Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How can i learn to talk to girls in school?

Im really shy in school and i dont really talk to anyone that isnt my friend(which is wierd beacause i was very very outgoing back in elementary school) but the truth is i dont really care to make to many guy friends just beacause i dont need to feel popular to be happy. However i really REALLY want to make girl friends, i dont know how to talk to them, how to approach them, or what to talk to them about. Im sure everyone knows me as the shy guy that dosnt really talk to anyone. But i am starting to get depressed seeing these beautiful girls talking and flirting with guys in school and i wonder why i cant be one of those guys. Im not shallow i just think most girls are beautiful and i want to be friends with most of them.



Please help me, im starting to be extremely depressed whenever i see girls i could talk to if i knew how.



Im sorry if this sounds pathetic ill admit it really is. Thank youHow can i learn to talk to girls in school?
just go up to them and talk about anything.

i've been dateing this guy for about 8 month's now and the first thing i ever said to him was ';i like penguins,do you?'; lol.

but i guess im just random.

but the important part is acually haveing enought guts to go talk to them.

girl's like a confident guy.How can i learn to talk to girls in school?
make conversation.

not with one girl but lots!

it sounds like were about the same age...

so just talk to them. start off with small talk then later just start elaborating.

random things...ya know. how was your day, hows life. stuff like that.

if you did that to me i would probably talk to you.
start talking to a girl who is shy like you. just talk to her in class about the stuff your learning about, then try to find something you have in common, whether its a book you both like or music.
honestly just compliment her...like 'i like that shirt' and kinda turn it pervy bc thats what all the guys do and it ends up a big flirty convo...MAKE HER LAUGH i hate talkin to guys when theyre not funny and im like whats the point

gl
Well coming from a girl, girls just like it when you act like yourself and when your funny. Like just go up to a girl and be like hi.....im (your name) and be yourself. Don';t be nervous. Say something funny and i am sure you will get their attention.
its not pathetic in fact im going through the same exact thing right now and its not fun i know what im trying to do is just be myself towards them and hope to make some friends out of it doing this has got me one girlfriend so far but just go fo it you should be fine
You can start with the quiet, shy girls or your friends sisters. Practice talking about things that interest girls. Do you watch any TV shows that they would like? Are you familiar with what girls like? Look at their backpacks or notebooks and see if they have any patches or stickers on them. Do you belong to a club? Check out the dance club or your class club and help raise money for Prom, etc. A lot of girls join these clubs. Find some girls you knew from elementary school and practice saying hi and what's up as you pass them in the hall. The only way to make head way is to practice, so good luck and just keep trying.

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