And remember, if she says no to you or is a *****, its her mistake for not talking to you
Ahh! Okay, well, I am a girl and it's driving me nuts that the kid I like will not talk to me because he is too nervous. Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to not overthink it. If you think of something, just say it. Talk about absolutely whatever with her! She will think you're nice and that's when you'll get the friendship starting. And also, it would look really cute if you looked stupid or over-stressed. Just don't think about what you're going to say to her ahead of time or else that will make you even more nervous.
i can talk to my crush... but if i dont kno my crush then im just a chicken lol.
ummm pretend shes a guy.
obviously we have to have confidence in ourself for anything to happen first .we have to do somthing that makes us a little cocky but not maucho man lift wieghts do something better than just think about sex all the time .. we have to understand that women feel the same way too .
Just remember that girls feel the same way, actually it might be worse! Relax. Just remember to look hr in the yes and speak your mind. When you talk to your friends do you analyze everything you say?
Just have the mentality of not caring at all. If you look like an idiot, so what man? Just go and do it man. That's the kind of confidence you need to have. Works for me.
okay one very important thing - DO NOT TEXT HER
i have ended many relationships on account of the boy only texting me as a flirty text buddy and never doing anything in reality or asking me out anywhere cause they were too nervous. just man up and talk to her. girls are okay with guys looking stupid or over stressed they think its cute lol. talk to her more often, youll eventually get over the nervousness.
The important thing is not to be cocky or worry about what your friends think. Girls appreciate it when guys are sweet and nice. And chances are they'll think it's cute that you're nervous!
I totally understand how you feel. I seem to do that sometimes when I'm around a guy that i like. What I do when I'm talking to a guy that I like I pretend it's one of my friends but I flirt at the same time. It usually works and you have to feel more comfortable around the girl. Just take a deep breath, calm down, and hope for the best. hope that helps! :)
How To Talk To These Girls?
OK So I drink on the weekends with these guys and girls, and I always hear how the girls there put out. I usually am good at talking to girls but not establishing sexual things until later down the road. What I need to know is, how do I talk to these girls so that I make-out/do things with them within an hour or so of meeting them?How To Talk To These Girls?
wow you sure are classy!How To Talk To These Girls?
Wow.
Just be clear with what you want. If they're sluts, you'll be on the right path in no time.
Rosie couldn't have said it any better.
keeep telling them they're beautiful
and just in my opinion i would like a guy who is looking for a relationship,
and if he tells me on the spot, it is easier for me to get loose because i dont have to keep talking to him ';down the road'; to find out. cause
he Just told me within an hour.
Alright hunnie, let me put it this way...
Do you know how freaking hard it is for the nice girls to find a guy like you?
Don't turn into one of those guys that just wants to ';get some'; just because the girls that you hang around with are like that.
If you think that sexual things should be saved for later in the relationship, then get outta there!
You deserve so much better than the, shall we say, easy girls.
鈾?blondy
wow you sure are classy!How To Talk To These Girls?
Wow.
Just be clear with what you want. If they're sluts, you'll be on the right path in no time.
Rosie couldn't have said it any better.
keeep telling them they're beautiful
and just in my opinion i would like a guy who is looking for a relationship,
and if he tells me on the spot, it is easier for me to get loose because i dont have to keep talking to him ';down the road'; to find out. cause
he Just told me within an hour.
Alright hunnie, let me put it this way...
Do you know how freaking hard it is for the nice girls to find a guy like you?
Don't turn into one of those guys that just wants to ';get some'; just because the girls that you hang around with are like that.
If you think that sexual things should be saved for later in the relationship, then get outta there!
You deserve so much better than the, shall we say, easy girls.
鈾?blondy
How do i talk to girls?
Im a 16 year old in high school and i have a problem with not knowing what to say to girls. i mean i can sort of talk to them but i run out of things to say very quickly. Can somebody help me out? and please don't just say be yourself, because myself isnt workingHow do i talk to girls?
Complements and if you run out of complements and don't know what to say make random small talk. Like things you may have in common with her.How do i talk to girls?
just be yurself.
Complement them, Girls LOVE complements :]
I have trouble with that too and I'm a girl but hey...
small conversations are good and once you know what people like and don't like it gets easier. I try listening out for what kind of music they like and trying to see if you have anything in common only not stalker like.
........Talking is difficult some people aren't good at it not a great thought but what can you do about it?
Compliment them, Most girls love compliments(:
or
Ask them about themselves, Most girls love talking about themselves(:
Talk about school, classes, friends, pets, home, if you run out of things to say, just be like ';hey I like your shirt'; or ';your hair looks cute today'; or something nice. compliment them. Keep asking them questions. I usually askf or favorite colors and food haha.
Dont Swear Dont do Anything Stupid And be nice! and stand out
ok this is what i do sometimes, i plan wat i say to a guy that im interested in. that might sound lame but it works. and u have to be confident, once your confident the words will just come to you, so just loosen up a bit.
hope this helped, good luck!
say hi , talk about movies , talk crap like she is your buddy. Keep talking to her. dont let the conversation end. then ask her '; hey you got aim'; . make her laugh.girl tell you she likes you
Complements and if you run out of complements and don't know what to say make random small talk. Like things you may have in common with her.How do i talk to girls?
just be yurself.
Complement them, Girls LOVE complements :]
I have trouble with that too and I'm a girl but hey...
small conversations are good and once you know what people like and don't like it gets easier. I try listening out for what kind of music they like and trying to see if you have anything in common only not stalker like.
........Talking is difficult some people aren't good at it not a great thought but what can you do about it?
Compliment them, Most girls love compliments(:
or
Ask them about themselves, Most girls love talking about themselves(:
Talk about school, classes, friends, pets, home, if you run out of things to say, just be like ';hey I like your shirt'; or ';your hair looks cute today'; or something nice. compliment them. Keep asking them questions. I usually askf or favorite colors and food haha.
Dont Swear Dont do Anything Stupid And be nice! and stand out
ok this is what i do sometimes, i plan wat i say to a guy that im interested in. that might sound lame but it works. and u have to be confident, once your confident the words will just come to you, so just loosen up a bit.
hope this helped, good luck!
say hi , talk about movies , talk crap like she is your buddy. Keep talking to her. dont let the conversation end. then ask her '; hey you got aim'; . make her laugh.
Ideas for ';Girl Talk'; with 5th and 6th grade girls...?
Hi everyone!
At work I am leading a group called Girl Talk this year. It's a weekly meeting for 5th and 6th grade girls (the oldest in my school) to get together and discuss pressures of being a teenage girl. I know that in the past, topics have been healthy eating habits and eating disorders, teen pregnancy, peer pressure, etc.
I need some fresh ideas, and also fresh approaches to the older ideas to mix it up this year. What things are adolescent girls struggling with right now and how could we address them in Girl Talk?
Thanks for your input!Ideas for ';Girl Talk'; with 5th and 6th grade girls...?
That's great they have this! I wish they had this when I was in 6th grade.
-Tell them if someone is touching them in a 'no zone' then to tell someone.! My friend just went thought that.
-How boyfriends/people can abuse you at least 4 ways. [Sexual, Emotional, Mental and Physical]
-Rape/ Unwanted sex %26amp; pressure having it.
-Appearance %26amp; how it's okay that everyone body type is not the same. %26amp; model skinny isn't they way to go.
-Grades.
-Dating. When to have sex, whether or not to have sex, birth control, getting pregnant, STDs, and other issues
-FRIENDS! and that good friends can leave your side sometimes. and if a friend is treating you horrible, then its time to let them go.
-bullying and being bullied
-Period %26amp; everything that goes with it. [pads,tampons, etc.]
-Hurting Them self [suicide, thoughts,cutting,depression, if they know someone who's hurting them to tell someone ]
-Bodies Changing [hips, hair, periods, etc]
Also, have all the girls write on a piece of paper what they would like to talk about. They don't have to put there name on it at all. Just things they would like to discuss in the 'lesson.'
Tell them if they ever need ANYTHING at all [sex, periods, etc] that they can talk to you or whomever:DD
Good Luck!Ideas for ';Girl Talk'; with 5th and 6th grade girls...?
you can talk to them about boys and how they can touch you and rape you and you can talk to them about theyre periods and how to not panic and all that stuff...
suicidel thoughts, cutting, depresion, anything like that. Also talk about their body changing. Maybe briefly talk about rape.
Hi! I am about that age and what's always fun and beneficial is team building.
Depression (they are going through puberty and will experiences a lot of emotional changes)
Boys (most of them are getting first ';boyfriends'; at that age)
These are basically the two main things I would concentrate on.
-Catherine
I would tell them about faith and guys and how to make the two work out.
Also about people who um... aren't straight and to encourage them to tell someone if they're lesbian and what it is and that sort of thing.
At work I am leading a group called Girl Talk this year. It's a weekly meeting for 5th and 6th grade girls (the oldest in my school) to get together and discuss pressures of being a teenage girl. I know that in the past, topics have been healthy eating habits and eating disorders, teen pregnancy, peer pressure, etc.
I need some fresh ideas, and also fresh approaches to the older ideas to mix it up this year. What things are adolescent girls struggling with right now and how could we address them in Girl Talk?
Thanks for your input!Ideas for ';Girl Talk'; with 5th and 6th grade girls...?
That's great they have this! I wish they had this when I was in 6th grade.
-Tell them if someone is touching them in a 'no zone' then to tell someone.! My friend just went thought that.
-How boyfriends/people can abuse you at least 4 ways. [Sexual, Emotional, Mental and Physical]
-Rape/ Unwanted sex %26amp; pressure having it.
-Appearance %26amp; how it's okay that everyone body type is not the same. %26amp; model skinny isn't they way to go.
-Grades.
-Dating. When to have sex, whether or not to have sex, birth control, getting pregnant, STDs, and other issues
-FRIENDS! and that good friends can leave your side sometimes. and if a friend is treating you horrible, then its time to let them go.
-bullying and being bullied
-Period %26amp; everything that goes with it. [pads,tampons, etc.]
-Hurting Them self [suicide, thoughts,cutting,depression, if they know someone who's hurting them to tell someone ]
-Bodies Changing [hips, hair, periods, etc]
Also, have all the girls write on a piece of paper what they would like to talk about. They don't have to put there name on it at all. Just things they would like to discuss in the 'lesson.'
Tell them if they ever need ANYTHING at all [sex, periods, etc] that they can talk to you or whomever:DD
Good Luck!Ideas for ';Girl Talk'; with 5th and 6th grade girls...?
you can talk to them about boys and how they can touch you and rape you and you can talk to them about theyre periods and how to not panic and all that stuff...
suicidel thoughts, cutting, depresion, anything like that. Also talk about their body changing. Maybe briefly talk about rape.
Hi! I am about that age and what's always fun and beneficial is team building.
Depression (they are going through puberty and will experiences a lot of emotional changes)
Boys (most of them are getting first ';boyfriends'; at that age)
These are basically the two main things I would concentrate on.
-Catherine
I would tell them about faith and guys and how to make the two work out.
Also about people who um... aren't straight and to encourage them to tell someone if they're lesbian and what it is and that sort of thing.
How can i talk to girls?
Ok i am 15 years old and i sometimes have trouble talking to girls. when i am in a conversation with a girl i just dont know what to say, i feel like an idiot. can ssomeone please give me some tips on what to say or how to talk to them THANKS!!!!How can i talk to girls?
The main thing is just to be yourself! :) Girls are just as shy talking to boys! Try to find something in common with the girls that you are talking to. Talk about a class that have in common, something funny that happened at school, a movie that you both might like...whatever!:) If you're really shy, you can start up conversations with girls on Facebook and MSN and then maybe the conversation might continue in person at school. The main thing as I said, is to be yourself, laugh, and try not to worry about feeling nervous or like an idiot. The chances are,the girls are just as nervous to talk to you! Good luck! :)
The main thing is just to be yourself! :) Girls are just as shy talking to boys! Try to find something in common with the girls that you are talking to. Talk about a class that have in common, something funny that happened at school, a movie that you both might like...whatever!:) If you're really shy, you can start up conversations with girls on Facebook and MSN and then maybe the conversation might continue in person at school. The main thing as I said, is to be yourself, laugh, and try not to worry about feeling nervous or like an idiot. The chances are,the girls are just as nervous to talk to you! Good luck! :)
How do I talk to girls at the movies?
