This may be a problem that stems back from middle school and high school, when i was retarded on the subject of dating. I am in college now and any place outside of school, i have no problem talking to women. At work, at a bar, at a party, i can start a conversation and have it go on for a long time, no problem. But when i try to talk to a girl in class, i can't think of anything to say. I never quite figured out how to talk to girls at school. If i can't think of anything to say about the class, i draw a blank. I feel like i always have to, the first time i try to talk to a girl at school, start with something about the class or the school and then try to work off of that (which never works).
Can anyone give me advice on how to talk to girls at school?
If it helps, yes i have had girl friends before and have done everything that goes along with it but none of those girls were people i met at school.What Is A Good Way To Talk To Girls In Class?
First of all, You sound like a sad-sack!
Do some personal inventory and for goodness develope some self-confidence and self-respect!
Are you a good person? If so, then believe in your self worth and proceed from there.
Look them in the eyes, do not scan their body and say hello and no matter what transpires after that remember that you have as much value as they do.
Be humorous, observant and witty.
Be sincere and NEVER look like you want or need a date.
Think of every girl as your sister, that alleviates the pressure to perform or impress and makes you seem like a real person and not just a ';male in heat';.
They will feel less guarded and will be more responsive and things usually work from there.
AGAIN....never act like you are interested in them and that you are only just talking.
Stay away from boyfriend questions, dating status or anything that will create defensiveness.
In the immortal words of Rob Schnieder in the ';Water Boy';,
You caan do it!!!What Is A Good Way To Talk To Girls In Class?
i think your supposed to be quiet in class
You should probably not try to flirt with a girl in class and focus on what the teacher is saying, lol...but I know what you mean...
Ive noticed that I make tons more friends at parties and stuff, but when I started school at the local college in my hometown, people are really hesistant to be friendly, and are less easy to approach...
Try sitting next to a cute girl or a girl you like at lunch if she goes to the cafeteria, or walking her to her next class if you have time...
All in all, I seriously like making friends at parties better....alcohol is a great icebreaker...lmao...
Treat it like your not at school and use the same stuff you'd talk about with girls outside of school and relaxing a bit might help.
After class or before class..ask them a question about the class..or ask them if they like the college they're going to
I like ur question.the point to b remembered,is that we should impress them in such a way that they themself talk to us.
for this just start talking about that girl itself!because it makes her eager to her more about what u tell about her.make sure that ur topic isn't boring.
JUST KEEP GOING%26gt;
there is a fun talking to girls isn't???????
The girls at school are no different from any of the others you have met and gone out with - they just happen to be in a class. You don't ';connect'; with everyone you meet in other places, and you won't in class. Just wait until you find someone you really like and the conversation will be easy.
How about soliciting advice about a test, project, or assignment? Ask if they've ever taken a class with the same prof before. Ask to compare notes over a coffee.
You have answered your own question ';start with something about the class or the school and then try to work off of that ';
Prepare a list of things to start the conversation such as ';Do you like this class'; Why are you taking it (if it is not a requirement';? What are you majoring in? What is your favorite subject? How long does your work for this class take you?
Good luck and start talking.
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