How do i pick up on girls, talk to them, meet them all that?

i have been dry for the last 17 months, my break up was a year ago and i am barely recovering, tried getting back with my ex, didnt work.



i work, go to school, and see women often but everytime i hear

';i have a boyfriend'; or some type of rejection, they flake on me, or dont like me for whatever reason



i am really giving up emotionally now



i just need to know what to say and do, i have a nice car, a steady job, good income and i am 20 years old



whenever i am at a social event, or even a restaurant, i loose all my guts i dont talk to any girls i just look, the reason is that i am scared what others around me will say if i get rejected or something goes haywire



i have two socail events this week, one is a indian wedding, i am indian myself



2 is a concert



now i dont want to say anymore, or what to do



can someone give me adivce, and tips on what to do at these events, o and i am not bad looking at all.



its sad my mom came up to me and said all you do is look you dont talk



can someone help me overcome thisHow do i pick up on girls, talk to them, meet them all that?
The reaon your this way is because your hurt and its normal. I'm 22 and have had my share of broken heart. I am a female. I hate it when guys come up to me talking all about them self. Or calling me baby or something stupid like that. Just be your self. If they dont like u for u then who needs them. Try asking them questions. Or introduce u and then ask. But life is to short to be scared. Go out there and get them. Hope this Helps. Good Luck.How do i pick up on girls, talk to them, meet them all that?
be yourself, dont try to be something or someone you're not

socialise, talk to people, make friends

dont always go out with a hope of finding a girlfriend, just go out to have fun and everthing else will fall into place



you are still young and have a lot to look forward to