I am a 15 year old boy and I am about to go to the movies with 2 or 3 girls how should I talk to them?How do I talk to girls at the movies?
If You Have Already Got A Date With 2-3 Girls The Hard Part Is Done Over With...Just Talk About Everyday Things
P.S 2-3 Girls...Your A Lucky Guy...LOLHow do I talk to girls at the movies?
If you're going with them then talking to them shouldn't be that bad?
You don't talk during movies. It will annoy the girls. Just talk to them afterrrr.
you dont talk durring the movie, and you can just talk about everyday things.
i am 13 yr old girl, don't make really big conversations, whatever you do. star by saying hey, how are ya goin? just act really casual. add in a few jokes and then they might feel a bit more comfortable in talking back cos they feel that they can talk to you ok. dont talk tto much and ask them questions so they can answer them properly. and also what movie is it and how many boys are also going?? that all depends. but just act casual and dont talk too much at first and then when you ask some questions to them that they can answer fully to make it more comfortable. hope this helps. Byee
If You Have Already Got A Date With 2-3 Girls The Hard Part Is Done Over With...Just Talk About Everyday Things
P.S 2-3 Girls...Your A Lucky Guy...LOLHow do I talk to girls at the movies?
If you're going with them then talking to them shouldn't be that bad?
You don't talk during movies. It will annoy the girls. Just talk to them afterrrr.
you dont talk durring the movie, and you can just talk about everyday things.
i am 13 yr old girl, don't make really big conversations, whatever you do. star by saying hey, how are ya goin? just act really casual. add in a few jokes and then they might feel a bit more comfortable in talking back cos they feel that they can talk to you ok. dont talk tto much and ask them questions so they can answer them properly. and also what movie is it and how many boys are also going?? that all depends. but just act casual and dont talk too much at first and then when you ask some questions to them that they can answer fully to make it more comfortable. hope this helps. Byee
How to talk to girls at the skating rink?
How do i go up to a girl in the skating rink and ask for her phone number and start a conversation with herHow to talk to girls at the skating rink?
You just answered your question.How to talk to girls at the skating rink?
FALL IN FRONT OF HER AND BE LIKE OOP I SORRY I NO SKATE GOOD CAN U HELP ME
You just answered your question.How to talk to girls at the skating rink?
FALL IN FRONT OF HER AND BE LIKE OOP I SORRY I NO SKATE GOOD CAN U HELP ME
How to talk to girls at an amusement park?
About to go to the amusement park this weekend and meet some new interesting people. I'm going with a few friends. I was wondering whats some good way to approach a girl at an amusement park? Something funny that will spark up a conversation. Also what are some other topics I can use to keep the conversation steady and not have the ';Awkward silence';
I'm 17. So yeah help me out community (:How to talk to girls at an amusement park?
I wouldn't really do that, it'll seem kind of creepy and they'll think you want to kidnap them or something. Be with a group of friends with at least one girl so the other girls feel comfortable.How to talk to girls at an amusement park?
HAHA! i new u were 17ish lol. Anyway u should talk about the rides and things u both like. IF there is awkward silence then like say u g2g
Ask her what ride is her favorite?
How many times has she been to the amusement park?
What other forms of entertainment/amusement does she like?
Does she like water parks?
Would she like to go on a ride with you?
Something funny: So tell me what ride turns your stomach upside down, but you do it anyway...
Talk about the rides. May be you are behind her in line for a ride. Say ';So I heard this ride is __________________ (insert ';really great'; or whatever here). Get her opinion. Talk to her about similar rides, may be sit by her during the ride. After, talk about what you guys thought about it. Ask her if she wants to stop for a bite to eat. And volia!
I'm 17. So yeah help me out community (:How to talk to girls at an amusement park?
I wouldn't really do that, it'll seem kind of creepy and they'll think you want to kidnap them or something. Be with a group of friends with at least one girl so the other girls feel comfortable.How to talk to girls at an amusement park?
HAHA! i new u were 17ish lol. Anyway u should talk about the rides and things u both like. IF there is awkward silence then like say u g2g
Ask her what ride is her favorite?
How many times has she been to the amusement park?
What other forms of entertainment/amusement does she like?
Does she like water parks?
Would she like to go on a ride with you?
Something funny: So tell me what ride turns your stomach upside down, but you do it anyway...
Talk about the rides. May be you are behind her in line for a ride. Say ';So I heard this ride is __________________ (insert ';really great'; or whatever here). Get her opinion. Talk to her about similar rides, may be sit by her during the ride. After, talk about what you guys thought about it. Ask her if she wants to stop for a bite to eat. And volia!
What do girls talk about for so long? I can't talk with someone for hours straight without doing anything else?
I can talk to my mates for 10 mins before we start doing pranks or wrestling or something, n we could do that for hours, but i was at a school swimming carnival today, and i was watching some girls near talking n they didnt do anything else at all the whole day, how can you drag it out so far???????? n no in advance i wasnt perving on them :)What do girls talk about for so long? I can't talk with someone for hours straight without doing anything else?
None of your business. If we wanted you to know, we would talk to guys like that. lolWhat do girls talk about for so long? I can't talk with someone for hours straight without doing anything else?
Try this
It's what girls do. Guys are way less interested in talking than girls are.
Feelings, their problems, the future, give each other advice... It varies but usually its along those guidelines
well, sometimes we just get carried away by our topic. for example, we were talking about the beach we went to during summer, and then one of us were like ';Did you hear about Summer did with her bf on the beach?'; we just jump from one topic to another. kinda like you boys.
I honestly have absolutely no idea what I talk about with my girlfriends, but we talk quiiiite a lot lol. :)
Girls get pleasure from talking, it does not matter about what. They talk about other grrls, clothes, men, and sex.
None of your business. If we wanted you to know, we would talk to guys like that. lolWhat do girls talk about for so long? I can't talk with someone for hours straight without doing anything else?
Try this
It's what girls do. Guys are way less interested in talking than girls are.
Feelings, their problems, the future, give each other advice... It varies but usually its along those guidelines
well, sometimes we just get carried away by our topic. for example, we were talking about the beach we went to during summer, and then one of us were like ';Did you hear about Summer did with her bf on the beach?'; we just jump from one topic to another. kinda like you boys.
I honestly have absolutely no idea what I talk about with my girlfriends, but we talk quiiiite a lot lol. :)
Girls get pleasure from talking, it does not matter about what. They talk about other grrls, clothes, men, and sex.
How to sweet talk with girls?
Please tell me any good info on how to sweet talk with girls.
Thank You!How to sweet talk with girls?
Thats so 1995 bro .. How about how to treat a girl like a lady.
Thank You!How to sweet talk with girls?
Thats so 1995 bro .. How about how to treat a girl like a lady.
What to talk to girls in clubs/bars about?
I have diffculty of thinking about how to start conversations with girls in bars. I tend to start by asking if they have had a good night so far, where they have been and where they would recommend going.
Has any girls got advice about how you would like guys to approach? Thanks.What to talk to girls in clubs/bars about?
First off, I would hope that a guy would be himself when he approaches me. If you try to be something your not, then people can kind of tell, and things will not really go your way. I would just like a guy to come up to me and simply say hello and ask how I am doing. Give me a nice compliment or something. LoL. And then I would like him to just talk about simple things. I would hope that he wouldn't go overboard with the conversation, or push it too much.. that's kind of a turn off. Just ask what im doing for the day, what do I do for a living or something along that nature, and am I single.. that's a good one. LoL. And once you get comfortable, ask me for my number. You want to make sure that you don't give out too much information about yourself because it's always nice to leave a lasting impression, and to make a girl think about stuff. Make her mind wonder about you, and make her want to know more. But you just have to go with the flow. The conversation is not going to be the same with every girl. Good luck and be yourself!What to talk to girls in clubs/bars about?
im a master whn it comes to the clubs..usually girls like it whn guys buy them drinks and if a girl is with her friends u better plan on buying ALL her friends drinks as well or u wnt be a keeper..and not be pushy about things.like getting the girls numb..girls like to dance in the club so a guy who is a good dancer is a keeper...most likely will leave after the club with that girl for a after party or just get it on..
Its tricky, on the one hand you want to get to know them, on the other hand, you just dont know what they're intentions are if they're looking to date or just a fling. Stick to the general chit chat, whats your name, do you come here often *groan*, what you been upto today, can i give you my number, then if you start going on dates go into deeper stuff
99% of the women here do not condone to being approcahed in bars/clubs and certainly not meeting BF material in them. It's tacky, cliche, unromantic and shamefull.
just act normallike u talking to any other person
ask which football team they support is always a good starter
Has any girls got advice about how you would like guys to approach? Thanks.What to talk to girls in clubs/bars about?
First off, I would hope that a guy would be himself when he approaches me. If you try to be something your not, then people can kind of tell, and things will not really go your way. I would just like a guy to come up to me and simply say hello and ask how I am doing. Give me a nice compliment or something. LoL. And then I would like him to just talk about simple things. I would hope that he wouldn't go overboard with the conversation, or push it too much.. that's kind of a turn off. Just ask what im doing for the day, what do I do for a living or something along that nature, and am I single.. that's a good one. LoL. And once you get comfortable, ask me for my number. You want to make sure that you don't give out too much information about yourself because it's always nice to leave a lasting impression, and to make a girl think about stuff. Make her mind wonder about you, and make her want to know more. But you just have to go with the flow. The conversation is not going to be the same with every girl. Good luck and be yourself!What to talk to girls in clubs/bars about?
im a master whn it comes to the clubs..usually girls like it whn guys buy them drinks and if a girl is with her friends u better plan on buying ALL her friends drinks as well or u wnt be a keeper..and not be pushy about things.like getting the girls numb..girls like to dance in the club so a guy who is a good dancer is a keeper...most likely will leave after the club with that girl for a after party or just get it on..
Its tricky, on the one hand you want to get to know them, on the other hand, you just dont know what they're intentions are if they're looking to date or just a fling. Stick to the general chit chat, whats your name, do you come here often *groan*, what you been upto today, can i give you my number, then if you start going on dates go into deeper stuff
99% of the women here do not condone to being approcahed in bars/clubs and certainly not meeting BF material in them. It's tacky, cliche, unromantic and shamefull.
just act normallike u talking to any other person
ask which football team they support is always a good starter
How in the world do I talk to college girls (preferably ladies in college)?
who I have never met before? In light of recent (crappy) events, I have decided to try talking to girls who I have never met before but seen on a few occasions, seeing as how the girls I know now only see me as a friend (or have boyfriends already) or I have no interest in.
For instance, I see a girl who I find to be attractive by herself or something, how would I go about striking up a conversation with her? I can talk to girls that live in the same building as I do, that's easy, but talking to girls that I have virtually nothing else in common with is another problem. So, can someone tell me how to accomplish this task? How in the world do I talk to college girls (preferably ladies in college)?
Ask her about something class related. Check out what boos she's carrying and comment on that. Do not comment on her shoes or jewelry. She'll think you're gay.How in the world do I talk to college girls (preferably ladies in college)?
just walk up and say hey and if your at a school ask what shes going to school for or use your surroundings to think of a question to start the conversation.
Be natural not creepy, compliment a piece of jewelery or something simple to go with, watch how she reacts if she looks creeped out and doesn't respond, move on
Have a look at her and pick something to comment on - if she's got really nice shoes, comment on them. But don't be complimentary, be funny. Say something like, ';Those are unusual, where did you find them, at the antique store?'; Give her a wink, then wait a couple of seconds. And move on. You'll have her attention and she'll be wanting to know more about this guy who is brave enough and shows such confidence to not worry about ';impressing'; her like all the other wimps out there. She'll then be trying to make the conversation with you. Keep it light, don't compliment her, and keep up the hassling her in a funny way. Never be mean, just show that you are interesting, and she'll find the way to talk to you. Keep the conversation short at first - usually no more than five minutes. Make sure you cut off (end) the conversation. And leave with her phone number.
