Any guidelines on how to talk to girls ?

Im a shy boy and was wondering how to talk with girls .. i mean wat must be the tone ? the topic ? talking with eye contact ? and other details . help me out ..





thanks for reading and answering ..Any guidelines on how to talk to girls ?
aww shy boys are cute =]



eye contact is important. i hate it when guys look down at their feet while talking.



if you're not that close with the girl then humor is always best. be jokey and flirty. smile a lot! create funny inside jokes with the girl. i personally like hugs lol.



don't be too clingy. that's annoying. if you get her number or add her as a friend on facebook then don't IM her all the time or text her all the time. it takes the fun out of it. start it maybe once or twice then wait for her.



hope this helped =]Any guidelines on how to talk to girls ?
just remember, your a guy, so your better then them. keep that in mind and the conversation will flow naturally
Just go up to her and smack her butt and tell her who's BOSS!
alright, this is a good way of helping you out with this problem.



1. don't shrug to much girls hate someone who can't sit still for a long period of time.



2. when your talking to them try to start up a conversation by asking them small questions about things they like and see where things go from that little question asking.



3. always pay attention to what she's got to say even if you just pretend just make it seem like you actually care for what she's got to say.



4. most importantly don't look at their boobs make as much eye contact as possible.
feed them a lot of bullsh*t, girls just like to talk for no reason at all. just ask questions and talk about what they like, because we all know they don't really give a crap what you have to say.
ok im a girl and if there's any advice i give to shy guys is to take risks and i know that's hard sometimes but just give it a shot you don't want to spend your life being shy trust me it will get you now were so as for talking to girls well put yourself out there get to know people and if your to shy to ask them out get a wing man and if that works and Your scared about the date double or go out with a group
ok well dont be shy ok im a shy girl to sooo what u have to odis just be like hey whats up and make sure u make eye contact other whys it seems like u dont care.... ok then just talk baout skool or something along those lines
Just tell yourself that your going to skrew it up if your shy and that should whip you back in line if ya really like the guy. You gotta force yourself or else the person will leave you for the rest of your life and they will never know who you could've been to them. so start a conversation with them. I usually start off by just asking the time or maybe if there are any events going on, introduce myself, thank the person and leave. It leaves an impression/ spark of interest in the mind of the person i had just walked up to and they become curious. When they become curious the have more incentive to walk up to me and start a conversation, because they want to know more about me. When your first talking with somebody, always leave when they are interested. You never want the interest to pass or else they wont approach you and it will be alkward for you to approach them. So suppose there is an event going on, i walk up to this girl i like and say, Hey susan! What's going on? have you heard about this event? she'd probably respond something like, Oh hey! Yeah it's supposed to be pretty cool! i hear they are bringing in a band! and then you go on from there. Never end a topic either. Always transition from one topic into the next. So say susan says, What do you think about this event? I'd probably respond, Oh yeah this is great! if only we'd have events like these everyday! I'm so into this type of music. What about you,? what do you like? Questions are always good as it shows you want toget to know more about the person but too many questions can be bad. Also, when listening be sure to react to what they say. It shows that you are paying attension. So if susans blabbing about her trip to walt disney world and how she went on the scariest ride, i'd have to nod my head and say things like, oh yeah and wow that must have been great!
Easy question. Finally! : ) Girls love funny, smart guys. Ask them how they are doing. They need to feel cared about. Eye contact? Yes. Try to talk to them like they are a person, not a girl. I've had a guy talk to me like I was a girlie girl, and I thought he was gay. LOL. We ended up dating for awhile. I am a straight A student, so a straight C student for me is a turn off. I am competitive, so if a guy competes against me, I will most likely NOT date him, or even like him. Also, Just get to know her.
make sure ur not a jerk, because girls hate guys that are mean, but at the same time have lots of confidence in what you say.

even if ur not really confident, pretending you are actually helps.

ask the girls questions about her day, and her life (but nothing too personal), even if u dont really care about her answer, still look interested, give her ur opinion, but remember to agree with hers too.

thru my experiences, ive noticed boys suck at eye contact, so if u can maintain eye contact, that would be great, just dont stare.

and, remember to still be yourself, because that is who u want her to like.