How do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?

How do I flirt with girls, I cant do this and I have loads of friends who are girls but dont have a gf. I have asked some of my friends out and they were like no we dont like you that way. I really dont know how to flirt with people plus I am shy and its really hard for me to ask anyone anyway because I get really shaky and white and look like I am going to drop dead or somethingHow do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?
hymm,..well im a girl and i have the same prob with guys.. just joke around with them, seriously girls LOVE class clown types, and you kinda sound like one. just be you!!! and poke them and stuff,,,and give lots of compliments, not too many or else they will run away lol. i think you sound nice....How do I talk to girls, I have loads of friends but cant get a gf?
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I know what you mean about being shy. But most girls find guys being a little shy cute. Basically be yourself when you talk to girls, and maybe the problem is since you have a lot of friends that are girls you are like one of the girls sounds weird I know but it happens. I bet at least one of them likes you. And calm down, just breathe and act normal, just have a normal conversation and if s he brings up something like ';oh I hate my hair it looks bad today'; just compliment her. You'll get the hang of it.
don't go out with your friends that are close...go out with someone that you don't know and get to know them...it's funn to know about another person...
if u want a gurl to notice to u don't play the brother role play the qt role and maybe she'll notice ur not treating her like u usually do and guess what!!!!!!!!! she'll notice u
The best way is to compliment a girl. Think of something you really like about one of your female friends and try and say it to her without sounding as if you are going to pounce any second. Just make it natural. You should practise on your girl-pals for a bit and see how they react. When you see a girlie you fancy, remember to shy-glance and smile and the look away. Do it a couple of times until she giggles. Then you know its just a matter of time. Mostly you are just afraid of rejection but if you think as every rejection as getting nearer and nearer to a 'yes', it doesn't seem so bad.
Let your male instincts kick into gear,be yourself.
Well you started off saying you have loads of female friends, so start there, one of them MUST know someone who will date, you, go on go for it,

Plus try taking some self help books out of the library, help build your confidence a bit,

More importantly love who you are! You are a unique person, with your own little quirkiness, Accept it and for sure others will too....
Knowing how to flirt is THE KEY to getting the girl of your dreams. Ever wondered how ugly guys can be seen dating drop dead gorgeous women, well the first step is flirting. With girls being flirtatious is actually not a natural instinct for most men. The natural instinct is for a fear reaction to kick in when you see a girl you fancy.



This is natural, after all if you can't have her you'll feel down. If she blows you off when you approach her then you're destroyed (often in front of all you friends). The fear reaction unfortunately is most men's undoing. They either don't even approach the beautiful woman, or if they do they're so nervous that no-one inthey're right mind would want to date them, or they put in a machismo attitude to cover up - which is also a massive turn off.



So, what to do?



Flirting with girls - Tip 1

Body language is so important whenever you're flirting. Research has shown that maintaining eye contact for about 70% of the time and alternating to looking at her mouth and the surroundings the other 30% of the time gives the most positive messages directly to her subconcious. Do not stare at her continuously!



Flirting with girls - Tip 2



Smile - A LOT



Whenever a man approaches a girl she will be apprehensive. Smiling does a lot to disarm her and make her feel safe. It will also help her feel relaxed. Everyone smiles more readily when the person they're chatting to smiles as well.



She will laugh more easily if you're smiling. Women wil much more readily keep talking to (and agree to see again) someone who makes them laugh.



Flirting with girls - Tip 3

Very gently - Tease her



This can be a tricky area - but certainly a worthwhile one! Don't tease her about ANYTHING right away. You have to set a grounding where it is clear that you like her, and respect her. Once you're sure that this is the case then you could purposefully mis-interpret something she said; give 'ham-acting' looks of shock; etc.



You must follow this up with being very reassuring, smiling a lot, and gently shaking your head. Also you may quickly take a half-step backwards then forwards towards her. All these actions tell her sub-concious that you were only kidding.



This technique speaks directly to her sub-concious. After the brief 'downer' of your teasing she gets a big 'up' when it rapidly becomes clear you were not serious.



Flirting with girls - Tip 4

After you've teased her. Immediately start to ask her about herself in a sincere way. After all you do want ot get to know her. She will find this change of tack reassuring, and it will help to cement a bond between you.
heyy if u have girl troubles i am one... any way i luvv it when a boy comes up to me and starts to talk! i am really shy and i works all the time when a boy does that... i think its really cute!!! if you have a girl you like go up to her and ask her to sit by you at lunch... try anything that might apeal to her! like things you like...etc.

write back and tell me how it went!!

~the_helper12321
Just be yourself, try to relax!!! Try breathing when talking to them,. If you really have allot of friends that are girls at least one of them likes you just take your time . Don't forget to groom, Shower clean clothes not wrinkled , comb hair . Continue being nice and soon enough things will fall into the right place for you. Girls get nervous too...
Carl you sound like a nice guy and believe it or not thats part of your problem. Another reason why you're only friends with these girls and only friend is because thats what you are to them. If you want to become someones boyfriend you have to think and act like a boyfriend. I've helped lots of guys just like you get to this level and I did it all through yahoo messenger. Its discreet and it works. Add me if you'd like, David_Sexton_PhD.





David Sexton., Relationship Advisor/Author