For instance, I see a girl who I find to be attractive by herself or something, how would I go about striking up a conversation with her? I can talk to girls that live in the same building as I do, that's easy, but talking to girls that I have virtually nothing else in common with is another problem. So, can someone tell me how to accomplish this task? How in the world do I talk to college girls (preferably ladies in college)?
Ask her about something class related. Check out what boos she's carrying and comment on that. Do not comment on her shoes or jewelry. She'll think you're gay.How in the world do I talk to college girls (preferably ladies in college)?
just walk up and say hey and if your at a school ask what shes going to school for or use your surroundings to think of a question to start the conversation.
Be natural not creepy, compliment a piece of jewelery or something simple to go with, watch how she reacts if she looks creeped out and doesn't respond, move on
Have a look at her and pick something to comment on - if she's got really nice shoes, comment on them. But don't be complimentary, be funny. Say something like, ';Those are unusual, where did you find them, at the antique store?'; Give her a wink, then wait a couple of seconds. And move on. You'll have her attention and she'll be wanting to know more about this guy who is brave enough and shows such confidence to not worry about ';impressing'; her like all the other wimps out there. She'll then be trying to make the conversation with you. Keep it light, don't compliment her, and keep up the hassling her in a funny way. Never be mean, just show that you are interesting, and she'll find the way to talk to you. Keep the conversation short at first - usually no more than five minutes. Make sure you cut off (end) the conversation. And leave with her phone number.
How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
Same with some friends, some people stick around become a friend other leave or stop talking to me.
What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
well dude it happens to everyone
its been happening to for the last 2 years
i have a couple good friends that i've been friends with this whole time
but other friends just come and go and i talk to hardly at all, the same thing is happening with girls too to me so dont feel so worried stuff just happensHow come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
I have this guy friend who is extremely annoying. He is very social and talks a lot but heck, he is soooooooooo annoying because he likes to gossip and be nosy. Girls, especially, dislike him.
you have to stop talking to women as if they are friends...you have to go after them in a sexual but not perverted way..if you try to talk nice to them they get bored and go on their way
maybe you are awkward
or it could be your a hard person to make plans with. sometimes people get mad when they cant hang out.
if your extra busy with stuff then add socializing to your scedule.
if thats not the case maybe you should work on your social skillslong hair
What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
well dude it happens to everyone
its been happening to for the last 2 years
i have a couple good friends that i've been friends with this whole time
but other friends just come and go and i talk to hardly at all, the same thing is happening with girls too to me so dont feel so worried stuff just happensHow come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhil?
I have this guy friend who is extremely annoying. He is very social and talks a lot but heck, he is soooooooooo annoying because he likes to gossip and be nosy. Girls, especially, dislike him.
you have to stop talking to women as if they are friends...you have to go after them in a sexual but not perverted way..if you try to talk nice to them they get bored and go on their way
maybe you are awkward
or it could be your a hard person to make plans with. sometimes people get mad when they cant hang out.
if your extra busy with stuff then add socializing to your scedule.
if thats not the case maybe you should work on your social skills
How do you talk to girls in a club? How to generally approach a girl?
I am fairly new to a new culture being and eastern born.I am now exposed to Western culture in Canada. I am feeling lonely because I don't have a girl friend. I am not well aware of the culture and do not want to risk embarrassmenty a wrong move. I do go to clubs and discos, but I am still unable to finf my place their. I am flexible enough to adapt the new culture, but I still need some help with some very basic stuff. Can anyone help?How do you talk to girls in a club? How to generally approach a girl?
Take language courses and conversational English will become easier. I have lived in many different countries and the biggest impediment to learning the native cultural specifics is communicating efficiently.How do you talk to girls in a club? How to generally approach a girl?
I know that your culture does not allow females to go out to clubs or discos. I can't help but wonder why you would want to do this.
Be Yourself, Relax and try and be amusing. Talk about something you both have in common, but dont try and bluff it. Remember you have an extra card as if you can be amusing girls will always want to know ';what its like'; in a different culture.
Take language courses and conversational English will become easier. I have lived in many different countries and the biggest impediment to learning the native cultural specifics is communicating efficiently.How do you talk to girls in a club? How to generally approach a girl?
I know that your culture does not allow females to go out to clubs or discos. I can't help but wonder why you would want to do this.
Be Yourself, Relax and try and be amusing. Talk about something you both have in common, but dont try and bluff it. Remember you have an extra card as if you can be amusing girls will always want to know ';what its like'; in a different culture.
How can I get confidence to talk to girls ?
I find it really hard and frustrating because I go to the university's gym and I see these guys who have been there longer than me and in top of that are younger (I am a grad engineering student)
Whenever i look at them i feel that i don't have any chance with girls, specially the girls that go to the gymHow can I get confidence to talk to girls ?
Just be yourself and remember, WE ARE PEOPLE TOO! Dude, we dont have ';cooties'; and what not, we are people, regular people like you. I guess. Nuff said...How can I get confidence to talk to girls ?
aw dont worry.
if u lived near me, id talk to u first!
u just gotta loosen up and be yourself. pretend ther just one of the guys.
Sometimes i'm REally confused too
I am over 350 lbs and I am with the most beautiful girl I have ever laid eyes on. We have a great relationship, because we are ourselves. We love each other so much, just be yourself dude, if you're really down about yourself, then improve, there's always room for improvement if you set your mind to it. P.S. yes the sex is great (for both of us) even at my weight ;)
What are you afraid of? Just go talk to them. You have nothing to be scared of, you do way more dangerous things every day! Like driving, you speed by cars going the opposite direction every day missing them by a couple feet, if you're not scared of driving there's no reason to be afraid of talking to girls.
You have to go in with the attitude that you're trying to find a girl who's good enough for you, not trying to be good enough for every girl you see. They're no more intimidating than you are, i mean, obviously you're probably smarter than any girl in the gym, just talk to them about their interests and see if you can find a girl who you enjoy talking to.
Then ask her out for coffee, sometimes girls feel like you're trying too hard if you ask them out on a real date, but nobody says no to coffee.
i know how that can feel. the gym is a rough place for any guy that isnt in there pumping everyday. you can kinda point out the girls that you actually have a shot with (although you never really know). one thing you have over those guys is intelligence. they may be able to crank their pecs but you are smarter. girls find intelligence very attractive, use this to your advantage. in my opinion, you would have a much greater chance of meeting women other places than the gym. join some university clubs or organizations, talk to girls in your classes. if you do either one of these things, you will atleast have one thing in common that you can talk about to begin with.
Whenever i look at them i feel that i don't have any chance with girls, specially the girls that go to the gymHow can I get confidence to talk to girls ?
Just be yourself and remember, WE ARE PEOPLE TOO! Dude, we dont have ';cooties'; and what not, we are people, regular people like you. I guess. Nuff said...How can I get confidence to talk to girls ?
aw dont worry.
if u lived near me, id talk to u first!
u just gotta loosen up and be yourself. pretend ther just one of the guys.
Sometimes i'm REally confused too
I am over 350 lbs and I am with the most beautiful girl I have ever laid eyes on. We have a great relationship, because we are ourselves. We love each other so much, just be yourself dude, if you're really down about yourself, then improve, there's always room for improvement if you set your mind to it. P.S. yes the sex is great (for both of us) even at my weight ;)
What are you afraid of? Just go talk to them. You have nothing to be scared of, you do way more dangerous things every day! Like driving, you speed by cars going the opposite direction every day missing them by a couple feet, if you're not scared of driving there's no reason to be afraid of talking to girls.
You have to go in with the attitude that you're trying to find a girl who's good enough for you, not trying to be good enough for every girl you see. They're no more intimidating than you are, i mean, obviously you're probably smarter than any girl in the gym, just talk to them about their interests and see if you can find a girl who you enjoy talking to.
Then ask her out for coffee, sometimes girls feel like you're trying too hard if you ask them out on a real date, but nobody says no to coffee.
i know how that can feel. the gym is a rough place for any guy that isnt in there pumping everyday. you can kinda point out the girls that you actually have a shot with (although you never really know). one thing you have over those guys is intelligence. they may be able to crank their pecs but you are smarter. girls find intelligence very attractive, use this to your advantage. in my opinion, you would have a much greater chance of meeting women other places than the gym. join some university clubs or organizations, talk to girls in your classes. if you do either one of these things, you will atleast have one thing in common that you can talk about to begin with.
How to talk to girls outside of school.?
I am a junior at high school and i can easily talk to girls in a school environment and get their number pretty quick.
But outside of school, i'm just plain boring. I dont know what to say. Any tips on what to say? should i talk about times i had with my friends that were funny? or should i talk about her and be interested in her?How to talk to girls outside of school.?
a conversation has to have a perfect balance of telling about urself and asking the other person about themselves. talk about things ur interested in, make jokes... email me or chat if your ever bored haha
But outside of school, i'm just plain boring. I dont know what to say. Any tips on what to say? should i talk about times i had with my friends that were funny? or should i talk about her and be interested in her?How to talk to girls outside of school.?
a conversation has to have a perfect balance of telling about urself and asking the other person about themselves. talk about things ur interested in, make jokes... email me or chat if your ever bored haha
What is the best way to talk to girls?
I am pretty nervous around the girls at my school and would just like some advice on how to talk with them.
Thanks in Advance!What is the best way to talk to girls?
lmao.What is the best way to talk to girls?
dont over do it, just talk to them
like there one of your close friends.
be yourself,and be confident.
that way you dont look like a fool :)
lmao
Relax bro, and act confident :D
ok so im a grl and heres my advice:
you could...start out with a complement about something cool that the girl has done and then like ease into a convo...
it all depends on how much u kno about them and if they're ur friends
xo
:)
Just say, hi, how are you, how did your classes go today.
If you don't know them, introduce yourself, and hopefully, some of the classes you share.
I would stay away, from girls, you have just seen in the hallway. Stick to those ones, with whom you share a class with.
It will get easier with practice. Hard at first, but like driving a car, or riding a bike, you soon will get the hang of it.
If you have to, make up some sort of conversation in your mind to get things started. Remember, she may shy too, and if not, will be able to ask you questions about yourself, That way, you will have a conversation going.
Thanks in Advance!What is the best way to talk to girls?
lmao.What is the best way to talk to girls?
dont over do it, just talk to them
like there one of your close friends.
be yourself,and be confident.
that way you dont look like a fool :)
lmao
Relax bro, and act confident :D
ok so im a grl and heres my advice:
you could...start out with a complement about something cool that the girl has done and then like ease into a convo...
it all depends on how much u kno about them and if they're ur friends
xo
:)
Just say, hi, how are you, how did your classes go today.
If you don't know them, introduce yourself, and hopefully, some of the classes you share.
I would stay away, from girls, you have just seen in the hallway. Stick to those ones, with whom you share a class with.
It will get easier with practice. Hard at first, but like driving a car, or riding a bike, you soon will get the hang of it.
If you have to, make up some sort of conversation in your mind to get things started. Remember, she may shy too, and if not, will be able to ask you questions about yourself, That way, you will have a conversation going.
How to talk to girls without being stupid.?
I can talk to a guy for 20min talking about games and girls too.
i am not gay for ur info, to start a convo with a girl is easy but to keep it going is hard for me.
i dont know what topics girls like....
How to talk to girls without being stupid.?
Ask her about her family, her mom's cooking; what is her favorite dish that her mom makes; cakes, pies, dinner, breakfast etc.
What about her dad, what is he really into, the stock market, cars, fixing things, fishing, hunting etc?
Does she have any siblings, what sibling is she closest to? How close is she to her sibling/s? What do they fight about most often? What do they get along with the best?
What's her favorite childhood memory. What's her most favorite color, scent, thing to wear, place to go with her parents/family, favorite teacher so far
What is her favorite vacation spot, place to eat, how did she meet her best friend, how long have they been best friends...
Anything you talk about, try to build on it.....So if you ask her if she has a brother or sister or if she's an only child, build on that. Relate to it the best you can....say, weather or not you have siblings or how many. Then you can compare it to whatever and talk a bit about your siblings or lack thereof.How to talk to girls without being stupid.?
