I really need to know how girls talk to guys so easily?

when im around guys who i think are cute i get soooo nervous that i cant talk and that pretty much completely ruins my chances with them cuz i just sit there without saying anything :( im usually really really outgoing! but how can i be more outgoing around hott guys?


thankss.


oh and i know to be myself hehe but im to nervous to even talk! so i need to know how to talk first and then i will be myself! :))I really need to know how girls talk to guys so easily?
like you sometimes i get nerous espicaallly if u r really hot you can try writing a not to him dat say you like him an put a box dat say do he like you yes no maybe are you can give him a kiss are try to just tell him hw you really feelI really need to know how girls talk to guys so easily?
bring a close friend who you feel comfortably around. that way she/he can help u break the ice
ive got the same problem... i don't think its all girls, i think charismatic people have that ability to not be nervous, or at least not show they're nervous
We can't help you learn how to talk! Just say ,'; Hey! Whats up?'; %26amp; then they will talk to you...%26amp; you have to make sure to ASK things. Keep the conversation going ;D





I talk to guys really easily, but that is because my brother is always bringing his friend's over. So, i just learned, hahah :D





Once you say a few things, the words just start flowing out. %26amp; Before you know it you are having a conversation. %26amp; maybe even making him laugh, if your lucky :D
Be confident!!





When this one cute boy was talking to me, my face turned bright red and I started getting all tongue-tied. o___o


It was so embarrassing..
say something funny? laughter will break ice pretty fast...
practice, practice, practice...just smile alot and let them know you are interested. force that first greeting out, like hi or whatever. then ask a question like what kinda music u like or what u into...the more u see that they are just humans like u, the less nervous you will be. after you let them know u are interested, they will do a lot of the work too...the main thing to do is talk about him...ask questions about him...ull find that most guys love to talk about themselves...just force the hi out, and the first question, and it goes easy as heck after that...just keep the conversation about him until you are more comfortable talking to guys.
talk to them like you would your friends. it's that easy! ask them what they thought of certain things that have happened at school (pep rally, big game, huge test, etc.)...and just think before you talk (meaning dont say anything stupid!)





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be confident in yourself and look in the mirror before to make sure you look good, maybe retouch your make-up, then if your confident you can act yourself or at the beggining just start by using a little small talk
Visualize it / practice. If you can, have a friend bring a hot (or moderately hot to make it easier) guy friend with them to meet you and hang out. Doesn't have to be big, just like study or play video games or something. Make sure you are near him a lot (not close, near, don't wanna creep him out -,-) and push yourself to say stuff. I know it's embarassing, but it WON'T HURT YOU. You just need to say hi and put on a smile ^_^. 80% of Language is physical, so just keep your eyes on the person, smile, and start talking.





You can also visualize a guy and just start talking to him (in private, lets not scare people shall we? =D?). It'll help i think when it comes to the real deal ^_^
same i understand what your going trought but i guess just talking to a guy who is your friend and practicing could work


good luck


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i have the same PROBLEM! lol!


you find an amzingly cute guy and you cant talk to him! but if its just a normal ugly guy you can talk away!





what i do...


is just take a deep breath and relax! what i think is,


IF HE IS TALKING TO YOU... THAN YOU ALREADY GOT THE CHANCE WITH HIM! now all you have to do is reaaaalll him in :)


talk about anything! dont get too personal (kinda be a mystery) but at the same time, enough to show him your interested :)
it really isnt easy at all, deep down inside youll always be nervous, your just letting it all get to your head, dont think about ';what do i say'; ';what do i do'; cause thats keeping you from tlking
You just need to relax and talk to them like they're a friend. Remember you don't want to push dating right away. It's good to start off as a friend of someone before you even do anything like that. Act like they're one of your best friends. That's what I do :)
Stop thinking that they're better than you , firstly.


Think about how you're pretty and you're good enough for them... That might help a little...
you need to just get over your fear and take the initiative. either the guy will like you or he won't, and if he doesn't he's not worth your time anyways. so just work up some courage %26amp; get out theree!
Use something called canned openers. They are questions/topics you prepared ahead of time that can be used any time. You can google them. Most people can carry a conversation, but when they're asked how conversation works, they have no idea. Conversation is a spiderweb-like exploration of each others topics. Sort of like WIkipedia surfing. So, have a few topics or questions to start a conversation, and just explore the things they talk about. They'll do the same if they wish to continue the conversation.
its called confidence
Just calls us names. If we like you we will help you out
Lol not hard to start talking XD


just say any random thing to break the ice once thats done your real personalty would come out XD





plus guys like random things


well i like random things lol tehe
i am the exact same way. but for me how i got my bf i just started being myself ( crazy weird funny nerdy) and he loves that side of me. just be yourself forget about the nervousness brush your shoulders off and tell yourself ';i got this'; have confidence!
just act like they are your regular friend. dont look them in the eye just incase you get to nearvous
I want to say just be yourself, but it's easier said then done. Basically, you just have to make normal conversation, and treat them like a girl friend. (Minus the drama, clothes and boy talk) Just talk to them about common topics, crack jokes if you want. They're human too.


If you're still nervous, it takes practice to get comfortable. Don't psyche yourself out, and don't doubt things. Just be friendly, smile, and calmly make conversation.
Imagine they're your mom only you want to suck your mom's dick
a simple hi or hey whats up..


then after that the dude should take over.





but hmm maybe have alot of girlfriends stand around that way you feel better.
Just be yourself. We guys like girls that are nothing but themselves. Compliment his shoes if there ugly his hair if messy or nappy his eyes if ugly his clothes no stlye well find yourself another guy. Or just tell him that you really like him and that you hope y'all could get to know each other better! It's easy!
I know, I had problems talking to girls I like. But remember you won't go anywhere if you don't make the first move. And don't be afraid to be rejected or being thought badly (IT WILL HAPPEN EVENTUALLY, the only way to avoid being thought badly is to never try, but that won't get you anywhere). Best is to force yourself do it. Eventually you will know what to do is the right thing, and say right stuffs. And even if you get rejected, you will find out, it won't hurt as much as the first time.





Basically try to force yourself to talk. if you won't you can't get anywhere. If you do, yes you will be hurt at some point, but you will learn from those mistakes and do it better next time. and ultimally it's better than not talking at all.
just keep doing what you do eventually youll open up more and more
well just ask them about stuff they like, what kind of music they like, favorite foods... anything to get a conversation going. you'll find something in common the two of you and you can elaborate off of that. But every time you see the guy don't say something about it.. it can get a little old and then the guy could think that's all you ever think about.. or just be silly around them and make them laugh guys love girls that make them laugh but don't be obnoxious cause that can turn them off. good luck!
An old concept that really works: interviewers devised it. Who, what,when,where,why/plus how!





If you can remember to start with one of those words, that will lead to any sort of question that causes the focus to be off you and onto him.For instance: How did you travel here, by car,bus or bike? Who is your favourite...whatever....family member or celebrity. Asking about 'family member' is best as it tells you stuff about him and that can lead to encouraging him to tell you something funny and he will feel great if he has made a girl laugh, wont he? ' What was the best moment on holiday this year?' I am sure you can do this. Good luck