Sunday, December 11, 2011

How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?

I am an 18 year old boy who has just started university in my hometown. I have never had a girlfriend in the past as I've been too shy with girls.



Since I've started uni I have made an effort to talk to girls in my lectures and I have become friendly with them and managed to talk to them without feeling nervous. However, even though these girls are friends they aren't really my type as I'm attracted to more reserved, cute girls.



I see loads of pretty girls in the library who I'd like to talk to. I can talk because there is a big room for group study. I think I can talk to them fine but I just don't know how to start a conversation with them. In my lectures its easy to introduce yourself but its more awkward in the library.



So, how do I start a conversation in the library? Also, if a conversation goes really well should I ask the girl out? Or maybe just ask her if she wants a drink on campus?



thank you :)How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?
I can think of only one way to start a conversation in a library:

Comment on what they're reading.

There really isn't much else to start with.



Ask the girl out? I'd say no. Just ask her to go for a drink? That would probably be the best idea, that way, if it is a more reserved type, she won't feel like she is being rushed into anything too serious.How do I begin a conversation with cute girls in the library?
lol loser!!!!!!!!! j.k idk tell her the books she is reading is showing off her beauty??

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How to talk to girls I like?

Ok, im 17 and im not the best looking(does that matter to girls more then being nice?)and I can think of things to say to girls when im alone but when im actually with a girl I draw a blank and was wondering if there is any easy things to remember that girls like to be told or asked and do girls really like guys who are confident(or stuck up) or do they like guys, like me who are shy and don't just go to school to show off there clothes if u no wut I meanHow to talk to girls I like?
girls like boys who are themselves, personally i am not into show offs or big mouths, and designer labels can be faked.girls like boys who are into them - don't make them feel stupid in front of their mates(boys), just talk to us like you would your mates, ask us what we like to do at the weekend,if the girls says she likes ice skating or movies then tell her you do too and maybe you could go together sometime, that way you know your doing something you both enjoy and it makes the date easier.remember we are just like you and we get just as nervous when a boy asks us out, we think we are not pretty or good enough and wonder if your doing it for a bet .we all have insecurities. just be yourself. hope this helpsHow to talk to girls I like?
just be yourself and relax
I was kind of like this at one point.



I soon found out confidence is everything.



Just talk to the girl. It's not that hard.
The best thing you could possibly do is act yourself. And talk about things that are relevant to you. If she stays quiet then move on to someone else. You don't want to be involved with someone who isn't interested in anything that interests you. If that's all she's concerned about is f**king clothes then forget about it. There's tons of people out there. Not worth worrying about.



Make sense?
Practice in front of a mirror in confidence

How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?

if im 1 on 1 i do very well talking to girls. my challenge is when there is a subtle interest with someone i bump into that i dont really know (girl at the gym i go to for example) im intimidated to go up %26amp; talk to her cause im not sure what to say to a total stranger. any suggestions here would be appreciated on how to approach %26amp; engage in conversation with someone in that situation.

How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?
Yeah...don't worry about conversing. Approaching strangers and getting approached by strangers can be a...well a strange thing. Focus on the bigger picture which would be getting her email and/or phone number. The conversing will happen during the date instead.

And approaching a stranger is as easy as ';Hi how are you?'; As a matter of fact, I can get a woman's email and digits within 3 minutes of approaching her. Even in 30 seconds I've managed to do it. But my goal is always to get the number...not what to say.

Also when you approach, have confidence and be somewhat of a challenge. Good positive body language is a plus too.



As a wise pimp once said, ';Just get the number and get out of there. Deal with her yapping later.';How to small talk with a girl who is a stranger to ask her out?
Try just sharing with her your thoughts, or a simple hello usually does just fine.





A salutation usually initiates conversation. Just be confident, and don't blush and look at your feet. Smile, look her in the face and talk.



If you haven't noticed yet, girls usually LOVE to talk. Ask her what made her come to the gym? Does she have a goal/stay in shape for sports?



Just keep it simple.



Oh...and some girls will blow you off. Don't sweat that. if that is the worst part of your life, you are in good shape. Good luck!
Usually girls don't like to talk in the gym cause they are working out and sweaty, so if you gonna talk to them, you better be funny to keep their interest. If I was gonna talk to a girl in the gym on the treadmill, I'd probably go up beside her and ask her to race me or something like that.
Hi! You should just talk to her! Ask her if she comes here ofter, dose she like it and stuff like that! Good luck!!
ayyy biatchh yo girl....lemme take u out ona bomb *** date mami



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  • Ladies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?

    when i see ladies i don;t have any word in my mouth again except hi so how do i get to behave matured since i can't do away with my shynessLadies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?
    Suck it up buddy. If you like a girl ask her out ( what is the worst that could happen??) My fiance is a shy guy, he was so nervous when he asked me out his voice was quivering- and the reason why I accepted was because I could see that he wasn't coky and I liked the fact that he was shy. Make sure you be respectful too- a good girl will not like the eyes checking her out and the lip licking- dont do that! Look at being shy as an asset. Smart girls like that (believe me).Ladies here is my problem im a shy guy and i know i need a GF and girls talk to me all the time but im.......?
    Make friends with girls first and learn how to communicate and relate to them before you pursue them further. Don't think of them as potential mates when you talk either, that makes things awkward. Think of them as your best guy friend an go off from there! Good luck!
    find a girl and give a letter to her of how you feel a bout her and ask her to circle yes or no you need to ask her do you what to be mt girlfriend. good luck.

    What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?

    How come when I talk to girls they stop talking to me after awhile?



    Same with some friends, some people stick around become a friend other leave or stop talking to me.



    What might I be doing wrong im trying to hook up or get friends?What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?
    Cause U get boring after a while...try %26amp; change the subject..=]What do girls stop talking to me sometimes?
    You must be creeping them out...

    Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?

    There is a girl in a nearby office that I usually flirt with - however, she does have a boyfriend. Sometimes our conversations will involve him (why is a girl talking about him with me?) and she is often complaining about how he's not motivated or interested in life.



    I want to buy flowers for her, but I don't want to come off as being intrusive - can you help?Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
    That's an invitation to an @ss kicking.



    Keep your conversations light and fun. If she complains about her boyfriend, the best thing to do is say ';Sorry, you need to save that stuff for your girlfriends or a therapist.'; Then change the subject. Do NOT let her talk about her boyfriend to you. If she dumps him, she will want to be with a fun guy who makes her laugh and stays positive.Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
    If she's flirting with you and saying those kinds of things about her boyfriend, she might want to move on. It's a good idea to wait until she's completely moved on to get anything like flowers for her, that's for sure.



    But if you really just have to get flowers for her, avoid roses and don't get anything overly red or pink. And get something small, like a tiny bouquet of daisies, irises, or lilies. As long as the flowers read as something you'd get for a friend, you should be okay.
    Don't do it.



    Although she may complain about her boyfriend, obviously he isn't bad enough for her to actually leave him %26amp; she isn't into you enough to leave him. Friendly flirting is one thing, sending her flowers is another thing. I have a strong feeling that she only thinks of you as either a friend or an ego boost- not someone she wants to really go out with.



    Besides... even if she *is* interested in you, do you REALLY want to go out with a girl who is so willing to go around behind her boyfriend's back %26amp; seriously flirt with other guys whenever your relationship is in trouble? What makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you?
    Don't do it, she may come to you to talk to him but probably because she thinks your her friend, flowers are very suggestive, instead get a her a valentines day card that's coming up but make sure to get others one, and just write something sweet in it..Or you can be ballsy get her flowers and see what happens, though you risk making things awkward at work which is never good.



    Ps: flirting at work is common even for people with significant others, it isn't an invitation to sweep her off her feet someone else already has. Your best bet is to continue to be there for her and if one day they do break up she's going to remember who was there for her during the tough times and you'lll get yours.
    Well if you want her that bad, buy her the damn flowers, if she takes you up on it, beware because she doesn't seem like she would be the most committed girl you could be dating. I have a feeling she probably thinks your constant flirting is normal for homosexual males to do with their ';fag tags'; (no offense). Let her know your into chicks, by her a pair of fuzzy handcuffs instead of flowers, it can only help you out.
    Sorry but.. are you stupid? The fact that she's talking to you about her boyfriend proves that she just sees you as a friend! Girls moan about their boyfriends to their friends all the time, it doesn't mean they don't love them. You do not buy flowers for a girl with a boyfriend, ever! Even if she does like you, which I doubt, she'd be creeped out I'm sure. And her boyfriend would be furious.

    She's probably just seeing if she's still attractive and is just using you! If she wanted to be with you and not her boyfriend, she would!
    I would have to pretty much agree with everyone. Dont buy flowers for her if anything maybe a card. If he is really worth leaving she would have already done so. People just like to complain if the guy was that bad the problem would hav been fixed by now so dont get to involved and just might need someone to talk to about not that she is interested in you. Sorry buddy!
    send the flowers to her as a secret admirer...write an inviting note...if she is interested, she may not tell her bf..thats good for u...she may tell u about the flowers...just check out her reaction...if she really is into her man..she will not care to much for the gesture..but if the idea of a secret admirer interests her..keep it up for awhile...just see what happens...
    the flowers come later man, keep talking to her buy her lunch on your guys break, then bring up activities to do with her, you did say she said hes not intrested in life, so ther you go. girls love a dude thats outgoing
    Yeah dude, you don't buy flowers to get a girl. You buy flowers to keep one. Land a date first, then bring the flowers.
    I`m not too sure...just say they were to brighten her day(as long as its the truth anyways...dont wanna bother lying). Don`t be too persistant about them either, no *hey..remember those flowers I got you last week* or anything. just be casual about it :)
    Are you kidding me, you sound pathetic, listen to everyone, and DON'T.
    DO NOT buy a taken women flowers, especially if her BF is stronger than you
    buy her a huge vase full of different types of flowers and send it to her desk and sign it from a secret admirer
    Send them anonymously? Or just do it. (Don't if her boyfriend is possessive though!)
    I would dude you are soooo in the '; friend zone'; with her don't waste your money
    Don't!
    You're a stalker!
    don't
    do not buy her flowers.. she has a boyfriend..
    More to the point...Why wud u buy flowers 4a girl that has a boyfriend...