Learn to start right- Girls are used to that old standard hi or hello; Girls expect better talks from guys now. Most guys get the wrong opening statement or line and this is the main reason why they are not effective in talking to girls. Always open up with something extraordinary which would catch her attention. Girls would never continue talking to you unless they feel there is something distinct about you or your personality.
i am not gay for ur info, to start a convo with a girl is easy but to keep it going is hard for me.
i dont know what topics girls like....
How to talk to girls without being stupid.?
Ask her about her family, her mom's cooking; what is her favorite dish that her mom makes; cakes, pies, dinner, breakfast etc.
What about her dad, what is he really into, the stock market, cars, fixing things, fishing, hunting etc?
Does she have any siblings, what sibling is she closest to? How close is she to her sibling/s? What do they fight about most often? What do they get along with the best?
What's her favorite childhood memory. What's her most favorite color, scent, thing to wear, place to go with her parents/family, favorite teacher so far
What is her favorite vacation spot, place to eat, how did she meet her best friend, how long have they been best friends...
Anything you talk about, try to build on it.....So if you ask her if she has a brother or sister or if she's an only child, build on that. Relate to it the best you can....say, weather or not you have siblings or how many. Then you can compare it to whatever and talk a bit about your siblings or lack thereof.How to talk to girls without being stupid.?
Learn to start right- Girls are used to that old standard hi or hello; Girls expect better talks from guys now. Most guys get the wrong opening statement or line and this is the main reason why they are not effective in talking to girls. Always open up with something extraordinary which would catch her attention. Girls would never continue talking to you unless they feel there is something distinct about you or your personality.
How to talk to girls comfortably?
Hi,
I am having troubles to talk comfortably around/with girls...I need some help.Is there someone(preferably female=)) that can contact me and give me advises?Help will be highly appreciated.How to talk to girls comfortably?
Hey.
I know a lot of guys get that awkward conversation when there with any type of girl. Even girls they don't like, like that. To be honest girls are like that to.
But here are some tips to help you stay calm.
-Don't talk to much. Look at her in her eyes.
-Start off with a ';Hey, how you doing'; ';Hey, Whats up';
-Actually Listen to what shes saying and respond with a appropriate answer.
-Don't think about...';What is she thinking about'; ';I hope i don't smell'; Stuff like that.
-Don't brag about you whole day. Just like a 1 or 2 sentences. Then ask her about her day...
-If you give it sometime and loosen up you'll get comfortable with it.
I Hope I Helped.
Good Luck Hun.
^_^
You can practice with me if you want..
Email is bettyboopms3@yahoo.com
^_^How to talk to girls comfortably?
To start, your first RED flag is that your creepy.
';Is there a female that can contact me and give me advice?';
Look, the key is to understand that when you go into the conversation, your worst case scenario is that she will not be interested, which is exactly where you started...so you have nothing to lose.
People love talking about themselves. So ask her name, and something relevant to where you are (but not a stupid question).
See a girl in a bookstore, you make eye contact, say Hi. If she ignores you then move on. If she says hi back, the next step is to find a common (uncreppy) follow up...like ';Enjoy Mystery Novels too huh';? If your in the Mystery Novels section.
just find something that allows you to connect to them. ';Oh you like XZY music group, me too';. Or ';I am an English major too'; but dont make it up, it has to be real.
Bottom line, you have nothing to lose...so just be yourself.
If you're not comfortable around a girl, odds are, you never will be.
Which means you have to find your soulmate.
Some say we don't have one, but I believe we all do.
They say theres one person that no matter what you'll be comfortable around...
1.) make sure you smell nicely.
2.) Be yourself
3.) Don't be a jerk
4.) Relax
5.) Try to make her laugh
Just be calm and confident - imagine as if the girl is a friend
girls dont really like nervous guys
Compliments, and smiling a lot.. making eye contact, and showing interest on the conversation is always good.
gils take some time
should be friendly
everyone should not embrass him
cool guy in the school etc.
You can practice talking to me. :]
My aim= Kaytbug11
Just take a seat beside me and say, ';Hi. How was your day?'; And ask em questions about their interest and other things.
pretend they're your guy friends, they aren't gonna bite you. just be confident
look whenever you see them be all like so what have you been up to lately? do you wanna get a coffee idk!
Just relax and be yourself
be yourself dont try to be someone youre not. if they dont like you screw them
Yea. My email is ellebballplyr22@yahoo.com
I am having troubles to talk comfortably around/with girls...I need some help.Is there someone(preferably female=)) that can contact me and give me advises?Help will be highly appreciated.How to talk to girls comfortably?
Hey.
I know a lot of guys get that awkward conversation when there with any type of girl. Even girls they don't like, like that. To be honest girls are like that to.
But here are some tips to help you stay calm.
-Don't talk to much. Look at her in her eyes.
-Start off with a ';Hey, how you doing'; ';Hey, Whats up';
-Actually Listen to what shes saying and respond with a appropriate answer.
-Don't think about...';What is she thinking about'; ';I hope i don't smell'; Stuff like that.
-Don't brag about you whole day. Just like a 1 or 2 sentences. Then ask her about her day...
-If you give it sometime and loosen up you'll get comfortable with it.
I Hope I Helped.
Good Luck Hun.
^_^
You can practice with me if you want..
Email is bettyboopms3@yahoo.com
^_^How to talk to girls comfortably?
To start, your first RED flag is that your creepy.
';Is there a female that can contact me and give me advice?';
Look, the key is to understand that when you go into the conversation, your worst case scenario is that she will not be interested, which is exactly where you started...so you have nothing to lose.
People love talking about themselves. So ask her name, and something relevant to where you are (but not a stupid question).
See a girl in a bookstore, you make eye contact, say Hi. If she ignores you then move on. If she says hi back, the next step is to find a common (uncreppy) follow up...like ';Enjoy Mystery Novels too huh';? If your in the Mystery Novels section.
just find something that allows you to connect to them. ';Oh you like XZY music group, me too';. Or ';I am an English major too'; but dont make it up, it has to be real.
Bottom line, you have nothing to lose...so just be yourself.
If you're not comfortable around a girl, odds are, you never will be.
Which means you have to find your soulmate.
Some say we don't have one, but I believe we all do.
They say theres one person that no matter what you'll be comfortable around...
1.) make sure you smell nicely.
2.) Be yourself
3.) Don't be a jerk
4.) Relax
5.) Try to make her laugh
Just be calm and confident - imagine as if the girl is a friend
girls dont really like nervous guys
Compliments, and smiling a lot.. making eye contact, and showing interest on the conversation is always good.
gils take some time
should be friendly
everyone should not embrass him
cool guy in the school etc.
You can practice talking to me. :]
My aim= Kaytbug11
Just take a seat beside me and say, ';Hi. How was your day?'; And ask em questions about their interest and other things.
pretend they're your guy friends, they aren't gonna bite you. just be confident
look whenever you see them be all like so what have you been up to lately? do you wanna get a coffee idk!
Just relax and be yourself
be yourself dont try to be someone youre not. if they dont like you screw them
Yea. My email is ellebballplyr22@yahoo.com
How do I talk with girls?
I am a dead on guy and I am good looking (don't want to sound cocky) but when I am on my own with a girl, I don't know how to have a simple conversation with them. Like there is just always awkward silences! I hate it! I just get nervous! Can you please help me and tell me what to talk about and how to be yourself and confident around girls? ThanksHow do I talk with girls?
You shold be kissing not talking lol no im playing but really anytime its an awkward silence just say ';awkward silence not liking this'; or somthing along those lines and let her know you can also just do some fun things like tickle her or play a game if your not sexually active.
Things to talk about
HER lol
say she's pretty or her eyes are
ask her what she lieks about you
ask how many kids she wants
if she's a virgin (dont sound like a pervert)
dont keep asking her stuff though it'll soun dlike 21 questions just go with the flow
if your over the phone tell her to turn her tv on and watch somthing fun with you just relax and dont hold your tounge even if its kinda corny SAY IT dont hide who you are for anyone because if she cant accept you then dismiss her and move onHow do I talk with girls?
try fluff talking- like ask her
what did u do yesterday?
-...........then continue asking more qs. This is just to break the silence to get her speaking.
You shold be kissing not talking lol no im playing but really anytime its an awkward silence just say ';awkward silence not liking this'; or somthing along those lines and let her know you can also just do some fun things like tickle her or play a game if your not sexually active.
Things to talk about
HER lol
say she's pretty or her eyes are
ask her what she lieks about you
ask how many kids she wants
if she's a virgin (dont sound like a pervert)
dont keep asking her stuff though it'll soun dlike 21 questions just go with the flow
if your over the phone tell her to turn her tv on and watch somthing fun with you just relax and dont hold your tounge even if its kinda corny SAY IT dont hide who you are for anyone because if she cant accept you then dismiss her and move onHow do I talk with girls?
try fluff talking- like ask her
what did u do yesterday?
-...........then continue asking more qs. This is just to break the silence to get her speaking.
Do guys think it's annoying when girls talk to them on facebook?
How often should we chat with you if we like you? And what should we say?Do guys think it's annoying when girls talk to them on facebook?
no it's not annoying. just try not to talk about petty things like gossip or she said blah blah... ask about his interests like music/sports/how the day went for example. don't ramble on about yourself too much either.
it can be overbearing if you try to facebook chat/post on wall every time we're online. once every other day is prob safe.Do guys think it's annoying when girls talk to them on facebook?
talk when you want.
but talk about stuff you both like, including music, food, animals etc.
it will bring you closer.
no it's not annoying. just try not to talk about petty things like gossip or she said blah blah... ask about his interests like music/sports/how the day went for example. don't ramble on about yourself too much either.
it can be overbearing if you try to facebook chat/post on wall every time we're online. once every other day is prob safe.Do guys think it's annoying when girls talk to them on facebook?
talk when you want.
but talk about stuff you both like, including music, food, animals etc.
it will bring you closer.
How can I talk to girls that I like?
There a couple girls that i could see myself liking. I dont talk to them that much.
I dont really know how to talk to them.
Can someone give me some advice?
Im super shy around girls!
Im friends with like all the guys in school but im extremely shy with girlsHow can I talk to girls that I like?
Most guys are shy with girls. You just got to practice, by going up to the girls and start talking to them. Cause after awhile you start not being shy. Just go up to the girls you see yourself liking, then start of with a simple hi, small talk, then ask questions about them. etc..How can I talk to girls that I like?
Yeah, sometimes I have a problem talking to guys that I like. The best things to do is just talk to girls like you would talk to anyone else. Listen to her, don't worry so much about what she's thinking of you, and just be yourself and you should be fine! Have some self-confidence. Don't worry we're not that hard to talk to, especially if the girl is outgoing and seems easy to make conversation with. Flirt a little, if you want her to know you like her but don't come on too strong though.
Here are some topics you can talk about if you run out of things to say.
music
tv shows
movies
current events
family
colors
animals
clothes
cars
questions about what she likes to do to get her talking (questions that require more than just yes or no)
funny stories
video games
phones
internet
food
sports
Hope this helped. Good luck!daily diet for rabbit
I dont really know how to talk to them.
Can someone give me some advice?
Im super shy around girls!
Im friends with like all the guys in school but im extremely shy with girlsHow can I talk to girls that I like?
Most guys are shy with girls. You just got to practice, by going up to the girls and start talking to them. Cause after awhile you start not being shy. Just go up to the girls you see yourself liking, then start of with a simple hi, small talk, then ask questions about them. etc..How can I talk to girls that I like?
Yeah, sometimes I have a problem talking to guys that I like. The best things to do is just talk to girls like you would talk to anyone else. Listen to her, don't worry so much about what she's thinking of you, and just be yourself and you should be fine! Have some self-confidence. Don't worry we're not that hard to talk to, especially if the girl is outgoing and seems easy to make conversation with. Flirt a little, if you want her to know you like her but don't come on too strong though.
Here are some topics you can talk about if you run out of things to say.
music
tv shows
movies
current events
family
colors
animals
clothes
cars
questions about what she likes to do to get her talking (questions that require more than just yes or no)
funny stories
video games
phones
internet
food
sports
Hope this helped. Good luck!
