Girls: where did it go wrong?

this girl and i dated for a year, and she was head under heels, panties on the ankles totally into me. then she moved to texas with her mom, and she stopped talking so i broke it up. she cried and cried. and now she doesn't wanna talk to me at all. a year after we broke it up she added me to MS and commented saying she owned my d***, which i know she loves! and now its back to no talking. Girls: how can you just get over a guy that fast?? what sort of twisted things are going through your mind when the boy you spent writing in your diary every night before bedtime then suddenly you stop talking to them...Girls: where did it go wrong?
.How do you know she ';got over you that fast';? Are you psychic? If so, then why are you posting here asking us? The truth is you DO NOT KNOW what was going on in her mind or her heart. What's also true for many, is that getting over someone tends to be easier when all communication is ended. Since she moved away, she may have seen no point in keeping in touch and dragging out feelings for someone she could no longer be with...especially since you make the situation sound only physical. The attachment sounds more hormones than heart.



I don't see from your post that anything went ';wrong';. She moved away...what did you expect? Long distance situations are impractical and rarely work. Sounds like YOU need to work through it and move on yourself.Girls: where did it go wrong?
if your breaking up with her to have her cry and never get over you then that's wrong. and she probably didnt get over it right away, but it doesnt take a year. and she probably hid it all. she moved to texas i would have ended it to!
Maybe you're just not as great as you think you are, and not as hard to get over.
Well u broke her heart. U cant expect her to be on ur d*** forever. U gotta understand,(especially if she was cute) then she has all kinds of dudes head over hills for her. And its plenty of dudes that mite look even sexier than you(to her) and they most likely want her back! its just to show that a chick will not keep on worrying about a dude.. if hes gone hes gone! Plus u made her cry! i would hvae left you too
I think that she just moved on after the break up and not wanting to see you or the things she did not to keep in touch with you is because she wanted to move on because she realized that you wanted to move on breaking up with her. That's it I guess. Sorry if my point is not really ';understable';, if that word ever exists ! I don't think she got over you she is trying to.
Distance is an issue to some individuals,they like having a cuddle and a kiss every now and then,so when that aint available the love goes too.The distance has helped her get over you so fast.
A year later isn't quick, in fact there would be a problem if a year after you broke up with her she was still holding a torch for you. She moved on with her life like a well adjusted person should. I suggest you do the same and if you're wishing you had her back then you shouldn't have broken up with her in the first place. learn from it and make sure you don't make the same mistake with the next chick you fall for
I think @ the time you all were together, you had a lot of chemistry. Whether it was just sexual chemistry or not, is a whole different forum. If all you guys had was sexual chemistry, it was bound to fail, but this may not be the case. I'm sure you still hold a place in her heart as she does yours, but living in different places, especially if it's quite far, makes it extremely difficult to maintain an honest relationship, especially a sexual one. She is not ';twisted,'; I think she has just decided to drop the ';dead weight'; because it would hold BOTH of you down %26amp; keep you BOTH from growing %26amp; maturing. Please understand that I do not mean ';Dead Weight'; in a derogatory way, so please do not take it as that. It probably hurts too much for her to talk to you or she has involved herself in many things %26amp; has just been busy. Just keep an open mind %26amp; don't shut her out or hate her. Everything happens for a reason. Although you may not know it now, you will in the future. If it is meant to be, it will be. However, you could be letting the ';Right One'; pass you by while you are spending your time waiting and/or wondering about the wrong one. Only time will tell. There are a lot of very good answers listed for this question. Read them all %26amp; take what you need from them to move on. Best Wishes!