Sunday, December 11, 2011

Why guys don't talk to girls like me?



';I'm always told how pretty, nice, caring, and smart I am, and I'm just curious why guys never even come up and talk to me. It kinda puzzles me why guys never talk to girls like me. Do we walk around with neon signs that say, 'Look but don't talk'? Why guys don't talk to girls like me?
as a man we are intimidated by beautiful women its also a respect thing thinking that you may be with someone and there in the ego of the man kicks in in that we don't like being shot downWhy guys don't talk to girls like me?
Maybe they're intimidated by you?
and what kind of girl are you?



if you are pretty, nice and smart as you say. ill be glad to know you, but dont know whats your age :S. hahaha



so, look, one guy talking to you. lol.
I get that too i'm nice pretty smart talented and all that too i think its because we intimmidate them but that dosent ean anything O well there s always someone out there thats right for you
If your super duper supermodel material then most blokes would think that they stand no chance.
It might be that you give off negative non verbal signals. For example do you cross your arms when walking or talking to people? When talking are you subconsciously pulling away? Try to imagine what signals the other person is getting from you non verbally, it might help you understand what is going on.
maybe there shy or they just think that you wouldnt want to talk to them

you start the converstion
hehehe. yeah maybe your too damn pretty, i would say so. Maybe being open and gain some relaxing thoughts and feels might ease up all the tensions around you?.. well thats my advice, coz i believe positive and negative energy can pass to one person to another..



I got same issue i think kind of opposite to that. please answer mine too. :) http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
who are the people who tell you that? Friends and family can lie to you to give you confidence. Maybe their lying and your not all that good looking?
Perhaps stemming from insecurities of men. Most men are either insecure or egotistical, hard to find that middle ground. Maybe a different approach? Guys would love to talk to you, then again guys are afraid to talk to you for that insecure issue. But maybe if you played a part of interest, guys will open up more. So since guys like to talk about themselves, listen in on what they are talking about. If you have a common interest, they will be far more open, actually excited. Topics could range actually too. Vin Diesel had good aesthetics, the odd thing was that he liked Dungeons and Dragons. a persons hobbies doesn't tell how they actually are by the way. especially when it comes to looks. If you saw me, you would never guess by appearance that I don't like sports. So perception is not always reality. Or on the other hand depending on what you are wearing, perhaps standards are an issue. don't wear anything too revealing. Just wear enough to catch someone's attention and have them curious for more. In the end, both will be quite pleasant with actions taken. Good Luck!

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