    HOw can I have a normal conversation with her?

    I would like to talk girl who is in my school. I'm kind of shy. I really want to know her. But I'm worried about me asking questions and not her also asking me questions. Should I talk about how is class, the best class, worst class, college major, etc?HOw can I have a normal conversation with her?
    these r the basic for any new and open conversation, start with the usual stuff and talk about anything, then from there on and from how she reacts and communicate back u will know if she is into it or not.





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    Please tell me how to talk with girls.?

    I cant talk to girls because, I am worried that

    I am talking to them because I like the girl or

    I want to go out with her. Also, their guards

    are high or they are shy, girls dont come to

    talk to me, so I dont know how to make friends

    with them, how can I start friends with them

    and build relationship?Please tell me how to talk with girls.?
    talk to girls with eye contact



    and talk sweetly and softly





    also u shud be confident for whatever u r saying



    nd simle too :PPlease tell me how to talk with girls.?
    You have to look at your own inhibitions and deal with them. It's scary to do but do-able. It is also part of the maturing process most people either go through or need to go through at some times in their lives. Some sooner than others.



    Remember, Achievement = Confidence.



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  • Please tell me how to talk with girls.?

    I cant talk to girls because, I am worried that

    I am talking to them because I like the girl or

    I want to go out with her. Also, their guards

    are high or they are shy, girls dont come to

    talk to me, so I dont know how to make friends

    with them, how can I start friends with them

    and build relationship?Please tell me how to talk with girls.?
    talk to girls with eye contact



    and talk sweetly and softly





    also u shud be confident for whatever u r saying



    nd simle too :PPlease tell me how to talk with girls.?
    You have to look at your own inhibitions and deal with them. It's scary to do but do-able. It is also part of the maturing process most people either go through or need to go through at some times in their lives. Some sooner than others.



    Remember, Achievement = Confidence.



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    How can I be better at talking to girls?

    I recently started college, but my problem is that I'm really not good at talking to girls! I really don't know why-- it's like every time I have to chat with a girl, my voice becomes really low and I feel really nervous! I wish I was more able to talk to girls because I don't even have any female friends at all except for one or two who are just on a ';hi, bye'; basis. How can I overcome this inhibition? Please help.How can I be better at talking to girls?
    First, RRELAX, and second, REALXHow can I be better at talking to girls?
    I actually just confronted this issue of mine recently. I Started college about a year ago. I talked to a couple of friends about it and they told me to just talk to this girl I think is really pretty. I was so incredibly nervous, yet excited, on the day I saw her. I just went up to her outside of class and introduced myself, then asked her something about the class. We had a short conversation, and then she had to leave and get ready for the rest of the day. (My mouth was getting pretty dry during the conversation, since I was really nervous, but I have been told many times that confidence is key, but I had never done anything like that, so I couldn't really find the confidence). The whole thing didn't go as I wanted, since I didn't get a date right then and there, but that is asking quite a bit from the situation.



    What really helped me was the anticipation of the whole thing. I had been waiting for that moment for a while, and I didn't want to let myself down by chickening out, so I just did it. After it was all done, I was really relieved, and having the experience kind of made me want to try it some more. It's like riding a bike for the first time, you're nervous because you don't want to get hurt, but you're excited to have fun. And after that first ride you just want to go again. I think once you get out there and do it once, your confidence will continue to grow.



    I'm sorry if all of that is jumbled, I keep replaying the whole scene in my head and I get excited haha. I guess to sum it up... just go out there, introduce yourself and start a conversation, then the next time you see them you can say hello, and the friendship can begin, and from there I'd say you can maybe get a date if things go well :)

    How come I feel more comfortable with talking with straight guys and gay guys than girls?

    I am gay by the way! Well anyways, I have noticed that all my elementary, middle, and until know I have always been more comfortable talking to guys. I mean I love men but shouldn't I be talking more to girls and stuff? I mean I talk to girls but not as much as my gay and straight guy friends! Am I the only one who feels this way!



    P.S I love guys! ';Boys Boys Boys! ...We love them!';How come I feel more comfortable with talking with straight guys and gay guys than girls?
    You're not required to talk females because people set their own standards. Because personalities vary for each individual, we each have different ways of socializing. No social, political, or ideological complex controls how one interacts with others.How come I feel more comfortable with talking with straight guys and gay guys than girls?
    You just need to surround yourself with a more diverse group of people if you really do want to talk to more girls. If you don't care that you're hanging out with one gender over the other because you feel uncomfortable around that gender then you don't need to change your behavior just because it isn't the ';norm.'; (Normalcy doesn't exist IMO) Although, you should resolve your uncomfortable feelings. They're probably the result of problems you have over your own self-esteem or self confidence. I'm gay and I had trouble in school not with hanging around girls, but with hanging around straight guys. I always though they were making fun of me as the ';token gay guy.'; It was only when I realized that I wasn't comfortable being in my own skin that I learned to hang out with them. What I'm trying to say is that you should at least get to the bottom of why you feel uncomfortable around girls or why you are naturally compelled to hang around guys.



    P.S. I'm boy crazy too! And I love that you love them too! ^_^
    no, I'm gay and I only have like one female friend, all my friends are straight guys nothing wrong with that.
    people are just different :)

    How do you have confidence to talk to girls and dance with girls at clubs???

    i was in a nightclub last night with m8s and 1 of my m8s can just go up to a girl and start talking to them or dance with them instantly.

    i just don't have the confidence and worried of rejection.

    what can i do?How do you have confidence to talk to girls and dance with girls at clubs???
    Just be confident!!

    If your embarrassed about being rejected, then just think your most likely never gonna see that girl again and tbh i dont think they will reject you most girls who go to nightclubs want a guy to dance with them. :P

    xHow do you have confidence to talk to girls and dance with girls at clubs???
    Hannah is spot on, you probably won't ever see them again so that's the thing to remember.



    Aside from that, just try it: the more you do it, the better you'll get, that's why some of your friends seem more confident than you, because they have more experience with doing it.



    Good luck!
    Just go for it! I bet lots of girls will want to dance with you, you've just got to make the first move then they'll take the lead from there. You've just got to beleive in yourself. Rejection doesn't matter because there's plently more girls in the club!



    If worse comes to worse get a few drinks in ya, that should make you more confident. Just not to many, you don't wanna puke on them or anything.

    How and what to talk about with a girl?

    What do girls like to talk about without boring them? It is hard to talk to girls without thinking that they are thinking bad about you. What do girls like?How and what to talk about with a girl?
    I'm not an expert at this, but I can tell if

    a girl is interested..

    They look at you in the eyes,

    they don't look around or fidget,

    they are confident and don't sound

    nervous around you.



    Best advice I can give is just be honest

    and tell her about yourself and what

    you do or like to do.



    I hope that helped.How and what to talk about with a girl?
    Girls absolutely adore a guy that can make them feel comfortable and make them laugh! if you can get a girl laughing and make her feel secure etc. then you are going to be the best thing since bubble gum to her. you should also ask her about herself, what she likes to do, her favorite food etc. it show her that you are interested without being too straight forward. Try not keep her thinking about things for too long as well. a girl takes every little word you say extremely seriously (most girls at least). so try not to ask her something if you wouldn't want to be asked it as well! hope this helps, xx
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  • I'm a tomboy. How can i get more friends who are girls?

    Honestly, i've always hung out with guys because i thought they were ten times more cooler and plus i'm very hyper so i enjoy joking and horsing around. The thing is most girls don't like me because of it. I would really like to be friends with them though because i do like having girl talk and being alittle bit more lady like. What can i do?I'm a tomboy. How can i get more friends who are girls?
    Talk to a girl that looks lonely or has no friends. There is a good chance they will be your friend. You can make them happy and you could get a friend that is a girl. Maybe more girls will be your friend.I'm a tomboy. How can i get more friends who are girls?
    just start out by saying hi to some of the girls. or help one of the girls if they don't understand something and you do. talk to the girls that you think would be a good friend for you.

    I a tomboy with lots of friend both girls and boys.

    How to talk to your crush when I am shy to talk to girls? , and how to get her notcing me?

    Well, I'm a young teen who is going on 15 and I have this problem that i'm really shy of girls, but thats ok, but the thing is, i have a crush on someone and I cant talk to her, I dont know what to talk , i've never talked so extensilvely with the opposite sex, and besides , I get very enraged and angry when other boys talk to her, help!How to talk to your crush when I am shy to talk to girls? , and how to get her notcing me?
    You're bad. Chances she already notice you. Just say hi and more words every day you pass her by. Start before it's too late.How to talk to your crush when I am shy to talk to girls? , and how to get her notcing me?
    Buy a few flowers and write a note on it, telling her that you like her. Get a good friend of yours to deliver it to her during lunch. After school or lunch go up to her and say hi. Have a little confidence in yourself. Maybe she likes you back :]

    Why guys don't talk to girls like me?