How to talk to girls at college?
I'm currently in my second year of college and I still have problems talking to girls. There's this one girl that sits behind me in a big class of 100 people in an auditorium. She catches my eye every time I see her and i cant help but look at her. now I don't know why but i have no confidence when it comes to girls. I'm very confident in myself when it comes to everything else like school and being social but with girls i have no confidence in myself.. Does anyone have any suggestions?How to talk to girls at college?
I would just turn around and look at her and smile a little and say ';hi, I'm Nathan'; and then ask how's it going. I'd get into a conversation with her. Then, I'd say, ';hey, can i get your number'; and then i'd wait a few days, call it and get a beer with her ... and more if it all goes right.How to talk to girls at college?
tap that ***
just be yourself and approach to her, you are a big guy now, ASK HER OUT
well, since u can't do anything, why don't you talk to them the same way you would if they were guys? come up to them, say hi, start a NORMAL conversation... if u want to ask them out, trust me, if they like you back, they will, most of the time.
run into her. say you are sorry, do it hard enough that it is not creepy that you ask to buy her coffee to make up for knocking her over.
haha, I am full of them tonight! It sounds funny, but it seriously works. Just don't hurt her when knocking her over.
u need practice and the confidence will come naturally....u need to become friends with the grl. Strike up a convo regarding class and take it from there. this isnt rocket science, be polite and interesting....go with the flow! good luck!
Just take a deep breath and say hi.
I used to be really shy, but I just started slowly talking to more and more people, and I got used to it.
So just take it slow, but once you do start talking to someone, it's usually pretty easy to continue.
Good luck!! :)
concentrate on getting a degree and making big bucks. you can have college girls until your 85 and they wont even care if you can talk anymore.
You just have to suck it up and say hi. You can't let shyness hold you back from talking to someone you may really learn to like. Maybe ask her for help with something in class or to borrow a pencil or just anything to break the ice. I know we girls can be intimidating but we're just as nervous as you are so be brave.
read the game and watch the show pick up artist.
like an normal ma .......
just chill man
girls aren't aliens.. so if u are very confident about everything else try to be the same when it comes to girls... women appreciate men who are confident not scared boys ( and since ur in collage ur no longer a boy anymore)... so make the courage and go to talk to the girl from the auditorium... she will like that.. and she will like more cause she will get to know u 4 real , not just from small looks at each other... good luck
make friends with them first to get to know what they like and dont, then you ca start approaching them n tel them how you fil
Think about it, what would happen if she rejected you, or if it goes wrong? what ? you gonna lose anything? you gonna lose money? anything? nothing.
so go for it. don't waste your time, and you ll learn by trial. better now than later.
Learn to laugh at yourself and blow off awkward situations. This helps relieve the stress of trying to meet new people. Always be genuine..this speaks volumes for who you are as a person and never goes unnoticed nor unappreciated by others..especially if they too are genuine. These are the people you should always surround yourself with.
and don't be to hard on yourself. You obviously think deeply and maybe read too much into situations before they actually become reality. let go. be yourself.
Start out simple. Before class, try turning to her and just asking her about an assignment you might have had or a ';question'; you have on the material you are currently learning about. Just keep talking about your class or ask her what her major is or what classes she's taking for the current semester/quarter (whatever system your school goes by). Then eventually you'll be able to bring in more personal questions like asking her how her weekend was.
Good luck with everything!
You know sometimes it takes men a lifetime, to relax enough to talk to a woman. When there really isn't any difference than talking to any good friend. Just be yourself, that's who you are. People aren't going to bite your head off for starting a conversation. Unfortunately the art of ';talking and conversation'; is something we have put on the back burner. Kind of like penmanship, not too many people take enough of an interest to just talk to one another any more. Seems we all have something stuck in our ears that we would rather listen to .
I can tell you that if you keep coming here and expressing yourself as well as you just did, you don't really have much to worry about.
I would just turn around and look at her and smile a little and say ';hi, I'm Nathan'; and then ask how's it going. I'd get into a conversation with her. Then, I'd say, ';hey, can i get your number'; and then i'd wait a few days, call it and get a beer with her ... and more if it all goes right.How to talk to girls at college?
tap that ***
just be yourself and approach to her, you are a big guy now, ASK HER OUT
well, since u can't do anything, why don't you talk to them the same way you would if they were guys? come up to them, say hi, start a NORMAL conversation... if u want to ask them out, trust me, if they like you back, they will, most of the time.
run into her. say you are sorry, do it hard enough that it is not creepy that you ask to buy her coffee to make up for knocking her over.
haha, I am full of them tonight! It sounds funny, but it seriously works. Just don't hurt her when knocking her over.
u need practice and the confidence will come naturally....u need to become friends with the grl. Strike up a convo regarding class and take it from there. this isnt rocket science, be polite and interesting....go with the flow! good luck!
Just take a deep breath and say hi.
I used to be really shy, but I just started slowly talking to more and more people, and I got used to it.
So just take it slow, but once you do start talking to someone, it's usually pretty easy to continue.
Good luck!! :)
concentrate on getting a degree and making big bucks. you can have college girls until your 85 and they wont even care if you can talk anymore.
You just have to suck it up and say hi. You can't let shyness hold you back from talking to someone you may really learn to like. Maybe ask her for help with something in class or to borrow a pencil or just anything to break the ice. I know we girls can be intimidating but we're just as nervous as you are so be brave.
read the game and watch the show pick up artist.
like an normal ma .......
just chill man
girls aren't aliens.. so if u are very confident about everything else try to be the same when it comes to girls... women appreciate men who are confident not scared boys ( and since ur in collage ur no longer a boy anymore)... so make the courage and go to talk to the girl from the auditorium... she will like that.. and she will like more cause she will get to know u 4 real , not just from small looks at each other... good luck
make friends with them first to get to know what they like and dont, then you ca start approaching them n tel them how you fil
Think about it, what would happen if she rejected you, or if it goes wrong? what ? you gonna lose anything? you gonna lose money? anything? nothing.
so go for it. don't waste your time, and you ll learn by trial. better now than later.
Learn to laugh at yourself and blow off awkward situations. This helps relieve the stress of trying to meet new people. Always be genuine..this speaks volumes for who you are as a person and never goes unnoticed nor unappreciated by others..especially if they too are genuine. These are the people you should always surround yourself with.
and don't be to hard on yourself. You obviously think deeply and maybe read too much into situations before they actually become reality. let go. be yourself.
Start out simple. Before class, try turning to her and just asking her about an assignment you might have had or a ';question'; you have on the material you are currently learning about. Just keep talking about your class or ask her what her major is or what classes she's taking for the current semester/quarter (whatever system your school goes by). Then eventually you'll be able to bring in more personal questions like asking her how her weekend was.
Good luck with everything!
You know sometimes it takes men a lifetime, to relax enough to talk to a woman. When there really isn't any difference than talking to any good friend. Just be yourself, that's who you are. People aren't going to bite your head off for starting a conversation. Unfortunately the art of ';talking and conversation'; is something we have put on the back burner. Kind of like penmanship, not too many people take enough of an interest to just talk to one another any more. Seems we all have something stuck in our ears that we would rather listen to .
I can tell you that if you keep coming here and expressing yourself as well as you just did, you don't really have much to worry about.
How to talk to girls when you are shy?
I have a girl in one of my classes that I really like a lot, but I am having problems starting a conversation with her. I am really shy, like sometimes when talking in front of bunches of people, my face will blush. I can talk to everyone else in the class but her. What are some good ways I can start conversation with her that aren't random or awkward. Thanks.How to talk to girls when you are shy?
Well, i think the best way is to be Sincere when you talk to her. Most conversations start with talking abt random things, so there's nothing wrong if you just say Hi, hows your day and stuff.
Most impt, be natural and sincere about knowing her. All the best.How to talk to girls when you are shy?
I suggest that you go to www.overcoming-shyness.com.It will give you some tips on this.It has a lot of useful info on there.
Now don't be a fkn pussi.
first start with an ordinary question...
just go with the flow.
see what will happen.
maybe she likes you, maybe she don't.
alcohol is a good stabilizer though...
grab a girl you're used to/ok talking to, and start having a convo. this should be easy for you of course... just listen to what you talk about and how you act.
then, when you've had that ';run up practise'; go find the girl you like and REPEAT if you have to! like... ask the same things, talk about the same things... have things ready to talk about JUST in case you mess up :P and if you do, act cute about it. its adorable when a guys shy and blundering, even if you feel humiliated lol
good luck!
dont be shy.
girls are always shy too.
but you gotta take a chance if you really like her.
and you can just talk about anything.
tell her she looks pretty or something.
girls LOVE when you compliment them.
GOOD LUCK!
Well, i think the best way is to be Sincere when you talk to her. Most conversations start with talking abt random things, so there's nothing wrong if you just say Hi, hows your day and stuff.
Most impt, be natural and sincere about knowing her. All the best.How to talk to girls when you are shy?
I suggest that you go to www.overcoming-shyness.com.It will give you some tips on this.It has a lot of useful info on there.
Now don't be a fkn pussi.
first start with an ordinary question...
just go with the flow.
see what will happen.
maybe she likes you, maybe she don't.
alcohol is a good stabilizer though...
grab a girl you're used to/ok talking to, and start having a convo. this should be easy for you of course... just listen to what you talk about and how you act.
then, when you've had that ';run up practise'; go find the girl you like and REPEAT if you have to! like... ask the same things, talk about the same things... have things ready to talk about JUST in case you mess up :P and if you do, act cute about it. its adorable when a guys shy and blundering, even if you feel humiliated lol
good luck!
dont be shy.
girls are always shy too.
but you gotta take a chance if you really like her.
and you can just talk about anything.
tell her she looks pretty or something.
girls LOVE when you compliment them.
GOOD LUCK!
How can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
I've always been shy. Even as a little kid. Over the years i've progressed enough to be able to make friends and such but i still can't approach girls and hold a conversation.
I see guys do this all the time. I know i could too, but i just don't know what to say. What would you say to a girl that you knew was interested in you but have never talked to her before? Obviously I should start with ';hi...'; but then what?How can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
I was like you too. Get this, and im sure its the same with every guy shy or not. if the girl is someone you cant see yourself with, or maybe not the best looking your A ok with talking to them weather know them or not. Its when you find a chick that gots the looks and you can see yourself with her.
This is the thing, you need to talk like friend to make yourself comfortable. Then as you get to know her and are more comfortable then you can get more serious.
Id think the more you do it the easier it is. but i wouldnt know, cuz im like you and i just found my girl and we knew we liked eachother so we skipped that part which i think sucks because its better to get super comfy with your girl, say wat you want without being scared.
Then again im a christian and i prayed a lot over my girl because she is....the best. GO TO GODHow can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
just be bold and daring! if u see a girl u like just talk to her about whats going on. if its in school, talk about whats going on in class or something you heard around school. then once you keep making the first move, youll get use to it and be able to do it without thinking twice! have confidence!
I was the same way man... The key is confidence... once you learn that the skys the limit... make them laugh! and don't be ashamed of what you do... become a ';mature clown'; be serious when u need to and joke when necessary! good luck... remember confidence is key! :P
I was shy for years and years. There is a solution that works, don't be like all the other guys, get the girls come and talk to you.Start of by getting them interested in you by just making eye contact, smiling and saying Hi! whenever you see them. Girls like guys who are not desperate they will eventually start being interested. Don't try and think up chat up lines or deep meaning full conversations, just joke around and tease them , not too much or they will think you are a total clown. This is just a quick answer but has all you need to know to get started. When i go out all the best looking women come after me and i am no hunky muscle bound male model, that's why i know this works.
ok, the key to getting girls is confidence! thats why jerky ugly girls get girls cause then though they r *** holes they are cocky as ****... so what does that mean 4 u. well u obviously arnt a confident person so you pretend. just start of small mayb with girls in your group n work out but u have to be confident even bordering on up your self is great a couple of examples if your a the movies n something cool happens n the girl says omg that was awesome u say meh i can do that i just dont want to show people up c confident thats what u need so pretend it until u get it
I see guys do this all the time. I know i could too, but i just don't know what to say. What would you say to a girl that you knew was interested in you but have never talked to her before? Obviously I should start with ';hi...'; but then what?How can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
I was like you too. Get this, and im sure its the same with every guy shy or not. if the girl is someone you cant see yourself with, or maybe not the best looking your A ok with talking to them weather know them or not. Its when you find a chick that gots the looks and you can see yourself with her.
