How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?

I'm a guy, I can talk to a girl no problem. When it comes to a girl I like I just get nervous because I'm scared too look stupid or over-stressed. I did ask this girl out in person before, I got her number, facebook, etc. and when I asked she did say yes, but had to cancel because she forgot she made plans with her best friend and apologized.





Anyway, how do I go talk to a girl I like and not feel like such a dud?How do guys get confidence to talk to girls they like? 10 points!?
Act like she is a friend, don't talk to her like a friend because you want to stay away from that 'just friends' relationship, but when you get around her just stay cool....


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Look, I had a crush on a girl once and I, too was scared to talk, but i overcame my fear and got into a new relationship
Trust it, u gotta act think that she is a normal girl. You gotta make yourself think that you just want to be good friends, and thats how u wont get nervous talking to her.





Just do everything that you do to your freinds who are girls, and when you boost your confidence up, then you can think about liking her.
if you make yourself face the fear of taking to girls that you like, then its easier every time. imagine yourself talking to her and the conversation, over and over, make it good, not what you fear would happen but how you want it to go....go for it
Hmm just be yourself, i can't really give any tips.. i mean what answer are you expecting? or not text her? it's kinda shallow but i did that to my gf and she seems fine with it and of course i told her in person too..
its actually very easy, its just hard to explain.





you just need to man up and talk to her lol.





its a lot easier if its a random girl at a party because you will never see her again. or shell be really drunk
Just joke around a lot. That always used to work for me in high school and stuff. I just acted goofy around girls. Because honestly, once you make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. She'll realize you're funny and trustworthy and she can just have a good time around you and then there's no pressure after that. Just talk to her honestly man but don't be so serious.
man, just be YOURSELF..if she doesn't like you, thinks you're a dork or whatever then the hell with tha beeach! Plenty of fish in tha see lad!..keep fishing, and you'll hook up with the right women..
You just gotta fight the fear of rejection. Most people get scared cause they dont wanna get up the courage and have the girl/guy say no. But you just gotta get through that. Dont let fear determine what you do in life. And i know its hard but really if you ask and she says no then how much different is your life. But if she says yes well then you'll be on cloud nine. And i'm sure you already know but make sure when you ask a girl out make sure your body language conveys confidence. Very Important.
text her
It's natural to think you'd be a dud, but the truth is the girl will be flattered even if you are a dud!! just be yourself, be wacky and crazy. I am like that when I first see a guy that I like. You have to go in with the confidence that you are not any less if this girl happens to say no, you'll find another girl to just go say HI to. Forget about me rejected or being a dud, and you will see how much easier it can be to talk to someone new!! I know it sounds impossible, but I've done it for years and I have met many great guys, it'll work on girls too!
That is easy. You just have to be confident and be willing to be shot down if it is to happen. If you act all nervous and not confident she will pick that up and will be turned off. You just have to go in their confident. NOT COCKY just confident and be a gent. Some woman like guys who are jerks but woman like a gent.
i suggest talking to girls that you don't like romantically first. it won't be as awkward. and you will get practice. you can talk about the same thing to the girl that you like as the one you don't. hope this helps. ♥
i cant really help you since its your nerves, and i cant change your personality. but if your at a place that you are passionate about or know alot about such as starbucks, see the girl, go up, introduce yourself, and ask her if the drink/snack is worth buying. wait for her answer... and then say, great! thanks... i'll try that next time, and maybe you can join me? just stay calm, cool, and collected. stick to what you know! good luck!
be yourself.


im a girl and thats what i like when guys talk to me.


and always be confident in yourself.


if you emabress yourself, shell forget about it at one point, move on.


good luck%26lt;3
well its sortof akward but all you need to do is start by saying '; Hi my name is......'; welll there u go
THe more you do it, the easier it becomes. Just suck it up. All the feelings you have are normal. Be SURE to show confidence as that is one of the most attractive qualities girls subconsciously/consciously look for in a guy.





You just gotta suck it up and do it. Note, laughter is ALWAYS a great way into a girl's heart! So just try to get a laugh outa her first then the rest will fall into play!
Be ur self
if she smiles at you when u pass by then u get the idea she likes you





or ask her friends if they like you tehn go for it
I'm a girl.


Girls...sometimes they don't mind guys that are nervous. That means they like us.


It's sweet, when they get nervous, cause it also means they won't pressure us that much.





Talk about music, or things you both like. Just ask her questions like you would your best friend that's a guy. I mean, don't bring up sports unless she likes them or whatever.


Just ask her about her favorite colors, her friends, act like your just a friend but be sort of flirty. Make eye contact, ';accidentally'; brush her skin, smile, tickle her if she likes that. Just be yourself and don't think about your feelings.


Hope this helps.
Just be yourself.
ANSWER:





Here is some advice on attracting girls:





* Be yourself and be confident.





