-CHILVARY. #1 for me. Somebody was debating me over whether chilvary is sexist or not, but unless someone shows/tells you they don't like it, keep it up, because most girls love it. You don't have to pull out her chair for her but alwaysalwaysALWAYS hold doors, say 'bless you' (esp. to potential girlfriends, and even more especially if they are constant bless-you'ers themselves) %26amp; if the girl you like is struggling with a ton of books, offer to take some. Also if she drops something, go and get it, %26amp; beat her to it, like a game.
- Make an effort to get near her. We notice, a heck of a lot more than guys do. Stalking is a no-no, obviously, but if you're in the same class as her and can choose seats, inconspicously choose a seat beside her. That way, your group and her group can mingle (if you aren't already in the same group) and the chances of her liking you increase. .. Don't do this every single day though, it may creep her out, especially if you don't talk all that much. If you sparked a friendship, though, keep it up.
- Say hi. Not neccessarily in passing, but if your gazes meet in the hallway while she's standing, talking with friends, and you're just passing by her, say hi. No need to start a conversation. Keep walking. Not a lot of pressure. The situation above is a really good example because then her friends will start talking: ';Who's THAT?'; ';Oh, just some kid from my math class.'; ';You were sitting near him!'; ';Its not like that--'; ... and then her friends will get in on it and she may start to think of you in a different light.
- If you feel bold %26amp; a hot girl screams ';ugh, I need a tutor!!'; after she did badly on a test, say something like ';well, I'm free on Wednesdays.'; A lot of the time when we say that, we want to get a guy's attention. Not all the time. But a lot.
- Pay attention to how you look. Its not like you need to look like an Abercrombie model but if you have huge stains or dirt smeared on your clothes its usually not that hot. Only exception is your hair, don't put too much product in it, that looks retarded. The whole bedhead thing is sexy. But please brush it once in a while.
- If you like a girl, come up with a creative way to tell her. A lot of girls don't ask guys out (exception is for shy guys). Even if we don't like you that way, we'll probaby appreciate your courage and if you're a good friend, try to hook you up with another of our friends
- Be a creep %26amp; scope out some potential girlfriends' MySpaces or Facebooks. What her and her friends like to do, go, read, watch, etc. Then you can leave your iPod out while its playing her favorite song, or start talking to your friend (guy) about how you can't wait to see the new movie coming out this weekend which stars her favorite actor. Common ground, more to talk about, and might land you a date to the movies or a concert if you play your cards right.
- Last and one of the most important- rent a few chick flicks (you don't have to tell your friends) or steal your sister's DVDs %26amp; watch what the male leads do to make the girls fall in love with them. High School Musical, the Notebook, now the whole Twilight thing. Girls LOVE them. Steal a few borderline corny lines. Pickup lines are cute, but sleezy ones make us want to push you off a cliff.
In response to someone above.. you don't want to be complimenting and touching every. single. girl. We'll think you're a player and will be unsure if you'll be faithful %26amp; if you can hold a relationship. %26amp; if you did land girls, they'd either be jealous or desperate. %26amp; the whole eye contact thing? only a few seconds tops with most girls, it usually either creeps us out or totally shakes us up (sometimes in a good way, I hate to be superficial but it depends if you're hot or not) but save it for a potential girlfriend.
Hope I helped. Feel free to share these with your guy friends, we need more guys like this in the world.How do you make girls more attracted to you?
Make eye contact.
Listen closely to any little little thing they have to say and interject with comprehension.
KEEP eye contact. (key)
Smile. If you have dimples, WORK those bitc*s
Make light physical contact- lightly touch the forearm, hand, shoulder. Not the knee, not the boobies, you know. act like a lip lickin' eye wanderin' girlfriend.
Compliment them. I know it's a cheap shot, but it's like a female's kryptonite. Boy, you don't need to know the difference between a Converse high top and a pair of Manolos. Just say, ';nice shoes.'; and move on. Do not elaborate or she'll think yer gay. Pretty eyes, nice hair, I love the way you walk, talk, laugh, pick your nose, it doesn't matter. Compliments are like catnip. Ooooh I'm gonna Pis* some ******s off with this one. I don't care. Women like to think men are simple and predictable. Well guess what, if the Manolo fits, wear it.
well, you can try to have a good personality first of all, then try to be a little more attractive and when girls get interested in you, play the game. it will change your life.
i luv guys that r funny.... NEVER B RUDE!!!
funny and nice .... laugh alot!!!!!
if ur happy then people around u will be happy!!!
u give happy energy...
and if other people are happy while they r around u...
they will like u becuz u make them happy!!
Those guys are disgusting and think they know everything 93% of the time. I wouldn't worry about. Just be yourself. I would rather have a funny guy than an athlete.
uh... personality... sports... be outgoing...?
YOU SHOULD SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOU. IF YOU HAVE MYSPACE, FIND ME.
LEIHA ARTMAN
I WILL GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE :)
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