Friday, November 19, 2010

How can a really shy girl talk a hot guy?

So I'm having a little trouble with talking to this senior in high school (I'm a sophomore btw). I was wondering on how can I start talking to him. My friends told me that I confront him, but I'm too shy to do so. Any suggestions? I've been told to bump into him in the hallway, ask his friends, or just go straight up to him and tell him. I want to at least talk to him since he's going away to college.How can a really shy girl talk a hot guy?
This is relatively simple but will only work if he is attracted to you.



First you have to remember to smile whenever he looks in your direction. If he makes eye contact try and maintain eye contact and smile back. Men are reluctant to approach women who are not smiling.



If he makes eye contact with you and you smile back without averting your eyes or blushing the next step is to wave at him. He will wonder why you waved at him and he may approach you to ask why.



If he doesn't approach you to ask why he will either assume you like him and think about talking to you another time or ignore you because he's not interested. Don't assume he's not interested just because he didn't respond immediately.



You can try this again and not feel silly because the worst that can happen is he will think ';she's that girl that waves at me sometimes... football, schools boring, video games, ect. In other words if he is seriously just not interested he won't think about it much and focus on more interesting things.



If this doesn't work you can ask for his help doing something. Just look for something to do that seems difficult for a person to do by themselves and ask him to help you. This requires a little imagination but smart women often do this.



while he's helping, you can start a friendly conversation. When he is finished helping, you have to thank him with a complement. Something like ';I thought a strong guy like you could help me with this or I just knew you would be smart enough to help me.'; He will probably be shocked when you say this because not many men are used to receiving complements without expecting them but he will like it and it will make him start thinking about getting to know you.



If things go really well and you think he is enjoying talking to you, touch his arm in a friendly way and he will know that you like him and he will think about asking you out.



You don't need to corner a guy and start talking to him like your friends suggest unless you feel comfortable doing this. Asking his friends isn't usually a good idea unless you already know them.



Don't be afraid of doing little things to get his attention. Confident girls often just begin talking to the guy to get his attention but this doesn't always work because some guys feel intimidated when a girl comes on too strong. Shy girls can be very successful getting guys attention by being persistent and doing a lot of little things that keep reminding him to take notice.How can a really shy girl talk a hot guy?
Wait until you bump into him (not literally) and break the ice about something going on at your school or in your area (game, concert, etc), keep it casual and go from there. If you do it away from school you can pretend you don't know who he is but, tell him that he looks familiar and ask if you know him (ask if he goes to another school in your area) from somewhere. He'll respond that he goes to your school and your in to introduce yourself, then when you see him at school, your good to go.
Be yourself. Not, the person who you think you are, but the person you actually are.

Hint: The person you actually are, is the person that is around friends and family.

Relax, and act like he is your friend or brother. You just got to step up there. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!







';I would rather regret the things that I have done than the things that I have not';

-Actual quote by someone, sorry I forgot the name but all credit to him/her :D
find something maybe a class or a sport or a extra curricular activity that you have in common for example you and him both are swimmers go up and ask him about what squad he swims with

make sure u introduce your self after that get friendlier with him and ask him out



good luck

:)
Just tell him.At worst you get a not interested.I think us guys do a better job then woman do at sayen no so wont be that bad.Now If hes going to say yes only way to find out is to ask him before he goes to college and yoo are left with what IF.
Try to get his attention; like bump into him, or talk really loud with your friends by him, and if he looks smile, and maybe say hi, or you could just swallow your nerves and go talk to him
Depends how hot you are. If he's an 8 and you are a 5, it's probably not going to work out. I think you are way too shallow.
If its easy to talk to his friends, I would go about it that way. Talk to them and just get closer to him.
he won't be interested.
Call me :)
Honestly, guys like it if you just walk up and flat out tell them.
dont waist your time really..

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