I've always been shy. Even as a little kid. Over the years i've progressed enough to be able to make friends and such but i still can't approach girls and hold a conversation.
I see guys do this all the time. I know i could too, but i just don't know what to say. What would you say to a girl that you knew was interested in you but have never talked to her before? Obviously I should start with ';hi...'; but then what?How can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
I was like you too. Get this, and im sure its the same with every guy shy or not. if the girl is someone you cant see yourself with, or maybe not the best looking your A ok with talking to them weather know them or not. Its when you find a chick that gots the looks and you can see yourself with her.
This is the thing, you need to talk like friend to make yourself comfortable. Then as you get to know her and are more comfortable then you can get more serious.
Id think the more you do it the easier it is. but i wouldnt know, cuz im like you and i just found my girl and we knew we liked eachother so we skipped that part which i think sucks because its better to get super comfy with your girl, say wat you want without being scared.
Then again im a christian and i prayed a lot over my girl because she is....the best. GO TO GODHow can i get over my shyness and finally be able to talk to girls?
just be bold and daring! if u see a girl u like just talk to her about whats going on. if its in school, talk about whats going on in class or something you heard around school. then once you keep making the first move, youll get use to it and be able to do it without thinking twice! have confidence!
I was the same way man... The key is confidence... once you learn that the skys the limit... make them laugh! and don't be ashamed of what you do... become a ';mature clown'; be serious when u need to and joke when necessary! good luck... remember confidence is key! :P
I was shy for years and years. There is a solution that works, don't be like all the other guys, get the girls come and talk to you.Start of by getting them interested in you by just making eye contact, smiling and saying Hi! whenever you see them. Girls like guys who are not desperate they will eventually start being interested. Don't try and think up chat up lines or deep meaning full conversations, just joke around and tease them , not too much or they will think you are a total clown. This is just a quick answer but has all you need to know to get started. When i go out all the best looking women come after me and i am no hunky muscle bound male model, that's why i know this works.
ok, the key to getting girls is confidence! thats why jerky ugly girls get girls cause then though they r *** holes they are cocky as ****... so what does that mean 4 u. well u obviously arnt a confident person so you pretend. just start of small mayb with girls in your group n work out but u have to be confident even bordering on up your self is great a couple of examples if your a the movies n something cool happens n the girl says omg that was awesome u say meh i can do that i just dont want to show people up c confident thats what u need so pretend it until u get it
No comments:
Post a Comment