How to talk more comfortably with girls?

I'm 13 years old and whenever a girl talks to me I can't seem to talk back. I just never know what to say and always feel like an idiot. Is there any tips you can give me girls or guys if you understand what I'm asking

Thanks!How to talk more comfortably with girls?
You're putting them on a pedestal - take them down.



Girls aren't any better then you are.



EDIT:Lol at the thumbs down, it's true! I wasn't degrading women in saying that, but you have to take them down from the pedestal and recognize them as another person - not some godlike being - if you want to have success in talking.How to talk more comfortably with girls?
Well, I'm a girl and I definately think you should just be yourself. Don't worry about trying to be cool or say what you think a girl wants to hear. Just act like you would at home with your family or friends. Practice in the mirror if you have to. Just get comfortable with who you are as a person. The problem isn't that you can't talk to girls. Its that you arent comfortable with yourself. Everyday when you wake up go look in the mirror and tell yourself something positive that you like about yourself. Say it out loud 3 times. Think of something new everyday. As odd as it may seem... it will boost your self-confidence and help you talk to anybody and be yourself.
be ur self dont try to impress them

they only talk to you cause they are already impressed by u
hey im 12. u should just be urself it worx u know and ask them to hang out some time it not as a date but as frends.
Can we assume that you feel fine talking to guys then? I knwo this is an old cliche but just be yourself.



Just answer questions honestly, dont talk bull and you will be fine. Also by being honest you recue the chance of tripping up in future, i mean i guess you want to chat to these girls more than once!



Also, find topics that you share a common interest in and talk about those as well, or try to prepare some generic questions you can ask, if its one particular girl your looking to chat to try find somwethign your both interested in and start from that, you'll soon find you can chat about other things pretty quickly once the first bit of questioning has passed.
Talking to girls really isnt that hard. Im not saying it's easy, but us girls wont make you look like an idiot on purpose. All you need is a good conversation topic, and take it from there. Dont be afraid to add a joke here and there, making a girl laugh is a good thing. Have confidence, put your head up, and make eye contact. Try to speak in a loud enough voice and actually be interested in what the girl has to say. If you both talk about something in common, weather it's about sports, school, t.v or whatever, it'll make it easier to talk to her since you're comfortable talking about that kind of subject. Relax, it's not a big deal. Just be sure to have something planned out just in case there are any awkward silences, or just have something to talk about, for a back up. It's all about practice. The more you practice talking to girls, the better at it you become. It'll be really easy once you pick it up. If you're interested in talking to a certain girl, make a comment on something you can both relate to and you two will automatically talk. Try saying a simple ';hey, how's it going'; to a girl you dont know, even if you dont like her. It's practicing, right?!



Hope this helps!



Good Luck:)
if you don't talk enough, they'll think you don't want to talk to them and they'll stop talking to you. if you talk to much, they're going to think your annoying. just be yourself :)
My advice would be not to push yourself to far out of your comfort zone. For example if your a shy guy, dont press yourself to be loud and out going. If your not funny at all, dont try to crack a joke. Girls like guys that are able to be themselves around them. Or if youd like to, dont so much practice your conversation, but have a list of conversation starters ready and there is no harm in practicing them in front of a mirror. You could even go as far as throwing in a cunning smile-depending on the subject you are takling about. Be confident in your self. It shows when you talk.

Good luck
like anything you just need practice. You won't be comfortable with them until you've been around them enough. Most every guy goes through that awkwardness. Just get your practice in while your young don't wait until you're in your mid twenties like me to get the balls to talk to them lol
Just be yourself. You sound like you are shy around girls. Act like they are like someone you feel comfortable around. Once you start talking back you may find you have a lot in common and you would have had a whole conversation and a new friend before you know it!
you're only 13, getting smooth with girls comes with time :)



just be yourself, and don't try too hard to impress us.

think before you speak, and don't think of us as high and mighty, we're just people.
girls really aren't that scary! the confidence is just an act. honest!

they're probably just as nervous, but make sure you realise we're both people. our differences make it better, more interesting. find things you have in common, maybe the weather, where you are, school, hobbies, etc. or ask how she is, what she's up to, who she hangs round with...

talk to girls as you would like them to talk to you, or as you would with your mates. be natural, there's no manual to life :) good luck :)
I had the same problem. One day your just gunna connect with a girl, and its gunna be so easy to talk to them that you'll wonder why it was so hard before. Another thing is no matter what it is in life, don't care what people think.I drove a car through someones front yard and was scared to death. I look back and i think if i thought that i was crazy,then i guess i would've had more fun.