    ';I'm always told how pretty, nice, caring, and smart I am, and I'm just curious why guys never even come up and talk to me. It kinda puzzles me why guys never talk to girls like me. Do we walk around with neon signs that say, 'Look but don't talk'? Why guys don't talk to girls like me?
    as a man we are intimidated by beautiful women its also a respect thing thinking that you may be with someone and there in the ego of the man kicks in in that we don't like being shot downWhy guys don't talk to girls like me?
    Maybe they're intimidated by you?
    and what kind of girl are you?



    if you are pretty, nice and smart as you say. ill be glad to know you, but dont know whats your age :S. hahaha



    so, look, one guy talking to you. lol.
    I get that too i'm nice pretty smart talented and all that too i think its because we intimmidate them but that dosent ean anything O well there s always someone out there thats right for you
    If your super duper supermodel material then most blokes would think that they stand no chance.
    It might be that you give off negative non verbal signals. For example do you cross your arms when walking or talking to people? When talking are you subconsciously pulling away? Try to imagine what signals the other person is getting from you non verbally, it might help you understand what is going on.
    maybe there shy or they just think that you wouldnt want to talk to them

    you start the converstion
    hehehe. yeah maybe your too damn pretty, i would say so. Maybe being open and gain some relaxing thoughts and feels might ease up all the tensions around you?.. well thats my advice, coz i believe positive and negative energy can pass to one person to another..



    I got same issue i think kind of opposite to that. please answer mine too. :) http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
    who are the people who tell you that? Friends and family can lie to you to give you confidence. Maybe their lying and your not all that good looking?
    Perhaps stemming from insecurities of men. Most men are either insecure or egotistical, hard to find that middle ground. Maybe a different approach? Guys would love to talk to you, then again guys are afraid to talk to you for that insecure issue. But maybe if you played a part of interest, guys will open up more. So since guys like to talk about themselves, listen in on what they are talking about. If you have a common interest, they will be far more open, actually excited. Topics could range actually too. Vin Diesel had good aesthetics, the odd thing was that he liked Dungeons and Dragons. a persons hobbies doesn't tell how they actually are by the way. especially when it comes to looks. If you saw me, you would never guess by appearance that I don't like sports. So perception is not always reality. Or on the other hand depending on what you are wearing, perhaps standards are an issue. don't wear anything too revealing. Just wear enough to catch someone's attention and have them curious for more. In the end, both will be quite pleasant with actions taken. Good Luck!

    How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?

    im kinda shy, but only sometimes, when ppl say ';just be urself'; wut if being ur self doesnt work? i wanna talk to alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll kinds of girls. so how can i create a connection to be friends, not date or ';hookup with'; i just want friendship.How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?
    When I was courting my wife-to-be, I talked to her by using my mouth, i.e. I used my lips and tongue. Some people say actions speak louder than words. Don't have sex until you are ready to be a father.How do i talk to girls? guys and girls need help!!!!!!!!!?
    based on your name alone i think i would be your friend.. just talk to people i know its hard but it doesnt get any easier so get used to it
    theres so many girls tht want to be ur friend just try to get out as much as u can just keep talking to diff kind of women and c wht happens
    being yourself always works......u have to realize tho that not every single girl out there is going to like you....you want them to like u for u so don't try and pretend to b someone ur not....we can see rite through that and hate fakes....if u are real with them they'll b real with u and appreciate u for who u are...
    Be funny, not obnoxious, be smart but not arrogant, smile a lot but don't cheese. Be fun, but not too fun. Have money but don't show it. Girls like confidence but not intimidation. They like when guys listen but can hold a conversation. The more you date the better you get and before long you will be wishing you were single again. Good luck!
    Be outtgoing,

    But not cocky

    It can get awkward if you have nothing to talk about with a girl,

    Ask her what music you like, and chances are if you like

    the same music,

    You willhave more of the same intersts.



    And always know your body language,

    If shes figiddy

    or moving around alot,

    Then shes getting bored,

    If she is making eye contact then she wants to know more

    If YOU are making eye contact then that means your intrested

    And if she says something

    Don't just go,

    Ya, oh cool, uh huh,



    Ask her a question back

    If she says she likes say KNOTB,

    Don;t just say, cool or awesome

    Say that you like them/don't

    Or talk about them

    Hope this helps

    if you need more help

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    Tyler
    if ur silly, walk up to a girl and say something silly, or play on the shyness..just walk up and say ';i'm kinda shy but i want to make new friends, i'm so and so whats your name?'; or wait until you see a girl doing something she is enjoying and go up and ask her random questions about it then introduce yourself. be yourself and just take a risk and you will be amazed.
    If your shy that's fine. I used to be very shy..It didn't work for me. I tried smiling alot (not in a creepy way though) and crazy as it sounds it worked. If someone talks to you TALK back.



    Body language is key. Always pay attention to someones body language, and yours. You might be standing close to somone who could take it as you might ';want'; them. Just try pay attention to people around you. influence is a great thing

    How bothered are girls by muscles?

    All you ever hear girls talk about is how some people, like JLS for example are so 'fit' and all that, which really demoralises some of the weaker and less attractive people, other than just me. Do the friendly, nice, polite,helpful have any chance with girls or do they just have to be these muscular,fit, good looking, funny guys??How bothered are girls by muscles?
    Well, i am a girl, and i love fit men...but fit isnt necessarily muscular....i hate lazy guys who dont look after their selves, and generally, if i guy does enough exercise he will be toned and a good weight...if he keeps that up and spends more time doing high weights low reps in the gym...he will also gain muscle...which is sexy...but its he fitness and health thats important. being polite and nice is also important as having a nice body will get you no where if your personilty and attitude stink. x
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  • What are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?

    Well, i am going on a cruise this summer with my friend Dylan and we want to ';get some girls'; like hook up with them. But i don't want to be dumb and use some stupid pickup line. Does anyone know how i should approach a cute girl i dont know?What are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
    cruises are great for one reason... everyones already thought about it... either the girl is willing to hang out/hook up with a nice good looking guy....or there not



    if there willing then they half excpect you to hit on them



    so just go for it.....say anything bring anything up and just get a conversation going and see were it ends up



    worse case scenerio....some girl you dont know and will never see again thinks your weirdWhat are some good ways to talk to girls you don't know?
    thats why pick up lines were invented
    You must be desperate.
    just go talk her
    Hmm.... why don't you try by saying ';Hi?
    how about saying'; hello';? with so many dudes now tryin these weak as# pimp lines the best game is no game at all..just be yourself..and youll stand out.
    actually i sometimes think pickup lines are halarious...use them!
    What my friend's boyfriend did was bump into her ';accidentally'; when she had a glass of water. He said, ';Man, I'm really sorry!'; and asked if he could get her something (like a soda or a candy bar).
    Just give her a complement. or ask for the time and then intro your self.



    or.



    start by saying ';Oh man my friend is late again! ugh '; or along those lines.



    and say it loud enough so she hears. hopefully she;ll turn around and say ';blahblah blah';
    Just say hello, introduce yourself, and be polite. Don't put on an act. Ladies like men who are genuine, nice, respectful. Let them know that you are interested, and ask them if they are too. If they want to take things to the next level, follow their lead. I hope you have a great time!
    well just go up to them and start a conversation not a stupid won make them feel bad for u look cute and dnt ever ever be shy in front of her cause once she knows u shy well theres no point of talkin 2 her cause the majority of girls dnt like shy guys oh yea and dnt act like a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    i personally love a sense of humor. go up to her and say NANU-NANU, (mork and mindy), with ur hand extended like mork does. sounds corny but i would wanna hang out w/u. lol seriously
    Be honest.



    Anything works as long as you sincerely mean it. Don't lie, play games, or inhibit yourself; they can smell that a mile away.



    Honesty rocks!
    ask her alot of questions about her such as what she likes, her hobbies and interests and she will eventually ask you about yourself and before you know it your having a genuine conversation.
    Try and be their friend first. You don't want to look like some kind of pervert, so don't make a move until you know them. Do things you like and you will find girls there that like the same things. Just talk! If you say something stupid the chances are slim that you will ever see this person again, be yourself!!!
    Hey Brad

    The thing that's easy is that your going on vacation. There is going to be alot of girls wanting to do the same thing you are have a blast and meet people. Have a drink chill out and enjoy. Questions that are not stupid that you can bring up and not look like an idiot. You don't need pickup lines so to speak. You will see girls who you are attracted to and you can be mellow about your approach.



    Hey this is great have you (or you all) been on a cruise before? Once you started hitting it off then ask

    What are you going to do once we dock in the Bahamas (insert destination here if not Bahamas)? Shop, Scuba dive, parasail, or tour the island?

    What are you planning on doing tonite? Stay on the boat or go and gamble at one of the hotels?

    Yeah, we are hitting the hotel/casino tonite too, What time are you heading over there? We will take care of the cab if you want (or split the cab) if you want to.

    Are you all hitting the midnite buffet? That should be awesome!

    Are you all eating at the first or second seating?

    If you dont' like who they have you sitting with your welcome to join us.

    I wonder what the nightclub is like? Maybe we can meet up later. I can give you my cell and/or our room number



    I hope I have helped you some. My advice might be lame. You know when your attracted to someone and visa versa. Everyone is going to be so pumped because it's going to be a blast!!!

