Sunday, November 14, 2010

How do i get the guts to talk to girls?

how do i get the confidence to start a conversation with girlHow do i get the guts to talk to girls?
let your friend who lives inside your trousers do the talking for you.How do i get the guts to talk to girls?
You just do or you live the rest of your life with your tail between your legs.
Depends on what age you are and what your situation is with the girl and in school.
Weed+ Alcohol?
ask her what she thinks about global warming
Take a deep breath and go for it.

Life is short! Live it up!
Grow a pair.
approach them as if you would approach your friend. start off my being friendly and not a creep. (: , just be yourself .
dude, i have the same problem too, i still havent the gut to talk to my dream girl and its been 3 months. it sucks.
Just start doing it. The more practice you get the more comfortable you will be. It's hard at first, but eventually it will be easy. Prepare yourself because you may feel embarrassed at first. Once you realize that everyone has insecurities and is nervous about things, then you will accept your insecurities which in turn will allow you to feel more comfortable.
All it takes is practice. At first it seems scary, but you quickly get over that if you just force yourself to do it. Start flirting with girls where ever and whenever you can...at the grocery store, at work (be careful here), at the bar. Just start doing it and your confidence will build up even if you get shot down a few times (and you will get shot down). The more you ';throw'; it out there, the more flirty responses you will get.
get her when she is half busy doing something then she is more approachable. Ask her what shes doing and respond accordingly. don't be afraid, we like it when boys are shy as well. :) hope that kinda helps.
They sell liquid courage at every bar or liquor store.
What is the worst that can happen? Really? She says no and tells her friends about it. Hardly a disaster. What happens if you don't talk to her? You sit at home and feel pathetic. Not a disaster--until you make it such a habit that you have no life. Nothing ventured, nothing gained--just talk to her. It helps if you don't worry about the outcome--if you just try to have a pleasant conversation you'll come off as confident (and maybe fun, smart, or whatever else). If you are worried about making her like you, you'll be nervous--and the results may not make you look good to her.
Just be yourself, and even if your a bit nervous girls won't mind. Just don't be sleezy or use any cheesy lines! Try starting the conversation with something simple maybe notice what mobile phone they have ';that's a cool phone =]'; or maybe start with the weather or something. I can't really give examples, it deepends on the situation and where you are. Relate the conversation to the situation you are in and them go from there. it'll be easy when they start talking and asking you questions and things.Then you get on to better and more interesting subjects. Hope i helped at least a little! =]



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If the only reason you're talking to her is because she's a girl, maybe you shouldn't. You're not likely to take her seriously as a person, and that's a bad thing as far as relationships go.



If the only reason you're NOT talking to her is because she's a girl, then stop viewing her as one. People are people, and they aren't going to act completely irrational simply because you don't know The Secret To Women or some silly thing like that. Or, if they do, then you want to not be part of their lives, because that's not healthy and it makes for a crappy friendship.
Just remember what I told my son Lewis. If you don't ask you don't get, and also, these girlie's you want to ask, well they feel just as self conscious as you so just go ahead and talk to them, what have you got to loose.

And if you get a few knock backs it will help you to really perfect your social skills.

Whats the first thing you think when you see someone you would like to talk to.........no don't say anything like that. Go up to her and tell her she looks great.........

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