Talk to them about things your both interested in school, sports, hobbies etc.Talk to a girl just like you would be talking to a friend. Don't have to do anything with your hands and legs. Best relationships start off as friendships. Though I know that's not what you want to hear so just go up to her say hi and ask what her name etc.Then ask her for her number and ask her out. Judging completely on what you look like she might say yes.For 20 Points, Who Can Tell Me How To Talk To Girls??
Just Be Yourself ! So the girl really Loves/Likes YOU FOR YOU
All i can say is to be confident with yourself and don't talk like your a big thug or what ever!
Don't. You will get hurt when you are rejected
this will help you =] :
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hope it helps!
JUST BE YOURSELF,RELAX ENJOY YOURSELF AND YOU WILL FIND MOST GIRLS READILY RESPOND,AS FOR YOUR ARMS AND LEGS LEAVE EM WHERE THEY ARE HONESTLY THEIR SAFE.
If u want to meet them.... Like at the beach just smile and say ';hey'; if they stop there you go then u talk to them it works for me.
be casual!!!!!
the biggest mistake guys make is not doing anything at all!!!!!
Do whatever u want wit ur hands. Then start out saying,'; hey whats up?'; or'; hi how r u?'; then go on wit the conversation and if u wanna ask her out then u say, ';Are u doin anything on saturday or sometin and then if she says yes hoorray!!! and if she says no then Im sorry?!
Don't lie like you just did, you can't give out 20 pts only 10...Just be you and say whatever comes to mind...
Be confident and playful. Have a good sense of humor.
For hands use them while you talk or keep them at your sides, but don't nervously move them around.
simple. open you mouth and produce sound. form the sound into words with your tounge, move your lips. looking into her eyes never hurts. keep your hands out of your nose, away from your butt and if she holds your hand. do a little victory dance cuz your going in the right direction.
legs outta your nose too
just be calm and not worry about it. if u get nervous u'll end up doing something emabarrasing like knocking over a binder or tripping or something! hope this helps!
xoxo,
Nikki
Well, you should obviosly be relaxed. If you mean just talking as a friendly conversation then I would suggest keeping a short distance as to not insinuate that you're interested. Try not to fiddle or move around as to not give off the impression that you're nervous. Also try to chew gum or a mint. Kicking up a notch, I would suggest that you make some sort of physical contact. Maybe you and her would be sitting close to eachother, let your legs touch a little but no futsy! You might scare her off. LOL. Good luck.
Aw.
Do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable. If you aren't comfortable, she'll notice. Then you'll notice that she's noticing and you'll feel even less comfortable.
Once you're comfortable in your own skin, you won't be thinking about where to put your hands or how to stand and it will happen naturally. And there's nothing hotter than healthy confidence.
Talk about things that you talk to your friends about.
If she's not into those things, then she probably won't be into what you're into and it simply isn't meant to be.
I'm sure it all sounds so cliche, but people keep saying the same thing for a reason.
Just get over your insecurities. I'm sure it's all in your head.
I know that when I'm talking to someone, I'm hardly worried about where they're putting their hands and how they're standing. I doubt most people are thinking the same thing about you...
Good luck.
Just be yourself!! Girls hate when guys act like they are so tough.With your arms and legs just put them comfortably. Just relax. O and dont act all like you think u are all that just BE YOURSELF. :)
You first go up to the girl, and make a casual comment. Stand straight with ur legs a little apart and ur arms just hanging. Smile while you talk. Tell her you thought the math test was hard, etc... then ask her about the classes you all are in together, what she does after school? Put a joke in there, or maybe comment on her hair/etc....make her feel special. keep eye contact. smile.
