Why do girls talk about other guys when they are on a date?

Situation one, I went on a date with Girl #1 and half the time she talked about her previous boyfriends. She talked about each ones flaws, and how her one serious boyfriend did her really wrong. She also kind of talked about how she got some of her boyfriends to do things/buy things for her.



Situation two, I went on a doubledate with Girl #2 and she told her friend that she was ';talking to some other dude.'; I've known her for a long time. And while I'm interested in her, sometimes she shows interest and sometimes she just doesnt at all. It really seems like she shows interest if more of her friends are around. Or if she is at a party and doesnt know too many people.



Someone please dissect these frustrating situations and tell me what theyre about!Why do girls talk about other guys when they are on a date?
Girl#1 seems to be trying to kill 2 birds with one stone. She gets to vent about past experiences, and at the same time tell you all the things she doesn't want you to do. God help you if you defend any one of the guys she is talking about. :)

Girl#2 sounds like she is very phoney, probably very young. She may or may not be interested in you. She's far more interested in herself and her image. The fact that she shows more interest in you when her friends are around probably means you're cool or cute... and it's all about making an impression.Why do girls talk about other guys when they are on a date?
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girls will talk about A n y th h i ng
Situation one-she is giving you the heads up on what to do and not to do but she is wrong because not all guys are alike.

Situation two-she is just using you when convenient and you deserve better so give her the boot and find someone who wants to be with you regardless of who is around.
because they are stupid. and they are ignorant of the guy who is taking them out to be w/her and how she makes him feel when she vomits stories about other men. don't go out w/girls like that. it's obnoxious, careless, and thoughtless.
girls will talk about anything on a date...but i think that girl #1 was sending u a message as what not to do if u guys get serious...she couldve been tryin to get sympathy too.
girls just like running their mouth. you'd be surprised at how many women i've talked to once over the phone and could tell you damn near their life biography.
anyone would react like you in your situation, even her... you make her feel that she has %100 a hold of you, so she has nothing to worry about.. you need to step up to the plate.. and do like she does , go out with your friend ignore her alittle bit.. talk about your past experience with other girls.. never disrespect her or be mean... always be nice... but keep on ignoring her anyway...
If you know the slightest thing about dating you know the rule of thumb that you never talk about your ex no matter who they because that will cause the other person to dislikeyou even more. If the girl wants to date you she needs to date you without her friends around , they are just adding fuel to the fire, obviously they have not been dating long. Her friends should have told her not to be talking about her ex's if they knew any better. Tell her if you want to continue dating her that you would appreciate it if she would stop bring up the ex's as you are no them and don't care what happened in her past you care about the present and possibly the future if there is going to be on with her. She needs to know what you like and dislike. If it turns out she does not want to continue or you don't want to continue then both parties will have to accept what won't be and move on.
They were both being rude. Dump them and find yourself a nice girl who isn't so self-centered.