Sunday, November 14, 2010

How do i get the guts to talk to girls?

how do i get the confidence to start a conversation with girlHow do i get the guts to talk to girls?
Used to have the same problem (still do to a certain extent)



What you have my friend is called 'approach anxiety'



It's very hard to get rid of but here's a few tips:



1. Try being chatty with everyone (Not just girls, ANYONE new in general). Strike up conversations with people on the bus, at school, at bowling etc. Remember, START SMALL, so even if it is just means saying hi everyday to the icecream man guy or having a light conversation about sport with your neighbour, you will gradually find yourself becoming more confident when speaking to new people.



2. REALEASE EXPECTATION- Do not approach a girl you like thinking that the conversation you have with her is the be all and end all of your existence! be ready to crash and burn the first few times you strike up a conversation. In fact some girls find guys who are carefree and laidback like this, quite attractive...



3. Have an opener ahead of striking up a conversation. This is basically observing something that you and her might share in common or could feasibly chat about e.g. if you share the same classes your opener could be something like 'Man, I hate/love french class...' etc. Basically there will always be at least one tiny thing that you share in common which can be used to spark conversation.



Hope that helps!How do i get the guts to talk to girls?
have balls;just do it :)
you can start with social networking sites, like facebook, myspace, etc... and keep building up from there, passing by them in school and saying something, say hi and complement them on something they are wearing, and that they look good, something like that. people like complimants. and it can be a way to get a conversation going. and actually listen.! even if it is boring.! then you will start to create a relationship...
just ask a girl out its not that hard they will like it more if you ask them in person oh yeah if they say no its not the end of the world its just to bad they don't know what a nice person you are
drink a bunch, wild turkey works great for this. also, don't think of them as people, but as 'things' you can gain, like a car or something, basically if you throw enough money at em they're yours anyways...make sure you always keep that in mind because as you proceed on your journey through pimptitude there are gonna be girls who will lie to you and make you think that they care about you(also never forget, all girls are filthy, lying sluts), don't fall for this because then you're gonna get attached to some trick and she's gonna pull the rug out from under ya and **** you over for the laughs. With this being said girls will trick you and talk about it with there friends so the goal in life is talk to them like there nothing special and if the opportunity presents it self sleep with them and be out and remember DONT BE A FOOL WRAP YOUR TOOL cause you don't want babies and STDs NO FAT CHICK there only good for dome shots. Don't put girls on a pedestal. You have so much other **** going on in your life to not worry about getting girls. Girls aren't the goal, if you treat it that way, you'll never get a one. Above all be yourself!! Don't put on a front or be fake. You naturally exude confidence when you're doing things you want to do, when you're enjoying yourself. When you're doing that, you'll always be confident. Nothing projects confidence more than a guy who doesn't give a ****. also, beware the friend zone, don't EVER take a slut out for lunch, that's friend territory, and the friend zone completely defies the purpose of girls, because everyone know that god only put girls on this earth to be life support for a warm, wet hole. happy hunting friend!

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