This is the thing, you need to talk like friend to make yourself comfortable. Then as you get to know her and are more comfortable then you can get more serious.
Id think the more you do it the easier it is. but i wouldnt know, cuz im like you and i just found my girl and we knew we liked eachother so we skipped that part which i think sucks because its better to get super comfy with your girl, say wat you want without being scared.
Then again im a christian and i prayed a lot over my girl because she is....the best. GO TO GODHow can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
just be bold and daring! if u see a girl u like just talk to her about whats going on. if its in school, talk about whats going on in class or something you heard around school. then once you keep making the first move, youll get use to it and be able to do it without thinking twice! have confidence!
I was the same way man... The key is confidence... once you learn that the skys the limit... make them laugh! and don't be ashamed of what you do... become a ';mature clown'; be serious when u need to and joke when necessary! good luck... remember confidence is key! :P
I was shy for years and years. There is a solution that works, don't be like all the other guys, get the girls come and talk to you.Start of by getting them interested in you by just making eye contact, smiling and saying Hi! whenever you see them. Girls like guys who are not desperate they will eventually start being interested. Don't try and think up chat up lines or deep meaning full conversations, just joke around and tease them , not too much or they will think you are a total clown. This is just a quick answer but has all you need to know to get started. When i go out all the best looking women come after me and i am no hunky muscle bound male model, that's why i know this works.
ok, the key to getting girls is confidence! thats why jerky ugly girls get girls cause then though they r *** holes they are cocky as ****... so what does that mean 4 u. well u obviously arnt a confident person so you pretend. just start of small mayb with girls in your group n work out but u have to be confident even bordering on up your self is great a couple of examples if your a the movies n something cool happens n the girl says omg that was awesome u say meh i can do that i just dont want to show people up c confident thats what u need so pretend it until u get it
Girls talk: How Come Guys Dont Initiate The Break-Up?
My Boyfriend says he has to contact his ex for the sake of his mum? He is 30yo. Him and His Ex were on for 3 year, for us 18months. His mom doesnt know about me yet. What should I do? how come he cant break it up with me, it hurts finding out and being left than just telling honestly how u really feel, right girls???Girls talk: How Come Guys Dont Initiate The Break-Up?
Some men do consider the woman's feelings and pride. They leave it to her to initiate the break-up. It's like being a gentleman over the whole thing although I believe it is a coward's way out of a relationship he doesn't like or is not comfortable anymore. Rather that than to face the woman (who might get hysterical) and explain why and maybe, just maybe, get a slap in the face for being a jerk.
How certain are you that your boyfriend wants to break off with you? Has he indicated his intention in more ways than one? His plan to contact his ex-gf does not necessarily mean going back to her arms unless, of course, he has said something to this effect. Anyway, to set your mind at ease, ask him about it...or what he intends to do. You have every right to know and get on with your life in case he plans to delete you out of his life. As to his mother not knowing about your relationship, that is something you should have asked before.
Don't fret over one guy. It hurts the first time but you'll come to terms with it, depending on how deeply hurt you are and how easily you can recover. There are a lot of fishes in the ocean just waiting to be caught. :)Girls talk: How Come Guys Dont Initiate The Break-Up?
simply they are retarded!
because men are stupid and idiots and zombies with no soul
It's easier said than done to break up with somebody.
It can be simpler than cutting cake for some people, and then it could be the hardest thing in the world for others.
We shouldn't generalize ';men do this'; or ';women do that';, in fact everything goes for all people.
Some people are afraid of hurting the other's feelings, some just can't bare the fact that they will be hurting somebody's feelings, a few get the thrill of not breaking up with someone while they're going out with someone else (that's a ';player'; in my eyes)...
There are lots of different reasons, but it should never be just men's fault.
Women are just as guilty as all the things we accuse them for.
Is it OK for a man to answer this one?
Maybe just maybe he is not breaking up with you at this time because of what he is getting from you? And her?
Trying to be nice about this %26amp; not offend you or other people.
Ouch, ouch on the first two responses. I'd vouch for the third reply that the issue does not pertain to one gender alone. It is most likely borne from the personality of an individual.
On one occasion, It took me a year to completely get out of an ailing relationship, trying desperately hard not to hurt the other party...probably because of the guilt that I was the remover having the issues (not too proud of it). I know now that it is the chicken's way and no amount of gentleness can make a break-up any easier for anybody.
So in the light of the event, I would say your BF ...maybe ex BF by now, was not so much into you and marooning with not-so-convincing alibis (including mom) was his way of getting off from the relationship with less damage to your ego. The trajectory is coming from: mom - to son - to you. This kinda makes it look like the blame is not on him, but on the situation that he cannot do anything about. Bottomline: he's a chicken and you deserve better.
When a guy doesn't know what he wants(or in this case who he really likes) he'd rather play it safe and hedge his bet. Kinda like find out by default. Most mama's boys are like this, since they really can't decide for themselves, having been used to their mom deciding everything for them.
Boys want all the girls simultaneously.
Men do. When you get mad enough you will leave and won't be able to say he abandoned you.
Sounds like he has already started.
Some men do consider the woman's feelings and pride. They leave it to her to initiate the break-up. It's like being a gentleman over the whole thing although I believe it is a coward's way out of a relationship he doesn't like or is not comfortable anymore. Rather that than to face the woman (who might get hysterical) and explain why and maybe, just maybe, get a slap in the face for being a jerk.
How certain are you that your boyfriend wants to break off with you? Has he indicated his intention in more ways than one? His plan to contact his ex-gf does not necessarily mean going back to her arms unless, of course, he has said something to this effect. Anyway, to set your mind at ease, ask him about it...or what he intends to do. You have every right to know and get on with your life in case he plans to delete you out of his life. As to his mother not knowing about your relationship, that is something you should have asked before.
Don't fret over one guy. It hurts the first time but you'll come to terms with it, depending on how deeply hurt you are and how easily you can recover. There are a lot of fishes in the ocean just waiting to be caught. :)Girls talk: How Come Guys Dont Initiate The Break-Up?
simply they are retarded!
because men are stupid and idiots and zombies with no soul
It's easier said than done to break up with somebody.
It can be simpler than cutting cake for some people, and then it could be the hardest thing in the world for others.
We shouldn't generalize ';men do this'; or ';women do that';, in fact everything goes for all people.
Some people are afraid of hurting the other's feelings, some just can't bare the fact that they will be hurting somebody's feelings, a few get the thrill of not breaking up with someone while they're going out with someone else (that's a ';player'; in my eyes)...
There are lots of different reasons, but it should never be just men's fault.
Women are just as guilty as all the things we accuse them for.
Is it OK for a man to answer this one?
Maybe just maybe he is not breaking up with you at this time because of what he is getting from you? And her?
Trying to be nice about this %26amp; not offend you or other people.
Ouch, ouch on the first two responses. I'd vouch for the third reply that the issue does not pertain to one gender alone. It is most likely borne from the personality of an individual.
On one occasion, It took me a year to completely get out of an ailing relationship, trying desperately hard not to hurt the other party...probably because of the guilt that I was the remover having the issues (not too proud of it). I know now that it is the chicken's way and no amount of gentleness can make a break-up any easier for anybody.
So in the light of the event, I would say your BF ...maybe ex BF by now, was not so much into you and marooning with not-so-convincing alibis (including mom) was his way of getting off from the relationship with less damage to your ego. The trajectory is coming from: mom - to son - to you. This kinda makes it look like the blame is not on him, but on the situation that he cannot do anything about. Bottomline: he's a chicken and you deserve better.
When a guy doesn't know what he wants(or in this case who he really likes) he'd rather play it safe and hedge his bet. Kinda like find out by default. Most mama's boys are like this, since they really can't decide for themselves, having been used to their mom deciding everything for them.
Boys want all the girls simultaneously.
Men do. When you get mad enough you will leave and won't be able to say he abandoned you.
Sounds like he has already started.
How to talk to girls on facebook?
Well in school i dont have many classes with girls/attractive ones. And the only way i can really start a conversation is probably over facebook. I feel a lot more confident of myself now that i shaved cut my hair and took a picture of my masculant body and put it on myspace. I know this is a really sketchy question but i cant really just creep on their facebooks and say hi so what do i do?How to talk to girls on facebook?
You need to trust yourself and breakthrough shyness. Ask her what is the good time to talk. Write down what do you want to say.How to talk to girls on facebook?
Well, here is what I think... Just say Hi and if she says Hi back then tell her you came across her profile and thought she was pretty , beautiful or whatever. Less is more and too much can creep us women out. Don't push a girl into meeting after you two start talking a little and building a friendship ask her if she would like to meet in a public place. try not to get her number til you two meet up and see how things go. Good luck and don't be to shy that gets boring and to cocky is annoying, but try to be yourself. Good luck and hope it works
You need to trust yourself and breakthrough shyness. Ask her what is the good time to talk. Write down what do you want to say.How to talk to girls on facebook?
Well, here is what I think... Just say Hi and if she says Hi back then tell her you came across her profile and thought she was pretty , beautiful or whatever. Less is more and too much can creep us women out. Don't push a girl into meeting after you two start talking a little and building a friendship ask her if she would like to meet in a public place. try not to get her number til you two meet up and see how things go. Good luck and don't be to shy that gets boring and to cocky is annoying, but try to be yourself. Good luck and hope it works
How can I think of topics to talk about while im talking to girls?
Everytime I talk to a girl and I start a conversation with her I can never think about what to talk about that she would actually like to talk about. When Im with my guy friends I can talk nonstop but whenever i talk to a girl even if she is my best friend i can never think about what to talk about and we just sit there in awkward silence. So how can I start talking about stuff?How can I think of topics to talk about while im talking to girls?
Talk about the things that you KNOW she likes and what she's interested in. Before you go out with her, talk to her over the phone or facebook/AIM and ask her what hobbies she enjoys, or what music/movies she's into. Then, when you guys go out, you can talk to her about the kinds of things she enjoys, and she will start talking about it from there. Since she'll be doing most of the talking, you won't have to worry about what to say :)
Good luck! Hope this helps.How can I think of topics to talk about while im talking to girls?
Talk about all the girls you've banged, and how big your penis is.
Talk about the things that you KNOW she likes and what she's interested in. Before you go out with her, talk to her over the phone or facebook/AIM and ask her what hobbies she enjoys, or what music/movies she's into. Then, when you guys go out, you can talk to her about the kinds of things she enjoys, and she will start talking about it from there. Since she'll be doing most of the talking, you won't have to worry about what to say :)
Good luck! Hope this helps.How can I think of topics to talk about while im talking to girls?
Talk about all the girls you've banged, and how big your penis is.
How do I talk to girls in a cool way?
I get so nervous when I'm alone with a girl so I forget what I should say. I will never be able to earn a girlfriend because I really have trouble dealing with girls!How do I talk to girls in a cool way?
Calm down and be yourself:)
Just take a deep breath, go up to her and say:
Hey, I like you!
Figure out what she likes, then try and talk to her about it.
For some people, it's easier to talk on the internet, since they can't see you.
Maybe just send her a cute message via facebook, and she'll get the message.
Or write her a note and give it to her at school.
If you get nervous, just joke around. That'll break the ice and make things less awkward, plus she might laugh, which is good. You want to make her smile.How do I talk to girls in a cool way?
smooth talk to them
say nice stuff about them
dont try to impress, thats a major turn-off. be yourself
answer mine plz! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
Calm down nd just be yourself in a really nice way. If you cant look her in the eyes look off to the side to where it looks like your talking to her
tell her she's looks pretty
oh man i get nervous talking to guys too like what do i say haha
but i would want a guy to be like honest with me like lets say im in class with a guy that ive always wanted to get to know
well i would want him to ask me questions about the homework or talk about how lame the teacher is ya know?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
just be ur self and make the girl(s) laugh! us girls luv guys who make them smile + laugh. smile+laugh=love for u!
