Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?

There is a girl in a nearby office that I usually flirt with - however, she does have a boyfriend. Sometimes our conversations will involve him (why is a girl talking about him with me?) and she is often complaining about how he's not motivated or interested in life.



I want to buy flowers for her, but I don't want to come off as being intrusive - can you help?Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
That's an invitation to an @ss kicking.



Keep your conversations light and fun. If she complains about her boyfriend, the best thing to do is say ';Sorry, you need to save that stuff for your girlfriends or a therapist.'; Then change the subject. Do NOT let her talk about her boyfriend to you. If she dumps him, she will want to be with a fun guy who makes her laugh and stays positive.Girls help! How do you buy flowers for a girl that has a boyfriend?
If she's flirting with you and saying those kinds of things about her boyfriend, she might want to move on. It's a good idea to wait until she's completely moved on to get anything like flowers for her, that's for sure.



But if you really just have to get flowers for her, avoid roses and don't get anything overly red or pink. And get something small, like a tiny bouquet of daisies, irises, or lilies. As long as the flowers read as something you'd get for a friend, you should be okay.
Don't do it.



Although she may complain about her boyfriend, obviously he isn't bad enough for her to actually leave him %26amp; she isn't into you enough to leave him. Friendly flirting is one thing, sending her flowers is another thing. I have a strong feeling that she only thinks of you as either a friend or an ego boost- not someone she wants to really go out with.



Besides... even if she *is* interested in you, do you REALLY want to go out with a girl who is so willing to go around behind her boyfriend's back %26amp; seriously flirt with other guys whenever your relationship is in trouble? What makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you?
Don't do it, she may come to you to talk to him but probably because she thinks your her friend, flowers are very suggestive, instead get a her a valentines day card that's coming up but make sure to get others one, and just write something sweet in it..Or you can be ballsy get her flowers and see what happens, though you risk making things awkward at work which is never good.



Ps: flirting at work is common even for people with significant others, it isn't an invitation to sweep her off her feet someone else already has. Your best bet is to continue to be there for her and if one day they do break up she's going to remember who was there for her during the tough times and you'lll get yours.
Well if you want her that bad, buy her the damn flowers, if she takes you up on it, beware because she doesn't seem like she would be the most committed girl you could be dating. I have a feeling she probably thinks your constant flirting is normal for homosexual males to do with their ';fag tags'; (no offense). Let her know your into chicks, by her a pair of fuzzy handcuffs instead of flowers, it can only help you out.
Sorry but.. are you stupid? The fact that she's talking to you about her boyfriend proves that she just sees you as a friend! Girls moan about their boyfriends to their friends all the time, it doesn't mean they don't love them. You do not buy flowers for a girl with a boyfriend, ever! Even if she does like you, which I doubt, she'd be creeped out I'm sure. And her boyfriend would be furious.

She's probably just seeing if she's still attractive and is just using you! If she wanted to be with you and not her boyfriend, she would!
I would have to pretty much agree with everyone. Dont buy flowers for her if anything maybe a card. If he is really worth leaving she would have already done so. People just like to complain if the guy was that bad the problem would hav been fixed by now so dont get to involved and just might need someone to talk to about not that she is interested in you. Sorry buddy!
send the flowers to her as a secret admirer...write an inviting note...if she is interested, she may not tell her bf..thats good for u...she may tell u about the flowers...just check out her reaction...if she really is into her man..she will not care to much for the gesture..but if the idea of a secret admirer interests her..keep it up for awhile...just see what happens...
the flowers come later man, keep talking to her buy her lunch on your guys break, then bring up activities to do with her, you did say she said hes not intrested in life, so ther you go. girls love a dude thats outgoing
Yeah dude, you don't buy flowers to get a girl. You buy flowers to keep one. Land a date first, then bring the flowers.
I`m not too sure...just say they were to brighten her day(as long as its the truth anyways...dont wanna bother lying). Don`t be too persistant about them either, no *hey..remember those flowers I got you last week* or anything. just be casual about it :)
Are you kidding me, you sound pathetic, listen to everyone, and DON'T.
DO NOT buy a taken women flowers, especially if her BF is stronger than you
buy her a huge vase full of different types of flowers and send it to her desk and sign it from a secret admirer
Send them anonymously? Or just do it. (Don't if her boyfriend is possessive though!)
I would dude you are soooo in the '; friend zone'; with her don't waste your money
Don't!
You're a stalker!
don't
do not buy her flowers.. she has a boyfriend..
More to the point...Why wud u buy flowers 4a girl that has a boyfriend...