OK well let me think,
Um when i talk to guys they are usually flirting or just talking. They usually talk to me like they would talk to there guy friends.
well i don't know what you should do with your hands. you could just keep them to your side or you could but one of your thumbs in each pocket. and your legs um if you sitting just keep them flat on the ground or something. if your standing hopefully they wont fall. and when i talk to guys we usually talk about singers people at school who bug us. awesome TV shows or movies. um sometimes it can be perverted lol. um just be yourself. i like guys who are friendly and sweet. give her nice complements. I know i like it when i guy tells me i have really pretty hair or eyes. when she talks to you don't trail off pay attention to what she is saying because if she asks you a question you are going to know what shes talking about. any old conversation is fine...you could talk about animals, foods, people, life, school, work, music anything. I love talking to guys and im sure almost every guy is.
well i hope i really helped you. and believe me i know how its hard for some guys/girls to talk to the opposite gender. I hope everything goes well!
Good Luck!
O and read this i got it off a site
How successful a man is with women largely depends on how well he gets his message through to them.
That's right ... How to Talk To Girls
Some would argue that looks carry the most weight but I beg to differ. I am not denying that looks won't get you anywhere but the fact is that looks can get you somewhere but cannot keep you there! The analogy is akin to looks will take you through the main gate but the front door can still slam on your face !
Ever wondered what a luscious looking babe is doing hanging out with a guy who looks like he is in need of a reconstructive surgery? To add salt to the wound, she is hanging on to his every word, giving him her undivided attention like he is delivering a prophecy! And she's got this adoring look in her eyes, gazing at him in admiration and laughing at his every joke.
The worst joke here is on you, the average looking guy who stands across the street gazing at the babe longingly and wondering why God? Why him and NOT ME??? This is just so unfair… What is a pig like him doing with a heaven sent girl? Then you are wondering if she is blind or perhaps he's filthy rich (this part is for self consolation!).
Well, you could be right but what are the odds that every dumb looking guy you meet who has a hot date is filthy rich? Has it ever crossed your mind that there could be something more to these guys that draws in the women other than well, perhaps his bank account !
Take a closer look; watch how this guy interacts with the woman. Take the cue from there. Guys like 'him' have usually perfected the art of communication or rather the art of talking to girls. They don't clam up and freeze at the sight of a girl and most of all, their brains don't slam on the emergency brakes when a girl smile in their direction or start a conversation !
But that is soooooooooo…. difficult, you'd whine! I can't help it if my brain wants to hit the brakes! Well, the choice is yours, either you can carry on wallowing in self pity and hope that one fine day, you'll wake up with girls flocking all over you (fat chance!) or you can take some initiative and improve your communication skills.
be confident %26amp; be urself, don't plan things too much
talk to them the way u talk to boys
mostly everything cutieee107 said, and heres some more
ok to talk to a girl, u need a game plan, now what to say before u say it, but be prepared for wat ever she might say, avoid lying, it comes back to haunt you, start off with a question, be funny but not a comedian, and most off all dont let her see u being unconfident, ur hands are a big give away also, no jittering, keep your hands in your pocket or let em hang, regular stuff, be comfortable around her, just remember be funny not hilarious, confident not cocky, and say what they want to hear or just what you think ( most shallow girls just want to hear about themselves), also say there beautiful or pretty,not sexy. last but not least have a decent appearance, you dont have to b prince charming to get a princess, just have clean clothes, fresh shoes, and well groomed, girls are the greatest detective, they pay attention to all details. so follow these and u should be good, no need for the 20 points, just trying to help out the fellow man, good luck!!!!
PS. most chicks say be your self dont worry and $h!t like that, thats BS most girls want a certain type of guy, and once u do something to turn them off, u got to do 2 more things to get them to like you, i know i went threw it in my beginning staes of dating
With your vocal cords.
uhh, you just talk like you would any other person. It's not that hard, you open your mouth, and talk!
Don't fidget! Try to make eye contact, but not too intense. Ask them about movies they might have seen or music they listen to. Mutual friends. Try to think of common ground. Don't talk too much about your interests that they do not have and don't pretend to like something just because they do.
Nicely...
You talk to her nicely, and the hands and legs will take care of themselves.
You talk to her nicely, and she won't even be looking at your hands and legs.
Talk to her nicely ... smile nicely ... and look nice in your dress and presentation; and you be nice to her, and she will just love you
You can't give out 20 points! Can you?
Don't say what they want to hear...say what you want to say.
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