Find a common interest and chat away.
Calm down and be yourself:)
Just take a deep breath, go up to her and say:
Hey, I like you!
Figure out what she likes, then try and talk to her about it.
For some people, it's easier to talk on the internet, since they can't see you.
Maybe just send her a cute message via facebook, and she'll get the message.
Or write her a note and give it to her at school.
If you get nervous, just joke around. That'll break the ice and make things less awkward, plus she might laugh, which is good. You want to make her smile.How do I talk to girls in a cool way?
smooth talk to them
say nice stuff about them
dont try to impress, thats a major turn-off. be yourself
answer mine plz! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
Calm down nd just be yourself in a really nice way. If you cant look her in the eyes look off to the side to where it looks like your talking to her
tell her she's looks pretty
oh man i get nervous talking to guys too like what do i say haha
but i would want a guy to be like honest with me like lets say im in class with a guy that ive always wanted to get to know
well i would want him to ask me questions about the homework or talk about how lame the teacher is ya know?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
just be ur self and make the girl(s) laugh! us girls luv guys who make them smile + laugh. smile+laugh=love for u!
Find a common interest and chat away.
How should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
i'm 15 and how should i talk to girls at the mall and other places then how should i ask for their phone number then ask for a date with themHow should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
start with asking them thier name if u don't know it and ask how their day went and wat they did yesterday or today or whenever and if there was a big event or something recently ask them about it 4 example: did u watch the packer game the other day? and then say kool we should talk sometime wats your #?How should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
grab their attention somehow and start a conversation (you probably have to see this person more than once to ask them out or even call them)
You can start by saying ';hello'; then introducing yourself. At 15 you are too young to date so you don't need to know how to ask a girl for a date. Asking for a phone number is pretty self explanatory...
The key is confidence. If you doubt yourself then the girl will doubt you too. If you see a girl you think is cute, say if she is eating at the mall food court, just walk up with your name and number written on a piece of paper and introduce yourself, and say, ';I would love it if you would call me.'; Keep it brief and then just keep on walking. If she is interested, she will call.
Well, you have to get to meet them quite a while. Just start a convo by saying hey. I rather not pick up any girls randomly though, maybe from my school or university but not randomly out of the mall. They'd just run away thinking youre a pedo
Walk up and ask if they're interested in having your children. Works every time, especially well if their mother is around and listening when you ask.
The first key is to be confident. It you stroll up to them all sweaty and nervous, they're going to be turned off. Act like you know what you're doing and that it's no big deal. What's the worst than can happen, right?
Also, it helps to find a common interest to talk about. It's a lot easier to hit things off if you're interested in the same thing. Then, after you've talked for a bit, compliment them and ask for their number. Then later you could call them and ask if they'd like to do something.
Just start a conversation its easy Good Luck.
Bowling alley? School?
say hi
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
well im a girl..and if i wanted a guy to come up to me and ask to tlk ..he shuld start by just some casual stuff yu tlk about with yur friends but not the dumb stuff...the boys really really tlk about with their guy friends. if all goes well tlking yu move on and sum how move in with the question with like so maybe sumtime yu wanna hang out..and !!POOF!! there it is...myabe but sumtimes just straight up walk to a girl and start blabbing yur mouth off will send us flying..especially if yu tlk about nothing interesting.
P.S try to what she is interested in and myabe yu'll find out yu guys have things in common with one another.
contrary to popular belief - we dont bite ;)
honestly im sure any girl would be amazed if you went up to talk to them.. not many guys have the guts or if they do they are usually just too cocky for their own good :O
if your looking for conversation openers then causally bump into them and just make really sweet, offhand comment. complimenting is always a good option here (i)
if you guys get on really well tell her that youd really like to see her again and maybe hang out. just incase she thinks your a psycho offer a group date (i) if she says yes give her your number. dont ask for hers.. if she was interested in you, she'll call
im saying this so that you dont seem like a weirdo asking for numbers.. if she gets in contact with you then its an extra point for you as you know shes interested in seeing you. if not.. hard luck :/
hope i helped :)
Its easy but also difficult. Because you don't want to seem like an idiot when randomly out of nowhere start a conversation. You have to do something like for example '; do u guys know where(whatever place in mall) is?';, if you still don't know (supposedly),say ';can u show me?';.. You know.. And after just say thank you and if you want offer that girlif she wants to hang out sometime even though you don't know her to be friends.
Aww! Ok, well maybe start with something like...If there shopping in the mens department say something like
';Hey'; and when they respond say something like
';So are you shopping for your boyfriend?'; And if she's like ';Noo, my dad'; then you can be like
';Cool, cool. So no guy huh?';
And she could say something like ';No, not yet..Im just waiting for the right person'; (Good sign-then you shoot for her number)
Or she could say ';No...But I have my eye on someone'; (That would mean she doesn't eally want you to have her number) then just say ';Oh cool'; But don't walk away right away! Its like going up to her and saying ';Do you have a boyfriend because I dont want to waste my time';
This is good because it's a good way to find out if she has a boyfriend right away, so you dont waste all this time on her, when she's taken.
And if seh seems to want to talk then its a good sign too.
Use you Imagination!!
Good luck!
PS
Dont let there be a bunch of long pauses because then she thinks ';Is this what the date is going to be like?';
start with asking them thier name if u don't know it and ask how their day went and wat they did yesterday or today or whenever and if there was a big event or something recently ask them about it 4 example: did u watch the packer game the other day? and then say kool we should talk sometime wats your #?How should i talk to girls and start a conversation?
grab their attention somehow and start a conversation (you probably have to see this person more than once to ask them out or even call them)
You can start by saying ';hello'; then introducing yourself. At 15 you are too young to date so you don't need to know how to ask a girl for a date. Asking for a phone number is pretty self explanatory...
The key is confidence. If you doubt yourself then the girl will doubt you too. If you see a girl you think is cute, say if she is eating at the mall food court, just walk up with your name and number written on a piece of paper and introduce yourself, and say, ';I would love it if you would call me.'; Keep it brief and then just keep on walking. If she is interested, she will call.
Well, you have to get to meet them quite a while. Just start a convo by saying hey. I rather not pick up any girls randomly though, maybe from my school or university but not randomly out of the mall. They'd just run away thinking youre a pedo
Walk up and ask if they're interested in having your children. Works every time, especially well if their mother is around and listening when you ask.
The first key is to be confident. It you stroll up to them all sweaty and nervous, they're going to be turned off. Act like you know what you're doing and that it's no big deal. What's the worst than can happen, right?
Also, it helps to find a common interest to talk about. It's a lot easier to hit things off if you're interested in the same thing. Then, after you've talked for a bit, compliment them and ask for their number. Then later you could call them and ask if they'd like to do something.
Just start a conversation its easy Good Luck.
Bowling alley? School?
say hi
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
well im a girl..and if i wanted a guy to come up to me and ask to tlk ..he shuld start by just some casual stuff yu tlk about with yur friends but not the dumb stuff...the boys really really tlk about with their guy friends. if all goes well tlking yu move on and sum how move in with the question with like so maybe sumtime yu wanna hang out..and !!POOF!! there it is...myabe but sumtimes just straight up walk to a girl and start blabbing yur mouth off will send us flying..especially if yu tlk about nothing interesting.
P.S try to what she is interested in and myabe yu'll find out yu guys have things in common with one another.
contrary to popular belief - we dont bite ;)
honestly im sure any girl would be amazed if you went up to talk to them.. not many guys have the guts or if they do they are usually just too cocky for their own good :O
if your looking for conversation openers then causally bump into them and just make really sweet, offhand comment. complimenting is always a good option here (i)
if you guys get on really well tell her that youd really like to see her again and maybe hang out. just incase she thinks your a psycho offer a group date (i) if she says yes give her your number. dont ask for hers.. if she was interested in you, she'll call
im saying this so that you dont seem like a weirdo asking for numbers.. if she gets in contact with you then its an extra point for you as you know shes interested in seeing you. if not.. hard luck :/
hope i helped :)
Its easy but also difficult. Because you don't want to seem like an idiot when randomly out of nowhere start a conversation. You have to do something like for example '; do u guys know where(whatever place in mall) is?';, if you still don't know (supposedly),say ';can u show me?';.. You know.. And after just say thank you and if you want offer that girlif she wants to hang out sometime even though you don't know her to be friends.
Aww! Ok, well maybe start with something like...If there shopping in the mens department say something like
';Hey'; and when they respond say something like
';So are you shopping for your boyfriend?'; And if she's like ';Noo, my dad'; then you can be like
';Cool, cool. So no guy huh?';
And she could say something like ';No, not yet..Im just waiting for the right person'; (Good sign-then you shoot for her number)
Or she could say ';No...But I have my eye on someone'; (That would mean she doesn't eally want you to have her number) then just say ';Oh cool'; But don't walk away right away! Its like going up to her and saying ';Do you have a boyfriend because I dont want to waste my time';
This is good because it's a good way to find out if she has a boyfriend right away, so you dont waste all this time on her, when she's taken.
And if seh seems to want to talk then its a good sign too.
Use you Imagination!!
Good luck!
PS
Dont let there be a bunch of long pauses because then she thinks ';Is this what the date is going to be like?';
How to talk to girls at a party?
I'm going to this party tonight with only people who are strangers to me. I want to talk to girls but I don't know how. Got any advice?How to talk to girls at a party?
Smile and talk about interesting things. If you're happy and socialable people will want to talk to you!How to talk to girls at a party?
Just be sweet and friendly if you kindly introduce yourself i'm sure you'll have girls to chat with all night.
Try avoiding any dirty jokes or comments though, girls are very easily offended.
Good Luck :)
They aren't from another planet.
Be nice and respectful and go talk to them.
They won't bite, unless you're lucky.
Smile and talk about interesting things. If you're happy and socialable people will want to talk to you!How to talk to girls at a party?
Just be sweet and friendly if you kindly introduce yourself i'm sure you'll have girls to chat with all night.
Try avoiding any dirty jokes or comments though, girls are very easily offended.
Good Luck :)
They aren't from another planet.
Be nice and respectful and go talk to them.
They won't bite, unless you're lucky.
How do you approach girls or talk to them?
Like I'm not good at talking to girls, but how would you just approach, and say hi, and maybe even be friends with them?How do you approach girls or talk to them?
suggestion number one dont act awkward or unconfortable around them just talk normally ...like how you would talk to your guy freinds obviously your not going to act awkward or embarrased talking with them ...then the same thing dont do around girls
hope this helps ;D
ive experienced that and its really weird when a guy acts like that around a girl ;)How do you approach girls or talk to them?
Well im a girl and personally the best time to approach a girl is when theirs eye contact and a smile, if not then most likely the girl will think your a creep.
know what your gonna say/ask*
u dont want to look like a retard trying to get some.
smile constantly*
usually you have a question, or a compliment if you like a girl.how can i call by telphone from my pc
suggestion number one dont act awkward or unconfortable around them just talk normally ...like how you would talk to your guy freinds obviously your not going to act awkward or embarrased talking with them ...then the same thing dont do around girls
hope this helps ;D
ive experienced that and its really weird when a guy acts like that around a girl ;)How do you approach girls or talk to them?
Well im a girl and personally the best time to approach a girl is when theirs eye contact and a smile, if not then most likely the girl will think your a creep.
know what your gonna say/ask*
u dont want to look like a retard trying to get some.
smile constantly*
usually you have a question, or a compliment if you like a girl.
How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?
i need some tips as to getting over shyness when talking to girls.
When i think about talking to a certain girl i just dont do it because i dont know what to say.
i think it is because i have had bad experiences with going after girls:
if i go after a girl I like, it falls apart because of my shyness -- if a girl comes to me i really don't like them.
So what can i do about talking to a girl in particular and not being shy about it?How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?
Be yourself, relax, ask her some interesting questions about her favorite hobbies, places she wants to see. And remember, we women live on food, water and Compliments How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?
Bro, its not an overnight thing. It takes time and practice.