    How do i start to talk to girls?

    I don't know what to say when girls start to talk to me. Because i am usually shy. Can you guys please tell me how to start to talk with girls. And when a girl keep on looking at you, does it mean she like me or something?How do i start to talk to girls?
    Not always means looking steadily to you is a ';like'; thing but may be concentrating or your shyness is somehow grabbing attention.



    If you want to start a real conversation to a girl you think you like or attracted to be confident of what you say but not arrogant, girls sense confidence from a mile ... be spontaneous, yourself and a gentleman.



    You gotta thank me, huh? :)



    Good luck.How do i start to talk to girls?
    Have a sense of humor and be confident if you show your shyness they can see right though you as soon as you say one word but once you get a girl to laugh a couple times that's the key all you have to do from there is roll with it she'll come around to see what you have to say. just don't do stupid stuff to get a laugh just have a quick wit. too many ways to name its according to the girl. that works for me

    What do you talk with girls?

    I mean the really girly ones, preppy....

    It's like I want to get to know them better, but they just answer to my questions with one word and then there's no conversations

    How to get them to talk?!?What do you talk with girls?
    ask them about what they like. something that CANT be answered with only one word. like, what is their favorite type of music? if they say r%26amp;b, ask their favorite singer, their favorite song by that singer, why they like them... just ask questions about themselves. if that doesn't work, then she's really not interested. but chances are, this will work. i used to be considered preppy for a few years, and this always worked on me.

    POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?

    Speech is the vocalization form of human communication. It is based upon the syntactic combination of lexicals and names that are drawn from very large (usually %26gt;10,000 different words) vocabularies. Each spoken word is created out of the phonetic combination of a limited set of vowel and consonant speech sound units. These vocabularies, the syntax which structures them, and their set of speech sound units, differ creating the existence of many thousands of different types of mutually unintelligible human languages. Human speakers are often polyglot able to communicate in two or more of them. The vocal abilities that enable humans to produce speech also provide humans with the ability to sing.



    A gestural form of human communication exists for the deaf in the form of sign language. Speech in some cultures has become the bases of a written language, often one that differs in its vocabulary, syntax and phonetics from its associated spoken one, a situation called diglossia. Speech in addition to its use in communication, it is suggested by some psychologists such as Vygotsky is internally used by mental processes to enhance and organize cognition in the form of an interior monologue.



    Speech is researched in terms of the speech production and speech perception of the sounds used in spoken language. Several academic disciplines study these including acoustics, psychology, speech pathology, linguistics, cognitive science, communication studies, otolaryngology and computer science. Another area of research is how the human brain in its different areas such as the Broca's area and Wernicke's area underlies speech.



    It is controversial how far human speech is unique in that other animals also communicate with vocalizations. While none in the wild uses syntax nor compatibly large vocabularies, research upon the nonverbal abilities of language trained apes such as Washoe and Kanzi raises the possibility that they might have these capabilities.



    The origins of speech are unknown and subject to much debate and speculation.



    EVERYONE TALKS IT IS HUMAN NATURE!!!11POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
    Speech and communication are amazing. I agree that there is nothing scientifically that can explain it.



    But there are those studies that say women use many more words than men every day. And, as a guy, there are times when certain (not all of course) ladies just wear me out with talking. Some compromise is need in this area on both sides!POLL: Why do guys think girls talk too much?
    it is a stereotype because most girls just talk about themselves and stupid stuff, which makes it seem as though they have been talking for years. it is sooo annoying. so if your a girl and you find yourself talking about yourself or something stupid, please stop
    You鈥檙e a girl and look, you had to use over 300 words to bring your point across. If you keep it simple and within 75 words nobody will ever think you鈥檙e talking too much. ;)
    your whole entire answer is ironic to the answer isn't it?



    way to contradict what you just said.
    Communication is human nature, yes - but not the way girls do it! They take it WAAAAY too far!
    You just proved that they do talk to much



    Thanks I feel better now
    you sure sound bitchy
    O.O That hurt my eyes!
    get a f*ckin life! will ya?

    How to talk to girls in a group?

    I have been talking to a girl for some days over the phone and we have decided to meet each other, but the problem is that she told me that she is going to bring some of her friends along with her and i am really confused about how to tackle the situation if the girls keep talking to each other all the time...more specifically how can i avoid looking like a fool? and on what topics i can talk to them about?though 1 of my friend is willing to go with me but he is not sure whether he can find spare time or not.

    please help me outHow to talk to girls in a group?
    first of all try to get her to dump her friends...let her know that your interested in hanging out with her and getting to know her. If she still wants to bring her friends than tell her if you guys can reschedule that way you can bring some of your friends...that way it can be like a double date or something. Its gonna be hard to try to get her attention or any one on one time if she brings her friends...so if you decide to go anyways just talk to them about what kinds of things they like and what they do for fun. Hopefully you'll have some things in common...just act like your getting to know all of themHow to talk to girls in a group?
    just keep calm , and no matter what be yourself and be confident and funny , girls love guys that are funny =D

    and if your friend cannot go well go on your own , it'kll be a life lesson and you'll learn from it :)

    dont worry ! x
    i would say that u should just act ur self and just act like it is just u and her and every 1 else is just figures in ur imagination.



    {hopes this helpz}

    Sincerely,

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  • How to get my mind off girls?

    Am kinda bored waking up with the thought of a girl in my mind, going in msn looking for a nice girl, talking to girls, discussing with my friends about girls, there are girls everywhere, I don't want them to be one of my concerns any more. What can I do to stop thinking of girls and relationships?How to get my mind off girls?
    Put a rubber band around your testicles for a few days.How to get my mind off girls?
    GIRLs R great! Go 4 it ! ! !! !
    find some random hobby. focus on something, like getting fit or buff or something. chick overload haha
    dude dont stop thinking about girls fFs its normal
    find something else to occupy your time? like maybe a job, school?
    just think of me babyy
    Get a girl and relationship.

    Trust me
    Don't. Girls being on your mind is not a bad thing; just know you don't have to think about them every second of the day. Read a book.
    get with me

    i will KEEP your mind clear

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLO
    Why would you want to do that? we are awesome!!!!
    kill us

    dont try me huhlol
    Pump your penis until your hand aches.
    turn yourself gay ?
    do something else constructive that takes your mind off of them.
    the way us girls get our mind off you

    ... oh wait that never happens



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    lol get laid dude sounds like youre a needy prick :D i dont need to think about girls i have my love she is the fines girl alive
    Its completely natural. Unless you decide you are Gay, I doubt you will ever stop thinking of girls. If you really do want to stop thinking of them, invest yourself in other activities. I have no idea how old you are, but if you are still school age, join sports teams, or clubs. Play videogames, or cure cancer. Doing other activities will certainly help, but nothing will cure the problem.
    Its the natural thing to do especially depending on your age and if you have too much time on your hands my answer do more things get out make something build something learn something new
    It's probably your age or just the fact that you are male. It is normal and you should not try to get your mind off girls. Be single and just get play from girls. :-D
    try playing video games
    they will take ur $$ n leave u broke
    It is very difficult to get rid offgirls and their thoughts

    you better go for girls

    still u want to leave it then u get busy by yourself focusing on someother work or thoughts but it is still very difficult you better accept
    Beat off, spank the monkey, attack your trouser snake, burp the worm, take out palm-ela.
    think of guys :)

    My daughter is 11 and I have asked her if her mother has been given her the girl talk.?

    She has been complaining her stomach is hurting her. I will be bringing her to the doctor tomorrow. I am a single dad with custody of the kids. Their mother only gets them every other weekend. I asked my daughter this and she says her mother has not had the talk with her. Should I have the talk with her? I worry about having the talk with her because if she starts talking with her friends or her mother about it how would it seem if I did talk to her about it to others? I worry about my kids. My mother thinks I should be the one to talk to her about puberty. I asked my mother to talk to her. Can I have some ideas on how to talk to my girl. I know with my son it would be a lot easier, but I have a while for that talk though. I can wait. Thanks.My daughter is 11 and I have asked her if her mother has been given her the girl talk.?
    Maybe if you are taking her to the doctor tomorrow you could have a short talk with her on the way there or some time before. Just let her know that there are changes that are going to take place then you could let the doctor know that you have mentioned these things to her. Tell the doctor why you feel uncormfortable. In this day and age I understand why you would and I think a lot of other single parents would too. Ask the doctor to ask her if she has any questions. It would probably be more comfortable for her if you weren't in the room. I can't imagine discussing that with my father. Chances are she knows more than you think from talking to her friends and maybe her friends older sisters. Adolescent girls are just as creepy as adolescent boys. It would be a good idea to keep some sanitary pads on hand, at home, in the bathroom for when the time comes. Let her know that they are there but don't make a big deal about them. Make sure you tell her not to flush them down the toilet! Ask her mother to talk to her about this if you can.My daughter is 11 and I have asked her if her mother has been given her the girl talk.?
    Get her a book on it--there's a good chance that she already knows from her friends or school. I'm guessing she's in 5th grade--they usually have that discussion in 5th grade. They split the boys and girls and the teachers have the conversation with the kids. Or, call your pediatrician and see if it's something that she can discuss with your daughter if you're that uncomfortable with it. Or, I'd sit both kids down at once and tell them both--the longer you wait, the more awkward it will be for all of you. You could also call your ex and see if she will talk to her about it. Put your differences aside and ask her how she would like you to approach it. Just say that you'll talk to her if she doesn't want to, but that you don't want to offend her by taking away a rite of passage for her. She might respond to this by talking to your daughter.
    You're her Dad and she's in your custody.........I agree with your Mom and you should have that talk with your daughter........She's of age where's she's feeling a lot of changes going on within herself and those changes probably could use a parental explaination..........You sound like a great Dad and want things right for your daughter...........Don't delay anymore........Just sit down with her and tell her it's time for a serious father-daughter chat..........Give her real explainations of everything, facts not supositions and let her know you're having this talk with her because you love her and then ask her if she has questions...........That might be a big help in explaining things to her.............CAT





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    Uh... face it your ex won't do it so you have to be mature and do it for her. You may not enjoy it but someone HAS to before she finds out the hard way.