* The question is ';How do you attract A girl?'; not any particular girl or THIS girl. The best way to attract a girl is by being a man. Learn all about yourself as a man and relish your manliness. I don't mean turn into Paul Bunyan, but rather indulge the manly things you like to do, whatever they may be. Play sports, fart loudly and ceremoniously, fix things, don't be bashful about scratching your crotch, at some point in the relationship with a girl you must casually tell her that you will have to bend her over and make her your *****, belch with your friends, get dirty, play cards, get a Jeep, go outdoors, learn about cars, learn about computers, feast on grand meals you cook with your buddies on the grill over beers, shoot stuff, blow things up, play with growing a beard (it'll look like crap, but that's okay -- you are a man), play with dogs. Do NOT primp your hair pretty and try to look some certain way, work out because you want to have pretty muscles, try and be something you aren't -- that's gay. If you just have a good time and enjoy doing the manly things you want to do then you'll either bump into some girl that digs it or you'll have enough fun you don't care anyhow (which is even more attractive to a lot of women). When you can truthfully answer the above question with a ';who cares?'; then you are just about there. Oh, also, talk to every girl you meet with a smile on your face. And make a point to meet every pretty girl you see. But when you meet them don't stress about what you say to meet them, just say something stupid that clearly conveys you are not cool, you know you are not cool but you don't care because your confident enough that it doesn't matter.





* Be nonchalant sometimes. And become totally sweet. Be unpredictable.





* There are many ways to do so, but to answer this assessing what your current barriers are would be the first way to start. And if you have any friends who are girls, ask them what you should do differently if you aren't happy with this area of your life. If not, you could rely on a sister for advice.





* Show her that you really like her, and don't keep her guessing.





* Be yourself. Yes, it sounds so cliche but it is true. They will get to know the real you eventually so why not let them fall in love with the right person. Always be honest about your past and things you have done. There is nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward but never pretend to be someone you are not. Don't play games rather let her know how you feel. If you are open, honest and yourself and she still doesn't like you then you don't need her anyways.





* Think you are sexy, and they will too.





* Personally being a girl myself, to attract a girl, stare at her, make her feel special. Talk to her, don't always ignore her, or try to act all tough. Get to know her, tell her how you feel. Don't play with her emotions, just tell her straight up. But get to know her first, and try to see if she feels the same, otherwise just telling her straight up can be quite risky. Just trying to spend time with her, talking with her, or staring at her would usually get a girls attention though. It would flatter her, and she would sooner or later be interested, unless she's already taken.





* Be three things; smart, nice, and no pushover. From my experiences, girls like all of the above, smart - have a future, aspirations for a good job, etc. Be nice, respectful, kind, but not too kind, don't be a freakin pushover. If some Neanderthal thug comes trying to own you, if he insults you, insult him back, if you're a nice guy, you have brains and you can shut him up!





* One of the common mistakes that guys make when trying to attract a girl is when they try to act arrogant and cooler than his friends. This does not impress us girls. Sometimes they like being cared for, but don't be overprotective of her. Compliment her on how she looks. Some like the romantic type, and some like the action guy. It depends, so try to get to know the girl first before making a move to be sure that she'll like what you're doing. Never forget to be yourself. Also, try to make the first move, like asking her out on date, unless the girl you're trying to impress is confident enough to do it before you. But normally we think that guys should make the first move. Good luck!





* Smile, compliment without being cheesy, hang out with her.





* Being funny helps.





* Also being a girl, to attract girls, don't be afraid to talk to us. If you are friends with a girl you like, touch her arm or even tickle her. If a girl kiddingly pushes you, push her back...gently. We like it when guys can feel comftorble around us and have real converations. I know everyone says this but eye contact is really important. Most guys get embarrassed if you make eye contact and look away, but if you
You have to have this mentality like ';YO im tha Sh!t '; without being arrogant. just think of things that you are good at that no one else is and think to yourself ';yeah im the best at doing 'x' in here. no one else is that good. if im good at that, then I can go talk to her'; that sort of thing. And remember, if she says no to you or is a *****, its her mistake for not talking to you
Ahh! Okay, well, I am a girl and it's driving me nuts that the kid I like will not talk to me because he is too nervous. Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to not overthink it. If you think of something, just say it. Talk about absolutely whatever with her! She will think you're nice and that's when you'll get the friendship starting. And also, it would look really cute if you looked stupid or over-stressed. Just don't think about what you're going to say to her ahead of time or else that will make you even more nervous.
i can talk to my crush... but if i dont kno my crush then im just a chicken lol.








ummm pretend shes a guy.
obviously we have to have confidence in ourself for anything to happen first .we have to do somthing that makes us a little cocky but not maucho man lift wieghts do something better than just think about sex all the time .. we have to understand that women feel the same way too .
Just remember that girls feel the same way, actually it might be worse! Relax. Just remember to look hr in the yes and speak your mind. When you talk to your friends do you analyze everything you say?
Just have the mentality of not caring at all. If you look like an idiot, so what man? Just go and do it man. That's the kind of confidence you need to have. Works for me.
okay one very important thing - DO NOT TEXT HER


i have ended many relationships on account of the boy only texting me as a flirty text buddy and never doing anything in reality or asking me out anywhere cause they were too nervous. just man up and talk to her. girls are okay with guys looking stupid or over stressed they think its cute lol. talk to her more often, youll eventually get over the nervousness.
The important thing is not to be cocky or worry about what your friends think. Girls appreciate it when guys are sweet and nice. And chances are they'll think it's cute that you're nervous!
I totally understand how you feel. I seem to do that sometimes when I'm around a guy that i like. What I do when I'm talking to a guy that I like I pretend it's one of my friends but I flirt at the same time. It usually works and you have to feel more comfortable around the girl. Just take a deep breath, calm down, and hope for the best. hope that helps! :)