should i start out with fat girls or ugly girls and work my way upHow can i build confidence up to talk to girls with out seeming strange?
Practice makes perfect. Talk to them all and learn from any mistakes.How can i build confidence up to talk to girls with out seeming strange?
NEITHER! Go up to the easy going girls.. nice ones. %26gt;.%26gt;
Being a girl I think the best way to get more confidence is by going out with girls who you are comfortable with. The kind of girl ugly, beauty, fat or skinny that will laught at your jokes and understand you. That way you can be yourself around her and eventually become comfortable of the concept of being around girls and after that you can go out with any girl and be confident. It doesnt matter if she is ugly or beautiful all girls like a polite, considerate, and helpful boyfriend.
Good luck getting girls with that attitude. Fat ugly ?? wow how superficial are you? so basically you are going to use those girls as practice?? hahaha girls aren't stupid and we know when you are playing around....
Start with the hottest girl you can find and try a good joke. Once she laughs your good. Swing for those fences my young apprentice! Once you do that you are going to be fine. Even if you F the whole joke up and she laughs at you. At least you tried, trying it on fat/ ugly girls won't help your confidence at all. Try it when there aren't too many others around, but don't stalk her till it happens. get a couple of jokes, and work on the punch line. The thing with jokes is timing. Start with a lead-up about the topic, speak clearly and smoothly, once you've delivered the body of the joke wait 2-3 seconds this is anticipation and then hammer the punch line. Practice on people you know, girl are emotional creatures, make them happy they'll make you happy. good luck. hope that helps
here's an honest answer man:
approaching girls is hard if you're not outgoing. there is no such thing as ';working your way up';. what you need to do is start talking to more people, doing more social stuff like parties/clubs or if you're not into that join a group, start volunteering, whatever. make more friends, expand your social circle. i say this because as you talk to more people (girls and guys) you start to find out what kind of person you are socially. and you find what you are good at (being supportive? making people laugh?).
once you find your social strengths, approaching girls is a piece of cake because you know you're a great and fun person that everyone should get to know.
don't waste time approaching girls you are not attracted to. just practice socializing with people and making new friends (again, girls AND guys okay?). when everything starts to click your confidence will skyrocket and you will be able to approach anyone.
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