Friday, November 19, 2010

What are sme interesting things to talk about with shy girls to get them out of their shell!?

Things that will make her more hyped up and give an effort to building a good convo.



I notice its not the fact that she doenst like me nor anythin, she is shy with every1 else, she comes up with somethin, sure! but then goes quiet after...



So how can u get this girl outta her shell and be annoying like girls who talk like krazie? lol



Thank you.What are sme interesting things to talk about with shy girls to get them out of their shell!?
Pretty much, you have to do what the first poster said and find out what is the one thing or many things that she is interested in.



People in general like to talk about things they are interested in. For example, if you were to ask me something about how to collect cards, I would tell you all about that and probably talk about it for a very long time. But on the other hand, if you were to ask me about fixing up cars, I wouldn't know too much about that and wouldn't say too much about it.



Now how do you find out what stuff is she is interested in? Well, you can try to ask her if she has any plans for the weekend or what she doing over the weekend? Or, you could try to tell her about one of your hobbies and maybe she will tell you one of hers afterwards. So, do either of the two things or both maybe if she is really shy and just find out what she likes.



If she still doesn't get it, you can just ask her straight up, ';what do you like to do for fun?'; lolWhat are sme interesting things to talk about with shy girls to get them out of their shell!?
Does it help to ask her about something she's interested in, something she's good at? If so, go with it. If not, try the ';common enemy'; ploy: ';Are your parents a little out of touch? Mine are pretty good parents, but you wouldn't believe what my dad said the other night ...'; You don't want to alienate her (or your parents, God forbid!), but a little inter-generational humor can go a long way (especially if your dad would laugh at the mismatch, too. My daughter was good at this in high school).

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