im 17 and i find it very hard to talk to girls i get really nervous and sometimes freeze up and forget what i wanted to say to them, i don't know if it's because i'm shy or if it's because i fear what they are going to think about me can someone with expirence give me some advice, maybe some tips on what to talk about or how to approach them and how to be more confident doing it, i really need helpHow do i talk to girls in general ?
1st: be cool and be urself...lying is not option for ur kind of person.
2nd: listen to what they say...then respond accordingly. no need to go out of ur way to find things to talk about really (gets kinda awkward), if the person ur talking to is remotely interested in u (or what ur sayin) then ur conversations will jus sorta flow.
finally: sounds kinda lame but itll come with practise...at 17 you shud be able to approach schoolmates or coworkers and practise on them...
if u got a certain girl in mind, thats diffrent, but if its weird talking to all girls then you gotta think diffrently cus its no diffrent from talkin to ur guyfrends or cusins or even ur mom kinda. anyway its only awkward if u feel it is so keep ur mind outta the gutter and ull be fine sonn.
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