    Good Luck!
    Hey, you are both parents here. SOMEBODY, please talk with her. Really, both of you should. Her mother obviously is the ideal, because she can answer more questions about the period and a womans changing body obviously, But, there is nothing wrong with you bringing up some kind of a conversation. She probably already knows, i was younger than your daughter when i started my period, i already knew what was going on, but she needs some insight here, some comfort that all is normal, and you are happy to see her grow into a young woman. Maybe, just bring up that you notice she is changing, and see what she has to say, it will probably be alot more than you expect.
    I think it's great you are the primary caretaker for these kids, and as such, I think you should have the talk. But definitely, give her a book, and the website listed above, and tell her you are there for questions, and keep it brief. You're her father; how could anyone think it inappropriate for you to keep her informed and protected?
    You need to discuss it with the child's mother. There are many books about puberty that are aimed at her age level. Ask the mother if you can get her some books and discuss them with your daughter.
    well i would have an aunt or grandma there when you do it so that way they can answer all girlie questions and then just sit down and tell her about how her body is changing how she could get pregnant if she does have sex now etc..


    check on americangirl.com they have great books about goin threw puberty and explains alot maybe order one of those i think its call my body or something like that


    good luck you seem like a great dad!
    Dad talking to his daughter about that stuff for the first time can be awkward. and it probaly is akward for her when u ask her if ur ex has had the talk with her cause she knows ita girl thing and doesnt want to talk to u about it. and in 5th grade u start sex ed where they talk about hte stuff and teach the kids. but i also think it wouldnt be a bad idea if ur mom talk to her especially if they are close.shes only 11 and she may be a little confused if school or nobody has talked about it to her. but in the long run she will thank u or her grandma or mom for doing it before anything happens. ill just say she wouldnt hate u for u talking to her about it. she just might not talk that much. but i say have ur mom do it. shes a girl, she knows what she talking about and how to do it REALLY well.lol.





    wish u the best of luck!
    Wow... I'm eleven and learned what puberty is on my own at 9 XP. It really should be done by a mother. You would just be too akward.
    well...i think its fine if fathers do, especially if the mom wont. call her mom up and ask her to talk to her about it. she say ur worried and dont know what to do when she starts her period, or whatever. i hope the relationship between u and ur daughter is close, otherwise, she might get mad at u if u try to talk to her about it. how did she seem when u asked her if her mom had talked to her? did she give u a weird look? did she mumble something? did she run out of the room after saying no? did she seem uncomfortable? i think if she acted fine when u asked her that, then that would of been a great time to start telling her. plz do it b4 its too late! u can buy her books, or show her websites, and ask her if she understands, dont assume she does just bcuz its right in front of her. u can also get another female relative to talk to her.and i doubt theyll think ur weird...just loving and concerned and shell understand when shes older if she doesnt now.
    My dad gave me the talk, and it was actually a lot less ackward for me because I saw my dad more, and I had more trust in him at the time. Just look at some information on websites, don't try to scare her about pregnancy and everything, and just try not to act nervous. Good luck!
    well you are her father so she would probably want to listen what you had to day about it. i am in a similar situation. i live with my dad and he was in complete custody. he is actually the one who told me about puberty and yeah it was awkward but hearing it come from someone that was important to me meant the world. so just be open and let your daughter know she can ask about anything (= good luck
    You and grandma should sit down with her. You should do the intro, ';We both wanted you to know that we are both here for you and any questions you may have. But since this is more of a feminine territory, I will leave the bulk of the explanation to grandma. '; Then leave the room, but stay in the house.


    That way she knows that you left the room to make HER more comfortable, not yourself. And she can come to you if she has questions.


    A period is a tough thing for an 11 year old girl, but once it's explained once, it's not that big of a deal. Also, you should discuss with your mom what kinds of ';products'; you should buy your daughter when you do the grocery shopping. She will not want to ask you for more, nor will she want to buy them herself for quite a while. So, buy a couple of different things, and just restock once a month.


    Good luck.
    Well, if you are on decent terms w/ her mother, then I think you should speak w/ her about your concerns and that you think it may be time for ';the talk.'; If not, there's no reason your daughter can't ask her mother herself. You could ask your daughter if she has any questions and whether she's more comfortable talking to you or her mom. She's probably picked up plenty from school and TV as it is and at least has an idea of sex and pueberty. But I don't think there's any reason that you, as her dad, shouldn't be the one to have that talk with her. Get a book or two (The Care and Keeping of You is a good one) and go over it together. As the custodial parent, you really need to be able to have an open relationship on this subject. Assuming you do the bulk of the shopping for the household, she needs to be able to ask you to pick up pads/tampons and go bra shopping w/ as little embarassment as possible.
    LooK as a daughter of the age 13 myself im trying to help you .... i am warning you do not i repeat do not talk to her abou that stuff it is completly awkward and weird and uncomfortable, my dad did it to me and now im scarred for life just ask your mother to or even if she has a smart sensible older sister just watever you do dont talk to her about that kind of sttuff
    i would just explain to her that she will becoming a young lady soon ! and every young ladies have a period ! and explain to her what she has to have to wear when she comes to that point and i would tell her that she needs to be extra careful about boys wonting to have sex with her she could get preg. and catch deseases from having sex i think youre mom should be having this talk with her or her mother its hard to explain this and she would prob. feel more comfortable if the mother talked to her about puberty i wish you good luck and bravo on keeping youre children and raising them right not many men would do that
    have your mother talk to her. Then from there you can add up your part. Good luck
    YOU ARE HER PARENT!


    Act like it!





    Do what you must do. This about her not about your embarrassment.





    AFTER you talk to her buy her a book that explains in more detail. I also like the idea of you finding her a female puberty mentor.
    u can do it but its better if a female does it....u might make mistakes
    get like her grandmother 2 do it or her mom.


    u can do it, i guess, but it'll b verrrryy awkward.\





    nd her stomach's hurting prolly cuz of da whole period situation.


    i suggest u 2 get a female 2 do it,its muchh bettr 4 her AND u.





    best of luck.
    I'm a daughter in almost the same situation, I'm a few years older then your daughter. Though it may be awkward, would you rather her be able to talk to you about this stuff in the future and come to you when she needs you, or her not knowing anything and end up pregnant or with an STD? The earlier and more comfortable you both get about talking about this stuff together the better off you are.
    it may seem awkward to you, but I think it's great that both parents be involved in these kinds of discussions. If she is about to have her first period though, there is little you can do to show her how to handle it... have you talked to her mother about this? I know that often there are hard feelings between ex's, but sometimes we have to set aside our own feelings and unite for the benefit of the child/ren involved. If this is not a possibility, how about a trusted aunt, grandmother or friend? If those otions are not available, maybe a Planned Parenthood organization would have a nurse available to help her... they are very good at talking to embarrassed kids about these things. Good luck dad! :)
    My dad talked to me about it he was kinda odd about it but he didnt he was nervous. he didnt stay on it long. he still talks to me about it.
    I think you should tell your ex-wife to talk to her cause since she hardly sees her mom it gives them time to bond and talk about things,and at the same time and if you tell her it would be kinda werid.It's true mothers know best.
    Go ahead. A lot of girls start developing at that age. It would be good to tell her and have her ask questions =)
    I guess it depends on the kind of relationship you have with your daughter. If you usually talk with her about her day, her stuff, her friends, boys, school, etc., she might be comfortable enough to talk about puberty issues with you. If you think she'd feel shy and embarassed going over that with you, then it's best not to force her to. I know it can make some parents feel awkward, but this is more about making her comfortable with the subject, rather than you. Good luck! :)
    give her the website teenhealth.org it will answer all her questions.... seriously all her questions.
    My husband could not bring himself to have the talk with our son, so I bought him a book and then he asked me a couple of questions without looking me in the eye, and I answered them. Now he is 15 and takes his questions to Dad, and if Dad can't answer we will both tease him!





    Find a good book at the library or ask her school nurse, and then tell your daughter you are there for questions. (Read the book yourself as well).





    Don't worry about what she says to her friends, they all know she lives with you. The important thing is that some facts get through!





    Good luck and God bless-it is tough to be a single parent!

    How do you make girls more attracted to you?

    I don't want to sound stuck up or anything like that but i want to be ';the guy'; at my high school. you know the one that every girl talks about and would love to get a date with. any suggestions. girls or boys? and i'm in highschool. please any help. thanksHow do you make girls more attracted to you?
    If you're pale, get a tan.

    If you're scrawny, get abs and arms.

    If you have buzzed hair, or very long hair, make it shaggy.

    If you have crooked teeth, get them straight.

    If you have yellow teeth, make them white.

    If you have an odd voice, make yourself sound better.

    If you are a dork, join AND be GOOD at a lot of sports.

