Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?

let's say im the guy clearly interested in a girl from this group with other girls as well, its just a very casual setting, anybody can talk with anyone. so if im just talking to her would that be very rude for the rest of the girls? how else would you have done



how about vice versa and u r the girl talking to the guy, do u think its rude? is there any difference



Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
If it is a casual setting then I don't think it is rude, I am looking at it from both ways. Obviously you can still be polite to the other people, small talk and a quick smile, but your main focus would be on the person you are interested in. People pretty much can pick up the vibe that there maybe an attraction and know how it is.

If you try and include everyone in conversation and give everyone equal time, then the person of interest may receive a mixed message and not be sure whether you are into them or not.Is it rude to only talk to one person in a group?
Vampires often do this. This is why they are social outcasts.
nah its all good. when we in a group with my gf shes the only one i hear and talk too, the other people i act like they aint even there!!
i guess it would be slightly rude, i get what you mean. next time try to talk to the group as a whole but make it a point to make eye contact with that one girl more than the others.



this way your not being rude, but still getting your point across.

hope this helps =]
umm no not really...im sure everyone else will understand...but at the same time you must maintain contact with the rest of the group


I wouldn't exactly call it, ';rude.'; The other girls may not like it much, though. You should try talking to all of them. (:
No. I do it all the time. If you want to talk to one person its not considered rude to do so. Besides, if your flirting, i dont think anybody would mind..
its not rude but avoid it .. there is no diffrence ..
dont do it. because i have the same group and my friend talks to me and i dont mind talking to her but when im with the whole group i prefer being in the group conversation instead of a private one. so if a guy was having a private conversation with me while the group was still there and i wasnt interested in the guy, then i would be a little annoyed and it could annoy the other girls if they want to talk to either of you but cant since youre kind of having a private conversation.



hope this helped = )
the others will probably understand that your interested in that person ..but say hi to them or something and then keep talking to that one person :)
Yeah I think it would be rude..i'm kinda serious, if some girl came up to my group of friends that I didn't know and and bother us by just talking to one of us.
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Well no it isn't rude I think she would be flattered you are taking the time to give her one on one.



But if someone asks you a question don't ignore them, or just answer it and go back. Try to answer them and include them in the conversation that you are having with the girl you like. It means a lot to a girl if you are polite to her friends...it is good to know them to. Who you hang out with says a lot about you. Plus if they like you they are more willing to help you too.



Try to participate in group discussions while secretly trying to find out more about her.





Good Luck
I don't think so

if you feel rude maybe you should occasionally talk to the other girls.


One girl at a time. Do you want to start a war? Or reveal their true nature? 8~)