I had this problem once but the best thing to do is talk to her like you would do any girl. Be creative, funny, and play with her emotions!
The more practice you get the more you'll get over the shyness, Trust me.
When i think about talking to a certain girl i just dont do it because i dont know what to say.
i think it is because i have had bad experiences with going after girls:
if i go after a girl I like, it falls apart because of my shyness -- if a girl comes to me i really don't like them.
So what can i do about talking to a girl in particular and not being shy about it?How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?
Be yourself, relax, ask her some interesting questions about her favorite hobbies, places she wants to see. And remember, we women live on food, water and Compliments How can I talk to girls more and not be so shy?
Bro, its not an overnight thing. It takes time and practice.
I had this problem once but the best thing to do is talk to her like you would do any girl. Be creative, funny, and play with her emotions!
The more practice you get the more you'll get over the shyness, Trust me.
How do I get over my nervousness when I talk to attractive girls?
I feel a little humiliated asking this but, I can't help it. I don't get it, I wasn't like this before. I would just talk to girls (and guys) as if they were any other person. Now, when I talk to a girl for the first time, and she happens to be attractive, I get nervous and I feel like they can totally see through me, like I'm screaming ';I'm gay and I think you're hot!'; It's ridiculous. What's worse is that, I feel like I do this when I talk to girls that I'm NOT even attracted to. What can I do to stop doing this? Do you think it's a confidence issue, too? I wasn't like this before. Maybe it has to do with the fact that lately I've been noticing more girls glancing at me...? I don't know. I'd really appreciate any input.How do I get over my nervousness when I talk to attractive girls?
You'll make the situation worse by dwelling on it. But then again a little nervousness can be a refreshing change.How do I get over my nervousness when I talk to attractive girls?
I THINK YOU WANT A LOVELY BEAUTIFUL GIRL TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU AND DO NICE THINGS WITH YOU. YOUR NERVOUSNESS TURNS THEM ON..
sounds like you are still a little unsure of yourself. the coming out process is like this. it will take time for you to accept your new self and to become comfortable.. believe me, i just accepted my bisexuality a few months ago, and looking at guys was very awkward for me at first, but you'll eventually get used to it. your so focused on your bisexuality, that it consumes you but eventually it will seem second nature and you'll become comfortable talking with girls.. best of luck
Well I feel you I get nervous too. Like when I when my gf and I went on our first date, I didnt know what to say. I was just so shocked at how cute she was but anyways just like say something to break the ice. Like say something so it wont be ackward when you trying to talk to her. Or just say something funni or act silly thats what I do and it seems to work. But also you have to be confident in yourself cause if your not no one else is. But yeah I HOPE I HELPED...........GOOD LUCK!!!
You'll make the situation worse by dwelling on it. But then again a little nervousness can be a refreshing change.How do I get over my nervousness when I talk to attractive girls?
I THINK YOU WANT A LOVELY BEAUTIFUL GIRL TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU AND DO NICE THINGS WITH YOU. YOUR NERVOUSNESS TURNS THEM ON..
sounds like you are still a little unsure of yourself. the coming out process is like this. it will take time for you to accept your new self and to become comfortable.. believe me, i just accepted my bisexuality a few months ago, and looking at guys was very awkward for me at first, but you'll eventually get used to it. your so focused on your bisexuality, that it consumes you but eventually it will seem second nature and you'll become comfortable talking with girls.. best of luck
Well I feel you I get nervous too. Like when I when my gf and I went on our first date, I didnt know what to say. I was just so shocked at how cute she was but anyways just like say something to break the ice. Like say something so it wont be ackward when you trying to talk to her. Or just say something funni or act silly thats what I do and it seems to work. But also you have to be confident in yourself cause if your not no one else is. But yeah I HOPE I HELPED...........GOOD LUCK!!!
How do you talk to girls if your a shyboy?
Im that type of kid that actually respects women and I dont believe in ';hit it and quit it'; like most dudes do. I just want girls that I can spend my highschool years with. So whats the best way to approach a girl you have never talked to before.How do you talk to girls if your a shyboy?
just talk to us. come right up and say hey hows it goin or whatever. cause i spend half my life trying to decide the same thing. and it will definately be looked upon highly if you aren't to scared to make the first move :)How do you talk to girls if your a shyboy?
aww thats really sweet that ylu actually respect women!!!
thoose are kind of haard to find
i kind of like it when guys are shy lol =]
oh yeah but just say hey or something and be like i think your cute and maybe see if i could get your number and talk some more with you because i want to see if this could take us both somewhere
The good thing is, you are the type of guy most girls want for a boyfriend.
If you're shy, that's ok (girls don't generally mind shy guys) but make sure you make the first move.
I wouldn't start by going up to random girls. Start by talking to a girl in a class with you. Just introduce yourself, and strike up a conversation.
Don't worry! The more girls you talk to, the easier it gets! Good luck. :)
First of all be confident in your approach.If you be so then you will create your own ways.You are not shy but nervous while talking to girls so overcome it.
aww! you're respectful! I don't see many of those anymore! Thats so great!! You're so cute! Lol
Just start talking to a girl that you've been assigned to work on a project with. Become her friend. Just befriend girls, and if you're respectfulf you'll probably have many girls to pick from. :]
Why don't you just say Hi my name is whatever and then ask for her name? (Well for me, I'm really impressed if a guy is assertive but not crazy up in my space haha) Simple as that or if you need a reason, then just compliment her on her binder or something...
But seriously high school girls are as easy as it gets-- they are so insecure and shy themselves! So they are NEVER going to approach you if you don't make the move! Just be confident
Really, just go up and talk to them. Any girl would be lucky to have you. And if you, for some dumb reason, get rejected, try again. There's always someone new out there that will love you.
just talk to us. come right up and say hey hows it goin or whatever. cause i spend half my life trying to decide the same thing. and it will definately be looked upon highly if you aren't to scared to make the first move :)How do you talk to girls if your a shyboy?
aww thats really sweet that ylu actually respect women!!!
thoose are kind of haard to find
i kind of like it when guys are shy lol =]
oh yeah but just say hey or something and be like i think your cute and maybe see if i could get your number and talk some more with you because i want to see if this could take us both somewhere
The good thing is, you are the type of guy most girls want for a boyfriend.
If you're shy, that's ok (girls don't generally mind shy guys) but make sure you make the first move.
I wouldn't start by going up to random girls. Start by talking to a girl in a class with you. Just introduce yourself, and strike up a conversation.
Don't worry! The more girls you talk to, the easier it gets! Good luck. :)
First of all be confident in your approach.If you be so then you will create your own ways.You are not shy but nervous while talking to girls so overcome it.
aww! you're respectful! I don't see many of those anymore! Thats so great!! You're so cute! Lol
Just start talking to a girl that you've been assigned to work on a project with. Become her friend. Just befriend girls, and if you're respectfulf you'll probably have many girls to pick from. :]
Why don't you just say Hi my name is whatever and then ask for her name? (Well for me, I'm really impressed if a guy is assertive but not crazy up in my space haha) Simple as that or if you need a reason, then just compliment her on her binder or something...
But seriously high school girls are as easy as it gets-- they are so insecure and shy themselves! So they are NEVER going to approach you if you don't make the move! Just be confident
Really, just go up and talk to them. Any girl would be lucky to have you. And if you, for some dumb reason, get rejected, try again. There's always someone new out there that will love you.
How to talk and approach girls?
Hi
I am currently 17 and i am a international student in Canada. I am from Korea and i can speak 4 languages Korea,english, Chinese, and Thai. Girls say i am funny and nice. But I always wait for a girls to make a move, instead of me doing it. I mean how do you start a conversation with a girl you like , even she is not in any of my classes. Do i use pick up lines, or just say hi. I mean I have no problems talking to girls, is just hard to talk 2 a new girl u like.How to talk and approach girls?
r u sure u have a c*** ?How to talk and approach girls?
I hate pick up lines myself, I prefer a guy coming up ( give a compliment about her ) introduce your self. Then just start up a conversation about something she likes or loves ( Etc. shopping or a sport ? ) Try and get out if shes single or not? If not then she if she'll go see a movie or whatever with you. See if she has a favorite type let her pick it. Or do whatever it is she wants to do.
Heather
This is what I prefer myself as a woman come up to me as a human pick up lines get old.
Heyyyyy
Well for one, dont use a pick up line. Unless you are already friends and you think it will make her laugh. But to a girl you think is pretty and seems cool, and you would like to talk to her, a simple smile is good enough. Or say hi randomly, but dont be aggressive, it could freak her out. But if you are at school, she probably wont be too freaked, you meet new people all the time at school. So its normal. Just be yourself. If you are not sure on how to start conversation, just talk about a class assignment, or a teacher, or some music, something. something you have in common...and then it would lead to more conversation. Be yourself like if you are talking to a friend who is a girl, its the same, just that you like this girl =)
Haha. . . yeah it's hard to start a conversation with a person you like but just be yourself. Say hi and let the conversation flow. You'll find out that you don't have to think so much to talk to her. Go for it!!! What have you got to lose? Be yourself.
just approach them and say something nice to start a conversation and go from there. Dont use pick up lines. Its usually harder to talk to girls that you like so dont worry about it. It happens to everybody
Dont wait for a girl make a move to talk to you. Y not use your look and say Hi.. then ask her what course taking up and anything that comes to your mind after all and that is conversation.
Say hello talk about just whatever if going on at school and maybe then ask if she'd like to join you for whatever it is you want to do.
hahaha a pickup line would make me laugh:)
but that's just me, and i'm weird.
i think a simple hello would be nice:)
Oh jeez no pick up lines dude
Yeah! saying hi will do very much.
Im gettin some and your not.......... HAHAHA!!!
just say hi.
pick up lines aren't cool.. haha.
I am currently 17 and i am a international student in Canada. I am from Korea and i can speak 4 languages Korea,english, Chinese, and Thai. Girls say i am funny and nice. But I always wait for a girls to make a move, instead of me doing it. I mean how do you start a conversation with a girl you like , even she is not in any of my classes. Do i use pick up lines, or just say hi. I mean I have no problems talking to girls, is just hard to talk 2 a new girl u like.How to talk and approach girls?
r u sure u have a c*** ?How to talk and approach girls?
I hate pick up lines myself, I prefer a guy coming up ( give a compliment about her ) introduce your self. Then just start up a conversation about something she likes or loves ( Etc. shopping or a sport ? ) Try and get out if shes single or not? If not then she if she'll go see a movie or whatever with you. See if she has a favorite type let her pick it. Or do whatever it is she wants to do.
Heather
This is what I prefer myself as a woman come up to me as a human pick up lines get old.
Heyyyyy
Well for one, dont use a pick up line. Unless you are already friends and you think it will make her laugh. But to a girl you think is pretty and seems cool, and you would like to talk to her, a simple smile is good enough. Or say hi randomly, but dont be aggressive, it could freak her out. But if you are at school, she probably wont be too freaked, you meet new people all the time at school. So its normal. Just be yourself. If you are not sure on how to start conversation, just talk about a class assignment, or a teacher, or some music, something. something you have in common...and then it would lead to more conversation. Be yourself like if you are talking to a friend who is a girl, its the same, just that you like this girl =)
Haha. . . yeah it's hard to start a conversation with a person you like but just be yourself. Say hi and let the conversation flow. You'll find out that you don't have to think so much to talk to her. Go for it!!! What have you got to lose? Be yourself.
just approach them and say something nice to start a conversation and go from there. Dont use pick up lines. Its usually harder to talk to girls that you like so dont worry about it. It happens to everybody
Dont wait for a girl make a move to talk to you. Y not use your look and say Hi.. then ask her what course taking up and anything that comes to your mind after all and that is conversation.
Say hello talk about just whatever if going on at school and maybe then ask if she'd like to join you for whatever it is you want to do.
hahaha a pickup line would make me laugh:)
but that's just me, and i'm weird.
i think a simple hello would be nice:)
Oh jeez no pick up lines dude
Yeah! saying hi will do very much.
Im gettin some and your not.......... HAHAHA!!!
just say hi.
pick up lines aren't cool.. haha.
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