    If you are weird, become funny.

    If you are a dork, make yourself funny.

    If you like Starwars, hide that in a closet, and never tell anyone.

    If you have weird friends, ditch them for the popular guys.

    How do you make girls more attracted to you?

    I don't want to sound stuck up or anything like that but i want to be ';the guy'; at my high school. you know the one that every girl talks about and would love to get a date with. any suggestions. girls or boys? and i'm in highschool. please any help. thanksHow do you make girls more attracted to you?
    -CHILVARY. #1 for me. Somebody was debating me over whether chilvary is sexist or not, but unless someone shows/tells you they don't like it, keep it up, because most girls love it. You don't have to pull out her chair for her but alwaysalwaysALWAYS hold doors, say 'bless you' (esp. to potential girlfriends, and even more especially if they are constant bless-you'ers themselves) %26amp; if the girl you like is struggling with a ton of books, offer to take some. Also if she drops something, go and get it, %26amp; beat her to it, like a game.





    - Make an effort to get near her. We notice, a heck of a lot more than guys do. Stalking is a no-no, obviously, but if you're in the same class as her and can choose seats, inconspicously choose a seat beside her. That way, your group and her group can mingle (if you aren't already in the same group) and the chances of her liking you increase. .. Don't do this every single day though, it may creep her out, especially if you don't talk all that much. If you sparked a friendship, though, keep it up.





    - Say hi. Not neccessarily in passing, but if your gazes meet in the hallway while she's standing, talking with friends, and you're just passing by her, say hi. No need to start a conversation. Keep walking. Not a lot of pressure. The situation above is a really good example because then her friends will start talking: ';Who's THAT?'; ';Oh, just some kid from my math class.'; ';You were sitting near him!'; ';Its not like that--'; ... and then her friends will get in on it and she may start to think of you in a different light.





    - If you feel bold %26amp; a hot girl screams ';ugh, I need a tutor!!'; after she did badly on a test, say something like ';well, I'm free on Wednesdays.'; A lot of the time when we say that, we want to get a guy's attention. Not all the time. But a lot.





    - Pay attention to how you look. Its not like you need to look like an Abercrombie model but if you have huge stains or dirt smeared on your clothes its usually not that hot. Only exception is your hair, don't put too much product in it, that looks retarded. The whole bedhead thing is sexy. But please brush it once in a while.





    - If you like a girl, come up with a creative way to tell her. A lot of girls don't ask guys out (exception is for shy guys). Even if we don't like you that way, we'll probaby appreciate your courage and if you're a good friend, try to hook you up with another of our friends





    - Be a creep %26amp; scope out some potential girlfriends' MySpaces or Facebooks. What her and her friends like to do, go, read, watch, etc. Then you can leave your iPod out while its playing her favorite song, or start talking to your friend (guy) about how you can't wait to see the new movie coming out this weekend which stars her favorite actor. Common ground, more to talk about, and might land you a date to the movies or a concert if you play your cards right.





    - Last and one of the most important- rent a few chick flicks (you don't have to tell your friends) or steal your sister's DVDs %26amp; watch what the male leads do to make the girls fall in love with them. High School Musical, the Notebook, now the whole Twilight thing. Girls LOVE them. Steal a few borderline corny lines. Pickup lines are cute, but sleezy ones make us want to push you off a cliff.





    In response to someone above.. you don't want to be complimenting and touching every. single. girl. We'll think you're a player and will be unsure if you'll be faithful %26amp; if you can hold a relationship. %26amp; if you did land girls, they'd either be jealous or desperate. %26amp; the whole eye contact thing? only a few seconds tops with most girls, it usually either creeps us out or totally shakes us up (sometimes in a good way, I hate to be superficial but it depends if you're hot or not) but save it for a potential girlfriend.





    Hope I helped. Feel free to share these with your guy friends, we need more guys like this in the world.How do you make girls more attracted to you?
    Make eye contact.


    Listen closely to any little little thing they have to say and interject with comprehension.


    KEEP eye contact. (key)


    Smile. If you have dimples, WORK those bitc*s


    Make light physical contact- lightly touch the forearm, hand, shoulder. Not the knee, not the boobies, you know. act like a lip lickin' eye wanderin' girlfriend.


    Compliment them. I know it's a cheap shot, but it's like a female's kryptonite. Boy, you don't need to know the difference between a Converse high top and a pair of Manolos. Just say, ';nice shoes.'; and move on. Do not elaborate or she'll think yer gay. Pretty eyes, nice hair, I love the way you walk, talk, laugh, pick your nose, it doesn't matter. Compliments are like catnip. Ooooh I'm gonna Pis* some ******s off with this one. I don't care. Women like to think men are simple and predictable. Well guess what, if the Manolo fits, wear it.
    well, you can try to have a good personality first of all, then try to be a little more attractive and when girls get interested in you, play the game. it will change your life.
    i luv guys that r funny.... NEVER B RUDE!!!





    funny and nice .... laugh alot!!!!!





    if ur happy then people around u will be happy!!!





    u give happy energy...





    and if other people are happy while they r around u...





    they will like u becuz u make them happy!!






    Those guys are disgusting and think they know everything 93% of the time. I wouldn't worry about. Just be yourself. I would rather have a funny guy than an athlete.
    uh... personality... sports... be outgoing...?
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  • Girls talk - i need your opinion about guys?

    First of all, im Albert's sister (just using his account) Anyways, just wanted to post this question: I have a boyfriend of 10month (who hasnt acknowledge me to his parents) and I'm going overseas to visit my relatives along with my co-worker's brother who is wanting to visit my cousin and arrange to meet and date if found compatible, the thing is this guy wants to come with me, how will I tell my boyfriend and what could be on my bf's mind, what would he think and wat should i say to calm him? theres no malice cos he knows i have a bf!Girls talk - i need your opinion about guys?
    Have your bf talk to this man that wants to accompany you, let them establish some rules between the two of them...

    If he's REALLY the jealous type call him every 15 minutes your gone and mail a ton so you won't even have any time to spend with another guy. =]Girls talk - i need your opinion about guys?
    Are your parents going with you? How old are you? If your boyfriend hasn't told his parents your his girlfriend then wake up your not his girlfriend. His parents know more of what he does then you do. That is probably why he doesn't want them to know. If the coworkers brother really wants to hook up with your cousin, he will. Maybe you should find that out for sure before you go overseas with him. It could just be a front. If your supposed boyfriend gets mad, ignore him and tell him if he hasn't acknowledged that you have a place in his life then maybe you don't and he is stringing you along. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
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  • I have a big problem with social anxiety, how do you talk to girls? or people in general ?

    lately ive been feeling really down, and feel like i could really just use a girl to talk to or hug. i hate it. how do you talk to girls...dont get me wrong i have friends that are girls...but we never hang out or anything....I have a big problem with social anxiety, how do you talk to girls? or people in general ?
    Just talk to people. You really shouldn't narrow it to just talking to girls though. Talk to guys first since you are comfortable around them.I have a big problem with social anxiety, how do you talk to girls? or people in general ?
    Aww well its kinda the samme way with guys. Like with girls you can kinda talk to them about all the things you have in common. Like your favourite band, good music bands, new songs, things going on in your life ( if your close w them) they might ask you something about something from a guys perspective... ect. Just be yourself and just be comfortable nd chilll.. if you feel awkward, they prob are to, don't over analyse things don't stress , just let it all be natural and I bet you it will all work out!!!! :)

    Idk if you need more help or have more question bout it jus ask:)
    I used to have social anxiety REALLY bad. It lasted all the way until I was about 18. I basically had to grow out of it through force almost. I moved out of my parents house, to another state 20 hours away, and joined the military. It just kind of started to wear off.
    haha, you just talk. and avoid talking about porn. :]

    well hang out with all of your friends more, silly.

    it's not as though girls are a HUGE complex web of lies and deceit.
    Hey its called just talk

    about the past present future

    Plans for this weekend

    how much u can bench

    what u did at school





    its really easy

    Girls talk i need your advice pls?

    Anyways, just wanted to post this question: I have a boyfriend of 10month (who hasnt acknowledge me to his parents) and I'm going overseas to visit my relatives, my co-worker's brother who is wanting to visit and hook up my cousin (if found compatible), wants to come alone, i dont see any malice on this, but my bf doesnt wanna go with me either, ive given him the option. the thing is this guy wants to come with me, how will I tell my boyfriend and what could be on my bf's mind, what would he think and wat should i say to calm him? my male friend knows i have a bf! and he is after my cousin ONLY! I'm 25yo, boyfriend is 28 and my friend is 30Girls talk i need your advice pls?
    How would your feel if your boyfriend did this to you? That is the best answer I could think of. Put yourself in his shoes.

    How does it make you feel if other girls talk with a guy you like?

    If you like a guy or kinda like a him but hes not your bf and he and his friend went to a club and he tells you all about his night how a girl was talking to him or maybe she was singng with him at karaoke or or kept talking with him all night, or maybe they met him and his friend at a resteraunt after the club but it was stricly platonic only..or maybe says she was ahot looking woman..does this still bother you or make you feel like you better step up your game before another girl gets him instead of you? Does this make you jealous, upset, what? anything? How does it make you feel when he tells you about other woman on his night out even if he didn't do anything with them?How does it make you feel if other girls talk with a guy you like?
    lovelyHow does it make you feel if other girls talk with a guy you like?
    it depends he might just be doing that to make me jealous

    and it would definitely make me step up my game and maybe work on making him jealous.
    I my feel mad but theres nothing I can do. Its not like he is my boyfriend.
    its okay, let them talk to him. Whats wrong with that?



