Friday, November 19, 2010

What does it mean when you have a low mood and when you get a low mood you struggle to talk to girls or make?

conversation with them? how can you overcome this? its like at times like that, your self esteem plummets, like '' the bottom droppin out your world feeling''~ and the words and conversation flow, doesnt comeWhat does it mean when you have a low mood and when you get a low mood you struggle to talk to girls or make?
Sounds like your vibration lowers so much, you disconnect from your reality. And so you can't converse, because you aren't grounded in your present moment.



Just honour your need for silence in that time. Go within. When you're ready to re-connect, you will. If you go within for too long a time, though, you may need therapy to assist.What does it mean when you have a low mood and when you get a low mood you struggle to talk to girls or make?
I don't understand your question...?
I'd say a mixture of low self-esteem and low self-confidence. You become worried what you are saying will strike a negative chord with the girl or potential friend you are talking to, and therefor you 'lock up' to avoid anymore possible embarassment (even if what you are saying isn't bad.) its the same for people who never approach girls/friends as they are afraid of being publicly humiliated.



I suffer from the same thing, my solution tends to be that if you say something stupid or you didn't want to say it, make a light hearted comment about it and it should overcome that problem. Or you could try coming across as more light hearted and more joking and revert to your normal self when you are bonding and less worried about being humiliated.

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