    Answer mines please.



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    suuppper jealous
    it makes me feel insecure, like i'll never be good enough :(

    How do i talk to girls in general ?

    im 17 and i find it very hard to talk to girls i get really nervous and sometimes freeze up and forget what i wanted to say to them, i don't know if it's because i'm shy or if it's because i fear what they are going to think about me can someone with expirence give me some advice, maybe some tips on what to talk about or how to approach them and how to be more confident doing it, i really need helpHow do i talk to girls in general ?
    1st: be cool and be urself...lying is not option for ur kind of person.

    2nd: listen to what they say...then respond accordingly. no need to go out of ur way to find things to talk about really (gets kinda awkward), if the person ur talking to is remotely interested in u (or what ur sayin) then ur conversations will jus sorta flow.

    finally: sounds kinda lame but itll come with practise...at 17 you shud be able to approach schoolmates or coworkers and practise on them...



    if u got a certain girl in mind, thats diffrent, but if its weird talking to all girls then you gotta think diffrently cus its no diffrent from talkin to ur guyfrends or cusins or even ur mom kinda. anyway its only awkward if u feel it is so keep ur mind outta the gutter and ull be fine sonn.

    How do i talk to girls in general?

    im 17 and i find it very hard to talk to girls i get really nervous and sometimes freeze up and forget what i wanted to say to them, i don't know if it's because i'm shy or if it's because i fear what they are going to think about me can someone with expirence give me some advice, maybe some tips on what to talk about or how to approach them and how to be more confident doing it, i really need helpHow do i talk to girls in general?
    ok so i might not have experience in talking to girls, but all i can say is be yourself 100%. don't be afraid to say whats on your mind no matter what. and just take a chill pill, take it cool ya kno? pluss try and make her laugh because girls love that (:How do i talk to girls in general?
    i have the same problem... with boys though.



    I think that its the shyness that takes its place... nut be yourself. i know its hard but like, say hi and how are you... a conversation will appear and when you get used to it, your fine.
    Be yourself! I know it's hard to do, but girls are no reason to fret!! Girls have the same issue with talking to guys and if you're too shy to approach them then it will never work. Just try talking to some casually, knowing that the girls are shy too should help you talk to them easier. I'm a girl and there's this one really shy guy that I'm always afraid to talk to because I don't want to make him uncomfortable but I really like him and one of his friends told me that he likes me. So as you see, If you are shy, there could be a girl that really likes you if you just give it a shot...Just try to talk to some girls...Sorry for the long answer haha.
    Stop freaking out, talk to them as if your out playing basketball and some guy ask to play you say yes and you both talk like y'all are buddies.Nothing changes except she's more on the Feminine side
    A good way is to think of them as a guy, just a friend, or think of them as someone over yahoo answers, u want to hear what they say, but they are a nameless person
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  • How to talk to this emo girl?

    There is this hot emo girl at my school.She's a year younger than me so we don't have any classes together but Id like to get to know her. Im not emo but I dont think that matters. Also im no 100% sure shes emo but she has the black hair and skinny jeans. When I see her in the halls shes not sulking usually just acting like a normal girl, talking with her friends. Anyways how can I get to know her?How to talk to this emo girl?
    We are sorta in the place of that girl LoL, but don't get us wrong, keep reading! We are not fully emo, we don't cut ourselves O.O BUT We like it when a guy will just come up to us and say ';Hi'; and then start a small conversation. Don't talk to her for too long. That could cause her to think your a complete wack-o. Just go up to her and have a small conversation. End it with ';Talk to ya later'; or ';See ya around';.......If her friends are around, it might be even better. That could cause them to talk about you more.



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    Talk to her...I think that is obvious.
    stop the laebling emo is a kind of music(: she would probably be really insulted if she knew u were calling her emo anyway. Just talk to her.. like that other guy said:)

    How come it's hard for me to talk to girls but not to guys?

    i find it weird, im not gay or anything, but i get along easier with girls than with guys?? can you help me to get along with guys betteR???How come it's hard for me to talk to girls but not to guys?
    it seems like you mixed up your question judging from the question details



    it should be

    ';how come it's hard for me to talk to guys but not to girls?How come it's hard for me to talk to girls but not to guys?
    just talk about

    footy or motorbikes or somthing manly.

    hahaa



    but u should hang out with girls if u want to :)

    Ideas on how to talk ABOUT girls?

    just want to know ideas for talking ABOUT girls with ur friends (I'm a guy). We've done rating and stuff, but how about something more creative?Ideas on how to talk ABOUT girls?
    When i'm with my guy friends, we make it into competitions and whatnot, work on different openers, dhvs, and other **** to pick up girls, then we go out and field test them..



    Could also talk about who looks like they'd do what (ex. Amanda looks like she does anal) Then for added fun, go ask her.Ideas on how to talk ABOUT girls?
    Don't be negative because it will come back to haunt you.
    whats wrong with you?! talk about ******* them!

    How to talk to girls?

    Hi, I'm 16....i'm a nice guy, christian, normal looking, gentleman...lol....ibe never had a girlfriend.



    it seems taht all the girls go after the football players...lol.



    what are some tips on starting a conversation wiht a girl for the first time? what should I say after ';hi';? should I shake her hand? how do I deal with awkward silences? how often should I compliment her? what are some examples of compliments? LolHow to talk to girls?
    Speaking as a 16 year old, you seem like a good guy. I would date you.



    Anywho, it's not that hard, really. Girls are just as shy as guys are when it comes to talking to them (the ones they dont know of course). So any girl would love it if a guy they never talked to or met came up to them first. You'll come off as confident, which girls love. If you see a girl you like, start a casual conversation or make a comment. If you make a girl laugh, you'll get very far. Keep that in mind. If you want to avoid those awkward silences, keep an extra topic in the back of your mind, just in case you run of of things to talk about. Or, make a joke. As for compliments, start off with simple ones...Im not too good at giving an example, but after you get to know her a bit better, tell her she looks nice or something small like that.



    Best of Luck!How to talk to girls?
    Well dnt start out w/ a complement on how hot she is. She prob wnt lik tht too much. Jus find something u hav in common. Or jus try the old way: ';hi im...., whts ur name?';. Simple and easy.
    ughh, don't shake a girl's hand, it's kindda weird for this generation. Just say casual stuff like';hey are you in this this class?'; or';r u going 2 this club meeting?';

    if u r in a classroom, just ask a girl to help u with hwk or ask to borrow a pencil
    heyy mike......lol

    my ex would stare at me and tell me that i had pretty eyes and he would tickle me and give me big hugs and ask how my day was put his arms around me and he licked his lips make me laugh etc.



    sending kisses to him even though we broke up,

    lilly
    just ask them a question about themselves, they'll talk for 10 minutes, then you ask another, and they'll talk for 10 more minutes, repeat as needed, and pay attention.
    just go up to her and say hi I'm _________ , what's your name?? Then after she says what her name is ask her what class she has next, or what teacher she has next. Small talk is good at first so just keep the covorsation flowing. Oh and don't shake her hand, and don't overload her with compliments, just say something like that's a really pretty color on you like once in the whole convo. Don't say anything like wow your a** is smokin!! She will just think your a jerk and be annoyed with you. lol good luck!
    Hi,

    I'm a 16 year old girl and have always been close to guys as well as girls so I bet I can help you honey :). You sound like a wonderfully sweet guy, and in all honesty the girls who aren't just after sex and physical appeal will want someone like you, not a jock. I've actually never liked the jock types. And I am most certainly sick of players, my girl friends are as well so I'll bet you'll have more luck with girls than you think. When you find a girl that catches your eye, the key is to be comfortable with yourself. Being comfortable means being honest about who you are and this will help you be confident. I've had many guys hit on me/approach me. I personally found a guy calmly walking up to me and saying ';hey there'; or ';hello'; always caught my attention because they weren't being cheesy or creepy. Its polite, sweet, and can be very flirtatious without being too forward. That, and with an approach like this it allows you some talking time to get to know the girl of your fancy and decide if you feel chemistry with her. You can shake her hand, but I've always found it to be more awkward that way because it caught me off guard lol. Compliment her when you think of something genuinely nice to say that has crossed your mind about her. For example, if she has a cute habit or did something that made you think of her, compliment it. Compliment her as well if you know she has put extra effort into her appearance (we love when guys notice that stuff). Awkward silences always happen at some point. Let some of them go, because allowing the silence shows you are comfortable enough with her for it to not be awkward.

    I have green eyes and naturally rosy lips so guys often compliment me on those. But anything works, as long as its in good taste.

    Good luck sweetheart,

    I wish there were more guys out there like you :).

    If you would like more advice or help, feel free to ask me personally.

    -Natasha
    It sounds like we have a lot in common. Its hard to know what to say, but just say Hi, and introduce yourself. Ask her what her name is, and if you want you could give her a compliment, just make sure it is an honest one. You could tell her she looks nice today, or anything else you notice. If you have the same classes, you could talk to her about them, or help each other out. Good luck!

    Girls talk left me thinking, how many is to many? how many people did you slepp with and how old are you?

    hi i'm 28 and single, and yesterday with friends we where talking about how many people we had sex with and there where big discrepancy's between people. so just out of curiosity how many is to many?

    i'm very faithful when i'm in a relationship, but is it wrong to sleep with someone you wont have a future with while we wait for the right guy?Girls talk left me thinking, how many is to many? how many people did you slepp with and how old are you?
    i am 23 and slept with 8 people....



    I have now vowed to stop... and i dont want to hit double figures.

    I am not in a relationship, and so i am not having any sex... :-(



    but i think its a personal thing... My friend has has sex with 15 or so people and she is perfectly happy...

    Its something that is each to their own....Girls talk left me thinking, how many is to many? how many people did you slepp with and how old are you?
    no
    i dont think its wrong to try before you buy because when you actually find the right one you feel its special not just doing it for the sake of doing it
    52,268

    I'm 17
    I've slept with exactly two women in my life -- and ended up marrying both of them. Age 38.



    And I would say it IS wrong -- or at the very least, a stupid risk -- to sleep with someone you know full well you don't have any potential for a lifetime relationship with.
    what kind of questions is that???????
    i don't think it's wrong really!! it's up to the individual though!! 32.....8, i can remember!! hahaha
    i dont see a problem as long as you enjoy it, you dont need to tell people how many you have slept with, just enjoy wile you wait.
    There is no limit for that. If two people agree to sleep with each other, it is not wrong. There are two kind of attraction in opposite sex. One is personality attraction and other is sex attractions. There are many people who sexually very attractive and one wants to sleep with them.



    I am 35/M and have slept with around 25 different girls of different ages.
    33 .... 7



    It's not wrong to sleep with someone you don't want to have a future with wile you're waiting for the right guy. We all have needs.... I think you can have sex with as many people as you want to as long as you don't lie and hurt other people in the process and make sure you watch out for STD.
    I have slept with 32 women in the past, not at the same time though, it is not bad if you are not in a relationship, can be fun and very hot but I am 39 years old. to sleep with someone you know you could never have a future with is like going to an art gallery, you could never have any of the peaces in your house but you can love them and have some time with them.



    hope this makes sense...
    Darling, as long as you are faithful in a relationship I don't think you have too much to worry about. I think sleeping with a different person you don't know every night of the week is a bit much but apart from that as long as you're careful and protect yourself then I say go for it. After all how are you supposed to find the perfect person if you don't have a little fun?

    I just reckon that you should make sure you're comfortable with things/situations before you do anything, if you aren't than don't. There is no point of putting yourself in the position to feel bad about yourself. Sex is about discovery and you shouldn't feel uncomfortable about it if it's what you want to do.

    I'm 19 now, I've only slept with 2 people, and only recently lost my virginity. I look back and I don't regret it as I know it's what I wanted at the time.

    Sex with someone without there being a relationship isn't a bad thing. Just enjoy it, experiment and learn something new everytime :P

    xXx
    21 girls, and i'm 20. but i went to a party-orientated secondary school, and college was 5times more partying so opportunities arose a lot.



    you can never have too many as long as your nice about it.
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  • How do I start talking to girls?

    Ive neveer eally been bad at getting girlds to talk to me and Ive one out with girls but Im pretty good at the whole middle school who do you like flirting but once I end up going out with the girl I run out of things to say and flirt with because odviuously she I know she likes me. Any suggestions on what to say.How do I start talking to girls?
    As a guy, learning how to talk to girls can be one of the most challenging and rewarding skill he can acquire during his lifetime. Would you agree that being able to carry a proper conversation with a girl would solve a LOT of problems ?



    I know many guys agree that this is one of the most neglected aspects when it comes to dating advice, and yet, it is so critical to succeed!





    One of the biggest issues among men that are struggling with women is that they “Just don’t know what to talk about!”.



    I feel you.



    I’ve had that awkward silence too.



    The moment where something SHOULD of been said, but it was not.

    The moment where you both kind of look at each other and think… “ok this is not good”



    When this happens, women will often think: “We just don’t connect” and it’s at that point that the date goes downhill.



    Actually, that’s probably one of the biggest fear that men have and it’s the reason why a lot of guys won’t even go start a conversation!



    The reason is that most people try to figure out the “ideal topic of conversation” beforehand. As if, if you were to introduce this ideal topic, you would both have a wonderful time talking about it for hours and hours and eventually the woman would fall in love with you, just because you had the right topic of conversation.



    Sound silly?



    That’s because it is.



    Yet people STILL try to find that ideal conversation topic!



    So do yourself a favor, do ME a favor, stop it and just start off with any conversation topic. Usually bad ones will do, and as the conversation progresses, you can steer the conversation to any topics you wish to discuss.







    Alright, because we all like to be spoon fed information, I’ll break it down even more.



    I realize that saying “Any Topic Will Do” will not help most guys because you’re probably still wondering.. “OK, but what do I talk about?” Well start by things that are relevant to you first.



    It’s really hard to be relevant to other people, and people with high value tend to think of themselves anyways, so STARTING with a topic that is relevant in your life is always a great way to start a conversation. At the same time, it will sub-consciously convey values of self-worth and confidence which are both attractive.



    For example, if you’re on your way to go grocery shopping, start with that!



    “Hey, I was just watching the cooking channel and I was inspired to make some *insert funny meal*, so now I’m going to get the secret ingredient at the grocery store”.



    Now it’s likely that she doesn’t really care about you going grocery shopping, but if the story, your thought process, is interesting enough, then it will be entertaining to talk about. When in doubt, talk about your thought process about an activity and it will ALWAYS provide natural conversation.



    People are bored, stories about your life can be as entertaining as watching that last episode of Lost, House or even Desperate House Wives.



    Conversations are like fires, once they are ignited with the right kindling, there’s no stopping them. Trust me when I tell you, you’ll KNOW when to change topic, it will come naturally. Until then, just continue talking about what interests you the most, because if it’s interesting to YOU, you’ll talk about it in an enthusiastic and entertaining manner.



    Now, if you want to learn how to build attraction while you’re talking to girls, then one of the books I strongly recommend you check out is Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. He teaches you exactly to say so she’ll not only have a good time talking to you, but she’ll be deeply attracted to you as well.



    The next time you wonder how to talk to girls, just keep in mind that conversations are like fire, they need to be slowly started with little light pieces before you can move on to the heavy stuff!How do I start talking to girls?
    Im bad at talking to hot boys.. your not the only one
    Just Say ';Hey Did you see the game last night?'; If she says no, then ask her what she did watch. If she did, here is a great conversation starter
    treat her like a mate with respect just chat about what you both like what kinda things you both do
    well this has happened to me before...

    we had to think up the most random conversations that would lead from one thing to the next... even talking about your favorite color
    walk up to her and say hi. i know it may be hard im going through the same thing . but just say hi and that will start your realationship goodluck ?
    well when ur out on a date with a girl you can compliment how pretty her hair is, how good she smells, how nice she looks, i like that. and you can ask her what has she been up to... and also ask her questions, like so whats herr fav. color? whats her fav flavor, food, etc...



    i hope i helped :)

    What girls wish to talk about while talking with boyfriends?

    girls please help i don`t know how to talk with girls. i think i bore them.i repeat ';how to talk with girls';. i think you understand what i want to askWhat girls wish to talk about while talking with boyfriends?
    Just be yourself dude, and don't give them too much attention, just enough to keep them interested. It drives girls nuts and at the root of it all girls want a challenge and a Guy to be a Man and not a whiny little ******. It's all in your approach, be a smart @$$ and don't hesitate to rip on a girl. They like it when you treat them like it's a privilege to be hanging out with you. BUT DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT give off a sense of false confidence, girls see right through it. Watch the movie Swinger's it's a great guide for men trying to figure out what girls really go for in a guy. Good Luck BuddyWhat girls wish to talk about while talking with boyfriends?
    the shoe sale at the mall......
    Well with me i love to laugh , so be funny and flirty at the ame time. Talk about what you like, it uv done exciting things tell them. That makes them more inerested in you becaus ur not boring. BUt dont lie. lol haha



    laterz
    try to relate in some way by asking her questions about herself. girls can talk forever if you getthem started. if you both grew up around the same time, just talk about funny childhood memories, or slightly embarassing stories.... you get the point right?
    Dude, ask her how she is feeling, and sit back as she talks, and think about football, then she will tell you that your great listener!!! what you can do is talk about your day, what going on in school, the click you hang out with, home life, loosen up, and have fun, you'll be fine
    Start with how was your day..then have her tell you basically EVERYTHING...Girls love to know that someone is listening..if she askes you tell her..but not in too much detail...then just ask her if she wants to go out sometime..start it with Just as Friends..then see how it goes!! GOOD LUCK!! HOPE YAH GET HER!
    your stressing honey so simply put her in the spot light. Ask her questions about herself. We love talking about ourselves.



    GO to www.ivillage.com its website for women and you can find all kinds of relationship answer on their.
    tell them you like to give good oral sex and you wanted rock there world
    Talk or ask about her/yours hobby's, books, movies, dreams, what your parents teach you about life. Talk about goals in life, dreams to come to reality.... and look with love in her eyes.
    Girls are not aliens! You talk with them what ever you wish to talk about. Of course, make sure they have enough information to continue the conversation... Don't go talking about football with a girl that does not even know the basic rules! Talk about music, how they spend their free time etc... I do not kow, my boyfriend and I talk about everything: my female problems, his problems, friends in general, our mothers... everything!
    Females enjoy talking about lots of things... from the latest style of clothes, etc... to family, friends, etc.

    Many enjoy talking about %26amp; want to hear guys talking to them about%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; mattters of the heart (love/caring).